Well thank you sir. Drop the Mr. you know it's Bryan :). Honest story, the best looking girl I ever dated was a cheerleader at the Univ. of Arkansas. Knew each other for years, she was stunningly beautiful and it was bar none the worst sex I've ever had. After that I realized I wanted someone who wanted what I did and who I had chemistry with. Took a bit but I found her.
btaylor2404
You're a good looking guy. Doesn't suprise me. :P Pretty crazy how that can happen though. Very insightful and I'll be sure to remember it.
But shouldn't you love your partner even if they aren't good in the bed? I mean, there are ways to teach em. Sex should never be the main reason people get married even though most of the time it is.
Hungry_Jello
The only people I see that get married because of the sex are the people who wait till they are married to have sex. You can love someone completely and not work well together sexually. This will ultimetely put a ton of strain on the relationship and I doubt any couple will be able to get past that. Plus if you don't work well sexually you can still be friends, maybe they aren't the person you should marry. For example, I love my best friend and I'd do just about anything for that kid. However, I am not gay and I'm not sexually attracted to him in any way shape or form. Should I marry him? he isn't gay either so we'd never have sex, but according to you we should be able to look past that. I will admit that the example is taken to an extreme but I feel it still is valid.
I take it that you've never had sex so it may be hard to imagine what its actually like to be having sex with someone. I'm sad to say when you have sex, though it does feel great, you learn that its really not this earth shattering experience. It would just suck to have to go through life with an unfulfiling sex life. Imagine the strain that will arise lets say if you couldn't get your partner to reach an orgasm.
P.S. hopefully this post makes sense, I've had a bit to drink tonight
Let's put it this way---anyone here married and you're both totally incompatible when it comes to sex? Sex is a big part of being with someone you love. Granted, age is a factor, but when you're in your late 20s, 30s, I would assume that you're not a virgin any longer and then why wait to have sex? :)
No. They should share themselves with their partners when they are ready. When it comes to highly committed emotional relationships, marriage does nothing to strengthen an already complete bond.
All I am going to "wait" for is a woman with whom I can fall in love with and can be sure loves me equally.
Yes, all it does is create strugle when the woman is pregnet and abortion would be very low. Its not right to have sex before beeing married because thats what some the things of beeing married is.
I believe that you should know everything there is about a person before you make a life long commitment...Sex is natural and should not be "labeled" as such...It should be experienced before you make that decision to move forward and commit your life to this person....
No, of course not. Waiting until you get married is absurd, and in real life the only people who i've heard say that they're "going to wait until marriage" are people who only use that as an excuse because they could't get laid if they wanted to. Some people say that you should wait until marriage because of surprise pregnancies. Well here's a tip, USE PROTECTION. There you go, that one was free. And if it doesn't work? What? You think having a piece of paper saying that you're married makes a surprise pregnancy better? I could go get married tomorrow but that doesn't mean i'm ready to have kids.
[QUOTE="krazykillaz"]I don't care what people do regarding their sex life, honestly. It's none of my business.Hungry_Jello
So you have no opinion whatsoever on this? Also your guess is as good as mine about the song in your sig. If you ever find out the full song let me know.
His opinion is that it is irrelevant to him. Why do you care about what others do with their personal lives?
I think people should do whatever they feel is right for themselves. If they feel they are ready for sex prior to marriage, they should do so. If the feel that they want to save themselves for marriage and want the same in their partner, that too is ok.
No, because I don't believe in marriage. I think people should have sex when they feel ready for it.Neon-Tiger
This, minus not believing in marriage. I don't care about it much, especially weddings, I don't believe you need a ceremony to say "I want to be with you forever" but the benefits that come with it are quite nice. I agree that people should have sex when they feel ready
[QUOTE="Neon-Tiger"]No, because I don't believe in marriage. I think people should have sex when they feel ready for it.Hungry_Jello
Why do you not believe in marriage? I've never heard of someone that doesn't believe in marriage.
