Back to School; My girl cheated on me on christmas break (all the way in)

remember this guys. Every girl is a slut bucket.

You must treat them like crap. And i promise they'll always come crawling back for more (depending how your d--- game is..).

Solid-CELL

im telling your mom, and your sister, and maybe your grandma. lol

and you can say slut without censoring on GS? hmm =/

Again, to make it seem like she put effort into the relationship. You must learn how deceptive women can be.rkm21

Yeah, if she said that she didnt want to be in a relationship like the post author said she said several times, then thats a red flag right there.

[QUOTE="rkm21"][QUOTE="lzorro"]It's staged...she cheated on you because she was hoping you would break up with her but since you didnt' she gave you the other punch as well....Montaya

If it were really staged in my opnion she wouldnt have went and sayed " that meant a lot to me." after hearing from the guy saying he would forgive her and then "preceeding to talking a bit more for about 20 minutes."

[QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="dreDREb13"][QUOTE="ayanami_rei"][QUOTE="Solid-CELL"]

remember this guys. Every girl is a slut bucket.

You must treat them like crap. And i promise they'll always come crawling back for more (depending how your d--- game is..).

dreDREb13

You guys need not flame someone for being of the opposite sex..

It's better than slut bucket...
dreDREb13

I think many of you should also realize that women are not the only one to have the ability to cheat. Men are at fault when it comes to cheating too. You need two people finish the act, not just the one.

You did the right thing by breaking it off.

ok fuhk it, i cant read chemistry im too distracted. Instead I went on and replied her again

here it goes

"I am definitely on the right track, I feel that I can only move forward from here and I am excited about my future."

Good thing youre moving forward in a maquiavelic way, cause you just devastated me. Its a good thing I served as your catapult for your future.

"Please believe that I did have feelings for you and you are person that I wish I could have met at a later time in my life when I was ready for a relationship, which I have told you many times,"

-"------- but you never seemed to respect or understand that-------"--

seriously what the **** are you talking about? respecting that? you wanted a ring? move out with you? maybe **** somebody else? I gave you my whole respect all the time, im sorry that your CIA eyes didnt see that, sometimes the CIA makes mistakes you know? I was always faithful for you, I sticked with you , respected you, let you go and pursue your interests.


As I said, the stereotype was THE MAJORITY OF GRINGAS ARE AN EASY **** with exceptions, being YOU. The fact that I call you gringa in front of my friends doesnt mean your a slut girl, there are all kinds of GRINGAS, or its definition, AMERICAN GIRLS, decent, slotty, naive, caring, intelligent./... the stereotype its purely predujice.

"You see,with all due respect now you fit in the common stereotype from the majority of college girls "gringas" being an easy **** that most mexicans have.How sad, but its true, they are abundant, and you earned it"

Pardon me for this, as I said I wanted to let it out, Im sorry if I didnt let it out in person, MY MISTAKE, I hope you forgive me,everyone does mistakes, I was all fired up

One of my major weaknesses in relationships is the lacking of fights. As you might know we never fought with each other. I always wanted to keep things clear, because I knew that whatever the problems were, they werent more important that what we had. I guess thats something I need to learn, it helps release some tension.

It was a mistake, I know, but Im entitled to be furious and full of doubts. Lets say You do have feelings for me,its possible being that No one in earth breaks up 4 times in 3 months and comes back together, thats guiness. The question is again, why not to be with me? Is there something wrong with me? You feel Im weak, too young? million dollar questions fly in my mind. I STILL DONT UNDERSTAND THAT. Im sorry. I dont.You dont make sense
As crazy as it seems, Im still willing to be with you, if the opportunity arises, if we meet again. Your reasons for not seeing me seem to be related to the professional side exclusively. Other projects in life, your goals, you, you.

Please tell me what your missing to say. Theres gotta be something. Right?

She's a hoe. That being said, you could probably find someone much better than her.

And for the guy she slept with, learn to thai box, then kick the crap out of him. Nothing remedies a bad situation better than a nice high kick to the chin followed by some wicked elbows. And do it at a party, so all the chicks at this party will know your a complete badass, and you might get some good tang out of this whole mess.

Why do I still wanna be with ther?

