Do people who win at video games fail at life?

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#1 DaBrainz
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Topic I've seen a few documentaries recently that portray people that are really good at video games as losers in real life. I have often felt that I wish I was on top of the leader boards in an FPS or had all the cool gear in a MMO because I'm competitive. However I only play video games like 5 hours a week. However when it comes to real life I'm a winner. The people that are winners in game world probably spend 12 hours a day playing their game and fail at real life. Is it true?
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#2 Charazani
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Everything in moderation. Though not everything. But for games,yeah moderation.
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#3 Smokescreened84
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It is hard to accomplish much in life these days, too much red tape, greed and anal bureaucrats with their lawyers ready to bring you down for daring to be more than society forces you to be.

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#4 xTheExploited
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obviously. gamers are losers.
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#5 tagyhag
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Depends on your definition of "winning" at life.
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#6 DaBrainz
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Depends on your definition of "winning" at life. tagyhag
When it comes to winning at life I think of someone like Tom Brady at the top of the leader boards.
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#7 nocoolnamejim
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Happiness is the highest form of wisdom. Logically speaking, someone could be a pathetic loser from the viewpoint of a lot of outside people, but if they're ultimately extremely happy then they're winners at life.
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#8 AussieePet
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I play games 3 hours a day , plus who cares if you enjoy playing video games more than 7 hours a day then its your business
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#9 double_decker
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We all fail at life, none of us live forever.
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#10 TwoFace-BS
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Can be true in some cases,but not all people
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#11 megagene
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We all fail at life, none of us live forever.double_decker
This fellow whom I have never seen before is correct.
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#12 double_decker
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[QUOTE="megagene"] This fellow whom I have never seen before is correct.

Hello beautiful :oops: I'm going to the store but I'll be lurking around OT later while gaming, no worries :P
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#13 thriteenthmonke
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I don't win at games and I fail at life anyways.
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#14 DaBrainz
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I don't win at games and I fail at life anyways. thriteenthmonke
Ouch, I'm sorry to hear that.
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#15 double_decker
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I don't win at games and I fail at life anyways. thriteenthmonke
You = My Hero!
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#16 iHarlequin
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I win at everything I do. Games, life, sex life, tennis, football, polo, elephant racing.

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#17 branketra
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[QUOTE="DaBrainz"]Topic I've seen a few documentaries recently that portray people that are really good at video games as losers in real life. I have often felt that I wish I was on top of the leader boards in an FPS or had all the cool gear in a MMO because I'm competitive. However I only play video games like 5 hours a week. However when it comes to real life I'm a winner. The people that are winners in game world probably spend 12 hours a day playing their game and fail at real life. Is it true?

No. Just because they devote everything to something they like doesn't mean it's bad. Especially if they're good at it.
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Define real life winner. Does it involve getting drunk on beer once a week while watching football? Or maybe you have to have slicked back and gelled hair while working 70 hours a week. Or do you just have to be professional liar and trick people into giving you their money? I'll be back to check on this thread later after I get back from being a winner at the horse track bathroom in which I shall snort up my winnings in powder form.
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#19 noscope-ak47
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I do pretty good at video games but to be great is you need to devote I feel too much time to it.

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#20 Ajivas
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Nope, I fail at both lol I know quite a few people who excel at games and life.
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Happiness is the highest form of wisdom. Logically speaking, someone could be a pathetic loser from the viewpoint of a lot of outside people, but if they're ultimately extremely happy then they're winners at life.nocoolnamejim

Truer words have never been spoken.

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#22 Ajivas
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I don't win at games and I fail at life anyways. thriteenthmonke
Same, I am about to drop out.
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#23 ZumaJones07
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life is a game
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#24 iHarlequin
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[QUOTE="thriteenthmonke"]I don't win at games and I fail at life anyways. Ajivas
Same, I am about to drop out.

Of life or games?

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#25 Michael0134567
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I play games 3 hours a day , plus who cares if you enjoy playing video games more than 7 hours a day then its your business AussieePet
Yes,it is my business :P.
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#26 Ajivas
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[QUOTE="Ajivas"][QUOTE="thriteenthmonke"]I don't win at games and I fail at life anyways. iHarlequin

Same, I am about to drop out.

Of life or games?

Well academics, maybe life its probably for the best though.
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#27 iHarlequin
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[QUOTE="iHarlequin"]

[QUOTE="Ajivas"] Same, I am about to drop out.Ajivas

Of life or games?

Well academics, maybe life its probably for the best though.

What a shame. What are you studying?

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[QUOTE="nocoolnamejim"]Happiness is the highest form of wisdom. Logically speaking, someone could be a pathetic loser from the viewpoint of a lot of outside people, but if they're ultimately extremely happy then they're winners at life.Spitfirer

Truer words have never been spoken.

Just so I'm clear on your viewpoint, if someone lives in their grandma's basement rolling around in their own poop while sucking on broken glass-but they are ultimatly extremely happy...thats a winner?
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#29 muller39
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I have fallen in life but haven't failed yet.

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#30 ShadowMoses900
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I never saw documentaries that portray that, it depends really. I win at games sometimes but I'm not a loser, I'm not where I want to be at life right now exactly as I am college student, but games are a fun part of my life and I enjoy them immensely.

