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#101 snickers11
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male- yes. im saving up for a hooker though. its gonna be great!NaiKoN9293

You better watch out, Some hookers are know for having STDs.:|

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#102 KHfanboy2
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I voted for Male-Yes.
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#103 dracula_16
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I'm an 18 year old male who's a virgin. There are some things about me that I'm assuming would turn off most if not all women, so I haven't even tried to get in a relationship. I technically could throw away my virginity to some prostitute but that would be foolish of me. It'd serve no purpose.
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#104 Calypto
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I votedd female && no. :)
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#105 luisen123
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Male and yes, I don't like the females in my area they're all a bunch of air-heads and those who aren't are pretty ugly, I'm not shallow but it's just not worth it, besides I think I will wait for that special someone.
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#106 Theokhoth
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Yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a guy.
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#107 Arcade-Fire
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Yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a guy.Theokhoth
did you try telling the girls you made over 3000's post's in under a month?
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#108 VacantPsalm
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Wait, I think I voted no thinking this was the "have you had sex before" thread. That's the only problem with opening up like 3 threads all at one in different tabs.>.> Ah well, doesn't really matter. But yes, I am a dude and I am a virgin.
[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a guy.Arcade-Fire
did you try telling the girls you made over 3000's post's in under a month?

What the hell? Uh, lawl? Either you're mistaking him for someone or I'm mistaking him for someone.
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#109 greenprince
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a guy.Arcade-Fire
did you try telling the girls you made over 3000's post's in under a month?

He's not looking for girls if you get my drift;)
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#110 quiglythegreat
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Male and yes, I don't like the females in my area they're all a bunch of air-heads and those who aren't are pretty ugly, I'm not shallow but it's just not worth it, besides I think I will wait for that special someone.luisen123
being a pretty female really dooms girls. girls discover they have a power over guys and it rots them, it really just destroys them, and if they don't have that power, well, they're ugly, and you don't care. it's terrible.
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#111 VacantPsalm
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[QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a guy.greenprince
did you try telling the girls you made over 3000's post's in under a month?

He's not looking for girls if you get my drift;)

Yep, it was him who was mistaking him for someone else not me.:lol: I was gonna say, girl?
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#112 black_cat19
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I'm not a virgin, and I decided to lose it because I found a girl I really love, I truly believe my girlfriend is the one. :)

And I was pretty damn serious about this topic before I met her, I was determined to find the one or stay a virgin, so it really wasn't a light desicion.

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#113 Arcade-Fire
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[QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a guy.greenprince
did you try telling the girls you made over 3000's post's in under a month?

He's not looking for girls if you get my drift;)

but i remember him defending christianity in some threads so i don't see how he could be gay.
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#114 greenprince
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[QUOTE="greenprince"][QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a guy.Arcade-Fire
did you try telling the girls you made over 3000's post's in under a month?

He's not looking for girls if you get my drift;)

but i remember him defending christianity in some threads so i don't see how he could be gay.

They maybe a minority but there Christians who are homosexual. I'm a Liberal Christian and I personally have no negative feelings on homosexuality. In fact, I know one friend in real life who's a homosexual, he's a nice guy.
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#115 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a guy.Arcade-Fire
did you try telling the girls you made over 3000's post's in under a month?

No. I don't date girls.

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#116 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="greenprince"][QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a guy.Arcade-Fire
did you try telling the girls you made over 3000's post's in under a month?

He's not looking for girls if you get my drift;)

but i remember him defending christianity in some threads so i don't see how he could be gay.

Pretty easily, really.

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#117 VacantPsalm
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[QUOTE="greenprince"]He's not looking for girls if you get my drift;)Arcade-Fire
but i remember him defending christianity in some threads so i don't see how he could be gay.

I heard him say he thinks it being uncircumcised doesn't look as good. Beat that.
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#118 Tjeremiah1988
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I dont think looks have to do with anything. I already learned this. A girl could look bangin (look good, pretty, hawt) but could be the biggest b!tch ever with a nasty attitude you just cant be around, as if shes the best to walk the earth. Looks arent everything.
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#119 Arcade-Fire
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[QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"][QUOTE="greenprince"][QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a guy.Theokhoth

did you try telling the girls you made over 3000's post's in under a month?