I dunno man. Maybe in a month or too this nightmare will fade away and all, but right now my feelings for her are still alive. Its hard to explain, but I still have hope on her. I know this is all stupid enamored boy shet, and it will probably fade away, but I cant deny what I feel about her. She really felt devastated, and I feel furious... but I never met someone like her, I feel nothings worth it right now....

dude how can you still want to be with her? lzorro

I agree, if she did that to you, she's a complete hoe bag, period.

Why do I still wanna be with ther?

I dunno man. Maybe in a month or too this nightmare will fade away and all, but right now my feelings for her are still alive. Its hard to explain, but I still have hope on her. I know this is all stupid enamored boy shet, and it will probably fade away, but I cant deny what I feel about her. She really felt devastated, and I feel furious... but I never met someone like her, I feel nothings worth it right now....

chucholucho

I guess Ill just find someone else then

"No ones suggestion is better than everybody's"

thanks guys, Ill go to a strip club or just sleep around with girls in fratparties to ease the pain.

I guess Ill just find someone else then

"No ones suggestion is better than everybody's"

thanks guys, Ill go to a strip club or just sleep around with girls in fratparties to ease the pain.

chucholucho

There is no better way to forget a girl, then to be with another girl, or 17. And you will forget about her after you get some tang.

[QUOTE="chucholucho"]

And here she replies

I do not take the words that you sent to me as hurtful or true because I know that you sent them to me out of anger and that you were merely venting and possibly trying to make me feel horrible about myself. I can understand you venting, however you have failed at the attempt to ruin my self image. I know that I do not fall into what you call a "gringa" or the stereotypical american college girl whom is an easy fuhk for Mexicans (so did you look that one up just last night or were you failing to remember it after I asked you repeatedly what it meant?) Either way you should know by now that I am different from most other girls. Please believe that I did have feelings for you and you are person that I wish I could have met at a later time in my life when I was ready for a relationship, which I have told you many times, but you never seemed to respect or understand that. Either way, I made a mistake and as you could tell from last night, I was in agony at my actions and I regret hurting you so, but why weren't you as harsh to me last night? By the harshness of your message, it seems that you totally despise me, from what I did. By not showing this last night I realize that you are more upset that I rejected you, not that I made a mistake. I have already been redeemed, I redeemed myself last night when I told what I had done and asked for your forgiveness. For your sake, I would follow that ancient truth of "forgive and forget" because I have been in your situation and holding on to that anger only causes more grief for you.

I am definitely on the right track, I feel that I can only move forward from here and I am excited about my future.

Good luck on your search for another school, I know you will be accepted to one that can satisfy your desires. You have a wonderful mind and much potential to do great things. I hope that you can utilize your gifts to make this world a better place.

In the mean time, this is my goal.

xxDustmanxx

That message is bs she doesnt give a rats ass about you.Dont even believ a word of that.All girls are full of bs,just hump and dump.Ive learned from my heart aches nows your chance to do the same.

She also seems to be very self centerd. I this, I that, I blah blah blah.

[QUOTE="xxDustmanxx"][QUOTE="chucholucho"]

And here she replies

I do not take the words that you sent to me as hurtful or true because I know that you sent them to me out of anger and that you were merely venting and possibly trying to make me feel horrible about myself. I can understand you venting, however you have failed at the attempt to ruin my self image. I know that I do not fall into what you call a "gringa" or the stereotypical american college girl whom is an easy fuhk for Mexicans (so did you look that one up just last night or were you failing to remember it after I asked you repeatedly what it meant?) Either way you should know by now that I am different from most other girls. Please believe that I did have feelings for you and you are person that I wish I could have met at a later time in my life when I was ready for a relationship, which I have told you many times, but you never seemed to respect or understand that. Either way, I made a mistake and as you could tell from last night, I was in agony at my actions and I regret hurting you so, but why weren't you as harsh to me last night? By the harshness of your message, it seems that you totally despise me, from what I did. By not showing this last night I realize that you are more upset that I rejected you, not that I made a mistake. I have already been redeemed, I redeemed myself last night when I told what I had done and asked for your forgiveness. For your sake, I would follow that ancient truth of "forgive and forget" because I have been in your situation and holding on to that anger only causes more grief for you.

I am definitely on the right track, I feel that I can only move forward from here and I am excited about my future.

