you are not the only one i am currently having that problem and sometimes it pisses me off when she aks if im mad because i didnt txt her the whole day..i always respond "texting works both ways"NetYankEagle

I come to you with a question, I've been going out with my girlfriend for a little bit now, she's great and all but something keeps getting to me about her. She barely ever texts me first to start a conversation since we started going out. I always initiate conversations with her, I always have to call her up or text her first for a conversation to pop up. The only time she'd only contact me first hand is if we're in a fight, only then will she come to me to talk if I'm not saying anything. It would be nice to have her text me or call me first once in a while, but I guess I can live with things as it is since our phone calls and SMS conversations go by great and without a hitch. Hell I just got off like a near four hour phone call with her just now.

I've talked to her about it and she says that it's completely normal for girls to do what she's doing. I tell her no and that nearly every other girl I've been with either than her has always texted or called me first to initiate conversations. But anyways, to you guys or girls out here on OT, is it normal for the guy to do all the initiating?!?! Oh and she specifically told me to go on here to ask you guys, she thinks she's in the right so I'll be showing her your responses later on :D

Thanks for the response if you do respond haha.

Don't grab random people. That's 100x worse than just being alone together, if she doesn't know them well. I'd just go alone if I were you, if you're comfortable she'll eventually become comfortable because the vibe of the whole situation is really relaxed.XilePrincess

Okay, people of gamespot. I'm taking this girl out tonight for dinner to my favorite spot. Prolli do a lil something something afterwards haha whatever decides to come up. At this moment, we are going alone, just the two of us.

A few days ago she really wanted another couple to come along too. Those two can't make it tonight so yeah, like I said earlier it's just the two of us going now. She's cool with it, but I have a feeling that she won't be that comfortable tonight even though I personally see that things won't be awkward at all.

I was wondering if I should a fast one and show up with another couple when I pick her up tonight? Or should I just screw it and have a more intimate affair with her.

Hmmmm.....

Game over Cows. Game over.