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[QUOTE="Bourbons3"] That message has sure been effective in preventing suicide in the past :roll: The project contributes to people growing up more confident. It tells them that there is hope, there are plenty of gay people who have great lives, and that being gay is perfectly normal - no matter what people around you tell you. In a lot of cases, these YouTube videos are some of the very few sources of positive messages gay kids will encounter.Omni-Slash
If that message was so helpful these problems wouldn't persist...cause god knows it's on every TV channel and everywhere you look... words from people who don't know you may help a few....but fall upon deaf ears for the majority...the effort would probably be better served helping parents with children whom are gay learn how to discuss things openly and freely so there may be some meaningful positive reinforcement.....

TV in the US, at least, can be a lot better for this sort of thing. And even if it were better, its impact is limited by a whole host of discriminatory laws and bigoted politicians and public officials. Kurt on Glee and Will & Grace is only going to have so much impact. Videos by regular people describing how being gay is not an obstacle to a successful life has a a bigger effect.
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[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"][QUOTE="mexicangordo"]That's a very stupid assumption. Every ones ignorant and naive in highschool, the era of peoples lives where suicide rockets up. Even more so for gay individuals. Whats wrong with moral support? Thats all this is, helping those who need it at that time of their lives in order to spread optimism and hope among the thousands of others in similar positions. Things do get better, people get smarter and you realize that there are plenty of things to live for. I don't like the over sentimental effect the video brought, but I absolutely love the message.

after reading this I think everyone is Niave period.....asshats don't dissapear magically after highschool...and neither do those that have low self worth..(and that is what we are talking about)....a cute littel message may make them feel better for the short term..but the next time they face any adversity all thsoe feelings of self doub t will creep back in.....they always do.....this program is jsut another feel good program so people can say they did somethign or "make a difference"...in the end it solves nothing....asshats will be asshats...and unless children are raised to be self confident and are comfortable with themselves this crap will continue to happen....whether someone says...  or not......

That message has sure been effective in preventing suicide in the past :roll: The project contributes to people growing up more confident. It tells them that there is hope, there are plenty of gay people who have great lives, and that being gay is perfectly normal - no matter what people around you tell you. In a lot of cases, these YouTube videos are some of the very few sources of positive messages gay kids will encounter.
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I think it's a great project. I can't imagine how many young gay kids this will help, and how many it would have helped had it been done 10, 20, or 30 years ago. Even as someone who never reached depression, the sheer lack of gay friends or role models in my early life was horrible. Having this 5 years ago would have made me feel a lot better. This is about trying to prevent suicide. Whether some of you understand it or not, plenty of young people commit suicide because of the treatment they get over being gay Not everyone can "tough it out" and pull themselves up by their bootstraps. A lot of gay kids need the reassurance that they are normal, that they are just as capable of having good lives as their straight peers. Because when you grow up as the only gay kid in your school, and people taunt and abuse you, you start to believe the opposite. It's not saying that all the problems disappear after high school - that's definitely not the case in the US, which is plenty bigoted outside of high school. But once you leave high school, you're not trapped anymore. People do mature. It will be easier for gay people to meet other gay people once they escape the horrible high school atmosphere.
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If it involved marrying Prince Harry, I'd be tempted.
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It's only happened once, actually. But that worked out ok, because he's now my boyfriend. :P
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It is courtesy to thank them for providing you with their service, and it is courtesy for them to thank you for shopping at their business.harashawn
This.
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Save the guy. ;)
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http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20110415/ap_on_re_eu/eu_britain_kiss_controversy

Opinions? Thoughts?

I consider myself a pretty tolerable man, but I can't ignore the fact that private establishments have the right to refuse service for any reason they deem worthy.

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Actually, they don't. They're in violation of the Equality Act 2010 if they threw them out simply because they were both men, rather than a man and a woman.
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Only 10 years?
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Not surprising at all. This is why "ballot measures" on civil rights - including marriage rights - are just wrong.