A 19yr and a 15yr in a relationship? Is that ok?

whatever people wanna do with their lives its none of my business...and if they make each other happy *shrugs* let them be Dante2710

Their is right and wrong in this world you know....it's not always about being happy.

[QUOTE="Dante2710"]whatever people wanna do with their lives its none of my business...and if they make each other happy *shrugs* let them be LJS9502_basic

Their is right and wrong in this world you know....it's not always about being happy.

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="Dante2710"]whatever people wanna do with their lives its none of my business...and if they make each other happy *shrugs* let them be Dante2710

Their is right and wrong in this world you know....it's not always about being happy.

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="Dante2710"]whatever people wanna do with their lives its none of my business...and if they make each other happy *shrugs* let them be Dante2710

Their is right and wrong in this world you know....it's not always about being happy.

Nope...not if your pursuit of happiness is at others expense.

Another one of these? *sigh* Don't date jail-bait.

[QUOTE="Dante2710"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="Dante2710"]whatever people wanna do with their lives its none of my business...and if they make each other happy *shrugs* let them be LJS9502_basic

Their is right and wrong in this world you know....it's not always about being happy.

Nope...not if your pursuit of happiness is at others expense.

Who said the girl wouldn't be happy. I get what you're saying, but you sound like you think he's forcing a relationship on the girl.

[QUOTE="Dante2710"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="Dante2710"]whatever people wanna do with their lives its none of my business...and if they make each other happy *shrugs* let them be Mumbles527

Their is right and wrong in this world you know....it's not always about being happy.

Who said the girl wouldn't be happy. I get what you're saying, but you sound like you think he's forcing a relationship on the girl.

DisturbedChild7

He said everyone is entitled to the pursuit of happiness....I responded with the correct answer. Why are you arguing that?

Second....their are laws in place for a reason. She is a minor and not legally able to consent.

i didnt say that i agreed with them having sex....but i know there is physical attraction for every couple.....though there are still couples that wait till marriage to have sexDante2710

If sex = prison, there should not be a romantic relationship of any sort.

[QUOTE="DisturbedChild7"]

Who said the girl wouldn't be happy. I get what you're saying, but you sound like you think he's forcing a relationship on the girl.

LJS9502_basic

He said everyone is entitled to the pursuit of happiness....I responded with the correct answer. Why are you arguing that?

Second....their are laws in place for a reason. She is a minor and not legally able to consent.

I'm not arguing with that, I'm merely asking why you think the girl would be forced, and wouldn't be happy with a 19 year old. Plus, I know she can't consent. I never said it was right, just asked a question about your line of thought.

Inherently, yes. Legally, no.

You two should wait quite a while before you get romantic. But just being a couple and building a strong relationship at your ages is harmless and will only make things easier once you get serious later on. Heck,I personally wouldn't even advise most couples under 20, legal or not, to engage in sexual activity. I may seem like a prude, but it really is better to wait a little while when you're both more mature. Sex is serious business. :P Honestly though, it is, especially for you straight folks, because all the protection in the world still can result in a pregnancy. Then what? If she desires to keep the child for whatever reason and you don't... etc and so forth. Sex is romanticized to death in modern society, it really isn't something to be taken lightly. Yes, it can be fun, but that doesn't mean it shouldn't be treated with respect.

I'm not arguing with that, I'm merely asking why you think the girl would be forced, and wouldn't be happy with a 19 year old. Plus, I know she can't consent. I never said it was right, just asked a question about your line of thought.

DisturbedChild7

For the second time...I responded to his comment that everyone is allowed the pursuit of happiness...what don't you get about that?

[QUOTE="DisturbedChild7"]

I'm not arguing with that, I'm merely asking why you think the girl would be forced, and wouldn't be happy with a 19 year old. Plus, I know she can't consent. I never said it was right, just asked a question about your line of thought.

LJS9502_basic

For the second time...I responded to his comment that everyone is allowed the pursuit of happiness...what don't you get about that?

The fact you said "not if it's at another's expense"........

The fact you said "not if it's at another's expense"........

DisturbedChild7

Let's look at some activities some individuals may consider "happy"....murder, torture, sexual assualt, theft, grand theft auto, assualt and battery, child abuse, scams, the list goes on.....so...are you saying these activities should be pursued?

[QUOTE="DisturbedChild7"]

I'm not arguing with that, I'm merely asking why you think the girl would be forced, and wouldn't be happy with a 19 year old. Plus, I know she can't consent. I never said it was right, just asked a question about your line of thought.

LJS9502_basic

For the second time...I responded to his comment that everyone is allowed the pursuit of happiness...what don't you get about that?

[QUOTE="DisturbedChild7"]

The fact you said "not if it's at another's expense"........

LJS9502_basic

Let's look at some activities some individuals may consider "happy"....murder, torture, sexual assualt, theft, grand theft auto, assualt and battery, child abuse, scams, the list goes on.....so...are you saying these activities should be pursued?

I actually just asked why a 15 year old and a 19 year old couldn't be together, excluding the fact it's against the law. How is this harmful?

I actually just asked why a 15 year old and a 19 year old couldn't be together, excluding the fact it's against the law. How is this harmful?

DisturbedChild7

What will her friends and family think, what exactly does 15 and 19 year olds have in common, what could they talk about.

