When I was 8 years old, my step mom was pregnant with the oldest of my siblings. They asked me if I thought it would be a boy or a girl. I said, “girl”, because I wanted it to be a girl. He turned out to be a boy. Soon after he was born, my father stopped using his visitation rights, and thus faded out of my life. For 18 years, Robert was the sibling that I knew existed. Back then I really wanted a sister. I don’t know why, but I did. I think maybe I knew she might need me more. I’m not sure. I reached a point in my adult life, where I was curious as to how Robert was, and if was alone. I figured that he couldn’t be the only one. So I went through our files, and with the help of the Internet, I reached my cousin in March 2000. It was a thrilling and emotional event. And it got even better. I had a sister. And had a second brother. Robert and I never really clicked. Patrick is wonderful, and I love him dearly. But the greatest surprise and gift of all, is how close I’ve become with Jeanette. She’s the youngest. She is the baby of the family. With the number of years apart, and with the geographical distance between us, we overcame the odds. We are brother and sister. Even better, she is my friend. For a person who grew up as an only child, I never dreamed I would have this. I always tell her she is my favorite sister. Ok, she is my only sister, but my favorite all the same. She uses this to her advantage as well. When we’re playing around and teasing each other, she’ll play the “but I’m your favorite sister” card. And now she is grown, and she is sacrificing herself and her time, and serving our Country. This blog is dedicated to my great, wonderful sister. I am so grateful, everyday, that we found each other. Merry Christmas, Jeanette. Stay safe, and come home safely.
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