[QUOTE="yentlequible"]
I am pretty nervous here. My previous thread a couple days ago talked about asking out with a message. I suggested that we go see a movie but never mentioned anything about a date. I think she misinterpreted and thought it was a real date anyway :P. But it worked out great and we had fun. Now for this official date I am going to call instead of look like a loser asking through messages. Which brings me to my question: What is a good way to ask while clarifying that it is a real date? I was thinking of something really simple like "What are you doing this weekend?" "Would you be interested in a date on friday night?". Its pretty generic, I know, but is there a better way while still making sure that she knows its a real date?
MrGeezer
No need for that. Just ask her if she wants to do something that's more like an actual date. Like, ask her if she wants to go out for dinner at a nice restaurant or something. That actually says "date", because the situation lends itself to that. That's obviously a date, because you only mentioned the nice restaurant because you want to impress her, and you're only taking her out to dinner because you want to get to talk to her and get to know her better. That's a date.
But small steps. Last time you asked her out to see a movie, via text message. This time, personally ask her if she wants to have dinner with you, and then briefly suggest "and then maybe we can see another movie afterwards".
You know, small steps. You go from a movie (which is not a real date) to dinner and a movie (which is a real date).
Listen to MrGeezer :P
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