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#1 Dabighit89
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[QUOTE="Dabighit89"][QUOTE="EboyLOL"][QUOTE="BuryMe"][QUOTE="KingPeru"]i disagree. hasnt anybody thought of the damage that can be done to the child? when he grows up hes gonna learn that he either has 2 dads or 2 moms. at school they r gonna make fun of him all da way to high school. all his life he has to go through that, its just not normal. imagine if u had gay parents, how would u feel?EboyLOL
there's no evidence that gay parents can't raise kids

No, but that doesn't stop people from trying to say that :lol:

:lol: nice one!..you're right they can raise kids, anyone can. Except the kid would be emotionally affected greatly.

A kid can also be emotionally affected by staying in an orphanage for the majority of their life without any parents.

Ok..you're absolutely right, though i don't know what you are arguing about.  That can also affect a child as well as one brought up by a gay couple.....
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Not saying gay couple adopting is wrong, but it makes me mad that people think that a child wouldn't be affected differently if raised by a gay couple compared to a straight one.
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[QUOTE="EboyLOL"][QUOTE="BuryMe"][QUOTE="KingPeru"]i disagree. hasnt anybody thought of the damage that can be done to the child? when he grows up hes gonna learn that he either has 2 dads or 2 moms. at school they r gonna make fun of him all da way to high school. all his life he has to go through that, its just not normal. imagine if u had gay parents, how would u feel?Dabighit89
there's no evidence that gay parents can't raise kids

No, but that doesn't stop people from trying to say that :lol:

:lol: nice one!..you're right they can raise kids, anyone can. Except the kid would be emotionally affected greatly.

I take that back...im not against this, and the child wouldn't be GREATLY affected...but it will affect the child in some way or form.
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[QUOTE="BuryMe"][QUOTE="KingPeru"]i disagree. hasnt anybody thought of the damage that can be done to the child? when he grows up hes gonna learn that he either has 2 dads or 2 moms. at school they r gonna make fun of him all da way to high school. all his life he has to go through that, its just not normal. imagine if u had gay parents, how would u feel?EboyLOL
there's no evidence that gay parents can't raise kids

No, but that doesn't stop people from trying to say that :lol:

:lol: nice one!..you're right they can raise kids, anyone can. Except the kid would be emotionally affected greatly.
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[QUOTE="Dabighit89"][QUOTE="ithilgore2006"][QUOTE="Dabighit89"][QUOTE="ithilgore2006"][QUOTE="daniel52587"][QUOTE="Bourbons3"]You make them sound like a seperate species. Having gay parents does not affect whether the child will be gay or not. It might affect what they think about gay people, but it wont make them gay The sooner you realise that the better.MattUD1
They arent a seperate species, nor do I have anything against gay people. I just dont think they should be able to raise children. That is all. It isnt natural.

[QUOTE="ithilgore2006"][QUOTE="Jhonie_Fklits25"]Disagree big time. I honestly would hate to be raised in a gay inviroment. Honestly people, would you want that to happen?Dabighit89
This thread is not about you or people of your age, it's about adoption by a homosexual couple. Usually that's very young children, and luckily they won't have already gotten prejuduce against homosexuals at that age, and so they can grow up feeling as "normal" as everyone else, because they will feel that it's normal. That's all that matters, really.

ahhh see, but they wont feel it's normal because the majority of couples in the population are straight. The child will soon realize and see other straight couples and question his/her parents.

No, they will see as it as normal, or they won't care, they will not have any problem with homosexuals, having been raised by them, and thus will not find anything "wrong" with it or feel negative about it.

hah that is a very poor judgement. Lets say aliens abduct the earth..do we see that as normal?no..we are used to the world we live in. Lets say a child grows up with a gay couple and sees changes in society where many couples are straight and different-sex. There's no way the child would see this as nothing and "normal"

Do you know anything about this subject, or are you just guessing? Did you know that studies done by American researchers show that children raised by a homosexual couple have the same chance of being healthy mentally and physically as one who is raised by a heterosexual couple. And whether it's "normal" or not, the child will not care, he/she will be tolerant, as he/she has seen it's pretty much the same as being raised by a straight couple. They won't percieve it as "not normal", as they are used to and are comfortable with it, society might cruelly calim it not normal, but the child will not.

Exactly, society will bash this child and don't tell me that this wouldn't affect the child. And don't tell me when im guessing when you merely state your opinion as well, its rude. I am on neither side, and i do support gay marriages, but homosexual couple adopting is different becuase the couple is bringing another person into their lives. Yes sure, without society the child WOULD feel this is normal, but of course society ruins everything which in turn would make the child view his parents relationship as not normal.

Well it doesn't exactly help when you have people saying gay like they say "the" or the constant bashing of homosexual couples in America.

Exactly, society is the blame
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[QUOTE="daniel52587"]This child will go to his/her friends house and see that there parents are not the same sex. That child will realize that it is in fact not normal. Skylock00
So? There's lots of things that could make a child not feel like his parents are 'normal,' outside of them being homosexual, so I really don't get where you're going with this line of argument, because I don't see any real points being proven.