Good luck on your search for another school, I know you will be accepted to one that can satisfy your desires. You have a wonderful mind and much potential to do great things. I hope that you can utilize your gifts to make this world a better place.

In the mean time, this is my goal.

L8erSquare

That message is bs she doesnt give a rats ass about you.Dont even believ a word of that.All girls are full of bs,just hump and dump.Ive learned from my heart aches nows your chance to do the same.

She also seems to be very self centerd. I this, I that, I blah blah blah.

Yeah,shes full of sh3t.All people are full of sh3t.Only ones you can trust are your parents and your closest friends.

This has happened to me before. Actually, she didn't sleep with the guy, but close enough.

Someone else stated earlier that it was probably staged, and that she just did it so you would break up with her. I agree with this. If she just wanted to not be in a relationship with you any more, why bother to tell you about the escapade with the other bloke? It doesn't make a whole lot of sense.

The other thing is, in her first reply to you, she went on the defensive very quickly. From her first reaction of crying and carrying on when she told you she slept with another guy, and how horrible she felt, to saying something along the lines of "You're not going to ruin my view of myself" is quite a rapid change, don't you think?

If she replies to your email, read it, ignore it, delete it, whatever. Just don't reply. Arguing with her over this isn't going to help one bit. Just accept that she cheated on you, and then dumped you, and try and move on.

This has happened to me before. Actually, she didn't sleep with the guy, but close enough.

Someone else stated earlier that it was probably staged, and that she just did it so you would break up with her. I agree with this. If she just wanted to not be in a relationship with you any more, why bother to tell you about the escapade with the other bloke? It doesn't make a whole lot of sense.

The other thing is, in her first reply to you, she went on the defensive very quickly. From her first reaction of crying and carrying on when she told you she slept with another guy, and how horrible she felt, to saying something along the lines of "You're not going to ruin my view of myself" is quite a rapid change, don't you think?

If she replies to your email, read it, ignore it, delete it, whatever. Just don't reply. Arguing with her over this isn't going to help one bit. Just accept that she cheated on you, and then dumped you, and try and move on.

axearmor426

I've been cheated on five times, so I know how it feels. Sorry to hear about what she did.

ayanami_rei

You see, OP... no matter how bad you think you have it, someone has had it worse.

remember this guys. Every girl is a slut bucket.

You must treat them like crap. And i promise they'll always come crawling back for more (depending how your d--- game is..).

Solid-CELL

Wow. Abject bitterness, sweeping generalizations, and advice that will lead to a lifetime of loneliness all balled up into one little package. Gotta love OT.

I know cheating isn't one sided, but beat his head into the ground and make sure everyone knows. No one will wanna sleep with your girl ever again.Platearmor_6

What's the point? If she cheated, she clearly didn't want to be in the relationship with him. I know it sucks... but sometimes you've got to accept that your relationship WILL NOT WORK, and there's nothing you can do but move on and find someone who is more compatible. Faithfullness comes from being fulfilled, and if one person in a relationship is not fulfilled, it will fail in the long run.

It's staged...she cheated on you because she was hoping you would break up with her but since you didnt' she gave you the other punch as well....lzorro

i agree. Or maybe she wanted youto scold her or be firm with her, not just give in like a pansy.

Cheaters suck. Don't know why they do it in the first place, knowing that they'll end up getting ****ed in the long run.

Guess they dont consider that.

Kikouken

Isn't thatthepoint ofcheating? :P

[QUOTE="lzorro"]It's staged...she cheated on you because she was hoping you would break up with her but since you didnt' she gave you the other punch as well....Poedon

i agree. Or maybe she wanted youto scold her or be firm with her, not just give in like a pansy.

If she sets up something like this just to be scolded, then he had a relationship with an extremely unstable woman, and he should be happy to be rid of her.

If she sets up something like this just to be scolded, then he had a relationship with an extremely unstable woman, and he should be happy to be rid of her.

pianist

maybe not to be scolded, but to have him take control and show some puissance. No offense to TC, but you seem a little on the weak side

[QUOTE="pianist"]

If she sets up something like this just to be scolded, then he had a relationship with an extremely unstable woman, and he should be happy to be rid of her.

