Back to School; My girl cheated on me on christmas break (all the way in)

I feel likecrahp how could she.

When she told me I was stunned,couldnt say a word, I even laughed for a bit due to nervousness...

She was destroyed, a mess, crying and sobbing, she looked like she regretted her one night stand with this dude from the OC (f2342ck him I'll kill him)

Me being an imbecil gave her another chance; said that I was dissapointed, but I knew she did a mistake that doesnt reflect who she really is. I said I could live with that, will not forget it but, forgive is what I;ll do. She went on said that meant a lot to me. Then we started talking a bit more for about 20 minutes.

Suddenly she reveals the second part of the Finishing Combo.... Chuy, I dont wanna be in a relationship anymore. WTF

ok first she stabs me in the chest, then she twists the sword around my guts then lifts it up... devastated I was...damn... I just left.

When I arrived at my house, the fact went in to me. She really did it with this guy. I imagine her being at X's party drinking beer then going upstairs with this douchebag , thinking about me for 1 second, the guy that was always faithful and nice to her at all times, with whom she shared so much, then say Fohk it. The anger just came to me. I didnt shout to her on person when she first told me , the impotence I felt motivated me to write her an email.

Heres my message. A little flawed on the english department, you dont have to remind me.

I still cant believe why I didnt get mad at you. The feeling inside is petrifying, though what stands out is the dissapointment and denial that's hard to express.
Now I realize all the sheit you said about having feelings for me were shallow. What bothers me the most is the idea of imagining you being at that moment with that dude from the OC, think about me for a fraction of a second; the guy you date in college, the guy that you had feelings for, then say, Fuhk IT.
I dont even wanna find out if it was planned or not (as if you were desperate to see him to "see what happens")
Though all you did deserved getting yelled out with a variety of vulgarities I decided to give you one more chance , for your resemblance was miserable and it seemed like you regretted tremendously.
You see,with all due respect now you fit in the common stereotype from the majority of college girls "gringas" being an easyride that most mexicans have.How sad, but its true, they are abundant, and you earned it. I knew deep inside that you were special, different amongst the rest, decent and with principles... now your actions threw all that away, reality sucks, you blew it. Hope you get back on track. But see there's a brightside, you'll get over it, since its pretty clear you dont feel sheitfor me.Why did I give you a chance? I dont know, me being a imbecil still saw hope on you, couldn't help it. As I said Im very dissapointed, let me know when you're redeemed and ready to be yourself.

P.S.
Oh Im sorry I didnt tell you this before, I must be one of those people that does that.

Terrible to hear man. Share the email?

EDIT: Nvm the last part, i'm an idiot :P

And here she replies

I do not take the words that you sent to me as hurtful or true because I know that you sent them to me out of anger and that you were merely venting and possibly trying to make me feel horrible about myself. I can understand you venting, however you have failed at the attempt to ruin my self image. I know that I do not fall into what you call a "gringa" or the stereotypical american college girl whom is an easy fuhk for Mexicans (so did you look that one up just last night or were you failing to remember it after I asked you repeatedly what it meant?) Either way you should know by now that I am different from most other girls. Please believe that I did have feelings for you and you are person that I wish I could have met at a later time in my life when I was ready for a relationship, which I have told you many times, but you never seemed to respect or understand that. Either way, I made a mistake and as you could tell from last night, I was in agony at my actions and I regret hurting you so, but why weren't you as harsh to me last night? By the harshness of your message, it seems that you totally despise me, from what I did. By not showing this last night I realize that you are more upset that I rejected you, not that I made a mistake. I have already been redeemed, I redeemed myself last night when I told what I had done and asked for your forgiveness. For your sake, I would follow that ancient truth of "forgive and forget" because I have been in your situation and holding on to that anger only causes more grief for you.

I am definitely on the right track, I feel that I can only move forward from here and I am excited about my future.

Good luck on your search for another school, I know you will be accepted to one that can satisfy your desires. You have a wonderful mind and much potential to do great things. I hope that you can utilize your gifts to make this world a better place.

In the mean time, this is my goal.

Follow this guide, please, it will make your next relationship better. Trust me, it's worked for me:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=OWPeOCgXH1Y

Oh, and about she cutting me down, the second part of the finishing combo (i call it like that dont ask im not in the mood)

Thats not the first time thats happened. Its actually the 4th

3 times before shes been saying I DONT WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP ANYMORE, IM NOT READY, I JUST GOT OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP (IN MAY), I HAVE OTHER PROJECTS IN LIFE

iN the first 3, 2 days ago we were back together

So when I went to her houyse yesterday that was what I was expecting, she cutting me down once again

Instead I was surprised by her stunning fuhking and cheating, plus the expected breaking up. Beach.

drop her and go out with another

Sacrifice her to Baphomet...

In truth you should of kept her in check, hell I would of slapped her right there, but thats what happens, especially on a break.

Simple solution?

