Back to School; My girl cheated on me on christmas break (all the way in)

ouch

both of you should have just ended it if she didnt want a relationship though...

And here she replies

I do not take the words that you sent to me as hurtful or true because I know that you sent them to me out of anger and that you were merely venting and possibly trying to make me feel horrible about myself. I can understand you venting, however you have failed at the attempt to ruin my self image. I know that I do not fall into what you call a "gringa" or the stereotypical american college girl whom is an easy fuhk for Mexicans (so did you look that one up just last night or were you failing to remember it after I asked you repeatedly what it meant?) Either way you should know by now that I am different from most other girls. Please believe that I did have feelings for you and you are person that I wish I could have met at a later time in my life when I was ready for a relationship, which I have told you many times, but you never seemed to respect or understand that. Either way, I made a mistake and as you could tell from last night, I was in agony at my actions and I regret hurting you so, but why weren't you as harsh to me last night? By the harshness of your message, it seems that you totally despise me, from what I did. By not showing this last night I realize that you are more upset that I rejected you, not that I made a mistake. I have already been redeemed, I redeemed myself last night when I told what I had done and asked for your forgiveness. For your sake, I would follow that ancient truth of "forgive and forget" because I have been in your situation and holding on to that anger only causes more grief for you.

I am definitely on the right track, I feel that I can only move forward from here and I am excited about my future.

Good luck on your search for another school, I know you will be accepted to one that can satisfy your desires. You have a wonderful mind and much potential to do great things. I hope that you can utilize your gifts to make this world a better place.

In the mean time, this is my goal.

chucholucho

Hmm, I think you were the one that got owned with that letter.

I bet you I can hit it!!!

It looked like she wanted the relationship to end, just forget about it there are other fish in the sea.

I feel like crying. Your self-expression is like... wow! I could see the whole story rolling open before my eyes... Every word you said reflected exactly what you must feel inside. Instead of saying "ouch" like me, you were like: "Oh, the pain... growing deeper inside me with every seemingly endless minute of my pitiful life. Oh the agony..."

I'll just hate you now.

Oh... - you'll definitely going to find someone else in your life. Don't go looking for her right away, that's how you'll end up with another random crazy person who'll cheat you. Take your time. ;)

I feel likecrahp how could she.

When she told me I was stunned,couldnt say a word, I even laughed for a bit due to nervousness...

She was destroyed, a mess, crying and sobbing, she looked like she regretted her one night stand with this dude from the OC (f2342ck him I'll kill him)

Me being an imbecil gave her another chance; said that I was dissapointed, but I knew she did a mistake that doesnt reflect who she really is. I said I could live with that, will not forget it but, forgive is what I;ll do. She went on said that meant a lot to me. Then we started talking a bit more for about 20 minutes.

Suddenly she reveals the second part of the Finishing Combo.... Chuy, I dont wanna be in a relationship anymore. WTF

ok first she stabs me in the chest, then she twists the sword around my guts then lifts it up... devastated I was...damn... I just left.

When I arrived at my house, the fact went in to me. She really did it with this guy. I imagine her being at X's party drinking beer then going upstairs with this douchebag , thinking about me for 1 second, the guy that was always faithful and nice to her at all times, with whom she shared so much, then say Fohk it. The anger just came to me. I didnt shout to her on person when she first told me , the impotence I felt motivated me to write her an email.

chucholucho

I would tell her that I need sometime alone first if I were you...you shouldn't have forgiven her so easily.

Yeeesss. You know the solution. You must give in to your anger. kill her. Eliminate her and all of your problems will go away. Strike her down, and your journey to the darkside will be complete. It is...your...Destiny.Tolwan

hahah who are you the son of sam?

I feel likecrahp how could she.

When she told me I was stunned,couldnt say a word, I even laughed for a bit due to nervousness...

She was destroyed, a mess, crying and sobbing, she looked like she regretted her one night stand with this dude from the OC (f2342ck him I'll kill him)

Me being an imbecil gave her another chance; said that I was dissapointed, but I knew she did a mistake that doesnt reflect who she really is. I said I could live with that, will not forget it but, forgive is what I;ll do. She went on said that meant a lot to me. Then we started talking a bit more for about 20 minutes.

Suddenly she reveals the second part of the Finishing Combo.... Chuy, I dont wanna be in a relationship anymore. WTF

ok first she stabs me in the chest, then she twists the sword around my guts then lifts it up... devastated I was...damn... I just left.

When I arrived at my house, the fact went in to me. She really did it with this guy. I imagine her being at X's party drinking beer then going upstairs with this douchebag , thinking about me for 1 second, the guy that was always faithful and nice to her at all times, with whom she shared so much, then say Fohk it. The anger just came to me. I didnt shout to her on person when she first told me , the impotence I felt motivated me to write her an email.

chucholucho

she obviously is a whore who didn't even love you, thus not even deserving of your time. She wasn;t good enough for you anyways. Thing to do is just remember that you DON"T EVER want to be with her again and that there are PLENTY of girls out there who aren't such whores that can make you happier. What i would have done is once she told you just say "Cya **** You can't have a functioning relationship without trust and she obviously broke that bond.

