Do Transexuals have the right to go out with straight people not telling them?

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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="toast_burner"] Like i said before, you can't see someones indide so why the hell does it matter? LJS9502_basic
Do natural women have a similar interior structer? Yes. Do men? Yes. Do transgender women/transgender men have an interior structer like natural women/natural men? No. So it does matter.

It matters as far as future relationships since that may be a deal breaker. But why does it matter otherwise?

I'm just saying that they can't be completely what they want to be, is all.
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#502 deactivated-5b19214ec908b
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]

[QUOTE="MasterC5"]

I dunno, it only happened once:P

MasterC5

What'd it taste like:?:P?

lol that's so creepy

it was even creepier before he added the ":P"
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#503 no_more_fayth
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You don't have to come off as douchey while you do that... :/

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You don't have to come off as douchey while you do that... :/

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I think he does.
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="toast_burner"]even if they aren't 100% female by your definition, they are still femaletoast_burner
Partially.

would you say they are more male or female?

More of the gender/sex that they wish they were. Like 70/30.
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[QUOTE="MasterC5"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]

[QUOTE="MasterC5"]

I dunno, it only happened once:P

What'd it taste like:?:P?

lol that's so creepy

I'd still like to know though:oops:.
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[QUOTE="frostybanana"][QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

You don't have to come off as douchey while you do that... :/

I think he does.

How'd I come off as douchey? I didn't call them an abomination or anything.
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#508 deactivated-6016e81e8e30f
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A relationship based off a lie only has one place to go. They have the right, but they shouldn't expect it to work out that well.
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#509 frostybanana
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="frostybanana"][QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

You don't have to come off as douchey while you do that... :/

I think he does.

How'd I come off as douchey? I didn't call them an abomination or anything.

You made your point clear. I don't think asserting it over and over, and so bluntly at that, is in good taste.
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="frostybanana"] I think he does.frostybanana
How'd I come off as douchey? I didn't call them an abomination or anything.

You made your point clear. I don't think asserting it over and over, and so bluntly at that, is in good taste.

They tried to refute my arguement. I rebuttaled. I'm sure Lockedge feelings aren't hurt. And I didn't intend/hope for them to be so.
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Any revelation that one person in a relationship was born the opposite sex which they identify with may be terribly confusing for the other person and be quite traumatic in trying to assimilate the info with their own sexual identity. The issue isn't so much right or wrong, it's more the psychological impact this revelation may have - if it does have deep repercussions, then I would say then it's wrong and unfair, but if it doesn't then hey ho – life just got a little more interesting.

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[QUOTE="frostybanana"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] How'd I come off as douchey? I didn't call them an abomination or anything.-Big_Red-
You made your point clear. I don't think asserting it over and over, and so bluntly at that, is in good taste.

They tried to refute my arguement. I rebuttaled. I'm sure Lockedge feelings aren't hurt. And I didn't intend/hope for them to be so.

How are you sure of that?
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#513 no_more_fayth
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Please quit calling Lockedge they or him/her.

She is a woman.

Show some respect.

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[QUOTE="Treflis"]I think it's best they tell someone before things get intimate, it might not be easy or even fun to do but it'll be less fun if the other person finds out after a long time together and then potentially leaves.caribo2222

But technically they're a woman or a man now, so they should have the same rights as everyone else. So whats the need for them to tell a potential partner they're transgendered, when in theory they are that sex now.Our society has accepted gays and it's only a matter of time when transgendered people are recognised for the sex they are.

Technically they aren't a new gender. They can get close to it, but they can never actually be it. So close you can't even tell the difference. Physically they can never actually be the other gender, it's just impossible. But they can get close enough to where they feel comfortable and feel "normal". It's like a limit that approaches an undefined number.
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="frostybanana"] You made your point clear. I don't think asserting it over and over, and so bluntly at that, is in good taste.LJS9502_basic
They tried to refute my arguement. I rebuttaled. I'm sure Lockedge feelings aren't hurt. And I didn't intend/hope for them to be so.