Well, since a huge majority of couples is straight, it would be viewed as normal, though i disagree as well.  It should be clear that a gay relationship would affect the child in some form of way, most of the time due to society itself.
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[QUOTE="Dabighit89"][QUOTE="ithilgore2006"][QUOTE="daniel52587"][QUOTE="Bourbons3"]You make them sound like a seperate species. Having gay parents does not affect whether the child will be gay or not. It might affect what they think about gay people, but it wont make them gay The sooner you realise that the better.ithilgore2006
They arent a seperate species, nor do I have anything against gay people. I just dont think they should be able to raise children. That is all. It isnt natural.

[QUOTE="ithilgore2006"][QUOTE="Jhonie_Fklits25"]Disagree big time. I honestly would hate to be raised in a gay inviroment. Honestly people, would you want that to happen?Dabighit89
This thread is not about you or people of your age, it's about adoption by a homosexual couple. Usually that's very young children, and luckily they won't have already gotten prejuduce against homosexuals at that age, and so they can grow up feeling as "normal" as everyone else, because they will feel that it's normal. That's all that matters, really.

ahhh see, but they wont feel it's normal because the majority of couples in the population are straight. The child will soon realize and see other straight couples and question his/her parents.

No, they will see as it as normal, or they won't care, they will not have any problem with homosexuals, having been raised by them, and thus will not find anything "wrong" with it or feel negative about it.

hah that is a very poor judgement. Lets say aliens abduct the earth..do we see that as normal?no..we are used to the world we live in. Lets say a child grows up with a gay couple and sees changes in society where many couples are straight and different-sex. There's no way the child would see this as nothing and "normal"

Do you know anything about this subject, or are you just guessing? Did you know that studies done by American researchers show that children raised by a homosexual couple have the same chance of being healthy mentally and physically as one who is raised by a heterosexual couple. And whether it's "normal" or not, the child will not care, he/she will be tolerant, as he/she has seen it's pretty much the same as being raised by a straight couple. They won't percieve it as "not normal", as they are used to and are comfortable with it, society might cruelly calim it not normal, but the child will not.

Exactly, society will bash this child and don't tell me that this wouldn't affect the child.  And don't tell me when im guessing when you merely state your opinion as well, its rude.  I am on neither side, and i do support gay marriages, but homosexual couple adopting is different becuase the couple is bringing another person into their lives.  Yes sure, without society the child WOULD feel this is normal, but of course society ruins everything which in turn would make the child view his parents relationship as not normal. 
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[QUOTE="daniel52587"][QUOTE="Bourbons3"]You make them sound like a seperate species. Having gay parents does not affect whether the child will be gay or not. It might affect what they think about gay people, but it wont make them gay The sooner you realise that the better.ithilgore2006
They arent a seperate species, nor do I have anything against gay people. I just dont think they should be able to raise children. That is all. It isnt natural.

[QUOTE="ithilgore2006"][QUOTE="Jhonie_Fklits25"]Disagree big time. I honestly would hate to be raised in a gay inviroment. Honestly people, would you want that to happen?Dabighit89
This thread is not about you or people of your age, it's about adoption by a homosexual couple. Usually that's very young children, and luckily they won't have already gotten prejuduce against homosexuals at that age, and so they can grow up feeling as "normal" as everyone else, because they will feel that it's normal. That's all that matters, really.

ahhh see, but they wont feel it's normal because the majority of couples in the population are straight. The child will soon realize and see other straight couples and question his/her parents.

No, they will see as it as normal, or they won't care, they will not have any problem with homosexuals, having been raised by them, and thus will not find anything "wrong" with it or feel negative about it.

hah that is a very poor judgement.  Lets say aliens abduct the earth..do we see that as normal?no..we are used to the world we live in. Lets say a child grows up with a gay couple and sees changes in society where many couples are straight and different-sex. There's no way the child would see this as nothing and "normal"
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#9 Dabighit89
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[QUOTE="limpbizkit818"] First you say: "Same sex marriage is not wrong at all, and noone else should think otherwise." Then you say: "Many people are blind in these forums such as these "fanboys" and dont value others' opinions and think that their judgment is always right." Whats up with that?quiglythegreat
I just think people should be respected. Think that. I'm an awful hypocrite. Anyway, it's not that one thing's right, it's just not really fair to call differing opinions wrong.

Exactly...I didn't say that differing opinions are wrong.  I stated that people ARE against others' opinions and that people only value their own opinions and think they are right.
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Same sex marriage is not wrong at all, and noone else should think otherwise. Homosexual couples don't affect your lives, and people should just let them make their own decisions. I.E. Broad example, but lets say most people in the world has a Nintendo Wii, they shouldn't be able to tell other people what system to buy and should instead ignore them let others make their own decisions. Many people are blind in these forums such as these "fanboys" and dont value others' opinions and think that their judgment is always right. Back to the point, same sex marriage isn't wrong becuase the couple isn't affecting anyone else, and if other people are grossed about it then focus on your own lives and don't interfere with others.
Heterosexual couple adopting is different though becuase the couple is affecting another person's life. This can have a big impact on the child, and though it isn't wrong, supporting this can go either way.

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First you say: "Same sex marriage is not wrong at all, and noone else should think otherwise." Then you say: "Many people are blind in these forums such as these "fanboys" and dont value others' opinions and think that their judgment is always right." Whats up with that?

maybe I'm a fanboy as well:P. Yea i seemed to make a mistake on my first sentence sorry.  But that just proves that many people are ignorant and think their opinions only matter.