He's not looking for girls if you get my drift;)

but i remember him defending christianity in some threads so i don't see how he could be gay.

Pretty easily, really.

uuummm, the church doesn't accept you so....
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#120 Theokhoth
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uuummm, the church doesn't accept you so....
Arcade-Fire

What is a church?

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#121 Arcade-Fire
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[QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"]uuummm, the church doesn't accept you so....
Theokhoth

What is a church?

A building where people go to pray to their god. Christians unless your in some werid break off branch of it doesn't accept you as a christian and says you are going straight to hell (PS: im not christian and have no problem with gay people so don't take offence to what i said)
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#122 HybridPhoenix
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Not a virgin.
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#123 foxhound_fox
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I am male and still a virgin. I am keeping it until I can find the woman with whom I am going to spend the rest of my life with. I value companionship, commitment and love far to much to give it up purely for physical pleasure. That doesn't mean I will remain sexually abstinent, it just means that I will avoid penetrative intercourse until I find the woman with whom I wish to spend the rest of my life with and who will bear my children.
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#124 Masinai
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I like how most of OT (the males, 121 of them xDD) chose the Virgin answer. I would imagine, amiright? =3. But, I am virgin , too.. but MUCH too young to lose it. I'm not one of those slu--Friendly girls at school. Har. Har. Har. :|

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#125 greenprince
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"][QUOTE="greenprince"][QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a guy.Arcade-Fire

did you try telling the girls you made over 3000's post's in under a month?

He's not looking for girls if you get my drift;)

but i remember him defending christianity in some threads so i don't see how he could be gay.

Pretty easily, really.

uuummm, the church doesn't accept you so....

Things change, pretty sure Christianity won't have a problem with homosexuality as time goes. It was the same for racism and sexism. In fact, I only know one passage in the Bible that mentions homosexuality in a bad light but it was homosexual intercourse/practices rather than homosexuality itself.
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#126 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"]uuummm, the church doesn't accept you so....
Arcade-Fire

What is a church?

A building where people go to pray to their god. Christians unless your in some werid break off branch of it doesn't accept you as a christian and says you are going straight to hell (PS: im not christian and have no problem with gay people so don't take offence to what i said)

Oh, no offense. You're wrong about what a church is, though. A church is a gathering of Christians meant for discussing the Bible or other issues related to Christianity. I know plenty of Christians who, albeit reluctantly, accept me and everything that comes with the package, so I have no problems with the church that matters.

A pretty building with stained glass means nothing to God.

And if I'm talking crazy, then the Roman Catholic Church accepts homosexuality (though not homosexual acts). Though I'm not Catholic, so I guess that's irrelevant.:P

As for me going straight to Hell, that pretty much goes for everybody. . . .though that's a discussion left to another topic.

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#127 quiglythegreat
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I am male and still a virgin. I am keeping it until I can find the woman with whom I am going to spend the rest of my life with. I value companionship, commitment and love far to much to give it up purely for physical pleasure. That doesn't mean I will remain sexually abstinent, it just means that I will avoid penetrative intercourse until I find the woman with whom I wish to spend the rest of my life with and who will bear my children.foxhound_fox
are you refraining from pleasures of the flesh entirely or are you just not having intercourse?
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#128 greenprince
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[QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"]uuummm, the church doesn't accept you so....
Theokhoth

What is a church?

Don't you mean who?