How are you sure of that?

Lockedge if I hurt your feelings I apologize. I didn't mean for this to happen.
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[QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

Please quit calling Lockedge they or him/her.

She is a woman.

Show some respect.

The reason I said "him/her" is because some people may think of Lockedge as a man or a woman. Also to strengthen my arguement. But for now on I will refer to any transgendered individual as the gender that they are trying to be.
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

Please quit calling Lockedge they or him/her.

She is a woman.

Show some respect.

The reason I said "him/her" is because some people may think of Lockedge as a man or a woman. Also to strengthen my arguement. But for now on I will refer to any transgendered individual as the gender that they are trying to be.

Actually I've only ever seen her for Lockedge....
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#518 Lockedge
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[QUOTE="Lockedge"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] By any logical definition you are not completely female. Not trying to flame you/make you feel bad. But you're not. And those two examples that you named: They are still men/women. Their just men/women with that disorder/ailment.-Big_Red-
I would disagree with your idea of logical definitions, and so would most medical boards and psychological organizations, and governments that allow sex change procedures to alter documentation such as birth certificates, etc. You place primary concern on parts of the body that only serve non-vital functions. Without a brain, a human is...well, they're basically physical shells. They cannot think, feel, sense, etc. Without reproductive organs, a person can function in society and in their lives to an incredible degree. I would say that weighing other organs over the Brain would be of little logic. That's me, though.

There are certain differences between a male, and female skeleton. Your skeleton is male. Your insides are male. You are not 100% female. You are partly, just not 100%.

The male and female skeleton are generally developed through testosterone and estrogen. I had no control over the fact that testosterone made my bones bulky. When I was younger, there was very little reception to me saying I was a girl, not a boy. Even in Canada, there's pretty much no way transsexuals can legally transition before they're of legal age. This was not something I wanted to happen. The skeleton is malleable by hormones, it's a bad example on your behalf. A friend of mine has a facial structure that would be very fitting for a woman, but he's absolutely male. Stuff like that is rather individual. My insides aren't all male. The human body isn't so different between male and female. There's a fair bit of time when the fetus has no sex differentiation, or undifferentiated gonads. Big-Red, I get where you are coming from. You can say I'm not a woman until pigs fly and I won't care one bit. 5 years ago, I might have been upset over that, but it makes no difference to me now. You have the right to say that to me. You have the right to make your own definitions and follow them s strictly as you want to. My issue is that if you were to tell a young teen transsexual going through the worst period of their life that they'll never be 100% a woman, no matter what they do, that transsexual could take that really poorly. That might not be your intent, but those kind of reactions can happen. There's a reason many transsexuals do not make it out of their teens. If around 30% that are transitioning during their teens are committing suicide and more are attempting, one has to wonder about the ones who are too scared to transition due to public response that's been made quite evident. I recall when I was in grade 9 going through puberty, I came to Gamespot to escape the real world because when I was here, I could forget for a little while what was happening to my body. If there are others here that stumble into this thread, that's a choice of their own doing, but the more you keep bringing this up, the more I'm going to keep posting in opposition, because I don't want one coming in here and not seeing such views uncontested.
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Yeah, they have the right to deceive you. But you have the right to yell "EEEWWWW, get the **** away from me shape shifter!!!" when you find out.

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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="Lockedge"] I would disagree with your idea of logical definitions, and so would most medical boards and psychological organizations, and governments that allow sex change procedures to alter documentation such as birth certificates, etc. You place primary concern on parts of the body that only serve non-vital functions. Without a brain, a human is...well, they're basically physical shells. They cannot think, feel, sense, etc. Without reproductive organs, a person can function in society and in their lives to an incredible degree. I would say that weighing other organs over the Brain would be of little logic. That's me, though.Lockedge
There are certain differences between a male, and female skeleton. Your skeleton is male. Your insides are male. You are not 100% female. You are partly, just not 100%.

