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#1 tepni
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What if you were to recieve this letter? Does it shout creeper status? I'm writing a letter to my boyfriend and wanted your feedback.

Dear (insert your name here),

I'm about to write a very meaningful letter to you, so set your phone aside and enter a quiet room...


Let me list some things I love about you. First off, I love how you randomly hug me throughout the day. You always hug me as if you haven't seen me in a long time, when really it's only been a few days at the most. I love how you have a little spring in your step whenever you walk. Once in Washington, when I was away from you for a week, I made my brother mimic your walk just because I missed seeing it and having you around so much. I also love how sometimes when we kiss, you'll put both your thumbs through the belt loops of my pants to pull me closer. I love how we can talk for hours about space and our futures.


My favorite nights of summer are the ones spent with you, doing things like eating Arby's, going to Blockbuster, and ending the night lying in bed talking or cuddling.


I love how I am around you. I love who I am around you. I even notice a difference in my laugh whenever I'm with you.


I love how the smallest things you do can bring me comfort, or make me want to lean over and kiss you. Like, when we're holding hands, and you'll lightly graze your thumb over my hand. I may sound like a creep, but its little things like that, that I notice most.


I'm really putting my whole heart into this letter, just so you know. I was in the shower when I thought up all the things you do that I love, so I hopped out and wrote them down while they were still fresh in my mind.


I can't even imagine you doing all the things you do with me, with another girl. As selfish as this may sound, I never want you to feel the way you do about me for anyone else. I know that I could never feel this way about anyone else but you. Each and every time I see you, I fall more in love with you.
I'm in love with you and all the things you do.


That one night when we were laying beneath the stars with Jimmy and Pj, we ended up talking about who we'd end up marrying and I said, "I really wonder who I'll be married to later on." I secretly wanted you to get a little sad about me saying that, or elbow me and hint towards how you wanted us to stay together in the future. During all that time, I honestly could picture our lives together, staying together.

Sincerely,

Me

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#2 avatar_genius
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That's not creepy at all, it's very beautiful.

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#3 MgamerBD
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You made your brother mimic his walk? :?
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#4 nocoolnamejim
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Posting the private letter written with all your heart on an online forum to solicit feedback before sending it strikes me as a bit creepy to be honest. Evaluate the status of your relationship with your boyfriend. Whether the letter itself comes across as creepy or not depends entirely on just how close you two are and how far your relationship has progressed. It has nothing to do with the opinions of a bunch of strangers online. Even the serious replies you get will be wildly conflicting.
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#5 MrPraline
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Not creepy, it's very sweet. I'd be happy if I received such a letter.
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#6 tepni
Member since 2008 • 3214 Posts

That's not creepy at all, it's very beautiful.

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Thank you (:
You made your brother mimic his walk? :?MgamerBD
...heh. Not as creepy as it sounds?
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#7 _en1gma_
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It depends on who I receive it from..

I don't like it if any girl tells me she loves me...but that is just me.

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#8 tepni
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Posting the private letter written with all your heart on an online forum to solicit feedback before sending it strikes me as a bit creepy to be honest. Evaluate the status of your relationship with your boyfriend. Whether the letter itself comes across as creepy or not depends entirely on just how close you two are and how far your relationship has progressed. It has nothing to do with the opinions of a bunch of strangers online. Even the serious replies you get will be wildly conflicting.nocoolnamejim

It really didn't seem all that big a deal to me. I just wanted to see what people'd think if they recieved something like this. I always like reading love letters (:

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#9 Kenny789
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I'm surprised you posted that here to be honest. Seems like something you'd keep between you and your BF :P Anyway, there's nothing creepy about it.
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#10 Omni-Slash
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If I was your BF I'd dumb you in a second for posting that...it's obvious he cares about you....and even more obvious you don't care about him...

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#11 shoot-first
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It is a goodie. :P

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#12 Desulated
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That's a very sweet letter. But of course if I received something like that in real life....I'd call a restraining order.

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#13 XanderKage
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Do people still write letters?

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#14 tepni
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I'm surprised you posted that here to be honest. Seems like something you'd keep between you and your BF :P Anyway, there's nothing creepy about it.Kenny789
idk I guess I didn't think about that. I was just curious.
I've I was your BF I'd dumb you in a second for posting that...it's obvious he cares about you....and even more obvious you don't care about him...Omni-Slash
And er what? I care about him.
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#15 nocoolnamejim
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[QUOTE="nocoolnamejim"]Posting the private letter written with all your heart on an online forum to solicit feedback before sending it strikes me as a bit creepy to be honest. Evaluate the status of your relationship with your boyfriend. Whether the letter itself comes across as creepy or not depends entirely on just how close you two are and how far your relationship has progressed. It has nothing to do with the opinions of a bunch of strangers online. Even the serious replies you get will be wildly conflicting.tepni

It really didn't seem all that big a deal to me. I just wanted to see what people'd think if they recieved something like this. I always like reading love letters (:

My point is that how your boyfriend reacts will be based on how close you two are, how long you've been going out, how far your relationship has grown and progressed, etc. The replies you get online on a message board on a gaming website are not guaranteed to be helpful. In fact, I'd go so far as to suggest that anyone who posts guaranteeing the response you get is being the opposite of helpful because they just don't have enough details on the status of your relationship with the intended recipient to know how the letter will be received.
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#16 tepni
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Do people still write letters?

