It all started around February, My dad was having problems with a blockage in his intestinal tract, The doctor decided hey he must need laxatives, We'll they gave him some strong ones, A blockage of the intestines tends to make your stomach swell, So he gave my dad extra strong laxatives to alleviate this.
Around this time, My grandmother *my fathers mother* Died, So we had to go back, This entire time my dads stomach kept swelling, he would have bad back aches *all ways has had bad back aches cause he has very bad back* We we're there for a week or 2, there to bury my grand mother and dad just kept getting worst.
We came home and my mom forced dad to make an appointment with his doctor, Dr. Harris. My dad is a stubborn man, so he had to be forced, Well Harris couldn't figure out what was wrong, so he went back to his gastralmoligist, well the doctor couldn't figure out what was wrong, so they set him up for some x-rays, IT turned out he had cancer on his windpipe, which extended into his left lung, This cancer was creating what they call small cell cancer, that was traveling through the body, and infecting his intestines, they can fix lung cancer some times, but small cell cancer is incurable, this small cell was infecting his liver, which was causing what they called Weeping liver.
Weeping liver is when the liver leeks out the byproduct juices it is supposed to normally process into the body, this was why he was blocked, Because his intestines we're basically floating up and being compressed, He had gained near 100 lbs from this, So They did a procedure the name escapes me, where they take several vacuumed jars, they use a contraption to drill into your abdomen, thus creating a conduit for which to insert a line, into the liquid, then they stick this line into the jars and open them, the vacuum sucks out the fluid.
He had over 8 gallons of fluid drained from him that day, He since has had something like 2-3 drainings, The first agenda was to get him into a cancer program, Dr Harris handles all most all medical matters for the administration of Hamilton county, And because of this he had long ago, stopped handling the matters of his patients at the hospital, HE outsourced a man named Dr lee to handle his hospital business for his patients. We'll my dad was still employed by the government at this time, He was given a time set of some thing like 6 months to a year to live, well we have a lot of bills, Left over from matters in the past, and My dad wanted Dr lee and Harris to give a statement and proof that he would be dead in a year to his issuance company, so they could give a incremental prepayment, We'll Dr lee couldn't even do it right, Dr Harris contacted them right, But Dr Lee couldn't even do his job right, So they refused the payment.
We'll because of the cancer my dad had to retire from work *scum sucking government of the us* he worked basically as an accountant for the government, as a civilian at Fort Benjamin Harrison in Indiana, We'll in the time of getting sick, and having to retire he found out truly what kind of people he had worked for nearly 30 years with, Scum sucking Jerks that couldn't even Donate a few hours of leave, so my dad could stay on paid leave, so he could support his freaking family, Only about 5-6 people donated time, people that are truly friends, there are over 1000 people employed in the building he worked at, about 50 of those work in the same office as him, 6 PEOPLE DONATED he had helped so many there, knew so many, and this is what they did.
We'll In retiring he would have to sign up for social security disability, but all so he would have a pension, But some idiots in the government make it impossible for a government civilian worker to collect on social security disability and a pension at the same time, *scum sucking us government say a military, navy, army government worker can, but not a civilian* The social security money would actively be taken out of his pension, We'll we had to deal with that, In the mean time he had to take chemo therapy, which made him sicker then a dog. He couldn't eat cause every thing tasted bad, even pure filtered water tasted bad.
So we had to deal with this all, All of it, that was ok, WE had each other, We'll in the mean time, the government in there infinite wisdom still hadn't even calculated how much pension he should get, But in there own bungle they send us 1500 in social security and an interim payment for 2000, Well by this time they have told us that dads cancer is in remission, basically ending the weeping liver, but he still had micro cancer cells on his lungs, So radiation therapy would be used, On his chest and brain, The reason they had to do it on his brain is because chemo is a poison, it acts like a shield that concentrates on cancer cells, the rest of his body was safeguarded but his brain was not, the brain has a layer of blood that filters out all most all poisons, So only radiation therapy could be used.