The male and female skeleton are generally developed through testosterone and estrogen. I had no control over the fact that testosterone made my bones bulky. When I was younger, there was very little reception to me saying I was a girl, not a boy. Even in Canada, there's pretty much no way transsexuals can legally transition before they're of legal age. This was not something I wanted to happen. The skeleton is malleable by hormones, it's a bad example on your behalf. A friend of mine has a facial structure that would be very fitting for a woman, but he's absolutely male. Stuff like that is rather individual. My insides aren't all male. The human body isn't so different between male and female. There's a fair bit of time when the fetus has no sex differentiation, or undifferentiated gonads. Big-Red, I get where you are coming from. You can say I'm not a woman until pigs fly and I won't care one bit. 5 years ago, I might have been upset over that, but it makes no difference to me now. You have the right to say that to me. You have the right to make your own definitions and follow them s strictly as you want to. My issue is that if you were to tell a young teen transsexual going through the worst period of their life that they'll never be 100% a woman, no matter what they do, that transsexual could take that really poorly. That might not be your intent, but those kind of reactions can happen. There's a reason many transsexuals do not make it out of their teens. If around 30% that are transitioning during their teens are committing suicide and more are attempting, one has to wonder about the ones who are too scared to transition due to public response that's been made quite evident. I recall when I was in grade 9 going through puberty, I came to Gamespot to escape the real world because when I was here, I could forget for a little while what was happening to my body. If there are others here that stumble into this thread, that's a choice of their own doing, but the more you keep bringing this up, the more I'm going to keep posting in opposition, because I don't want one coming in here and not seeing such views uncontested.

It's not like you're not a woman. You are, just not completely. Like 70/30. There's nothing wrong with that. But a transgendered individual going around thinking that they are 100% completely the gender that they wish they were... I just dillusional in the least. And my skeletal arguement was mostly based around the pelvic bone. Look.

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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

Please quit calling Lockedge they or him/her.

She is a woman.

Show some respect.

The reason I said "him/her" is because some people may think of Lockedge as a man or a woman. Also to strengthen my arguement. But for now on I will refer to any transgendered individual as the gender that they are trying to be.

Actually I've only ever seen her for Lockedge....

Likewise. But few gamespotters knew that she was transgender.
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] The reason I said "him/her" is because some people may think of Lockedge as a man or a woman. Also to strengthen my arguement. But for now on I will refer to any transgendered individual as the gender that they are trying to be.-Big_Red-
Actually I've only ever seen her for Lockedge....

Likewise. But few gamespotters knew that she was transgender.

And as that is her gender.....she's a she. Leave it at that....
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] Actually I've only ever seen her for Lockedge....LJS9502_basic
Likewise. But few gamespotters knew that she was transgender.

And as that is her gender.....she's a she. Leave it at that....

Now you're just being politically correct.
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[QUOTE="Lockedge"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] There are certain differences between a male, and female skeleton. Your skeleton is male. Your insides are male. You are not 100% female. You are partly, just not 100%.-Big_Red-

The male and female skeleton are generally developed through testosterone and estrogen. I had no control over the fact that testosterone made my bones bulky. When I was younger, there was very little reception to me saying I was a girl, not a boy. Even in Canada, there's pretty much no way transsexuals can legally transition before they're of legal age. This was not something I wanted to happen. The skeleton is malleable by hormones, it's a bad example on your behalf. A friend of mine has a facial structure that would be very fitting for a woman, but he's absolutely male. Stuff like that is rather individual. My insides aren't all male. The human body isn't so different between male and female. There's a fair bit of time when the fetus has no sex differentiation, or undifferentiated gonads. Big-Red, I get where you are coming from. You can say I'm not a woman until pigs fly and I won't care one bit. 5 years ago, I might have been upset over that, but it makes no difference to me now. You have the right to say that to me. You have the right to make your own definitions and follow them s strictly as you want to. My issue is that if you were to tell a young teen transsexual going through the worst period of their life that they'll never be 100% a woman, no matter what they do, that transsexual could take that really poorly. That might not be your intent, but those kind of reactions can happen. There's a reason many transsexuals do not make it out of their teens. If around 30% that are transitioning during their teens are committing suicide and more are attempting, one has to wonder about the ones who are too scared to transition due to public response that's been made quite evident. I recall when I was in grade 9 going through puberty, I came to Gamespot to escape the real world because when I was here, I could forget for a little while what was happening to my body. If there are others here that stumble into this thread, that's a choice of their own doing, but the more you keep bringing this up, the more I'm going to keep posting in opposition, because I don't want one coming in here and not seeing such views uncontested.