PIHB

And here she replies

I do not take the words that you sent to me as hurtful or true because I know that you sent them to me out of anger and that you were merely venting and possibly trying to make me feel horrible about myself. I can understand you venting, however you have failed at the attempt to ruin my self image. I know that I do not fall into what you call a "gringa" or the stereotypical american college girl whom is an easy fuhk for Mexicans (so did you look that one up just last night or were you failing to remember it after I asked you repeatedly what it meant?) Either way you should know by now that I am different from most other girls. Please believe that I did have feelings for you and you are person that I wish I could have met at a later time in my life when I was ready for a relationship, which I have told you many times, but you never seemed to respect or understand that. Either way, I made a mistake and as you could tell from last night, I was in agony at my actions and I regret hurting you so, but why weren't you as harsh to me last night? By the harshness of your message, it seems that you totally despise me, from what I did. By not showing this last night I realize that you are more upset that I rejected you, not that I made a mistake. I have already been redeemed, I redeemed myself last night when I told what I had done and asked for your forgiveness. For your sake, I would follow that ancient truth of "forgive and forget" because I have been in your situation and holding on to that anger only causes more grief for you.

I am definitely on the right track, I feel that I can only move forward from here and I am excited about my future.

Good luck on your search for another school, I know you will be accepted to one that can satisfy your desires. You have a wonderful mind and much potential to do great things. I hope that you can utilize your gifts to make this world a better place.

In the mean time, this is my goal.

chucholucho

That message is bs she doesnt give a rats ass about you.Dont even believ a word of that.All girls are full of bs,just hump and dump.Ive learned from my heart aches nows your chance to do the same.

And here she replies

I do not take the words that you sent to me as hurtful or true because I know that you sent them to me out of anger and that you were merely venting and possibly trying to make me feel horrible about myself. I can understand you venting, however you have failed at the attempt to ruin my self image. I know that I do not fall into what you call a "gringa" or the stereotypical american college girl whom is an easy fuhk for Mexicans (so did you look that one up just last night or were you failing to remember it after I asked you repeatedly what it meant?) Either way you should know by now that I am different from most other girls. Please believe that I did have feelings for you and you are person that I wish I could have met at a later time in my life when I was ready for a relationship, which I have told you many times, but you never seemed to respect or understand that. Either way, I made a mistake and as you could tell from last night, I was in agony at my actions and I regret hurting you so, but why weren't you as harsh to me last night? By the harshness of your message, it seems that you totally despise me, from what I did. By not showing this last night I realize that you are more upset that I rejected you, not that I made a mistake. I have already been redeemed, I redeemed myself last night when I told what I had done and asked for your forgiveness. For your sake, I would follow that ancient truth of "forgive and forget" because I have been in your situation and holding on to that anger only causes more grief for you.

I am definitely on the right track, I feel that I can only move forward from here and I am excited about my future.

Good luck on your search for another school, I know you will be accepted to one that can satisfy your desires. You have a wonderful mind and much potential to do great things. I hope that you can utilize your gifts to make this world a better place.

In the mean time, this is my goal.

chucholucho

so her goal is to do it with some guy who got her drunk and did the horizontal monster mash with for one time? sounds like a hoe to me

I got cheated on, WORST FEELING IN THE WORLD. For me, it felt like someone broke into my and took something valuable from me.

Don't give her a second chance (I did, and got cheated on again. Once a cheater, always a cheater). Just move on, she sounds like a nut anyways.

[QUOTE="chucholucho"]

And here she replies

I do not take the words that you sent to me as hurtful or true because I know that you sent them to me out of anger and that you were merely venting and possibly trying to make me feel horrible about myself. I can understand you venting, however you have failed at the attempt to ruin my self image. I know that I do not fall into what you call a "gringa" or the stereotypical american college girl whom is an easy fuhk for Mexicans (so did you look that one up just last night or were you failing to remember it after I asked you repeatedly what it meant?) Either way you should know by now that I am different from most other girls. Please believe that I did have feelings for you and you are person that I wish I could have met at a later time in my life when I was ready for a relationship, which I have told you many times, but you never seemed to respect or understand that. Either way, I made a mistake and as you could tell from last night, I was in agony at my actions and I regret hurting you so, but why weren't you as harsh to me last night? By the harshness of your message, it seems that you totally despise me, from what I did. By not showing this last night I realize that you are more upset that I rejected you, not that I made a mistake. I have already been redeemed, I redeemed myself last night when I told what I had done and asked for your forgiveness. For your sake, I would follow that ancient truth of "forgive and forget" because I have been in your situation and holding on to that anger only causes more grief for you.

I am definitely on the right track, I feel that I can only move forward from here and I am excited about my future.

Good luck on your search for another school, I know you will be accepted to one that can satisfy your desires. You have a wonderful mind and much potential to do great things. I hope that you can utilize your gifts to make this world a better place.

In the mean time, this is my goal.

SOTE

so her goal is to do it with some guy who got her drunk and did the horizontal monster mash with for one time? sounds like a hoe to me

indeed.Dude shes not worth it.You should go learn kung-fu and go wup his rear end.No jk.Never resort to violence.Just suck it up and move on,no sense dwelling on it.