So while paying for these medical bills, apartment bills credit card bills...ect basically living, he starts to take radiation therapy, We'll GUESS THE HELL WHAT, he has started to bloat again, So he goes in for tests *he's had so many blood transfusions because of the chemo killing his white blood cells, and he's had so many tests he’s sick of it* They say his cancer is back, small cell cancer has invaded him again, So they decide in there infinite wisdom *doctors sure are idiots* to give him even stronger chemo, But this chemo is not compatible with brain radiation therapy so they cant do that, They will continue the radiation on his lungs, but that is it.
We’ll The day after this we get a letter from the government, basically stating they made a mistake, And sent us 3500 dollars, THEY WANT US TO pay it back, Not only that, My dads insurance company which has been giving small interim payments, basically wants his doctors to contact him, to make sure he’s not faking sickness, because insurance companies are jerks, and humanity is a disease.
So basically My father is sick, He is going to die, But before he dies the government wants to Work him over, with bills that in the end are the fault of them, They sent us the money, and didn't catch it till 2 months afterwards, we have used that money to pay for medical bills *which is getting up in the range of 50,000 dollars now, they charge my dad 200 dollars to sit in a chair, JUST in the chair, when he takes the chemo, they actually charge him 200 dollars to sit in a chair* and to pay for this apartment, and credit cards, and to buy food, But no! The government wants that money back, IT doesn't matter that they we're the ones that made the mistake, WE have to pay it back, even though we have NO MONEY, and the scum sucking government of America will make sure we pay it back, they will cully any monetary assets my dad has, just to line there own pockets.
So that’s it, My dads life sucks, the chemo is doing nothing, radiation is a flawed science that not even the doctors understand, and the government is killing this family, I’m going to have to sell my video games, to help around here, cause my job doesn't pay the most, And dam it life sucks.
Why we are in an apartment.
Its a long story that starts with the fact that we had 2 acres of land in the country around Noblesville, We had a 1 story house, 3 bedroom.ect We'll back in like 1987 or around, are house was burnt, The structure and struts all survived, but we lost all most every thing, else, We we're able to salvage some things though, we'll the insurance company s'rewd us in many areas *my dads gun collection, a total of 10 guns of different types he had refurbished, but the insurance company refused to pay for them* but in all we did get enough money to help us rebuild.
We’ll the contractors cleaned things up, redid every thing, and it would seem every thing was fine for us, BUT WRONG, Contractors are stupid, they will cut ends any way possible, and report more money was needed so they can line there own pockets, Do you know what your supposed to do when you build a house, all most all houses have a crawl space or basement, When you have this, You build the house on a slight mound, so that water flows away, not this house, it was built into an indentation, Which caused the crawl space to flood often, We'll you haven't seen a house slowly get ate away by mold, but I have, and my whole family is allergic, we we're often sick because of the mold, dry wall gets ate away by mold, So in the process mom and dad collected evidence to sue the contractor to redo the job, *to give an example of how bad it was, if you’ve ever seen a walk in pantry before? We’ll its basically a cold dry place to store food, we'll are pantry was green, with all most an inch thick of mold every where, this is how bad it was*
We’ll in the process of suing them, my insane sister Sherah *she’s not insane, she’s just had many problems in her life, least of which being molested by 2 different people, an uncle, and a family friend whom she baby sited for often* decided to light the house on fire, We'll this didn't destroy things, but damn it sure did ruin the house. We'll she was arrested for arson, and spent 5-6 years in jail, we'll the insurance company didn't want to pay this time, *then again they hardly paid us the last time* They tried to accuse us of putting Sherah up to it, We'll in between the talking to the lawyer about suing the contractor *lol lawyers charge some thing around 500 dollars just to talk to them for an hour, hell they charge like 100 to write a letter* So we had to sue the insurance company to get are money, *we put suing the contractor on hold* We'll in all of this, worry about the house, suing them, WE missed a few too many mortgage payments, we never did get are money, and we lost are house and land.
That is why we are in this apartment have been living here for like 9 years now.
So in condensed form, life sucks, my dad is dieing, the government in screwing us, people suck, the American government sucks, and I’m getting so sick of it.
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