I don't because it's: mostly, to some exclusively, a religious ceremony, and I don't understand, from a nonreligious viewpoint, how it makes love for a person any different than not being married. Also, I am against sex til marriage, not just because of what I just wrote but also because it's a crazy idea! If you've had sex, you understand.
[QUOTE="Neon-Tiger"]No, because I don't believe in marriage. I think people should have sex when they feel ready for it.TwiztidJoker
Why do you not believe in marriage? I've never heard of someone that doesn't believe in marriage.
I don't because it's: mostly, to some exclusively, a religious ceremony, and I don't understand, from a nonreligious viewpoint, how it makes love for a person any different than not being married. Also, I am against sex til marriage, not just because of what I just wrote but also because it's a crazy idea! If you've had sex, you understand. Why not look at marriage in another light...which is a civil ceremony based around announcing your partnership to the community and your family. The marriage ceremony is only part a confirmation of love to your partner, it's also an announcement and celebration of that love.
[QUOTE="Jandurin"]On that note, I think my gf and I may have decided to never get married. :o Unless/until we have kids, anyway. That's exactly why you aren't supposed to have sex until you're married. Marriage means almost nothing these days.
[QUOTE="cyberdarkkid"][QUOTE="Jandurin"]On that note, I think my gf and I may have decided to never get married. :o Unless/until we have kids, anyway. That's exactly why you aren't supposed to have sex until you're married. Marriage means almost nothing these days. That's stupid, imo. It did take awhile to break her Christian upbringing enough to get her to move in with me pre-marriage. Don't have sex until marriage so you have to get married, but not consider that that's a lot of the reason there is so much divorce >_>
[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="cyberdarkkid"][QUOTE="Jandurin"]On that note, I think my gf and I may have decided to never get married. :o Unless/until we have kids, anyway. That's exactly why you aren't supposed to have sex until you're married. Marriage means almost nothing these days. That's stupid, imo. It did take awhile to break her Christian upbringing enough to get her to move in with me pre-marriage. Don't have sex until marriage so you have to get married, but not consider that that's a lot of the reason there is so much divorce >_> Good point there >_>
If the couple is responsible, mature, financially sound, and in love with each other than I see no reason not to. Unfortunately, that's about 5% of relationships. Marriage doesn't always help the situation...and let's face it, if the reason you got married was so you could pork your girlfriend you should just go get a divorce and save the heartbreak.
I think people should wait until they're married until they have sex. If they did the world's population would probably be a lot less than what it is now and there wouldn't be so many abortions. What's your opinion?Hungry_Jello
If that is your main concern you have nothing to worry about. 3 billion people will die from starvation/hunger/malnutrtion/obesity over the folloving 4 years. To answer your question; hell yeah. don't wait, Do it now. If you wait you are only robbing yourself from one of the greatest pleasures a human can experience. Embrace your hornyness:)
Sex and Sexuality should be left to the individual. Too many things have come under public pressure and tradition and even the government. If two people want to be intimate then they should be allowed.
I have no say-so in the affairs of others. I think it's good to wait for a while once you begin dating, six months to a year even. Really ensure you have a strong bond, because if you're both just about the passion it'll die out real soon and what will you be left with?
If people desire to wait until marriage, more power to them. Honestly, if marriage were legal for everyone then I might be inclined to say marriage is a good point in your relationship to wait until... however, some people aren't allowed that illustrious priviledge. (Thankfully, NJ is on the boat now though.)
No, because I don't believe in marriage. I think people should have sex when they feel ready for it.Neon-Tiger
I also am a nonbeliever in marriage. Mainly because out of all the adult couples I have seen, nearly all of them were unmarried. My parents were married. Guess what? They ended up with the messy split.
No I think people should have sex before marriage becuase if you don't know yourself and your partner sexually you could end up with someone you are sexually incompatiable wit and end in a failed marriage ofcourse I also beleive if one has sex before marriage they should use contraception so as not to end up with accident children that run rampent over the world.observer77
I wouldn't think that sexual problems would lead to a failed marriage..
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