  • Albert T. Church (born 1947), Vice-Admiral in the United States Navy
  • Alonzo Church (1905–1995), logician, famous for the Church-Turing thesis and lambda calculusCaptain Benjamin Church (1639–1718), colonial officer during King Philip's War
  • Benjamin Church (1734–1776), first Surgeon General of the Continental Army and grandson of Captain Benjamin Church
  • Bill Church, American musician
  • Brad ChurchCharlotte Church (born 1986), British soprano singer and talk show host
  • Doug Church, video-game designer
  • Ellen ChurchForrester Church (born 1948), American minister, son of Senator Frank Church
  • Francis Pharcellus Church (1839–1906), American writer (famous for the editorial Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus)
  • Frank Church (1924–1984), four-term U.S. Senator from Idaho.
  • Frederic Edwin Church (1826–1900), landscape painter
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#129 quiglythegreat
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I dont think looks have to do with anything. I already learned this. A girl could look bangin (look good, pretty, hawt) but could be the biggest b!tch ever with a nasty attitude you just cant be around, as if shes the best to walk the earth. Looks arent everything. Tjeremiah1988
if you want an angel, find someone who looks a devil. really, that is how it goes because of how people treat them. this theme was touched upon heavily in a recent South Park episode entitled "The List".
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#130 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"]uuummm, the church doesn't accept you so....
greenprince

What is a church?

Don't you mean who?

  • Albert T. Church (born 1947), Vice-Admiral in the United States Navy
  • Alonzo Church (1905–1995), logician, famous for the Church-Turing thesis and lambda calculusCaptain Benjamin Church (1639–1718), colonial officer during King Philip's WarBenjamin Church (1734–1776), first Surgeon General of the Continental Army and grandson of Captain Benjamin Church
  • Bill Church, American musician
  • Brad ChurchCharlotte Church (born 1986), British soprano singer and talk show host
  • Doug Church, video-game designerEllen ChurchForrester Church (born 1948), American minister, son of Senator Frank Church
  • Francis Pharcellus Church (1839–1906), American writer (famous for the editorial Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus)
  • Frank Church (1924–1984), four-term U.S. Senator from Idaho.
  • Frederic Edwin Church (1826–1900), landscape painter

:lol: Winner.

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#131 Arcade-Fire
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[QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"]uuummm, the church doesn't accept you so....
Theokhoth

What is a church?

A building where people go to pray to their god. Christians unless your in some werid break off branch of it doesn't accept you as a christian and says you are going straight to hell (PS: im not christian and have no problem with gay people so don't take offence to what i said)

Oh, no offense. You're wrong about what a church is, though. A church is a gathering of Christians meant for discussing the Bible or other issues related to Christianity. I know plenty of Christians who, albeit reluctantly, accept me and everything that comes with the package, so I have no problems with the church that matters.

A pretty building with stained glass means nothing to God.

And if I'm talking crazy, then the Roman Catholic Church accepts homosexuality (though not homosexual acts). Though I'm not Catholic, so I guess that's irrelevant.:P

thats what a church is to prodestents, but its also what i said. and im not 100% but i think Catholics completely shun gays and i know the pope has never said 1 accepting word of them. normal christians like your friends at your church may accept you but they don't represent all christians and definatley not the christian higher archey
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#132 foxhound_fox
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are you refraining from pleasures of the flesh entirely or are you just not having intercourse?
quiglythegreat

Specifically penetrative intercourse. I still plan to be sexually active with women whom I get into relationships with. Without discovering our sexual chemistry how am I to know if I want to spend the rest of my life with her? There are plenty of ways of pleasing your partner without sex... and many of them are much more effective.
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#133 Theokhoth
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thats what a church is to prodestents, but its also what i said. and im not 100% but i think Catholics completely shun gays and i know the pope has never said 1 accepting word of them. normal christians like your friends at your church may accept you but they don't represent all christians and definatley not the christian higher archey
Arcade-Fire

Okay, now this is getting way off-topic (and a tad offensive), so if you would like to make a topic discussing homosexuality in the Church, or PM me, be my guest.

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#134 quiglythegreat
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[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"]are you refraining from pleasures of the flesh entirely or are you just not having intercourse?
foxhound_fox

Specifically penetrative intercourse. I still plan to be sexually active with women whom I get into relationships with. Without discovering our sexual chemistry how am I to know if I want to spend the rest of my life with her? There are plenty of ways of pleasing your partner without sex... and many of them are much more effective.

right right right but that's why I don't understand why a person doesn't just go through with regular old intercourse. I've never understood that one, I think it's the least dirty thing you can do that's sexual with another person because it's just the most natural, to me anyway.
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#135 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="Serraph105"][QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="MgamerBD"]

Ever saw the movie 40 year old virgin?

