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I'm 35 and I'd say I feel about 30. Old enough for people to expect you to be responsible but not so old that you can't have fun. When it comes to women however I definitely feel like I'm 14, mainly because I'm still a virgin. At 35 I guess people expect you to be pretty experienced but I still feel like an awkward teenage boy around women. So there's that.
You should not, even if its a bit awkward at first.
Awkward is an understatement. At 35 admitting to being a virgin is outright intimidating...
She's gonna know when you pop in 30 seconds
Well by then I'll no longer be a virgin.
@Jacanuk: I think most women would be pretty turned off to know a guy had paid for sex, especially to lose his virginity.
I'm curious, though. What do you mean by "sex was taboo" in the context of your religious family?
As in it was never to be spoken of and doing it would lead to shame and eternal damnation. I wish I was being sarcastic but unfortunately I'm not.
Just to clarify I've never kissed a girl much less had sex with one. I was actually thinking of revealing it at the second or third date, usually when a kiss is expected. Is that too soon?
I don't think it is up to us to tell you when the right moment is; depending on when you decide to tell her it might be too soon (and I'm sure it's obvious when it would be too late) but I wouldn't recommend you to tell her just because you think that it's about time you guys have sex. I wouldn't sleep with anyone on my third date so if all of a sudden during the second or third date a girl told me she was a virgin I would probably think "Ok, and why is that relevant all of a sudden in the middle of dinner?"
After how many dates do you usually have sex?
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