But like anything some people can take them too far, I know a guy who doesn't do anything, he just lives off of welfare with his GF and smokes pot and plays games all day, he doesn't work or anything, just get's mooches off others and spens what little money he has on games and pot.

Not a good life to live if you ask me, that's not enjoying life or making anything of it, that's basically like dying in my eyes. Games do have some health benefits like improved brain fucntions and faster reaction times, and RTS games improve criticle thinking and planning skills.

But everything in moderation is the lesson.

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#31 Ajivas
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[QUOTE="Ajivas"][QUOTE="iHarlequin"]

Of life or games?

iHarlequin

Well academics, maybe life its probably for the best though.

What a shame. What are you studying?

General Education, I am so hopeless. I study but it just all goes over my head. I study for hours and play around for hours and I do not get much sleep. I am making Cs in most my classes but will be losing my scholarship. I tried contacting the navy but they ignored me so I can not get into ROTC this late I think. I can not complain to much because it is brought on by myself and is noone elses fault.
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#32 Inconsistancy
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No, pro gamers who can sustain their lifestyle just with gaming aren't 'failing at life', more like winning completely. Better than having a 'real' job.
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[QUOTE="nocoolnamejim"]Happiness is the highest form of wisdom. Logically speaking, someone could be a pathetic loser from the viewpoint of a lot of outside people, but if they're ultimately extremely happy then they're winners at life.Spitfirer

Truer words have never been spoken.

+1
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#34 comp_atkins
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people who are REALLLLY good at things generally have to spend ----loads of time doing it. at the expense of other aspects of their lives. this holds true for nearly anything.
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No, pro gamers who can sustain their lifestyle just with gaming aren't 'failing at life', more like winning completely. Better than having a 'real' job.Inconsistancy

That is a real job it takes serious effort and skill to be a pro so much so it takes the fun out of it.

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#36 spazzx625
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people who are REALLLLY good at things generally have to spend ----loads of time doing it. at the expense of other aspects of their lives. this holds true for nearly anything.comp_atkins
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#37 Dogswithguns
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I think so.. just don't play too much.
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#38 superfluidity
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No, pro gamers who can sustain their lifestyle just with gaming aren't 'failing at life', more like winning completely. Better than having a 'real' job.Inconsistancy

True, but how many people in the world realistically fall into that group out of all high level players?

For most games there might be two or three players at the very pinnacle of competition who actually sustain themselves with it. The rest either don't need to have a job for some reason or devote every hour of their time off to the game.

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#39 almasdeathchild
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most of my time is spent gameing i have a job moved into a apt at 18 and have a gf living with me.i too im competative. whats that tell you?

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#40 StRaItJaCkEt36
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hate to break the news to you DaBrainz but everybody fails at life eventually. there is no grand prize at the end.
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#41 Michael0134567
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I game quite a bit.I would game a lot less if I had more friends where I live and my friends lived closer.I don't have much of a social life after school anymore :(.

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Some people have Video Games as their professional job. They HAVE to play that much so they can keep the partnerships with sites like YouTube, Twitch.tv and their Sponsors (sure they make some money if they win the tournaments, but it's not enough to sustain them so having these partnerships/sponsors is crucial)... Some of these pro-gamers even have wives/husbands, with kids, paying for their house and what not.

Of course there are those that play for hours on end and are just lazy bums with no jobs that mooch money off parents/siblings or significant others.

I personally play games quite a lot. Mostly with friends with Skype. Some of them are in school, others work/married.

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#43 Jackc8
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I play video games for about 2 hours a day. Would I be more of a winner if I spent that time watching Dancing with the Stars and Celebrity Apprentice, like most people? Don't really think so.

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#44 megagene
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I don't win at games and I fail at life anyways. thriteenthmonke
Me too! High Five! *misses*
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#45 DJ-Lafleur
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I certainly hope not.

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#46 Xx_Socrates_xX
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Maybe video games ARE their life. :P

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[QUOTE="Spitfirer"]

[QUOTE="nocoolnamejim"]Happiness is the highest form of wisdom. Logically speaking, someone could be a pathetic loser from the viewpoint of a lot of outside people, but if they're ultimately extremely happy then they're winners at life.DaBrainz

Truer words have never been spoken.

Just so I'm clear on your viewpoint, if someone lives in their grandma's basement rolling around in their own poop while sucking on broken glass-but they are ultimatly extremely happy...thats a winner?

If they truly enjoy life as it is and are truly happy then yes, their life is better then any one of us working jobs we absolutely hate just to get by. Of course if your mooching and ruining other peoples lives to selfishly fuel your own happiness that's not a winner in my eyes. but to each his own I guess.
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#48 Grovilis
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Happiness is the highest form of wisdom. Logically speaking, someone could be a pathetic loser from the viewpoint of a lot of outside people, but if they're ultimately extremely happy then they're winners at life.nocoolnamejim
As long as you're not harming anyone in the proccess then yes. I would consider any happy person a winner.

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#49 araksik
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Most of the top rated players I played with on WoW are now well educated and in a relationship, but I also saw elitist players doing nothing but gaming, so it's kind of 50/50 for me. Gaming is a tempting hobby for people who want to slack their way through life, so I guess that's where that point of view comes from.

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#50 foxhound_fox
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I find the idea that "winning at life" is anything other than doing what you love with as little negative impact on yourself or the world quite laughable.