Girls do this all the time. They talk to you, get close to you, flirt with you, get touchy with you, "Im going to my boyfriends family's house for dinner, his family loves me"......................W WTF ?!?1?!?!? Since when did you have a boyfriend? You never mentioned it, your facebook doesnt say you are in a relationship, there are no pictures of you and a guy on Facebook either. "I love him, we've been together for 2 years now."
Then they turn around and start calling you buddy and big brother, those are titles to keep you around. (Cuz in some cases they do like you, they just prefer their boyfriend better)
Why do they do this?
One theory (out of the hundreds that also could explain this) is that at one point they werent all that into their boyfriends or they were in a stale period in the relationship, so they go and start talking to other guys for attention. They werent planning on breaking up with their boyfriend, but in case they do, she was looking for a possible back up. Then things got fine with her boyfriend and then started to friendzone you. They also try to see if they can pull another man. We guys do this, we already have a girl, he dont plan on breaking up with our girl, but when we meet a fine chick we try to see if we can get at that girl (and how far we can get).
We do it to keep that girl in the bench, so that when we are single or just need some one to ****, we can call that girl up since we had been close before. Girls do the same thing. Except for girls is a self esteem thing and an attention thing, for us is just a fucking thing.
god damn that just described what happened to me last time xD
this theory make so much sense :s
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