I just have no idea what to do anymore. I literally love this girl and after what you guys told me last night i'm in the so called "friend zone" of hers. I never meant to be "just a friend" and right now i can't bare to be around her and she really likes me as a friend. So what should i do? Break of the friendship for good, start ignoring her or just see if i still have a chance? BTW, i'm not 100% about this friendzone but i have to really tell her how i feel even if she does have a bf.
So there is this girl i recently made friends with. I really started liking her a lot, like a lot it maybe love not sure but she has a boyfriend. I'm not sure if she likes me or not, because everytime she logs onto msn, as soon as her name pops up she says hey to me. Also, she always points out how we're so alike which we are. We also got matched up for valentines on this quiz thingy. We also seem to have this connection, where i know what she says before i say it and vice. We talk alot and i really like her, i'm not sure if it would be safe to ask her out because she already has a boyfriend, i'm pretty sure she'd say yes if she didn't, but i don't know anymore i really want her. So should i ask her out or not?
I don't think you'd have a chance, she has a boyfriend, plus you are in the "friend zone"
That's not to say you don't have a chance if she ever breaks up with him, but still, if you risked it and she said "no," then she might feel awkward around you, in fact, if you've already told her friend you like her, then most likely she already knows and it could be happening already.
pwnmaster
no, her friend said i'm her best friend and she'd never tell
no i don't, she has a boyfriend so i don't know what she'd say and i asked her friend and she said she loves him a lot
The_PirateKing
~-~I wouldn't even try it then... For now. Try and get her to tell you how she feels about her bf. Her friend might be wrong or lying. Bt for now assume she's right.~-~
funny story, her friend likes me and i told her friend i'm not interested...:P
Two possibilities here, she likes you as a friend or she likes you as more then a friend but has a boyfriend. I went through the same situation not to long ago but the girl did not have a bf at the time. We would talk on the phone for at least an hour every night, she would come see me at my college and i would go see her at work and we went out about everyday or every other day for about 2 months. We were very close, we had alot in common and some things not in common. I really liked her she really like me, but she liked me as a friend not as anything more. As this went on she got a bf, he dumped her she called me back but again just staying friends and things were just not the same. To end the story we no longer talk, she stopped talking to me out of the blue for no reason and I stopped trying to talk to her. We went from being very close, to the best of friends to nothing. Sometimes its better to just be friends and see if things could work in the future when she is single, and sometimes its better to just stick yourself out there and go for it. The thing is though, she may just really like you as a friend and be talking to you because thats what you are to her, a very good friend, you have to be willing to give up the friendship if you are going to tell her the truth because often once a girl finds out it will become akward if she does not have fellings for you. So decide if you are willing to give up your friendship that could eventually turn into something or if you want to stick yourself out there and risk losing her. I wish ya the best of luck man, and sorry for the very long read, hope it helped a bit though. Later gamespot, peace. Yea.zeldafan00013
thanks it was very helpful, kind of like what i have with her.
So there is this girl i recently made friends with. I really started liking her a lot, like a lot it maybe love not sure but she has a boyfriend. I'm not sure if she likes me or not, because everytime she logs onto msn, as soon as her name pops up she says hey to me. Also, she always points out how we're so alike which we are. We also got matched up for valentines on this quiz thingy. We also seem to have this connection, where i know what she says before i say it and vice. We talk alot and i really like her, i'm not sure if it would be safe to ask her out because she already has a boyfriend, i'm pretty sure she'd say yes if she didn't, but i don't know anymore i really want her. So should i ask her out or not?
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