Being Hit On By The Same Sex? Does It Bother You?

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#251 PublicNuisance
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I actually wasn't talking about you. I was talking about the people saying they'd murder/beat to death someone of the same sex who hit on them.

Nice reactionary jump, though.

Also how do you know I didn't include myself in that five? :P

Pixel-Pirate

Yeah that is pretty bad. I only said I would hit them if they actually tried anything physical. That is borderline but then again if I made unwanted physical advances towards a womana dn she hit me no one would bat an eye.

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#252 X360PS3AMD05
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That would be great :cry:
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#253 Robbler
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I used to tease a gay dude who worked for me that didn't look like a flamer at all. He had a crush on me. We would refer to colleagues as assrammers. But one day he made a move on me, and the next day he was fired. Simple as that.
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#254 Shiggums
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It would bother me, but I've been fortunate enough (or just plain unattractive enough) to not be hit on by other guys :P

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#255 Tauruslink
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I used to tease a gay dude who worked for me that didn't look like a flamer at all. He had a crush on me. We would refer to colleagues as assrammers. But one day he made a move on me, and the next day he was fired. Simple as that.Robbler
Maybe you gave him the wrong signals.
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#256 Murj
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Haha I don't mind it. As long as they don't go over the top.

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#257 Kiuk
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Happens to me constantly , and i don't really mind i actually find it kind of fun, so its ok as long as they don't dare to touch me
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#258 Link256
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Its only happened once, and I said 'Yes'. :PBourbons3
If I am not mistaken, you are a homosexual, right?

If so, how have you felt about someone of the opposite sex hitting on you?

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#259 X360PS3AMD05
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I remember that day when i worked up the courage to hit on bourbon3
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#260 Litchie
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Not at all. It's nice to be admired, even if it is by the same sex.
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#261 LJS9502_basic  Online
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But one day he made a move on me, and the next day he was fired. Simple as that.Robbler
You got someone fired for that? Dude.....that's not cool. You talk to someone first and tell them it made you uncomfortable. :|
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#262 EMOEVOLUTION
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It doesn't bother me. I've only been hit on by a girl once.. so the only way I could get the ego boost by being hit on is most likely by the same sex.. of course I'd turn them down.. shattering their heart into a billion pieces.
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#263 caityful
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Doesn't bother me in the least :P

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#264 AirGuitarist87
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I've had it happen a few times. It doesn't bother me, I actually find it rather flattering. Usually I just half-jokingly mention I'm straight and leave it at that. It's a cool way to make gay friends, though.
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#265 deactivated-61d91d42c39df
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I don't get anyone hitting on me.

sucks.

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#267 deactivated-61d91d42c39df
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How you doin?

Feel better? lol :P

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oh hai

a tiny bit.

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#268 th3warr1or
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Yes. A lot.
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#269 Aquat1cF1sh
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Well, I'm gay soooo.... no. :P
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#270 cjek
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I actively encourage being hit on by the same sex. It has yet to happen though.
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#271 Keir21
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Doesn't bother me, i find it hilarious.
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#272 deactivated-5cacc9e03b460
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Do knuckles coming at you at a high rate of speed bother you?

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#273 Too_tight_shoes
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It only happened once for me I didn't really know how to take it and still don't, simply put very awkward moment.
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#274 jwsoul
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Ive had a guy hit on me due to a female freind saying i was gay ("Which i am not").

I felt a bit sorry for him because he had been building up the courage to approach me for 2 weeks and when he did i kinda blanked him. I didnt explain myself to him tho i was not by any means a bigot about the matter. I have no problems with same sex relationships etc. I found it kind of charming a compliment if you like. Trying to think of anyother times this has happened but i think i have only had that one encounter silly woman who caused it deserves to get a slap to be honest playing with a guys emotions like that.

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#275 Giinge
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I've never actually been hit on before, I've had women look at me in that obvious way. I was once walking past this one woman and as she passed she looked me up and down and went "Mmmm" Now that made me feel quite uncomfortable. But if a woman hit on me in like a bar or something I wouldn't be interested but I'd be flattered.

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#276 markop2003
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Dosn't bother me inthe slightest. It dosn't seem logical that it would bother anyone, it's equivelent to being offended about being asked to go to a movie you don't want to see, just say no and move on.
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#277 markop2003
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Do knuckles coming at you at a high rate of speed bother you?

racer8dan
Good old proportional response....
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#278 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

Not at all.