XanderKage

Haha this is like the only letter I've written in my life! It's just that he's away for a couple weeks and he wanted me to send one to him.

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#17 Omni-Slash
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If I was your BF I'd dumb you in a second for posting that...it's obvious he cares about you....and even more obvious you don't care about him...

Omni-Slash
waiiiiiit...*slaps forhead*....this is the letter you are writing him?...I'm sorry...I missread it...that being said..I still wouldn't have posted it...
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#18 tepni
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[QUOTE="tepni"]

[QUOTE="nocoolnamejim"]Posting the private letter written with all your heart on an online forum to solicit feedback before sending it strikes me as a bit creepy to be honest. Evaluate the status of your relationship with your boyfriend. Whether the letter itself comes across as creepy or not depends entirely on just how close you two are and how far your relationship has progressed. It has nothing to do with the opinions of a bunch of strangers online. Even the serious replies you get will be wildly conflicting.nocoolnamejim

It really didn't seem all that big a deal to me. I just wanted to see what people'd think if they recieved something like this. I always like reading love letters (:

My point is that how your boyfriend reacts will be based on how close you two are, how long you've been going out, how far your relationship has grown and progressed, etc. The replies you get online on a message board on a gaming website are not guaranteed to be helpful. In fact, I'd go so far as to suggest that anyone who posts guaranteeing the response you get is being the opposite of helpful because they just don't have enough details on the status of your relationship with the intended recipient to know how the letter will be received.

Ah I see. I understand. I just wanted to see what people'd say. I know that you guys don't know our relationship status. I get that. I just wanted to know if the letter itself came off as creepy? But it doesn't, and I'm sending it. I still like reading people's replies.
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#19 _en1gma_
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[QUOTE="nocoolnamejim"][QUOTE="tepni"]

It really didn't seem all that big a deal to me. I just wanted to see what people'd think if they recieved something like this. I always like reading love letters (:

tepni

My point is that how your boyfriend reacts will be based on how close you two are, how long you've been going out, how far your relationship has grown and progressed, etc. The replies you get online on a message board on a gaming website are not guaranteed to be helpful. In fact, I'd go so far as to suggest that anyone who posts guaranteeing the response you get is being the opposite of helpful because they just don't have enough details on the status of your relationship with the intended recipient to know how the letter will be received.

Ah I see. I understand. I just wanted to see what people'd say. I know that you guys don't know our relationship status. I get that. I just wanted to know if the letter itself came off as creepy? But it doesn't, and I'm sending it. I still like reading people's replies.

It's creepy.

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#20 nocoolnamejim
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[QUOTE="tepni"] Ah I see. I understand. I just wanted to see what people'd say. I know that you guys don't know our relationship status. I get that. I just wanted to know if the letter itself came off as creepy? But it doesn't, and I'm sending it. I still like reading people's replies.

Best of luck then. I hope it goes over well. It's a pretty sweet sounding letter.
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#21 D3nnyCrane
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Writing a letter to your partner is creepy now?
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#22 ramboturd72
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That's a good letter. It sounds like you really put your heart into it (well obviously, you even stated that in the letter :P). But yeah, if I received a letter like that from my "lover" I would be happy. :)

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#23 viva_hate
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That made me melt, so I can barely imagine what it would do to your tender half. Then again I'm in a breakup process and very emotional at the moment, so yeah :(

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#24 markop2003
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It's creepy if you haven't told him in person that you love him first, otherwise it's great. I would advise against starting with "(insert name here)" though as it's somewhat impersonal.
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#25 tepni
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[QUOTE="tepni"] Ah I see. I understand. I just wanted to see what people'd say. I know that you guys don't know our relationship status. I get that. I just wanted to know if the letter itself came off as creepy? But it doesn't, and I'm sending it. I still like reading people's replies. nocoolnamejim
Best of luck then. I hope it goes over well. It's a pretty sweet sounding letter.

Thank you! Very much.

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#26 tepni
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It's creepy if you haven't told him in person that you love him first, otherwise it's great. I would advise against starting with "(insert name here)" though as it's somewhat impersonal.markop2003
No I've told him, many times. And I'm not starting it off like that, haha, I am with his real name.

That made me melt, so I can barely imagine what it would do to your tender half. Then again I'm in a breakup process and very emotional at the moment, so yeah :(

viva_hate
I'm terribly sorry to hear that ): hope all goes smoothly. but thank you.

