A question to all - aimed at female users but males can answer too

I dont think looks have to do with anything. I already learned this. A girl could look bangin (look good, pretty, hawt) but could be the biggest ***** ever with a nasty attitude you just cant be around, as if shes the best to walk the earth. Looks arent everything. Tjeremiah1988

Some girls can be like that even if they aren't good looking. There's plenty of girls at my college that are bright orange and really ugly and they think they're better than everyone else. They always push in line for the bus and it really annoys me. There's one girl in particular but I'm not gonna start talking about her because I'll make myself angry :|

I've always wanted to be 'hot' but have always been considered 'cute'. But I've come to realise that lads go to the hot girls for flings and settle down with the cute ones. Still it's a bit depressing that every lad I've fancied (bar 2) has rejected me and some of them went out with my friends instead :|

It's so sad..

Why are there so many male virgins here?!

EnigManic

Some girls can be like that even if they aren't good looking. There's plenty of girls at my college that are bright orange and really ugly and they think they're better than everyone else. They always push in line for the bus and it really annoys me. There's one girl in particular but I'm not gonna start talking about her because I'll make myself angry :|

I've always wanted to be 'hot' but have always been considered 'cute'. But I've come to realise that lads go to the hot girls for flings and settle down with the cute ones. Still it's a bit depressing that every lad I've fancied (bar 2) has rejected me and some of them went out with my friends instead :|

tofu-lion91

Any guy who would reject you is an idiot..plain and simple.

22 y/o female........ no I'm not a virgin. Life is to short to live like a nun.

[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"]right right right but that's why I don't understand why a person doesn't just go through with regular old intercourse. I've never understood that one, I think it's the least dirty thing you can do that's sexual with another person because it's just the most natural, to me anyway.
foxhound_fox

You give way to much praise on sex really.. of course it your oppinion but keep in mind that marriage isn't guaranteed to last forever so if you want to have sex only with that one person your gonna spent your whole life then..dunno good luck!

Again I respect your oppinion but I'm just saying be prepared for some dissapointments in your life cause life is full of surprises. You may think you've met the person your gonna spent the rest of your life with, but sometimes you're wrong,

Those results are kind of funny in a stereotypical sort of way.

Male - not.

LOL @ the poll results. So many guys on here arent getting any. Alter_Echo

Because thats all that matters in life. Lets all listen to this guy.

Again I respect your oppinion but I'm just saying be prepared for some dissapointments in your life cause life is full of surprises. You may think you've met the person your gonna spent the rest of your life with, but sometimes you're wrong,

teh_619

So he should just have sex with anyone? And not take it so seriously?

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]I dont think looks have to do with anything. I already learned this. A girl could look bangin (look good, pretty, hawt) but could be the biggest ***** ever with a nasty attitude you just cant be around, as if shes the best to walk the earth. Looks arent everything. tofu-lion91

Some girls can be like that even if they aren't good looking. There's plenty of girls at my college that are bright orange and really ugly and they think they're better than everyone else. They always push in line for the bus and it really annoys me. There's one girl in particular but I'm not gonna start talking about her because I'll make myself angry :|

I've always wanted to be 'hot' but have always been considered 'cute'. But I've come to realise that lads go to the hot girls for flings and settle down with the cute ones. Still it's a bit depressing that every lad I've fancied (bar 2) has rejected me and some of them went out with my friends instead :|

Yeah..my fiancee cheated on me. But as I am still young maybe that was for the better. (I don't think I'm ready to get married yet...to be honest I was blinded by love and that's a thing I really regret.)

But you gain experience from these things. You learn from your mistakes.

Some girls can be like that even if they aren't good looking. There's plenty of girls at my college that are bright orange and really ugly and they think they're better than everyone else. They always push in line for the bus and it really annoys me. There's one girl in particular but I'm not gonna start talking about her because I'll make myself angry :|

I've always wanted to be 'hot' but have always been considered 'cute'. But I've come to realise that lads go to the hot girls for flings and settle down with the cute ones. Still it's a bit depressing that every lad I've fancied (bar 2) has rejected me and some of them went out with my friends instead :|

tofu-lion91

My psychology class is full of girls like that. To quote Al Murray "It's like Christmas come early, eh lads? Finding tangerines in your stocking". The funny thing is I have a phobia of mannaquins so those girls are of absolutely no interest to me.

[QUOTE="teh_619"]

Again I respect your oppinion but I'm just saying be prepared for some dissapointments in your life cause life is full of surprises. You may think you've met the person your gonna spent the rest of your life with, but sometimes you're wrong,

KrunkMastaX

So he should just have sex with anyone? And not take it so seriously?

When did I say that? :|

female-yes.

I just haven't found the right guy yet. It's not like I'm aiming to be one forever, but I'm not going to settle for a guy just to sleep with him. Plus, I'm only 18, and I don't want to do anything until I'm in a position to properly take care of any consequences (baby, STD, etc).

When did I say that? :|

teh_619

Its basically what you're saying. "Don't take sex so seriously" and telling him the way he feels about it could be wrong or mistaken.

My psychology class is full of girls like that. To quote Al Murray "It's like Christmas come early, eh lads? Finding tangerines in your stocking". The funny thing is I have a phobia of mannaquins so those girls are of absolutely no interest to me.

AirGuitarist87

Haha I'll remember that quote to cheer me up :lol:

[QUOTE="teh_619"]

When did I say that? :|

KrunkMastaX

Its basically what you're saying. "Don't take sex so seriously" and telling him the way he feels about it could be wrong or mistaken.

