[QUOTE="yian"]Like I said before, the fact that you come to an Internet forum for advice shows your lack of confidence and self-esteem, which will not get your far. Work on that.
But as for a first date idea, why not just a cup of coffee, or lunch at the cafe between classes? Just remember don't be nervous. Be yourself, be natural, don't force anything. If she senses that you are uneasy, she becomes uneasy as well, and the bad experience will prevent her from wanting to hang out with you.
Just go grab a coffee with her and see how it goes. If you two don't have any sparks, then move on for someone else. Don't be obsessed by her pretty face. If it is just a piece of meat you are after, she would be right to say no to you.
P.S. Oh, you said "a flower." Ha ha.
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Its not the lack of confidence, I can be quite confident, it is just that I only have one class with her and after ward she sort of runs off, I had to run to catch her today after class. I was thinking about Friday, are day dates good, there is a botanical garden near me so I might take her there and then go for some coffee. Also I have a class with her again on thursday, so that is pretty awkward. BTW Internet forums are a pretty good way t o ask these things after all people do socialize. do you live in queens? if so, go for a walk around flushing medow park. nice, quiet and empty ;)
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