It's not like you're not a woman. You are, just not completely. Like 70/30. There's nothing wrong with that. But a transgendered individual going around thinking that they are 100% completely the gender that they wish they were... I just dillusional in the least. And my skeletal arguement was mostly based around the pelvic bone. Look.

yes

Oh, I'm not about to say there aren't differences, but in the grad scheme of things, I consider them minimal. Most men have narrower pelvises, most women have larger ones. There are most definitely exceptions to this rule though. My cousin required a C-section because her coccyx was angled to a degree where it would have made childbirth pretty darn dangerous. Just one of those things, luckily we have medical staff that can recognize this and provide alternative solutions.

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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] Likewise. But few gamespotters knew that she was transgender.-Big_Red-
And as that is her gender.....she's a she. Leave it at that....

Now you're just being politically correct.

No. I'm being accepting of others for who they are.:)

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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] The reason I said "him/her" is because some people may think of Lockedge as a man or a woman. Also to strengthen my arguement. But for now on I will refer to any transgendered individual as the gender that they are trying to be.-Big_Red-
Actually I've only ever seen her for Lockedge....

Likewise. But few gamespotters knew that she was transgender.

Well, I prefer to be seen as a female/woman, etc. rather than as a transsexual. I mean, I prefer to decide which categories hold which power over how I'm perceived, depending on which importance I place on which personal labels attached to me. I'd rather not be a victim of tokenism.
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]And as that is her gender.....she's a she. Leave it at that....LJS9502_basic

Now you're just being politically correct.

No. I'm being accepting of others for who they are.:)

Who they think they are. Look, I'm sorry, but science says that no man can become a woman or vice-versa. I, for the most part, follow science. I'm a logical person. Just who I am. With that said, I wish the best for transsexuals and I wish they are treated better than they are now.
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[QUOTE="Lockedge"]

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]

The male and female skeleton are generally developed through testosterone and estrogen. I had no control over the fact that testosterone made my bones bulky. When I was younger, there was very little reception to me saying I was a girl, not a boy. Even in Canada, there's pretty much no way transsexuals can legally transition before they're of legal age. This was not something I wanted to happen. The skeleton is malleable by hormones, it's a bad example on your behalf. A friend of mine has a facial structure that would be very fitting for a woman, but he's absolutely male. Stuff like that is rather individual. My insides aren't all male. The human body isn't so different between male and female. There's a fair bit of time when the fetus has no sex differentiation, or undifferentiated gonads. Big-Red, I get where you are coming from. You can say I'm not a woman until pigs fly and I won't care one bit. 5 years ago, I might have been upset over that, but it makes no difference to me now. You have the right to say that to me. You have the right to make your own definitions and follow them s strictly as you want to. My issue is that if you were to tell a young teen transsexual going through the worst period of their life that they'll never be 100% a woman, no matter what they do, that transsexual could take that really poorly. That might not be your intent, but those kind of reactions can happen. There's a reason many transsexuals do not make it out of their teens. If around 30% that are transitioning during their teens are committing suicide and more are attempting, one has to wonder about the ones who are too scared to transition due to public response that's been made quite evident. I recall when I was in grade 9 going through puberty, I came to Gamespot to escape the real world because when I was here, I could forget for a little while what was happening to my body. If there are others here that stumble into this thread, that's a choice of their own doing, but the more you keep bringing this up, the more I'm going to keep posting in opposition, because I don't want one coming in here and not seeing such views uncontested.Lockedge

