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#151 Deihjan
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[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="Deihjan"] Sorry to destroy your fun, but I don't do long-distance very well :PMAILER_DAEMON

I clearly suck at the science of deduction :(

Plus there's the fact that I'm 28 and clearly, CLEARLY fall under her well-defined boundaries of how old a guy can be. A few thousand miles never impedes reality though. :o

Wibbly wobbly timey wimey, you know.
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#152 Sunfyre7896
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Supposedly the acceptable age is your half your age + 8 or at least that's what people have told me. My boyfriend is a year younger than me at 24 and mentally I am far more mature, but we still meet each other half way. I don't agree with the girl having to be younger at all and it is not weird having a younger boyfriend. On the other hand my little sister is 20 and her boyfriend (my friend) is 26, they have been going out since she was 18 and since day one they also met each other on maturity level. Then I also have a close friend who is 32, her fiance (another close friend) is 27, they have been together for ten years and are getting married this November. Honestly I don't think age gap matters at all as long as the maturity levels are similar.fantasyfacade

Wow that effin works. I always give a range, but when thinking back through my life, I pretty much have either followed this formula or want a girl that age. Thanks for that. Solves a lot of problems. Now I can just plug in the formula and give or take a couple of years if I need to.

As to your sister, either she is really mature or he is a naive, immature adult as most chicks that age are. Not a bad thing at that age, just observations of pretty much everyone I've ever met and what everyone I know says as well.

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#153 THE_DRUGGIE
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[QUOTE="MAILER_DAEMON"]

[QUOTE="xaos"] I clearly suck at the science of deduction :(Deihjan

Plus there's the fact that I'm 28 and clearly, CLEARLY fall under her well-defined boundaries of how old a guy can be. A few thousand miles never impedes reality though. :o

Wibbly wobbly timey wimey, you know.

....What?

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#154 MAILER_DAEMON
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[QUOTE="MAILER_DAEMON"]

[QUOTE="xaos"] I clearly suck at the science of deduction :(Deihjan

Plus there's the fact that I'm 28 and clearly, CLEARLY fall under her well-defined boundaries of how old a guy can be. A few thousand miles never impedes reality though. :o

Wibbly wobbly timey wimey, you know.

Oh yes! What I wouldn't give for a TARDIS at times. :(
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#155 Deihjan
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[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="MAILER_DAEMON"]Plus there's the fact that I'm 28 and clearly, CLEARLY fall under her well-defined boundaries of how old a guy can be. A few thousand miles never impedes reality though. :o

THE_DRUGGIE

Wibbly wobbly timey wimey, you know.

....What?

Time
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#156 sonofsmeagle
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Older Women are usually the best.

1bigsmoke55

So true, older wome are usually best,

btw, awesome sig bro, i love that carlos condit flying knee, where you get the sig?

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#157 THE_DRUGGIE
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[QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

[QUOTE="Deihjan"] Wibbly wobbly timey wimey, you know.Deihjan

....What?

Time

Oh, I never watched that show so I didn't pick up the reference.

Sorry about that.

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#158 MushroomWig
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a 16 year old girl with a 22 year old man is ewww.Fightingfan
I honestly don't see how that's ewww, 16 is legal in the UK and not all 16 year olds are immature.
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#159 CaveJohnson1
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My GF is like 4 months older than me. I feel kinda weird about it.

Anybody else have a situation where they feel that?

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#160 MissLibrarian
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Half your age, add 6 and that's the cut-off point. I'm 36 - youngest for me would be 24. It's an arbitary but fairly good rule of thumb.poptart

Phew! Just about manage to narrowly scrape in there ;)

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#161 MushroomWig
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My GF is like 4 months older than me. I feel kinda weird about it.

Anybody else have a situation where they feel that?

CaveJohnson1
Why would you feel weird over a mere 4 months?
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#162 CaveJohnson1
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[QUOTE="CaveJohnson1"]

My GF is like 4 months older than me. I feel kinda weird about it.

Anybody else have a situation where they feel that?

MushroomWig

Why would you feel weird over a mere 4 months?

It's more just having a girlfreind older than you period.

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#163 MushroomWig
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[QUOTE="MushroomWig"][QUOTE="CaveJohnson1"]

My GF is like 4 months older than me. I feel kinda weird about it.

Anybody else have a situation where they feel that?

CaveJohnson1

Why would you feel weird over a mere 4 months?

It's more just having a girlfreind older than you period.

...but...4 months...
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#164 194197844077667059316682358889
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[QUOTE="CaveJohnson1"]

[QUOTE="MushroomWig"] Why would you feel weird over a mere 4 months?MushroomWig

It's more just having a girlfreind older than you period.

...but...4 months...

Well, maybe they are in separate play groups in day care; I can see how that might be awkward. Likewise, that could totally put them in different trimesters.
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#165 CaveJohnson1
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[QUOTE="CaveJohnson1"]

[QUOTE="MushroomWig"] Why would you feel weird over a mere 4 months?MushroomWig

It's more just having a girlfreind older than you period.

...but...4 months...

gez xaos lol.

Yeah I know it's weird. Probably just need to get over myself.

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#166 Kats_RK
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Well i wouldn't date someone my age nor younger than me :| I rather date a guy 1 or 3 years older than me.

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#167 mexicangordo
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I never seen age as an issue. My current partner is 10 years older than me . :P

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#168 MushroomWig
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I never seen age as an issue. My current partner is 10 years older than me . :P

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How old are you?
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#169 DroidPhysX
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[QUOTE="mexicangordo"]

I never seen age as an issue. My current partner is 10 years older than me . :P

MushroomWig
How old are you?

That awkward moment when you reach 40 years old and your partner is 50.
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#170 mexicangordo
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[QUOTE="mexicangordo"]

I never seen age as an issue. My current partner is 10 years older than me . :P

MushroomWig

How old are you?

