many of you fellow forumites may or may not know about my eccentric and disastrous love life. well, i have a little problem. there is this girl that i have known for 8-9 years, and we are really good friends. about a month ago, we decided to start goin out with each other. ok, on saturday, she calls me and tells me that she has to tell me about this situation that she had, and probably still has, wit her ex-boyfriend. apparently, she made some promises wit him that she would lose his virginity to him, and that when they are older, they would get married. he had threatened to rape her once, so , a while after that, she decided to leave him. now, as far as i know, none of these promises were fulfilled. so, im talking to her on sunday, yesterday, and i asked her if she still had feelings for him. she said yes. now, i dont even know the whole story, but, i find out today from her sister that saturday, March 12, of this year, last saturday, she was talking to him. yet, on sunday, she told me she doesnt even speak to him any more. i am seriously thinking about just breaking up with her. shes telling me that she did think about having sex with him, but then decided not to. i do not know how long she has known this guy, but she was willing to lose her virginity to him, and, she still has feelings for him. i do not know whether i should just hear her out, or if i should just break it off. plus, on top of that, shes telling me that there are some things she is gonna hold back from me because of this experience. what do you guys think i should do?
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