It's not like you're not a woman. You are, just not completely. Like 70/30. There's nothing wrong with that. But a transgendered individual going around thinking that they are 100% completely the gender that they wish they were... I just dillusional in the least. And my skeletal arguement was mostly based around the pelvic bone. Look.

yes

Oh, I'm not about to say there aren't differences, but in the grad scheme of things, I consider them minimal. Most men have narrower pelvises, most women have larger ones. There are most definitely exceptions to this rule though. My cousin required a C-section because her coccyx was angled to a degree where it would have made childbirth pretty darn dangerous. Just one of those things, luckily we have medical staff that can recognize this and provide alternative solutions.

I know it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things, which is why you're mostly woman.
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#529 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] Now you're just being politically correct.l4dak47

No. I'm being accepting of others for who they are.:)

Who they think they are. Look, I'm sorry, but science says that no man can become a woman or vice-versa. I, for the most part, follow science. I'm a logical person. Just who I am. With that said, I wish the best for transsexuals and I wish they are treated better than they are now.

Don't we all present who we think we are?
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]And as that is her gender.....she's a she. Leave it at that....LJS9502_basic

Now you're just being politically correct.

No. I'm being accepting of others for who they are.:)

I never said that I didn't/don't accept transexuals/transgenders. I do. But thinking that a transgendered/transsexual person is 100% that gender that they desire to be is just dillusional.
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] Don't we all present who we think we are?

To an extent, yes. However, there are some things you can never change.
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] Now you're just being politically correct.-Big_Red-

No. I'm being accepting of others for who they are.:)

I never said that I didn't/don't accept transexuals/transgenders. I do. But thinking that a transgendered/transsexual person is 100% that gender that they desire to be is just dillusional.

Insofar as their mental/emotional state I'd imagine it is 100%...
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] Actually I've only ever seen her for Lockedge....Lockedge
Likewise. But few gamespotters knew that she was transgender.

Well, I prefer to be seen as a female/woman, etc. rather than as a transsexual. I mean, I prefer to decide which categories hold which power over how I'm perceived, depending on which importance I place on which personal labels attached to me. I'd rather not be a victim of tokenism.

Well, ofcourse you prefer to be seen as a female/woman. Which is why you are in the process of becoming one(I think you said that you were in the process if i remember right) I guess going around thinking that you're only partly woman can be demoralizing which is why you believe that you are completely female. Nothing wrong with that.
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][ Insofar as their mental/emotional state I'd imagine it is 100%...

Perhaps, but science says otherwise. That would be like a rabbit thinking it is a tiger. It may truely believe that it's a tiger, but science says no.
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#535 LJS9502_basic
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Dude that was a bit patronizing....
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] No. I'm being accepting of others for who they are.:)

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I never said that I didn't/don't accept transexuals/transgenders. I do. But thinking that a transgendered/transsexual person is 100% that gender that they desire to be is just dillusional.

Insofar as their mental/emotional state I'd imagine it is 100%...

Yes, I imagine that Lockedge is 100% mentally/emotionally female.

But physically/biologically. She is not completely. This is why she is only 70% female.

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#537 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="l4dak47"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][ Insofar as their mental/emotional state I'd imagine it is 100%...

Perhaps, but science says otherwise. That would be like a rabbit thinking it is a tiger. It may truely believe that it's a tiger, but science says no.

I don't think this is a scientific issue as much as mental. There is no need to keep telling someone they can't be what they want. It serves no purpose other than to hurt, insult, or annoy them methinks. I don't use words to hurt. It's just as wrong as using violence.
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Dude that was a bit patronizing....LJS9502_basic
Are you responding to me?
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#539 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Dude that was a bit patronizing....l4dak47
Are you responding to me?

