here, this will help. Ladder theory. You my friend, are on the wrong one.

Chogyam

Your entire story confuses me a bit TC.

How do you have cliques if you don't go to school? you said that you work while your GF goes to school. :P

Otherwise, Gay and Girlfriend don't belong in a sentence while involving a man.

And I am in a way part of the "Popular clique", I am one of those REALLY lovable guys who everyone likes, but I don't hang out with the popular kids. :P

WiiMan21

That's not girl trouble at all. And you don't need an elaborate scheme to talk to someone. Just get your butt up, walk over to her and say something. frostybanana

[QUOTE="spamsauce"]Ok, so me any my first girlfriend started dating 1 month ago. before that we had both known we liked each other, but we didnt really do anything together till i asked her out. So yes, i ask her out, huge uproar about it at highshool, every one keeps asking me how she is, making immature jokes, e.t.c. But i really didnt want to rush things like every one was pressuring me to do. so we gon on our first date right. Then suddenly my friends keep pressuring me to go further. I just kind of tell them i dont want to rush thing, scince shes my first girlfreind. But after our second date things started getting really bad. My freinds would try to pull me towards her, push me into her, pull my arm around here.t.c It was so bad that on a class trip we had almost half the class just surrounding us just to bug us. We havent had our first kiss yet and its been a month. Now shes in hawwaii for 2 weeks. I want to go further with her afterward, but things are really awkward now, and i know if i do go further with her too fast now it might seem im bowing to peer pressure. Help?whipassmt

Based on the actions of your friends, I think you're a bit young. You should just keep the relationship at this level. Go no further.

[QUOTE="redstorm72"]

Tell your so called friends to f*** off. Seriously, how imature are these idiots? Take whatever time you feel is right to progress things in your relationship.

MiloZEgamer34

In order to get your friends to back off you just have to say, 'listen you dickweeds, I know it's frustrating for you all to not have girlfriends of your own, but could you please stop living vicariously through my relationship because it's really p***ing me off.' If they keep heckling just tell them straight each time. You are being mature in this situation and they'll see that soon enough.

And if this girl has been going out with you for a month now I think it's safe to say that she would like you to kiss her. That's fine, you don't need to talk to her about that, a kiss becomes awful if you talk about it first. Go somewhere nice just the two of you, at the weekend maybe and away from school, give her a bit of a cuddle and go in for the kiss. Kiss her cheek if you're very scared.

In terms of anything else, that should come later on, once you are both comfortable with yourselves and each other and definitely after discussions. But the kissing is awesome just stick with that for a good few months.

I miss the days of months of good kissing *sighs* Everything's so rushed and seedy as a grown up.

MissLibrarian

1 month and you haven't even kissed?

Dude, you're not moving too fast. In fact, you're not moving at all. Get away from the people at school and get moving.

InEMplease