My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 and a half months. We just recently started having sex and love each other. We spend pretty much every day for a 2-5 hours at least together.
A lingering problem in the relationship is these crazy mood swings she has. Everything will be fine, and all of a sudden she'll be mean, angry, snappy, insert any adjective here. Yes, I have dated other girls and know girls have these things, but she is not on her period, nor is it by any means normal in any way shape or form. Even she realizes she has something going against her.
For example. Last night we had sex then were just talking. She blows up the used condom like a balloon(it was weird and creepy i know) and it pops. She laughs and a moment later maybe she thinks i was mad or something I have no idea, but she shuts up and rolls over and won't talk to me. I ask what's wrong and she says she feels sick. Of course, this is not even 10 percent of what's wrong. She asks me twice to stop rubbing her stomach wth my thumb because it's "annoying her." She then takes my hand or arm off of her a few times, and puts the covers over her and when I try to talk she's very abrupt and out of nowhere she gets mad and attacks me with "you're getting mad. Why are you getting mad?" and just starts saying a bunch of stuff. I explain what I feel is going on and how I'm trying to be understanding of what's going on but she's just pushing me away. The next moment she's like "you're making me feel bad" rolls under the covers and 5 minutes later she's like "I'm always the problem." Then she wants to suck my dick because it'll "make me happy." I say "no" because she's not right in the head or something and anyways this is just one example of about 6-7 situations similar to this in the past 2 and half months.
Also she told me last night she feels like she's "not good enough for me" and is uncomfortable sometimes because I'm a stable guy in college and treat her right and she's crazy and wild. She says when she was with her ex-boyfriend who cheated on her by having sex with another girl while they were dating that she felt comfortable with him because she knew he was an @sshole.
I don't know what to do. That was a lot to read, and write, but I'm so confused. I'm 19 and in college. She's 17 and in high school. I don't feel I deserve the accusations and mood swings(obviously) for no reason and I really can't stand it for much longer despite my loving of her as a person. What should I do, and what could be wrong with her? I don't think she's bipolar or anything. And no, she's not pregnant. This has been going on a while.
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