Am I the only only one getting the feeling that you don't even know her IRL? Strange how you consider an online friend a "best friend" (if that is the case). Best end result in my opinion - Go outside. Get some fresh air. Go find a real girl. [or one in which you converse face-to-face and not on a gaming console]RedDraco66

No, we know each other in real life. We used to hang out all the time.

maybe another thread is needed here...

Viper-Inc

Now, let's get ahead of ourselves. All in good time, all in good time.

[QUOTE="nimatoad2000"]can you give us a TLDR version?Dragon23

Tabby and I met online, there was a third party. The third party was a f**king d****e bag, he f**ked things up between us. Then a dragon came and ate the the d****e bag, and so tabby and I became friends again.

p.s.

The dragon part is not true.

This is a continuation of the following:

About a month ago my best friend and I got into a bit of a fight (not a fist fight, but rather an argument). We kind of said some things we didn't mean and went our separate ways.

|I apologized after the incident (not immediately after, but I think I waited like a day or two, because she was still very upset), for I realized how much I screwed up almost immediately after the argument, but she said she hated me.

She then removed me as a friend on Facebook, wouldn't return my phone calls, removed me as a friend on Xbox Live, removed me as a friend on MySpace, blocked me on Facebook, and got two of our mutual friends to think less of me (which is understandable, since they were there and I was totally out of line).

I finally messaged her saying "hello" and she then sent me a party chat invite on Xbox Live. I joined, but there was this one kid there (this kid kept messaging me yesterday saying "hello" like 800 times, I didn't reply and blocked him). He was like "why didn't you accept my friend request, I only want to be your friend" and kept saying that in the party chat (it was just me, him, and the girl I was referring to in my other thread). I don't know who he is.

I then muted him and tried to talk to her, but she didn't reply, I then left to avoid that one weird stalker kid who has been pestering me. Did I screw up, or was it not my fault? I take it the stalker kid might be a online friend of her's, but then again, he could have followed me into the party, I'm not sure which).

[QUOTE="dashes_"] but maybe TC didn't mean to call gays non-humans, or however else people are interpreting it. we all make mistakes.binpink

This could be a possibility, sure. Perhaps a slip of the tongue in the heat of the moment. But TC didn't once say he doesn't feel that way, nor did he apologize, which is something people often do after making a mistake.

It was mainly out of the heat of the moment, not actually my beliefs.

There's this girl at my school that I've known for nearly 10 years, and that I've been close friends with for a very long time. Though we're friends, I've sometimes found it rather hard to talk to or get close to her since she's practically in the popular crowd. If I didn't know her at all, I would say that she's totally out of my league. That may somewhat be the case now but the fact that she and I are friends may be an asset for me, or so I'd like to think.

I'd just like to know, what advice do you guys have for me? What should I do, and what shouldn't I? Since she and I are already friends, I don't have to worry about the basic step (approaching her and talking to her for the first time, getting to know her). I just want to know what to do and what not to since, unlike my other friends who are girls, I actually like her.

Would it be weird for me to wait for her at the end of class so I could walk with her, or would that be weird and cause her to get suspicious? This shouldn't be hard for me, since she is usually one of the last ones to leave the classroom. But I need advice, I really want to know what to do since I really have no experience with this stuff. I've never had a girlfriend or a date or anything like that, which may explain why I'm asking all of you for advice. I don't really know what to do to make things move forward at this point, so I would really appreciate some help.

Tigerman950

When the two of you are alone (not around friends or other people), explain your feelings to her. If she doesn't feel the same way about you, drop the matter, don't pursue her if she says no (I made that mistake once, it ended badly).

She might have Had problems with you calling her Uncle a "Thing". If she was really your friend she would respect your position on the subject.

I'd send her an Invite to a game or something, gaming together always helps ( Make Sure it's not a Competitive game though, Lol. :P ).

Snipes_2

Hate to make a joke during serious times, but could you imagine? It's like we are playing Halo 3 and I kill her and say through the microphone "Oh, what now **** You want some more?" and just brag after every kill. lol, that certainly wouldn't help the situation.

[QUOTE="POPEYE1716"]

umm wow gays are things:| Did not know that, I thought they were people just like you and I.

dunl12496

They're people just messed up people.

Quote of the day? ... perhaps ... perhaps...

About a month ago my best friend and I got into a bit of a fight (not a fist fight, but rather an argument). We kind of said some things we didn't mean and went our separate ways.

|I apologized after the incident (not immediately after, but I think I waited like a day or two, because she was still very upset), for I realized how much I screwed up almost immediately after the argument, but she said she hated me.

She then removed me as a friend on Facebook, wouldn't return my phone calls, removed me as a friend on Xbox Live, removed me as a friend on MySpace, blocked me on Facebook, and got two of our mutual friends to think less of me (which is understandable, since they were there and I was totally out of line).

Just today, a month (give or take a few days) later, she just sent me a friend request on Xbox Live. I just received (and accepted) the friend request about 15 minutes ago, in the middle of playing Resident Evil 5. I don't think she added any text or voice with the request, if so, i didn't see it, because I forgot that you could add those with friend requests (and because my partner needed my help in Resident Evil 5, since we were [spoiler] fighting against Wesker and Jill together [/spoiler] ).

She has yet to send me a message (assuming she didn't in the friend request), nor have I contact her. We were arguing over whether or not gay marriage should be legal, she said it should (she has a gay uncle or something, but I didn't know her uncle was gay at the time), and I said it shouldn't be legal. I never really met a gay person (other than that one kid in 2nd hour, but I never talked to him before, primarily because he scares me, because he is gay and he acts [and talks] all gay).

She said I was too closed minded, I even went so far as to saying that gays aren't people, they are things, but then she told me about her uncle, and that's when things got really bad. I was like "fine, I'll be the mature one" and left. That was the end (apart from my apology later on). So, do you think this is a good sign or not (she could have just added me to harass me or something)?