I guess so but she's just being realistic about it and saying life is full of disappointment. Depressing I know but it's better to think that way than get your hopes up for nothing

[QUOTE="teh_619"]

When did I say that? :|

KrunkMastaX

Its basically what you're saying. "Don't take sex so seriously" and telling him the way he feels about it could be wrong or mistaken.

Nope I didn't say the way he feels is wrong. I said he should be prepared for some surprises..we make plans but sometimes they don't go really well.

And imagine if he has been waiting so much to find the girl and after some years she cheats on him, how is that gonna feel?

Life isn't so simple you know.

I guess so but she's just being realistic about it and saying life is full of disappointment. Depressing I know but it's better to think that way than get your hopes up for nothing

tofu-lion91

I feel the same way as he does. I'm a virgin at 25. Why? Waiting for the right person/girl and all that...which sadly I haven't found yet. And I'm not losing it until then no matter what anyone says...I dont give a damn. Me being a man isn't based on how much sex I get or how much I "hit it" but rather my life experiences and maturity/responsiblity level.

Nope I didn't say the way he feels is wrong. I said he should be prepared for some surprises..we make plans but sometimes they don't go really well.

And imagine if he has been waiting so much to find the girl and after some years she cheats on him, how is that gonna feel?

Life isn't so simple you know.

teh_619

So what would you suggest he do smart one? :|

[QUOTE="KrunkMastaX"][QUOTE="teh_619"]

When did I say that? :|

tofu-lion91

Its basically what you're saying. "Don't take sex so seriously" and telling him the way he feels about it could be wrong or mistaken.

I guess so but she's just being realistic about it and saying life is full of disappointment. Depressing I know but it's better to think that way than get your hopes up for nothing

Exactly. Believe me I am really hard to trust people and I did trust that guy my life and he just cheated on me.

Life is unfair. You have heard that from many people.

[QUOTE="teh_619"]

Nope I didn't say the way he feels is wrong. I said he should be prepared for some surprises..we make plans but sometimes they don't go really well.

And imagine if he has been waiting so much to find the girl and after some years she cheats on him, how is that gonna feel?

Life isn't so simple you know.

KrunkMastaX

So what would you suggest he do smart one? :|

He can do whatever he wants. I'm not his mother. :|

He can do whatever he wants. I'm not his mother. :|

teh_619

Then stop trying to disuade him from his decision and leave him alone about it. Just because you had bad luck doesnt mean its gonna happen to him and or everyone.

Male-no

67% on male yes makes me a sad panda though, cause less then half proabley are to young/choose to be virigins.

[QUOTE="teh_619"]

He can do whatever he wants. I'm not his mother. :|

KrunkMastaX

Then stop trying to disuade him from his decision and leave him alone about it. Just because you had bad luck doesnt mean its gonna happen to him and or everyone.

Oh ok my bad :oops:

I've seen friends get hurt and even if I don't know foxhound I wouldn't like to see him sad.

Maybe that's stupid but that's how I am...:?

Oh ok my bad :oops:

I've seen friends get hurt and even if I don't know foxhound I wouldn't like to see him sad.

Maybe that's stupid but that's how I am...:?

teh_619

Its not stupid. But in life we must make our own choices in the end regardless of what others say. Thats my point. He will learn on his own. And call me crazy but...did my response to you in the other thread douse that fiery temper of yours and made you give a nicer response? :P

[QUOTE="teh_619"]

Oh ok my bad :oops:

I've seen friends get hurt and even if I don't know foxhound I wouldn't like to see him sad.

Maybe that's stupid but that's how I am...:?

KrunkMastaX

Its not stupid. But in life we must make our own choices in the end regardless of what others say. Thats my point. He will learn on his own. And call me crazy but...did my response to you in the other thread douse that fiery temper of yours and made you give a nicer response? :P

:lol: Yeah!! I feel really bad when arguing with someone..and really there is no point in arguing.

And BTW you've got a point there! "He will learn on his own". I totally agree on this one.

And BTW you've got a point there! "He will learn on his own". I totally agree on this one.

teh_619

Well you!...I mean he should!...aw crap. There's nothing to argue anymore. :( See what you did? :P

Female and still a virgin, I haven't found the right guy yet and while I don't consider sex as a huge thing only to be shared with your soul mate or whatever I still don't want to lose it to any random guy off the street.

[QUOTE="teh_619"]

And BTW you've got a point there! "He will learn on his own". I totally agree on this one.

KrunkMastaX

Well you!...I mean he should!...aw crap. There's nothing to argue anymore. :( See what you did? :P

Aw I'm bad like that.8) You'll have to get used to it! :P

Aw I'm bad like that.8) You'll have to get used to it! :P

teh_619

Bad but in a good way? :O

[QUOTE="teh_619"]

Aw I'm bad like that.8) You'll have to get used to it! :P

KrunkMastaX

Bad but in a good way? :O

Yep! :shock:

And we are getting a little bit off-topic me thinks >_>

Yep! :shock:

And we are getting a little bit off-topic me thinks >_>

teh_619

You think? I know we are. :P

Yes, I'm a virgin. I want to save it for the right person at the right time. I want to share that moment with someone that I will be with for the rest of my life, and only him. It's my choice and has nothing to do with religion reasons.ayanami_rei

Hmm. I gotta meet more females on this site! ;) Just kidding of course. The results are kind of ironic.