That's a good letter. It sounds like you really put your heart into it (well obviously, you even stated that in the letter :P). But yeah, if I received a letter like that from my "lover" I would be happy. :)

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Heehe. Thank you!
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#27 avatar_genius
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If he loves you, he shouldn't care what you write in your letter.

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#28 rawsavon
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Overall, it is a very good letter. It is well written and seems very sincere and honest I know that it can be very easy to put personal stuff on sites like this (in a weird way it is often easier to talk to anonymous strangers about stuff like this). I just hope that he does not come on this site. Many guys, myself included, prefer...privacy (for lack of a better word) with stuff like this
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#29 tepni
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]Overall, it is a very good letter. It is well written and seems very sincere and honest I know that it can be very easy to put personal stuff on sites like this (in a weird way it is often easier to talk to anonymous strangers about stuff like this). I just hope that he does not come on this site. Many guys, myself included, prefer...privacy (for lack of a better word) with stuff like this

Thank you. And yes I know. He never goes to sites like these.
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#30 Sajedene
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Its really cute and sweet - but feels like I'm privy to something that should only be between two people.
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#31 deactivated-6224e9178325f
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No doubt that letter is full of emotion. If I would recieve a letter like that from a girlfriend, I would feel like a better guy. Seriously, it's really nice.

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#32 talonkarrde07
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I wish as hard as hell that a girl wrote that to me :?

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The only parts with creep out potential (IMO) are the parts about marriage and not being able to love someone else.

Regarding the part were you say you could never love another guy in the same way (or something like that)... I can see how that might come across as sweet, but it could also seem pressuring, andmaycome across as juvenile, naive or obsessive. But how old are you anyway ? Naive and obsessive are the norm for teen relationships :D

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#34 andyboiii
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sounds good to me, I wouldn't have posted this on an online forum though...
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#35 Travo_basic
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It's a very sweet letter. I hope you don't regret posting it on the internet later.
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#36 Proobie44
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That was the most sweetest most heart-warming thing ever hands down. But uh, posting it here is a pretty bad idea.

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#37 XilePrincess
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My fiance and I write each other letters like that. I think that's cute, but depending on how your relationship is, it could freak him out. if it's not a new/unstable relationship, go for it.
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#38 Rikardur
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Its a beautiful letter. Hell, if only I could receive something like that :(

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#39 tepni
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The only parts with creep out potential (IMO) are the parts about marriage and not being able to love someone else.

Regarding the part were you say you could never love another guy in the same way (or something like that)... I can see how that might come across as sweet, but it could also seem pressuring, andmaycome across as juvenile, naive or obsessive. But how old are you anyway ? Naive and obsessive are the norm for teen relationships :D

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Haha, 16. So I guess naive and obsessive is normal for me :p

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#40 duxup
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Dear tepni, What a nice letter. However, I think I'm a little old for you. Don't worry you'll find someone more your age. -duxup PS. Don't tell me what to do with my phone.
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#41 Serraph105
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its very nice but I think this depends on how long you have been with the guy if it is a relatively short time than I wouldn't send the guy that as the thought of marriage and real commitment like that could scare the crap out of him if you have been with him a while I say send it.

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#42 tepni
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[QUOTE="duxup"]Dear tepni, What a nice letter. However, I think I'm a little old for you. Don't worry you'll find someone more your age. -duxup PS. Don't tell me what to do with my phone.

Hahahaha that just made me like you more, way to go! Love, steph
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#43 tepni
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its very nice but I think this depends on how long you have been with the guy if it is a relatively short time than I wouldn't send the guy that as the thought of marriage and real commitment like that could scare the crap out of him if you have been with him a while I say send it.

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We've loved each other since last summer, and we've been together since June.
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#44 Serraph105
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[QUOTE="tepni"][QUOTE="Serraph105"]

its very nice but I think this depends on how long you have been with the guy if it is a relatively short time than I wouldn't send the guy that as the thought of marriage and real commitment like that could scare the crap out of him if you have been with him a while I say send it.

We've loved each other since last summer, and we've been together since June.

yeah thats plenty of time.
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#45 ariz3260
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That is a very sweet letter, kudos on that :) I wish my wife would write a letter like that to me

I was going to say something, but since you are only 16 I'll be mum on this.

Enjoy your relationship

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#46 chAzN93
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thats not very creepy...IMO
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#47 Lief_Ericson
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Its a nice letter not creepy excpet for the mimic his walk part lol

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#48 tepni
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That is a very sweet letter, kudos on that :) I wish my wife would write a letter like that to me

I was going to say something, but since you are only 16 I'll be mum on this.

Enjoy your relationship

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Thank you :)

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#49 awssk8er716
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I liked it.

Send me a copy, so I can feel special about myself. Lmao.

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#50 avatar_genius
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Your boyfriend's lucky to have a girl like you.