My gf knows I watch porn and she watches porn too. Doesn't really bother us. She's not always in the mood and knows that I gotta let off so she doesn't care. Sometimes I am too tired for sex or have an exam I'm cramming for and she will do her thing while I'm asleep / studying.

Porn doesn't substitute other pleasures though. Whacking off may feel good but not as good as getting whacked off by your gf or wife.

I grew into metal and death metal then grew out of it.

I remember I used to love Linkin Park and Slipknot for some weird reason back in highschool. But then I fell they weren't heavy enough so I started listening to heavier metal and death metal. Devil Driver, Behemoth, Devourment, and others.

Then I went back to alternative, then back to hip-hop & rap, then got into Death Core, then I got into dubstep.

I still listen to dubstep. Probably the only genre that combines heavy beats and rhythms with a bit of hip-hop. Its heavy enough to make me head bang and yet chill enough to not go buck wild.