I don't think i put the 4pin. Where's that at? What's it look like and where does it go?

Figured out why the Vga was so i put the 2nd 8 pin on the video card. And i switched around the Reset since it was upside down due to it having to be the opposite side of the Power and the power was working. The reason i figured this out was because on the manul there + and - Were opposite. Hope that made sense.

Okay so the computer finally turned on i heard the fans and saw the lights... There's a problem though. One it won't turn off unless i turn it off from the power supply. And im guessing the reset button doesn't work since nothing happened. Another problem was when i plugged in the moniter it said VGA No Signal! Here's a picture of how the front looked like. I put the reset, pwr and so forth in the right spot but idk if i but them the right way. And if so how do i know which of the three i need to switch around. How do i figure out whats not working?

And also im not sure if i looked wrong but although the CPU fan was plugged in right (im sure) im almost positive i didn't see it on.

Ok so i can't find out where to plug some things... One i have no idea where to plug the HD+, and the reset and led and all the other good stuff that came prebuilt into my CM690. The second thing is i can't find where to put the Case Fan's. Im guessing the power supply but im not sure. Here's a pic of the motherboard i have http://www.mysuperpc.com/gigabyte_ga_ep45_ud3p_motherboard.jpg . It's clearer then anything i'd be able to get with my cam so.. My case fans are 4 pins and each fan has 2. One that is 4 circles another that is 4 pins.

I don't have much to show... All i need to know is how can i find out where cables like HD LED and stuuff go.. >.< Cuz i can't find anything labeled on my motherboard. + i can't find where the Fan's plug in >.

Alright theres so many wires that aren't labeled either on the power supply or on the motherboard. ANd the manual doesn't say anything about them. Im panicking like hell.... Been at it for hours. I hope where i've put some of the stuff is right ...