Oh, and about she cutting me down, the second part of the finishing combo (i call it like that dont ask im not in the mood)

Thats not the first time thats happened. Its actually the 4th

3 times before shes been saying I DONT WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP ANYMORE, IM NOT READY, I JUST GOT OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP (IN MAY), I HAVE OTHER PROJECTS IN LIFE

iN the first 3, 2 days ago we were back together

So when I went to her houyse yesterday that was what I was expecting, she cutting me down once again

Instead I was surprised by her stunning fuhking and cheating, plus the expected breaking up. Beach.

chucholucho

I've been cheated on five times, so I know how it feels. Sorry to hear about what she did.

Cheaters suck. Don't know why they do it in the first place, knowing that they'll end up getting ****ed in the long run.

Guess they dont consider that.

Wanna get revenge??? Try and go out with the girl that she HATES with all her heart.

I tried it, and it felt goooood.

Wanna get revenge??? Try and go out with the girl that she HATES with all her heart.

I tried it, and it felt goooood.

Solid-CELL

i did that once too =] great minds think alike lol

Wow, sorry man.

I'd be way depressed after taht, too :(

whoops,chucholuco....when did she say she cheated on you

*nervous*...and serious...PM me if u want...I hope I'm wrong

Yeeesss. You know the solution. You must give in to your anger. kill her. Eliminate her and all of your problems will go away. Strike her down, and your journey to the darkside will be complete. It is...your...Destiny.Tolwan

You win the thread!!!!:lol::lol::lol:

remember this guys. Every girl is a slut bucket.

You must treat them like crap. And i promise they'll always come crawling back for more (depending how your d--- game is..).

She is harsh. Sorry about that :(
You should bother with her, go play God of War to let out some of your anger.
Even if she didn't want the relationship this time she should have said something an dnot jumping and assuming you were angry in your messge. You didn't say you were angry because she said she didn't want the relationship, you said you were angry because she cheated on you. College grils can be so lame. No wonder why most guys go witht he Teacher.
Don't get to angry with her and do somethign you may regret. Play God of War or do Kick boxing to let out your anger. I totally understand why you are pissed off at her.

remember this guys. Every girl is a slut bucket.

You must treat them like crap. And i promise they'll always come crawling back for more (depending how your d--- game is..).

Solid-CELL

I feel likecrahp how could she.

When she told me I was stunned,couldnt say a word, I even laughed for a bit due to nervousness...

She was destroyed, a mess, crying and sobbing, she looked like she regretted her one night stand with this dude from the OC (f2342ck him I'll kill him)

Me being an imbecil gave her another chance; said that I was dissapointed, but I knew she did a mistake that doesnt reflect who she really is. I said I could live with that, will not forget it but, forgive is what I;ll do. She went on said that meant a lot to me. Then we started talking a bit more for about 20 minutes.

Suddenly she reveals the second part of the Finishing Combo.... Chuy, I dont wanna be in a relationship anymore. WTF

ok first she stabs me in the chest, then she twists the sword around my guts then lifts it up... devastated I was...damn... I just left.

When I arrived at my house, the fact went in to me. She really did it with this guy. I imagine her being at X's party drinking beer then going upstairs with this douchebag , thinking about me for 1 second, the guy that was always faithful and nice to her at all times, with whom she shared so much, then say Fohk it. The anger just came to me. I didnt shout to her on person when she first told me , the impotence I felt motivated me to write her an email.

chucholucho

Just kick the ass of whichever dude she cheated on, assuming you have the skills/strength to do so.

It's staged...she cheated on you because she was hoping you would break up with her but since you didnt' she gave you the other punch as well....lzorro

Yeeesss. You know the solution. You must give in to your anger. kill her. Eliminate her and all of your problems will go away. Strike her down, and your journey to the darkside will be complete. It is...your...Destiny.Tolwan

You know you really shouldnt say that, theres a chance that someone is so screwed up they make take up your advice.

[QUOTE="Tolwan"]Yeeesss. You know the solution. You must give in to your anger. kill her. Eliminate her and all of your problems will go away. Strike her down, and your journey to the darkside will be complete. It is...your...Destiny.Montaya

You know you really shouldnt say that, theres a chance that someone is so screwed up they make take up your advice.

Well, the dark side is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be...unnatural.

[QUOTE="lzorro"]It's staged...she cheated on you because she was hoping you would break up with her but since you didnt' she gave you the other punch as well....rkm21

If it were really staged in my opnion she wouldnt have went and sayed " that meant a lot to me." after hearing from the guy saying he would forgive her and then "preceeding to talking a bit more for about 20 minutes."

Wanna get revenge??? Try and go out with the girl that she HATES with all her heart.

I tried it, and it felt goooood.

Solid-CELL

Or better yet, go for her sister or best friend!

[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="Solid-CELL"]

remember this guys. Every girl is a slut bucket.

You must treat them like crap. And i promise they'll always come crawling back for more (depending how your d--- game is..).

dreDREb13