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#1 martin101n
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[QUOTE="martin101n"]well so far I concluded that, friendzone is impossible to destroy, there are few occasions that people managed to get out, but nobody ever has moved further then sexual interactions. I aslo think I didnt make my point clear, I don't just want to have sex with the girl I also want to be with her, share some time as a couple, as gay as it sounds.foxhound_fox
Your use of gay in a derogatory tense makes me believe you are very young and naive (probably not even close to finishing high school). Or more unfortunately, you have grown up, but not emotionally or behaviorally, and want to believe that your crush can develop into something more despite rejection. You need to stop denying the truth and just move on. Living in this fantasy world any longer will only hurt more chances you get in the future, especially when you start comparing potential partners to your pedestal-girl, rejecting THEM because you don't think they can compare to your "prefect" crush. Trust me, I (and probably most other adolescent males) went through this at some point or another. However, we chose to pick up our things (read: emotional investment and sanity) and move on, looking for a source of proper reciprocation. Many of us also found it.

I think you reach your conclusion on too brief of an examples, I've been out of high school for few years now, almost done with a college degree in social sciences. I didn't mean to use gay in derogatory way, but in a way that our current society accepts this words. As in fruity, not masculine, full of futile feelings.
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#2 martin101n
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well so far I concluded that, friendzone is impossible to destroy, there are few occasions that people managed to get out, but nobody ever has moved further then sexual interactions. I aslo think I didnt make my point clear, I don't just want to have sex with the girl I also want to be with her, share some time as a couple, as gay as it sounds.

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#3 martin101n
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I would probably feel better about my life if I believed the "friend zone" existed. But, I don't. Well, I don't believe it's like most of the people in this thread are saying. Women are willing to date you or they aren't. That opinion is subject to change though. I think guys have convinced themselves this friend zone exists to feel better about themselves and not have to face the fact that the girl just doesn't like them.

But hell, I'm not a woman and I'll never understand those creatures so this is probably all crap.

tryagainlater
well she did tell me she loved me, but i think its a bunch of shyt, or a stupid figure of speech, love has no meaning in today's vocabulary. And trust me friend zone has not made me feel better about myself.
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#4 martin101n
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[QUOTE="CammiTac"]You like her more than she likes you. Sometimes that is just how it works out. You are interested in her in a more-than-friends way, she isn't interested back. It might feel bad, but you just move on until you find someone that does like you that way. You aren't going to get anywhere pursuing someone that doesn't or doesn't want to, and if it has been 3 years, I think it is safe to say that she falls into this category. And if you weren't interested in being her friend, why did you let her believe you were for THREE YEARS?

well, there were certain situations involved, and I guess I never had the balls to tell her how it was, until a week ago. plus me and me ex loved each other alot for some time so that adds up to the time too
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#5 martin101n
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[QUOTE="martin101n"][QUOTE="mlbslugger86"]

yeah you tried dude, seems like your gonna be in the friend for a while

mlbslugger86

I refuse being in the friend zone, I'm leaving with, or without her.

i don't know why, but i just pictured someone loading a gun about to go rescue the love of his life from some bad guys:P

lol that's not what I had in mind
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#7 martin101n
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yeah you tried dude, seems like your gonna be in the friend for a while

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I refuse being in the friend zone, I'm leaving with, or without her.
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#8 martin101n
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[QUOTE="martin101n"]

1. Yes.

2. Because apparently single men want to be just friends?

3. Meet someone at the wrong time and say really stupid things in front of them

4. Beats me. I think once someone thinks of you as just a friend, you're kind of stuck there until one/both of you change zeldaluff

Probably should have told her how you feel beforeyou slept around, and then if she rejected you, you could have been like "cool whatever, I'm gonna go bang this chick now".

I gave her a few clear clues to the fact that I was interested
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#9 martin101n
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Be happy that you're in the friend zone. I'm stuck in the acquaintance zone. NiKva

1. Have you bee/are in the friend zone?

Yes, sir.

2. Why do females think that single men are interested in being friends (I'm mean friends not acquaintances)?

Because most of the times, single men do want to be their friend.

3. How does one fall into a friend zone?

From my experience, by either not being able to show interest in that person, or by being way too nice.

4. How does one get out of the friend zone?

I have gotten out of the friend zone, and it is all about timing. I believe that during the course of a friendship there are some occasions where you can tilt things on your favor if you do the right thing. However, those occasions tend to disappear with time, sadly.

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Answer number 2 - In my opinion men don't want to be friends with females just acquaintances, if they are not interested with that female. Meaning men won't always call that female to come an hang out and shoot shyt and stuff like that. I mean look at the term girl-friend it means that that its a friend- and it's a she, thus meaning men are not naturally friends with females. sorry for men and female comparison i know it would sound better if I used males
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#10 martin101n
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Just move on. You'll most likely never be with her. Since you said you're not interested in being her friend just continue not contacting her and find someone else (who you don't wait years for).Parandrus
thats what i was thinking, just trying to get other opinions
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