In my early 20's...

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#171 Iantheone
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Half your age plus 7 is the minimum age you can date.
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#172 194197844077667059316682358889
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[QUOTE="MushroomWig"][QUOTE="mexicangordo"]

I never seen age as an issue. My current partner is 10 years older than me . :P

DroidPhysX
How old are you?

That awkward moment when you reach 40 years old and your partner is 50.

How would that be awkward?
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#173 sandlot76
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I get a kick out of people who are in relationships where the age difference is more than 15+ because it's like...what do you guys have in common? And then it's kinda creepy when you play the "when I was 20 you were 5" game :? But, if you get along and you're enjoying what you have...I'm not going to say anything and I don't tend to care.

For me, personally, I like the guy to be older but I'm finding that I like it closer to my actual age

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#174 the_ChEeSe_mAn2
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I am 21. So the youngest I would date is 18 while oldest would probably be no older than 25. I just think anything higher would increase the risk we wouldn't have much in common.
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#175 Omni-Slash
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Yeah...anything outside of five years is too much of a difference...I'd want someone who understood cuiltural references....someone who could talk abotu similar things going on in their lives....not really sure what somone who has a 10 year plus age gap talks about...
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#176 ZEYAAM898
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I wont hang out with girl older than me. She should be young but not more than one year. I just dont like it.
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#177 Omni-Slash
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I wont hang out with girl older than me. She should be young but not more than one year. I just dont like it.ZEYAAM898
so you will only hang out with girls one year younger than you?....
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#178 Sunsha
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As long as bother parties are at least over 18 I don't really care what the age difference is.
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#179 starwarsjunky
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i still go with "the formula". not that i wouldn't go outside it, but it'd take quite a bit, i think.
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#180 sandlot76
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[QUOTE="ZEYAAM898"]I wont hang out with girl older than me. She should be young but not more than one year. I just dont like it.Omni-Slash
so you will only hang out with girls one year younger than you?....

or the same age, don't forget that part...

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#181 Omni-Slash
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or the same age, don't forget that part...sandlot76
talk about narrowing the field.....>_>
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#182 sandlot76
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[QUOTE="sandlot76"]or the same age, don't forget that part...Omni-Slash
talk about narrowing the field.....>_>

well, to be fair...it works out in your favor if you work by his standards

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#183 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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my wife is 2 months older than me it weirds me out constantly I WISH I'D FOUND SOMEONE MY OWN AGE :(
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#184 Omni-Slash
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]well, to be fair...it works out in your favor if you work by his standardssandlot76
It does?....but I'm only 8...:cry: and yes....yes it does....
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#185 Omni-Slash
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my wife is 2 months older than me it weirds me out constantly I WISH I'D FOUND SOMEONE MY OWN AGE :(Jandurin
she completely robbed the cradle man...
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durn cougars
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#187 MushroomWig
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]my wife is 2 months older than me it weirds me out constantly I WISH I'D FOUND SOMEONE MY OWN AGE :(

Oh no, 60 days! /relationship
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#188 sandlot76
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Oh no, 60 days! /relationshipMushroomWig
:lol: that's what I was thinking >_>

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durn cougarsJandurin
Growwwl.....*insert cat claws here*... run man...run while you can...
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more like 61 days i'd better call her up and tell her to pack up and get out i just can't live with the stares we get when we go out in public
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#191 sandlot76
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more like 61 days i'd better call her up and tell her to pack up and get out i just can't live with the stares we get when we go out in publicJandurin
wait...and how do people know just by looking at you guys that she's 61 days older than you? And yes...do call her and break it up because people in OT told you to :| Ummm....

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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]more like 61 days i'd better call her up and tell her to pack up and get out i just can't live with the stares we get when we go out in publicsandlot76

wait...and how do people know just by looking at you guys that she's 61 days older than you? And yes...do call her and break it up because people in OT told you to :| Ummm....

she's got this wrinkle over her left eye my life is over
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#193 sandlot76
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she's got this wrinkle over her left eye my life is overJandurin
my dear...everyone gets wrinkles eventually

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#194 funni_lov3
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Well 16 is legal like in most places but I think it should be lifted to 18 where you can be with anyone you want, whilst I think it should be okay for a 16 year old to date up to only 21.

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#195 Deihjan
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[QUOTE="sandlot76"]

[QUOTE="Jandurin"]more like 61 days i'd better call her up and tell her to pack up and get out i just can't live with the stares we get when we go out in publicJandurin

wait...and how do people know just by looking at you guys that she's 61 days older than you? And yes...do call her and break it up because people in OT told you to :| Ummm....

she's got this wrinkle over her left eye my life is over

Soon, she'll have wrinkles everywhere, and she'll lose hair in some places.
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#196 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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and she'll lose hair in some places.Deihjan
ooh that sounds good tell me more
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#197 CommanderShiro
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2 years younger, 2 years older is that gap for me.

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[QUOTE="sandlot76"]

[QUOTE="Jandurin"]more like 61 days i'd better call her up and tell her to pack up and get out i just can't live with the stares we get when we go out in publicJandurin

wait...and how do people know just by looking at you guys that she's 61 days older than you? And yes...do call her and break it up because people in OT told you to :| Ummm....

she's got this wrinkle over her left eye my life is over

That, sir, is a quintessential first world problem
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#199 sandlot76
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That, sir, is a quintessential first world problemxaos
how are you expecting people in OT to understand you when you use words that are soooooo big? There are way too many syllables there

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[QUOTE="xaos"]That, sir, is a quintessential first world problemsandlot76

how are you expecting people in OT to understand you when you use words that are soooooo big? There are way too many syllables there

Learning to keep up with me is well worth the effort.