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[QUOTE="tepni"]Ah man, don't you just hate it.. That word shouldn't even be used until they actually mean it. Which isn't 3 months in.Very true. We've liked each other for 8 months now, though.[QUOTE="holly85"]I agree with your "I love you - all access pass" complaint.AAllxxjjnn
Another complaint of mine.. we haven't even had sex, but at school, when people ask if he has done it with me, he just smiles and tells them to not talk about it and acts as if we have..
Also, his friends were teasing him and trying to get his phone, asking "do you have any pictures of her on there?" and he got all serious and took it away, as if he'd have naked pictures of me or something.. ugh so annoying. I wasn't here to witness this but my friend tell me of these occurances all the time. He also talks about details on how I kiss and stuff like that with this friend, which I find weird since she's one of my best friends..and he exaggerates on how far we've gone and whatnot. So now, if we ever do, I don't know if it's for bragging rights or not : (
If I were you, I'd break up with him. You want a guy thats truthful, not one that wants to lie about sex or anything.There you go again :lol: I learned my lesson last time.I dunno... I love my load, but it can get a little too big sometimes if you know what I mean... :?
Rikusaki
What on earth would you do if you lost your load?I dunno... I love my load, but it can get a little too big sometimes if you know what I mean... :?
Rikusaki
[QUOTE="tepni"]If I were you, I'd break up with him. You want a guy thats truthful, not one that wants to lie about sex or anything.Yeah..Another complaint of mine.. we haven't even had sex, but at school, when people ask if he has done it with me, he just smiles and tells them to not talk about it and acts as if we have..
Also, his friends were teasing him and trying to get his phone, asking "do you have any pictures of her on there?" and he got all serious and took it away, as if he'd have naked pictures of me or something.. ugh so annoying. I wasn't here to witness this but my friend tell me of these occurances all the time. He also talks about details on how I kiss and stuff like that with this friend, which I find weird since she's one of my best friends..and he exaggerates on how far we've gone and whatnot. So now, if we ever do, I don't know if it's for bragging rights or not : (
Morning_Revival
I haven't talked to him about it yet.
Yeah, don't think you got my point. Him saying I love you is not the big deal, but him saying I love you in order to get in my pants is..saying"I love you" is not even a big deal anymore you both just need to grow up I see people say like all the time like its nothing if you said I wanna make love to you or something then I understand
kemar7856
[QUOTE="Morning_Revival"][QUOTE="tepni"]
Another complaint of mine.. we haven't even had sex, but at school, when people ask if he has done it with me, he just smiles and tells them to not talk about it and acts as if we have..
Also, his friends were teasing him and trying to get his phone, asking "do you have any pictures of her on there?" and he got all serious and took it away, as if he'd have naked pictures of me or something.. ugh so annoying. I wasn't here to witness this but my friend tell me of these occurances all the time. He also talks about details on how I kiss and stuff like that with this friend, which I find weird since she's one of my best friends..and he exaggerates on how far we've gone and whatnot. So now, if we ever do, I don't know if it's for bragging rights or not : (
If I were you, I'd break up with him. You want a guy thats truthful, not one that wants to lie about sex or anything.Yeah..I haven't talked to him about it yet.
Ohhh. Well, in that case, tell him how it makes you feel, and then depending on his reaction and behavior afterwards, do w/e.I have a wife. When I have any complaints about her- I'll tell her. I accept AND expect the same from her where I'm concerned.
Part of a decent relationship is having enough courage to confront your mate when problems come, instead of being scared it will ruin the relationship to do so. Unresolved conflict is always amarriage assasinator, just like poor communication and dominant bullshyte.
She and I have only been together for 24 years while doing this. Perhaps we're wrong then?
BTW-last sentence was actually sarcasm, okay?
Yeah, don't think you got my point. Him saying I love you is not the big deal, but him saying I love you in order to get in my pants is.. o sorry I misread I guess all you could do in confront him[QUOTE="kemar7856"]
saying"I love you" is not even a big deal anymore you both just need to grow up I see people say like all the time like its nothing if you said I wanna make love to you or something then I understand
tepni
I've been figuring that out lately. I usually avoid confronting him about things. Definitely gotta change that.I have a wife. When I have any complaints about her- I'll tell her. I accept AND expect the same from her where I'm concerned.
