I agree with just going for the kiss but if OP is too shy to do this my wording is way better than asking her for it.

If you only do one thing OP under no circumstances tell her how you feel and ask her to reciprocate because this is awkward and puts her in a tough/weird situation. Like everyone said it sounds like this girl likes you so just keep it fun and not serious and you'll be fine.

So tomorrow I have my second date with a girl that I have been hanging out with for about 3 weeks now. I use the phrase "hanging out" because nothing has happened yet. I have a good feeling that she knows that I like her(because I've already asked her out twice) and I also have a good feeling that she likes me because she went(or will) go out with me twice. Her friends also dropped a million different hints on me that she likes me and while me and her were sitting next to each other her sister came up to her and grabbed her hand and put it on mine(which she didnt try to stop). My point is that I think im going to make a move on her tomorrow. We see each other all the time and I think things are going to start getting akward if nothing happens soon(and I really want to do this). After we are done bowling(thats our date) Im going to tell her how I feel about her and ask her if she feels the same way about me. If she does, Im going to ask her if I can kiss her and if she says yes then the rest is history. But I want everyones opinion on this because this is something that I really dont want to blow up in my face and I know that you are all beast players so if anyone has any suggestions that please let me know.

Thanks for reading my wall of text, ill send it back to china after this.

And im only 15 so im pretty inexperienced with this stuff.

weaselstomper50

Since you are 15 if this girl is into you it doesn't really matter what you say as long as it isn't crazy. You should stop worrying so much - if you do everything will be much easier. When you are bowling just initiate physical contact, playful stuff after she gets a strike/spare, etc. I wouldn't tell her "how you feel" and then ask her to reciprocate. This is awkward and puts some pressure on her and might make her uncomfortable. Same thing goes for asking if you can kiss her but this isn't nearly as bad. If you have to ask say something like "How would you feel if I kissed you right now?" If she says something positive at which point you go for it and are in. If she says she's not sure or something to this effect (this is likely) you say "Okay lets find out" and kiss her. Any other answer is extremely unlikely so I wouldn't worry too much about it. You are 15 and she sounds like she is into you so you're probably fine. Try not to stress out over little things keep the date fun and your success rate should be close to 100%. Good luck.

Well played OP.

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Women think about all of this? That's pretty crazy. It's either I like you or not, I don't really care for the circumstances. Then again I have a policy about going out with my friend's ex. Maybe she does as well D:

XilePrincess

It is patently obvious OP is in the friend zone. If he has any chance of getting out he needs to scale back their relationship and recreate himself. Hanging around and being the gay boyfriend isn't going to help OP he is just going to be miserable. The girl already knows OP likes her so the relationship will also have a weird dynamic if he is constantly hanging around her.

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You are misreading his original post. There is no ex involved in the situation. Neither of the two girls were ever his girlfriend - in both situations he was just a friend who wanted more and they didn't.

Espada12

Oh.. I assumed he was together with the other girl because she used him for a year or w/e time he said. How do you get used for all that time without being in a relationship is beyond me.

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[QUOTE="Espada12"]

Women think about all of this? That's pretty crazy. It's either I like you or not, I don't really care for the circumstances. Then again I have a policy about going out with my friend's ex. Maybe she does as well D:

Espada12

Well from his story, he said the girl + his ex were friends. Which is why I thought she may have had the same policy has I do. With she being the girl in question here.

[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]Here's what I get out of this, from a girl point of view. If I were her, and what she's saying is true, I'd be thinking "okay, I like this guy, he likes my friend. I like him and all, but he's upset over my lady friend. will he use me to get back to my lady friend? will I be his rebound? I can't let myself get hurt if all I'm going to be is a replacement." What I see happening is her testing to see if you only like her because of the circumstances and you don't reeeeeeally like her, you just like her because she's readily available. She wants to see that you'll wait around for her and prove you're sincere, and that you aren't just looking for a new relationship or something asap. I'm generally optimistic about your future with her, based on what you said.Espada12

Women think about all of this? That's pretty crazy. It's either I like you or not, I don't really care for the circumstances. Then again I have a policy about going out with my friend's ex. Maybe she does as well D:

EDIT: Just noticed XilePrincess is a girl. There are some exceptions but in general most women give guys horrible advice on how to get girls. This is why you see lame girls always complaining they want a nice guy but continue to date a-holes. The fact that XilePrincess thinks his future is optimistic shows that she either misread the post or isn't properly equipped to give viable advice on the situation.

[QUOTE="daqua_99"]Now what I'm asking is why do girls always have to try and let people who like them down slowly?tofu-lion91

Both this movie and the A-Team are going to be hilariously good entertainment. When I saw the trailer for The Expendables and Steve Austin was in it I started laughing my head off.

Pretty much anyone should get some riot punch and see this film.

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[QUOTE="solidfish30"]I know numerous three years olds who have been introduced to extremely grotesque films, they can't really comprehend what is going on, you'll be fine.solidfish30

I just don't see the benefit.