Serraph105

Aww I loved that movie :)

lol i did love that movie but yeah like i said originally if i could hop in a time machine and take it back i still would

Why do u want to take it back?

i kinda hate the girl now

she cheated on me and has never personally told me the truth about everything

Well man be happy that girl was a failure anyway and personally just think of it as practice...in this world u should not regret nothing especially women. Think as it as practice to get better for that one girl u marry.

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#136 foxhound_fox
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right right right but that's why I don't understand why a person doesn't just go through with regular old intercourse. I've never understood that one, I think it's the least dirty thing you can do that's sexual with another person because it's just the most natural, to me anyway.
quiglythegreat

It probably has something to do with me viewing actual intercourse with a loving partner as something greater than just a physical coming together of the bodies and pleasurable release. I see it as being a unification of both body and mind, the climax (no pun intended) of the romantic relationship with another person... and I wouldn't want to share that with someone unless I knew they were the one who will be with me for life and bear our children.

It is just something I have come to realize in my mind about myself. I am a very committed person and wouldn't want to share something as special as that with anyone else. It doesn't even mean that I am waiting for marriage, just the feeling in my heart that I wish to spend the rest of my life with that person and they with me.
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#137 DJ-Lafleur
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I'm a male virgin, but I am only 17, so I am not worried about it.
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#138 quiglythegreat
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[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"]right right right but that's why I don't understand why a person doesn't just go through with regular old intercourse. I've never understood that one, I think it's the least dirty thing you can do that's sexual with another person because it's just the most natural, to me anyway.
foxhound_fox

It probably has something to do with me viewing actual intercourse with a loving partner as something greater than just a physical coming together of the bodies and pleasurable release. I see it as being a unification of both body and mind, the climax (no pun intended) of the romantic relationship with another person... and I wouldn't want to share that with someone unless I knew they were the one who will be with me for life and bear our children.

It is just something I have come to realize in my mind about myself. I am a very committed person and wouldn't want to share something as special as that with anyone else. It doesn't even mean that I am waiting for marriage, just the feeling in my heart that I wish to spend the rest of my life with that person and they with me.

so is it just the symbology of the act rather than anything else? because I think that just holding a person with your clothes on and all can be as sexual and as intimate as that sort of thing, let alone all the other alternatives.
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#139 Arcade-Fire
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[QUOTE="Arcade-Fire"]thats what a church is to prodestents, but its also what i said. and im not 100% but i think Catholics completely shun gays and i know the pope has never said 1 accepting word of them. normal christians like your friends at your church may accept you but they don't represent all christians and definatley not the christian higher archey
Theokhoth

Okay, now this is getting way off-topic (and a tad offensive), so if you would like to make a topic discussing homosexuality in the Church, or PM me, be my guest.

sorry if i was offendning you but what i said is the view of the christen religion, not me and i wont bother making a topic about because i think it would become a gay-bashing thread pretty quickly. anyway, you can see the church is becoming FAR more accepting of homosexuals and i think one day they will be treated the same as straight people in the eyes of religion in the end
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#140 timpaniman10
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i am but i don't want to stay one with all this talk about the world ending, haha. but for real, my GF isn't one so i don't plan on staying one for much longer
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#141 foxhound_fox
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so is it just the symbology of the act rather than anything else? because I think that just holding a person with your clothes on and all can be as sexual and as intimate as that sort of thing, let alone all the other alternatives.
quiglythegreat

That depends. Physical intimacy can vary greatly between affectionate to completely sexual, like you said, even with clothes on. The same thing goes for emotional intimacy as well. "How much" of myself I share with my partner will depend on how close we get to one another. I just personally don't wish to share myself completely with someone unless I know I will spend the rest of my life with them.