Heres my message. A little flawed on the english department, you dont have to remind me.

I still cant believe why I didnt get mad at you. The feeling inside is petrifying, though what stands out is the dissapointment and denial that's hard to express.
Now I realize all the sheit you said about having feelings for me were shallow. What bothers me the most is the idea of imagining you being at that moment with that dude from the OC, think about me for a fraction of a second; the guy you date in college, the guy that you had feelings for, then say, Fuhk IT.
I dont even wanna find out if it was planned or not (as if you were desperate to see him to "see what happens")
Though all you did deserved getting yelled out with a variety of vulgarities I decided to give you one more chance , for your resemblance was miserable and it seemed like you regretted tremendously.
You see,with all due respect now you fit in the common stereotype from the majority of college girls "gringas" being an easyride that most mexicans have.How sad, but its true, they are abundant, and you earned it. I knew deep inside that you were special, different amongst the rest, decent and with principles... now your actions threw all that away, reality sucks, you blew it. Hope you get back on track. But see there's a brightside, you'll get over it, since its pretty clear you dont feel sheitfor me.Why did I give you a chance? I dont know, me being a imbecil still saw hope on you, couldn't help it. As I said Im very dissapointed, let me know when you're redeemed and ready to be yourself.

P.S.
Oh Im sorry I didnt tell you this before, I must be one of those people that does that.

chucholucho

Tell her to have fun while that guy is banging her infested **** Maybe she can take solace in the potentional her newfound lifestlye offers, mainly that of her getting pregnant/stds ect, which are ALL too good for her. Pretty much the only redeeming value you now have is that you are no longer with me. Girls like you are dime a dozen and it won't let your

I feel likecrahp how could she.

When she told me I was stunned,couldnt say a word, I even laughed for a bit due to nervousness...

She was destroyed, a mess, crying and sobbing, she looked like she regretted her one night stand with this dude from the OC (f2342ck him I'll kill him)

Me being an imbecil gave her another chance; said that I was dissapointed, but I knew she did a mistake that doesnt reflect who she really is. I said I could live with that, will not forget it but, forgive is what I;ll do. She went on said that meant a lot to me. Then we started talking a bit more for about 20 minutes.

Suddenly she reveals the second part of the Finishing Combo.... Chuy, I dont wanna be in a relationship anymore. WTF

ok first she stabs me in the chest, then she twists the sword around my guts then lifts it up... devastated I was...damn... I just left.

When I arrived at my house, the fact went in to me. She really did it with this guy. I imagine her being at X's party drinking beer then going upstairs with this douchebag , thinking about me for 1 second, the guy that was always faithful and nice to her at all times, with whom she shared so much, then say Fohk it. The anger just came to me. I didnt shout to her on person when she first told me , the impotence I felt motivated me to write her an email.

chucholucho

despite what she may say/think you are more deserving of a girl that has a LITTLE stronger will. You'd think she at least have the deceny to dump you before she cheated on you. I also like how she says she doesn't want a relationship, but goes on to say she still wants to **** How is that NOT an easy lay??? Dumb ****

I believe this clip has the answer to all your problems. It's clear that being a sensitive, loyal guy who treated his girl with respect didn't work. Forget this chick. There are plenty others out there, and THIS is what you need to do to get them...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCbhJUuhs2w&NR=1

I throw out the option of f'ing as many of her friends as humanly possible.

I throw out the option of f'ing as many of her friends as humanly possible.

plague32390

Perhaps not her friends as itwill only prolong your own personal agony by making your life about destroying her.

But you do have to get under them to get over them... Seriously, make it all about enjoying yourself and don't waste time on her - it is gonna make you stronger for the next lass that comes along...

[QUOTE="Tolwan"]Yeeesss. You know the solution. You must give in to your anger. kill her. Eliminate her and all of your problems will go away. Strike her down, and your journey to the darkside will be complete. It is...your...Destiny.moptopskate

hahah who are you the son of sam?

or maybe a star wars fan? ya know, return of the jedi reference? but ya, move on man. It's tough, but after what she did to you she doesn't deserve your respect like you give her. She obviously doesn't understand how to respect people who are serious about life and is way below your maturity level in the first place. **** that ****!

Uhhh, forget about that hoe?Faust_DWfan

Man speaks the truth.

Uhhh, forget about that hoe?Faust_DWfan

Good call.

Also, a real quick thought, maybe she really did have a one night stand, maybe she didn't, and I say maybe she didn't because it sounds like she just wanted to get rid of you. She told you she cheated, to make you leave her, since you didn't she had to leave you... So maybe she really did cheat, maybe she was lying to you... I'd check into that if I were you. Then, you need to... "Uhhh, forget about that hoe?".

Man, I understand. it happened to me also.

Life is unfair at times.

The one that loves truthfully are the ones who gets hurt badly.

Solid-CELL

:o that was... errm harsh.