Not to mention the 19 year old must be a total loser to go after a 15 year old chick. What...can't attract anybody your own age? The 15 year old girl needs to focus on things like school and becomming an adult. She doesn't need a 19 year old loser complicating her life, being a teenager is complicated enough.

Hmm......a college freshman and a high school freshman?

God no!

[QUOTE="DisturbedChild7"]

I actually just asked why a 15 year old and a 19 year old couldn't be together, excluding the fact it's against the law. How is this harmful?

Hungry_bunny

What will her friends and family think, what exactly does 15 and 19 year olds have in common, what could they talk about.

That depends on the individual. Plus, as long as the 19 year old didn't abduct the 15 year old, or become obsessed, the 15 year old can leave the relationship. I don't see why there would be regret, the times have changed to where 12 and 11 year olds are sexually active (look at thebirth controlthing in Maine). I can see how there would be regret with someone younger than 15 who is less mature, but a mature 15 year old can easily live with the choice of being in a relationship with a 19 year old.

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="DisturbedChild7"]

The fact you said "not if it's at another's expense"........

DisturbedChild7

Let's look at some activities some individuals may consider "happy"....murder, torture, sexual assualt, theft, grand theft auto, assualt and battery, child abuse, scams, the list goes on.....so...are you saying these activities should be pursued?

I actually just asked why a 15 year old and a 19 year old couldn't be together, excluding the fact it's against the law. How is this harmful?

No..you took exception my comment that you can't pursue happiness at another's expense...as for this scenerio...she is not emotionally mature enough for a relationship with an adult most likely...which is why those laws exist.

its a little weird... the difference between a 19y/o and a 15y/o is much much bigger that a 19y/o and 23y/o

but, i don't think theres anything necessarily wrong with it

That depends on the individual. Plus, as long as the 19 year old didn't abduct the 15 year old, or become obsessed, the 15 year old can leave the relationship. I don't see why there would be regret, the times have changed to where 12 and 11 year olds are sexually active (look at thebirth controlthing in Maine). I can see how there would be regret with someone younger than 15 who is less mature, but a mature 15 year old can easily live with the choice of being in a relationship with a 19 year old.

DisturbedChild7

Spoken like a true pedophile. "She looks and acts so mature for her age."

Not to mention the 19 year old must be a total loser to go after a 15 year old chick. What...can't attract anybody your own age? The 15 year old girl needs to focus on things like school and becomming an adult. She doesn't need a 19 year old loser complicating her life, being a teenager is complicated enough.

dnuggs40

True...there is something wrong with an adult trolling the high schools for girlfriends.

[QUOTE="DisturbedChild7"]

That depends on the individual. Plus, as long as the 19 year old didn't abduct the 15 year old, or become obsessed, the 15 year old can leave the relationship. I don't see why there would be regret, the times have changed to where 12 and 11 year olds are sexually active (look at thebirth controlthing in Maine). I can see how there would be regret with someone younger than 15 who is less mature, but a mature 15 year old can easily live with the choice of being in a relationship with a 19 year old.

Oleg_Huzwog

Spoken like a true pedophile. "She looks and acts so mature for her age."

When did I say look? And I don't condone the relationship between and 19 and 15 year olds. It just depends on the individuals in the situation.

[QUOTE="DisturbedChild7"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="DisturbedChild7"]

The fact you said "not if it's at another's expense"........

LJS9502_basic

Let's look at some activities some individuals may consider "happy"....murder, torture, sexual assualt, theft, grand theft auto, assualt and battery, child abuse, scams, the list goes on.....so...are you saying these activities should be pursued?

I actually just asked why a 15 year old and a 19 year old couldn't be together, excluding the fact it's against the law. How is this harmful?

No..you took exception my comment that you can't pursue happiness at another's expense...as for this scenerio...she is not emotionally mature enough for a relationship with an adult most likely...which is why those laws exist.

My original question was indeed about teh relationship.

When did I say look? And I don't condone the relationship between and 19 and 15 year olds. It just depends on the individuals in the situation.

DisturbedChild7

No it doesn't....the 15 year olds always think they are old enough...and there is something wrong with an adult who has to date children.

When did I say look? And I don't condone the relationship between and 19 and 15 year olds. It just depends on the individuals in the situation.

DisturbedChild7

No, it does not depend on the individuals. No adult should be romantically involved with someone who just recently finished junior high.

[QUOTE="DisturbedChild7"]

When did I say look? And I don't condone the relationship between and 19 and 15 year olds. It just depends on the individuals in the situation.

LJS9502_basic

No it doesn't....the 15 year olds always think they are old enough...and there is something wrong with an adult who has to date children.

Here's a question: A HS senior dates a HS freshmnan and it's okay to pretty much everyone. One year later he's 19, she's 15. Are they supposed to break up right away (even though they probably will, you never know)?

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="DisturbedChild7"]

When did I say look? And I don't condone the relationship between and 19 and 15 year olds. It just depends on the individuals in the situation.

DisturbedChild7

No it doesn't....the 15 year olds always think they are old enough...and there is something wrong with an adult who has to date children.

Here's a question: A HS senior dates a HS freshmnan and it's okay to pretty much everyone. One year later he's 19, she's 15. Are they supposed to break up right away (even though they probably will, you never know)?

An 18 year old senior should NOT be dating a 14 year old freshman.:|