Part of a decent relationship is having enough courage to confront your mate when problems come, instead of being scared it will ruin the relationship to do so. Unresolved conflict is always amarriage assasinator, just like poor communication and dominant bullshyte.
She and I have only been together for 24 years while doing this. Perhaps we're wrong then?
BTW-last sentence was actually sarcasm, okay?
matenmoe
This is where you can complain about something that's been bugging you lately about him/her. Hopefully if you have a problem with them you will eventually be able to confront them about it instead of leaving it sit here on GS, but for now, let all your anger out.
I hate how my boyfriend thinks saying "I love you" is an all access pass..if you know what I mean.
your turn.
tepni
Nice to see you again, I haven't seen you in a while. ;) But god damn I am sick of my girlfriend always trying to get me jealous. She is all up on guys on purpose just to get me angry, and it pisses me off. That's why I think I am just going to break up with her, I am sick of her nonsense. What kind of girl does that?!:cry:
[QUOTE="tepni"]
This is where you can complain about something that's been bugging you lately about him/her. Hopefully if you have a problem with them you will eventually be able to confront them about it instead of leaving it sit here on GS, but for now, let all your anger out.
I hate how my boyfriend thinks saying "I love you" is an all access pass..if you know what I mean.
your turn.
REA24409
Nice to see you again, I haven't seen you in a while. ;) But god damn I am sick of my girlfriend always trying to get me jealous. She is all up on guys on purpose just to get me angry, and it pisses me off. That's why I think I am just going to break up with her, I am sick of her nonsense. What kind of girl does that?!:cry:
Hey I remember you! Nice to see you again too, Obama. Haha.And yeah that does sound awfully annoying..
Most people would end the relationship right there because one of the partners likes to have sex more than the other.[QUOTE="newb16"][QUOTE="thriteenthmonke"] I'm sorry man, that sounds terrible.Mikey132
My girlfriend wants sex more than I do too.
OMG do we all have the same GF? because mine is like that as well. I can usually keep up but sometimes I don't want to.
Nothing.HybridPhoenix
No relationship is perfect.tepni
[QUOTE="tepni"]No relationship is perfect.foxhound_fox
Because saying there isn't anything to complain about insinuates that everything is fine, when in reality there is always something to complain about in a relationship.
Because saying there isn't anything to complain about insinuates that everything is fine, when in reality there is always something to complain about in a relationship.XturnalS
[QUOTE="XturnalS"]Because saying there isn't anything to complain about insinuates that everything is fine, when in reality there is always something to complain about in a relationship.foxhound_fox
Thats the ebb and flow of relationships, there is always something wrong its just sometimes they are big and sometimes not so big and every person as faults, if you love them you accept them with their faults, but those faults always creep up to annoy the **** out of you thus leaving you with something to complain about.
:D
Hope that clears up my line of thinking.
[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"]
[QUOTE="XturnalS"]Because saying there isn't anything to complain about insinuates that everything is fine, when in reality there is always something to complain about in a relationship.XturnalS
Thats the ebb and flow of relationships, there is always something wrong its just sometimes they are big and sometimes not so big and every person as faults, if you love them you accept them with their faults, but those faults always creep up to annoy the **** out of you thus leaving you with something to complain about.
:D
Hope that clears up my line of thinking.
Exactly! Btw I like your avatar
My girlfriend likes to cuddle when she sleeps, yet occasionally manages to dig her knees into my ribs.
I've got no complaints. Just like any couple, our relationship has it's ups and downs, but overall everything's going smoothly. We both know no one is perfect...
I've been figuring that out lately. I usually avoid confronting him about things. Definitely gotta change that. Way to go- if he can't stand a little heat, then kick him outta your kitchen. Is this the way you really want your future together to continue?[QUOTE="matenmoe"]
I have a wife. When I have any complaints about her- I'll tell her. I accept AND expect the same from her where I'm concerned.
Part of a decent relationship is having enough courage to confront your mate when problems come, instead of being scared it will ruin the relationship to do so. Unresolved conflict is always amarriage assasinator, just like poor communication and dominant bullshyte.
She and I have only been together for 24 years while doing this. Perhaps we're wrong then?
BTW-last sentence was actually sarcasm, okay?
tepni
If she would stop not existing we would have a better relationship and our sex life would get waaaaaaay better.
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