Any compliment is a good compliment as far as I am concerned.
Girls that I have been with tell me that more guys check me out than girls (I tend to be oblivious to anyone checking me out)

So the only thing that bothers me is the fact that I am better at attracting boys than girls

clayron

I came in here to type this.

You really are my (better looking) brother from another GS mother

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#279 194197844077667059316682358889
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Not at all.

Any compliment is a good compliment as far as I am concerned.
Girls that I have been with tell me that more guys check me out than girls (I tend to be oblivious to anyone checking me out)

So the only thing that bothers me is the fact that I am better at attracting boys than girls

rawsavon
I've gotta say, you do take it like a champ
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#280 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

Not at all.

Any compliment is a good compliment as far as I am concerned.
Girls that I have been with tell me that more guys check me out than girls (I tend to be oblivious to anyone checking me out)

So the only thing that bothers me is the fact that I am better at attracting boys than girls

xaos

I've gotta say, you do take it like a champ

That's what he said :(

[spoiler] in all honesty, I wish I could be a little better at attracting the ladies...but oh well i guess [/spoiler]

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#281 marcl18123
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Only if they are uglyxaos
This, because who doesnt like to get hit on by someone attractive?
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#282 howlrunner13
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It hasn't happened to me, but I think it would be very awkward. Kind of like being hit on by a ugly girl. (no offense but attraction DOES play a role in relationships)

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#283 sarahxox
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Doesn't bother me at all :) I'm flattered if anyone tries to hit on me!

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#284 Xx_Hopeless_xX
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I would find it rather awkward...

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#285 OreoMilkshake
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Never had it happened, but I wouldn't like it if it did.
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#286 jalexbrown
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I would tell 'em I'm not gay and go about my life - nothing I would make a fuss about.
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#287 Bourbons3
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[QUOTE="Bourbons3"]Its only happened once, and I said 'Yes'. :PLink256

If I am not mistaken, you are a homosexual, right?

If so, how have you felt about someone of the opposite sex hitting on you?

I wouldn't be offended if it happened. I'd just say I was already seeing someone. No need to make them feel even worse by saying that its another guy.
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#288 rawsavon
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No need to make them feel even worse Bourbons3
That's my general philosophy on things. It takes a lot of guts/courage to walk up to someone and talk/flirt/etc...I admire that
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#289 Dystopian-X
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[QUOTE="Bourbons3"]No need to make them feel even worse rawsavon
That's my general philosophy on things. It takes a lot of guts/courage to walk up to someone and talk/flirt/etc...I admire that

No, no it doesn't :)

Also it depends on the person. there's an extra pleasure that comes from turning down a flirt!! ^_^

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#290 ArmoredAshes
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I don't care...as long as they respect the fact I'm not interested in guys hahah

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#291 gago-gago
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Never happened to me so if it did it probably wouldn't. But it also depends on how they approached me, if they invade my space in a disrespectful way then that would bother me, it wouldn't matter what sex you are.
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#293 matthayter700
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Also it depends on the person. there's an extra pleasure that comes from turning down a flirt!! ^_^

Dystopian-X
... what do you mean?
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#294 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Bourbons3"]No need to make them feel even worse Dystopian-X

That's my general philosophy on things. It takes a lot of guts/courage to walk up to someone and talk/flirt/etc...I admire that

No, no it doesn't :)

Also it depends on the person. there's an extra pleasure that comes from turning down a flirt!! ^_^

You are mean :evil: *writes down 'never flirt with Dystopian-X'*
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#295 Dystopian-X
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... what do you mean?matthayter700

See:
You are mean :evil: *writes down 'never flirt with Dystopian-X'*rawsavon
lol :P

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#296 matthayter700
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[QUOTE="Dystopian-X"]

[QUOTE="matthayter700"]

... what do you mean?

See:
You are mean :evil: *writes down 'never flirt with Dystopian-X'*rawsavon
lol :P

... still doesn't clarify much. o.o
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#299 chrisrooR
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Nope. I'm comfortable with my own sexuality so I just take it as a compliment.
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[QUOTE="markop2003"]Dosn't bother me inthe slightest. It dosn't seem logical that it would bother anyone, it's equivelent to being offended about being asked to go to a movie you don't want to see, just say no and move on.

Some people are offended by members of the opposite sex hitting on them if they don't find them attractive. Everyone is different.