Poedon

maybe not to be scolded, but to have him take control and show some puissance. No offense to TC, but you seem a little on the weak side

Given the circumstances, I think he showed considerable and commendable restraint, and that he acted like a mature, civil human being should. I don't see how flying into a towering rage, picking a fight, beating her or something would somehow be a better alternative.

The relationship was not going to survive, and no amount of towering rage, fighting, or beating was going to change that.

wtf. she asked for forgiveness and then had the guts to break up. seriously, you're better off without that *****rowzzr

Forgiving the cheating would have to occur whether or not the relationship continues. It's not that strange that she would ask to be forgiven for hurting him, yet not wish to continue the relationship. Most cheaters don't even feel badly about hurting their ex-significant other at all.

And this is why you dont fall in love. The opposite sex is good for just that. Sex. Anything more and you are wasting your time. Alter_Echo

After reading the first page, you're already screwed (pun intended).

If a girl cheats on you, you dump her. End of story.

Doesn't matter if she admits to it or not.

Why?

Well, if she doesn't confess that she cheated on you, but you are positive she did, you should dump her for the mere fact she is a liar. People don't do that crap to others when trying to establish a meaningful relationship with someone they actually care about, especially girls.

If a girl does admit to cheating on you, you should still dump her, because there is always the possibility she'll do it again. And because you forgave her the first time, she'll likely expect you to forgive her again if she cheats again...if she ever tells you again that she cheated on you.

Also, because you forgave her, you put her in a favorable position where she could dump you. Now you feel like crap because you got dumped. Meanwhile, the whore is the one who should feel bad.

And besides, have you ever dumped someone before? Its like quitting a job, it feels great. Sure its shallow, but in this case you had more than a good reason, and nobody will think of you any less (most important other girls) for doing so.

Its a big ******* mindgame.

[QUOTE="Solid-CELL"]

remember this guys. Every girl is a slut bucket.

You must treat them like crap. And i promise they'll always come crawling back for more (depending how your d--- game is..).

ayanami_rei

I'm really surprised you continue to visit this website when the topics/posts are so dominated by male views. Thats gotta get old, no?

[QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]And this is why you dont fall in love. The opposite sex is good for just that. Sex. Anything more and you are wasting your time. AtomicBaconBits

You clearly haven't read this whole thread. There's been worse than that posted here.

and don't forget the formula for revenge is:

2 chan + 2 chan + personal information = nothing good can come from this

To be honest TC, there's only one way to come away from this situation feeling slightly better. You need to find that guy, and kick his ass. I'm not joking.

This act isn't trying to accomplish anything other than making YOU feel better. Accomplishing such a task would make the majority of guys in your position feel better. Of course it won't solve your relationship problem, and by the looks of it nothing will.

You could walk away and forget about it all, but you'll be the one shorthanded. She'll be on her way to a 'bright future' with minimal guilt over her actions, and that guy will be glad he got some ***. But where are you in this? ****** over, that's where.

ouuuuu...... i'm sorry.... i mean.. she must be a REAL "BI" IN THE "TCH"... you know whatu must do... move ondude.. forget her! she dontdeserve you man. i mean.. if she wants to go around licking everybody else while u on the other side are a faithful man(hard to find these days) then damn! go find urself another girl and next time be more careful.. and oh.. the most important thing is not to get as emotionally attached to any woman againlike her (until the time comes when u decide u want things to get serious). cuz if that happens again then u'll be a wreck.

When a girl says

i dont wanna be in a relation ship any more orimnot ready for one its an exscuse to break up.

eather they wanna sleep around or just another guy

but yeah. Sorry dude

Sorry to hear that dude. My condolences. If my girlfriend did something like that I don't think I could handle it as well. I'd probably, no definetely, break something...probably expensive too. Damn video games enhancing my violent nature, apparently, I read....I guess.SnipeyMcSnipe

[QUOTE="SnipeyMcSnipe"]Sorry to hear that dude. My condolences. If my girlfriend did something like that I don't think I could handle it as well. I'd probably, no definetely, break something...probably expensive too. Damn video games enhancing my violent nature, apparently, I read....I guess.D3ADMaggot911

Well he's right here holding a gun to my head telling me to say that, otherwise he'll email my brains to my computer monitor. Wait, no he's not....damnit I did it again.