I will not know if I want to spend the rest of my life with someone unless I know as much about them as I can and sexuality will be a big factor in determining that. Along with emotional compatibility, the physical portion of the relationship and how we interact with each other intimately, is something I wish to explore before jumping into her boat and sinking mine.

I am personally a very sexually adventurous person and need to find someone who is equally as adventurous... so we will need to explore that before we can know about one another and how well we "work together" in the bedroom. I haven't gone beyond a very intimate emotional relationship with a woman yet so I am still a newbie when it comes to physical intimacy which means I am basing this purely off of speculation of how this will actually turn out. I am sure though that I most likely only share that part of me with someone who I will spend the rest of my life with.

When it comes to relationships with women, I'm not in it to mess around, I am trying to find my mate and that is why my virginity is very important to me. Ironically, I have nothing against whether or not she is a virgin, which even I find somewhat odd.
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#142 quiglythegreat
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[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"]so is it just the symbology of the act rather than anything else? because I think that just holding a person with your clothes on and all can be as sexual and as intimate as that sort of thing, let alone all the other alternatives.
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That depends. Physical intimacy can vary greatly between affectionate to completely sexual, like you said, even with clothes on. The same thing goes for emotional intimacy as well. "How much" of myself I share with my partner will depend on how close we get to one another. I just personally don't wish to share myself completely with someone unless I know I will spend the rest of my life with them.

I will not know if I want to spend the rest of my life with someone unless I know as much about them as I can and sexuality will be a big factor in determining that. Along with emotional compatibility, the physical portion of the relationship and how we interact with each other intimately, is something I wish to explore before jumping into her boat and sinking mine.

I am personally a very sexually adventurous person and need to find someone who is equally as adventurous... so we will need to explore that before we can know about one another and how well we "work together" in the bedroom. I haven't gone beyond a very intimate emotional relationship with a woman yet so I am still a newbie when it comes to physical intimacy which means I am basing this purely off of speculation of how this will actually turn out. I am sure though that I most likely only share that part of me with someone who I will spend the rest of my life with.

When it comes to relationships with women, I'm not in it to mess around, I am trying to find my mate and that is why my virginity is very important to me. Ironically, I have nothing against whether or not she is a virgin, which even I find somewhat odd.

that makes sense I guess. now I'm just going to mouth off for a bit: I don't think intercourse is totally sharing yourself with a person. I'd say that's loving them or whatever you want to call it, as it's a bit tricky to describe. so I just don't attribute that much to physical intimacy as mental and all, but you do, and I think that's noble. I'd kinda like to get past where I personally am with physical intimacy, so I really respect where you're coming from.
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#143 foxhound_fox
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that makes sense I guess. now I'm just going to mouth off for a bit: I don't think intercourse is totally sharing yourself with a person. I'd say that's loving them or whatever you want to call it, as it's a bit tricky to describe. so I just don't attribute that much to physical intimacy as mental and all, but you do, and I think that's noble. I'd kinda like to get past where I personally am with physical intimacy, so I really respect where you're coming from.
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Well intercourse is the epitome of a sexual relationship is it not? Combine that with the compassion, selflessness and affection associated with the non-sexual relationship and it becomes the "climax" of the relationship, the ultimate form that a relationship can take in my eyes. Not only do you share yourself completely with someone physically, you are delving into the deepest depth of their innermost desires and sexual natures, breaking the last barriers between each of you emotionally and physically.

That and children are a possible result from intercourse, thus increasing the importance I put upon that level of intimacy. Not that I won't use birth control (no point in having a child if we are not ready) but the fact is, unless I desire to have a child with someone, I don't want to participate in the act that can create one.
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#144 antiredcap
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Well I'm married with kids so I certainly hope not!!!
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#145 Zaeryn
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I'm a guy and yes, I'm a virgin.
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#146 AdamPA1006
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Male-17 not virgin
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#147 EnigManic
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It's so sad..

Why are there so many male virgins here?!

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#148 thriteenthmonke
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It's so sad..

Why are there so many male virgins here?!

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Because it's a gaming forum.
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#149 rohver
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Yes.
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#150 dixietracy
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Female - No