Wow this made my day. I don't even see how this applies to gays but whatever

yea this looks like a flop of a movie

here is my desktop

Wow so I have come to my conclusion thanks to everyone here

I will cut off communication unless she communicates with me. I will tell her I read the book but in actuality just look up a summary. Focus more on other girls and act like I never talked to this girl unless she talks to me

I was dumb for confessing my feelings. In all honesty when I did it, I was influenced by some alcohol but regardless it was a stupid thing to do. I guess I tried to rely too much on honesty but I guess some things are just meant to be kept secret. Maybe I did screw it up or maybe I just took the pity friendship she was giving me and thought of it as something that it wasn't. Rejection hurts but if you never try, you will never succeed. I just learned to change my ways of trying.

Regardless I will do what I have said and see how that works out. Thanks a lot my fellow gsers.

I'm gonna beat you krunk. I joined 4 days before you did. Haha

That's funny that she gave you the book "The Secret" after you told her she was out of your league. That whole thing is about the power of positive thinking and the law of attraction and how by thinking positive you can basically get whatever you want... kind of ironic given your situation. You gotta stop giving her all the attention tho, if she is that hot then she probably gets it all the time. Girls like that know they will get hit on by other guys so they won't worry if they don't give you a chance. Next time she wants to hang out, tell her you are busy. Do that a couple of times and if she keeps trying to hang out with you then you know you've got a shot, make a move, and if it doesn't work move on.

ryangb

you think she wants me to read it on purpose?

you guys give pretty solid advice. I don't think it's because I wasn't confident enough that she rejected me because I feel that she had rejected me far before that but it's going to be hard to not communicate with her first simply for the sole reason that she made a point that I could call her whenever I wanted and it wouldn't be a problem. Besides she has made the first move on talking to me the last two times we talked but I'll follow the advice anyways because I feel like I'm depending on her a little too much

She never said she liked you in that way though. I remember that from the other post as well.

Sounds to me like she just wants to be your friend but you're pushing it.

Sigh_han

so what do I do?

Wow you first sentence is very misleading! Although I don't think you are getting "played" exactly, is she the only one gaining from this relationship you have?

If yes - you are getting played

If no - you aren't.

Espada12

It's nice to talk to her but she is being misleading and I am not gaining what I want from the relationship. idk about her though