I responded to your comment right above your post....
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Dude that was a bit patronizing....LJS9502_basic
Me?
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[QUOTE="l4dak47"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][ Insofar as their mental/emotional state I'd imagine it is 100%...LJS9502_basic
Perhaps, but science says otherwise. That would be like a rabbit thinking it is a tiger. It may truely believe that it's a tiger, but science says no.

I don't think this is a scientific issue as much as mental. There is no need to keep telling someone they can't be what they want. It serves no purpose other than to hurt, insult, or annoy them methinks. I don't use words to hurt. It's just as wrong as using violence.

No, it's just the truth.
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="l4dak47"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][ Insofar as their mental/emotional state I'd imagine it is 100%...

Perhaps, but science says otherwise. That would be like a rabbit thinking it is a tiger. It may truely believe that it's a tiger, but science says no.

I don't think this is a scientific issue as much as mental. There is no need to keep telling someone they can't be what they want. It serves no purpose other than to hurt, insult, or annoy them methinks. I don't use words to hurt. It's just as wrong as using violence.

Like I said, I'm a logical person. I follow what science says about the world. I'm not here to make people happy or to delude them inot thinking they're something else when they're not. Makes me sound cold. But such is me.
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[QUOTE="Ace6301"]Sure they have the right. It's a dick move though. Ahem.BreakTheseLinks
Somehow this golden comment has been lost in the nonsense. Well done, sir, well done.

really. thats was LOL worthy.

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[QUOTE="l4dak47"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="l4dak47"] Perhaps, but science says otherwise. That would be like a rabbit thinking it is a tiger. It may truely believe that it's a tiger, but science says no.

I don't think this is a scientific issue as much as mental. There is no need to keep telling someone they can't be what they want. It serves no purpose other than to hurt, insult, or annoy them methinks. I don't use words to hurt. It's just as wrong as using violence.

Like I said, I'm a logical person. I follow what science says about the world. I'm not here to make people happy or to delude them inot thinking they're something else when they're not. Makes me sound cold. But such is me.

I use logic all the time. However, with an issue such as this sometimes compassion and understanding better serve.
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[QUOTE="l4dak47"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] I don't think this is a scientific issue as much as mental. There is no need to keep telling someone they can't be what they want. It serves no purpose other than to hurt, insult, or annoy them methinks. I don't use words to hurt. It's just as wrong as using violence.LJS9502_basic
Like I said, I'm a logical person. I follow what science says about the world. I'm not here to make people happy or to delude them inot thinking they're something else when they're not. Makes me sound cold. But such is me.

I use logic all the time. However, with an issue such as this sometimes compassion and understanding better serve.

So deep down inside you know that they are not 100% the gender that they are trying to be? You're just trying to give them a little moral boot ehh?
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[QUOTE="l4dak47"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] Don't we all present who we think we are?

To an extent, yes. However, there are some things you can never change.

I can't wait for stem cell research to progress to the point where transsexuals can have fully functional reproductive organs. It might not happen in my lifetime, but whenever it happens, the world will be a better place.
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="l4dak47"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] I don't think this is a scientific issue as much as mental. There is no need to keep telling someone they can't be what they want. It serves no purpose other than to hurt, insult, or annoy them methinks. I don't use words to hurt. It's just as wrong as using violence.

Like I said, I'm a logical person. I follow what science says about the world. I'm not here to make people happy or to delude them inot thinking they're something else when they're not. Makes me sound cold. But such is me.

I use logic all the time. However, with an issue such as this sometimes compassion and understanding better serve.

Yes, but rarely do I show compassion or understanding. You are probably a better man than me to be able to do so. But that's not me.
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#549 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="l4dak47"] Like I said, I'm a logical person. I follow what science says about the world. I'm not here to make people happy or to delude them inot thinking they're something else when they're not. Makes me sound cold. But such is me. -Big_Red-
I use logic all the time. However, with an issue such as this sometimes compassion and understanding better serve.

So deep down inside you know that they are not 100% the gender that they are trying to be? You're just trying to give them a little moral boot ehh?

I'm simply not judging them nor labeling them.
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Why is this 28 pages long.......