Maybe this blog should be more accurately titled, "How Not to Score with a Girl" as I'll be sharing some experiences I've had with guys awkwardly trying to communicate with females in Home.
Upon entering the Central Plaza, be it warned that if you have a female avatar, you probably won't make it halfway to your destination before being approached by at least one guy. Apparently, at the sight of pixilated boobs, the male stops thinking above the waist and quickly reverts to below the waist thoughts. I feel it necessary to advise you at this point that a female avatar is not always a sign that there is a female controlling said avatar. I know of quite a few guys that use female avatars almost exclusively.
Most conversations have been started by simply asking where I live. Normally, this question doesn't faze me, but in Home I will often not give an answer to some random guy who just walks up and expects me to hand out my location. The answer you will most likely receive from me is something to the effect of "here and there" or even "Central Plaza" (which yes, I said and the guy accepted it). Please do not send me a friend invite when I've never even said a word to you. All random friend invites will be denied, as well as guys that give me the wrong vibe. I don't need more "friends" that I won't talk to or will never join in a game.
Do not use pet nicknames. I'm not "Sweetie" or "Pretty Lady" and I'm definitely not your "Ma" so don't make it a point to call me so, because you will most likely get a frustrated grunt from me and I'll walk away. I will not "follow you" if you don't tell me where we're going, and please don't ask me to join you at your apartment or Summer House for whatever you may think will happen there.
I think that pretty much covers the "Do Not's", and you'll find that my "Do's" list is much shorter.
Asking me to play a game with you such as pool or bowling is definitely okay. I may be horrible at it since the controls are a bit odd, but at least I have a good sense of humor. General conversation is also fine. I don't have a specific list of what to talk about, but I'm guessing that since I have a PS3 I might enjoy games. As long as you don't sound like you're trying to get in my virtual pants or becoming my new stalker friend it's cool.
This is just my personal experience. Other girls may want to hang out with you in your virtual home or are looking for a hookup, but chances are she's already been approached by several other guys and may just be tired of people wanting to know her A/S/L. With that being said, I'm not opposed to finding new friends in Home, but I'm not necessarily seeking them out either. I think of Home as more of a place to hang out with friends you already have or find people to play games with when they get the game spaces up and running again.
As far as gaming goes, I finished Fable II a few weeks ago. I got all 50 gargoyles and I somehow acquired 51 silver keys. I haven't completed all of the side quests, but I will probably get around to it when I finally decide to open the last 2 demon doors. Overall, I thought the game was some of the most fun I've had in a while. It wasn't deep or revolutionary, but it was an enjoyable to play to the end. In taking a break from long drawn out story modes I decided to start Call of Duty 4, since I got it a year ago and never played it. So far, I'm very impressed with the mechanics, visuals, and action sequences. This game really is beautiful. I am also playing quite a bit of Resistance 2, though I've only played the Cooperative portion with a little bit of Competitive on the side. I haven't touched the campaign yet.
These are new games I picked up since my last blog, I'll also be getting Persona 4 sometime this week. All other games will wait until after the holidays and my birthday.
Have a good week everyone :)
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