[QUOTE="ExiledHero"]When in love with someone you shouldn't be having thoughts or any sort of physical intimacy with someone else. Love is a strong bond with someone that shows devotion and care. To even consider cheating on your love shows that you aren't satisfied with who you're worth and yearning more. Or lacking something in the current relationship you're having. When you're in love, you'd rather not spend time with anyone else but that person. A true test is think of something you always wanted to have, and would you rather have that or just spend a night watching some lame movie and eating pizza with the one you love? The latter should be the choice.
This is all my opinon of course.
xaos
Wow, that doesn't match my experience of love at all. My partner and I have lived together for 4 years (as of last Sat; happy anniversary and junk) and I am completely devoted to him and hope to spend the rest of my life with him. However, if we were together 24/7, we'd drive each other nuts. What you describe sounds to me more like infatuation, or the early super-romance stage of a relationship. Just because we each have things that we like to do separately doesn't mean we don't love each other, or value the time we spend together; however, being in a committed relationship does not mean we cease to be individuals and pop out of existence when the other leaves the room.What I was describing doesn't mean you have to completely destroy your individuality in order to experience love. I was just expressing my personal feelings with whom I've been devoted for 3 years now. We aren't constantly with each other, but any time we do spend with each other, we make it like it's our last. I believe you've gotten the wrong impression, but it may be because we've always been the romantic type towards each other. The main message I was trying to portray was that if you are thinking of cheating on with someone else, it could always mean you aren't happy about the situation your in with your relationship. There's been numerous times where I sacraficed time with my love to be with my friends, and he understands, but neither of us would think of cheating on someone anytime. Call us old school. Or maybe I just can't think of the words I'm trying to describe what I'm thinking of. I understand one line in my previous post may have gave you that impression, but it wasn't meant to be a slave towards each other. If anything, it's better to have to different ideas in a couple for more variety, then a couple that acts like one. Opposites tend to attract, but not too opposite.
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