Do you think people should wait until they're married to have sex?

[QUOTE="observer77"]No I think people should have sex before marriage becuase if you don't know yourself and your partner sexually you could end up with someone you are sexually incompatiable wit and end in a failed marriage ofcourse I also beleive if one has sex before marriage they should use contraception so as not to end up with accident children that run rampent over the world.Solid_Snake325

No, beacause when people are ready to have sex, let them. Unless thy are teenagers.

[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"][QUOTE="observer77"]No I think people should have sex before marriage becuase if you don't know yourself and your partner sexually you could end up with someone you are sexually incompatiable wit and end in a failed marriage ofcourse I also beleive if one has sex before marriage they should use contraception so as not to end up with accident children that run rampent over the world.Jandurin

[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"] I wouldn't think that sexual problems would lead to a failed marriage..Solid_Snake325

[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"][QUOTE="Jandurin"] Sexual incompatibility would.dnuggs40

I think people should wait until they're married until they have sex. If they did the world's population would probably be a lot less than what it is now and there wouldn't be so many abortions. What's your opinion?Hungry_Jello

[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"][QUOTE="observer77"]No I think people should have sex before marriage becuase if you don't know yourself and your partner sexually you could end up with someone you are sexually incompatiable wit and end in a failed marriage ofcourse I also beleive if one has sex before marriage they should use contraception so as not to end up with accident children that run rampent over the world.Jandurin

[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"] I wouldn't think that sexual problems would lead to a failed marriage..btaylor2404

[QUOTE="btaylor2404"][QUOTE="Jandurin"] Sexual incompatibility would.Teenaged

Nope, it's up to the person.

who will often stay in marriage no matter what due to their faith.Paladin_King

Well did you wait or are you waiting?

I didnt wait so i cant say to wait but i wouldnt wait if i could do it over either

[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"][QUOTE="observer77"]No I think people should have sex before marriage becuase if you don't know yourself and your partner sexually you could end up with someone you are sexually incompatiable wit and end in a failed marriage ofcourse I also beleive if one has sex before marriage they should use contraception so as not to end up with accident children that run rampent over the world.Jandurin

that's why I said sexual incompaibility sexual problems in the way I think of them can be worked out or worked through.

[QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="btaylor2404"] He's right. Of the marriages I know that ended in divorce they were either over sexual differences or money.btaylor2404

yeah sex drive is a big thing I would think if your wife wants more than you can give I see things getting hard but then again alot of sex drive incomatablibity problems statistically are men going outside of the marriage because the women doesn't want to have sex as often or just doesn't have the energy which can cause problems that's kind of funny I didn't even think of that as part of sexaul incompatability problems but then again I guess there is a lot of things in that phrase that don't jump out at you right away.

[QUOTE="horgen123"]Nope. Because they won't divorce if the sex doesn't work out :Pdnuggs40

No, because I don't believe in marriage. I think people should have sex when they feel ready for it.Neon-Tiger

I agree with you on that, I mean like say IF someone believes in love, and they don't find anyone "special" til their like 40 odd, and they've been in "close" relationships before, it would strike you as immensly odd.

the way i see it, having sex after marriage is like "human wz human"because love and intimacy are involved, having sex out side marriage is like"animal wz another animal" because the only thing that drives you is instincs, but still it is up to the person and his/her belives and traditions, i mean no offence but it is my opinion.2mrw

You can't love someone outside of marriage? :?

i mean love between a ahusband and a wife which is very differrent from parents love or a good friend love ... if you are worried about someone that means you love that somebody but that doesn't mean you should marry that somebody2mrw

That's the love I was talking about.

Not any of my business.

I know I don't plan to. I do plan on waiting till I find a woman I love.

No. 1) It's just sex. Once you finally do it you realise how trivial and normal it is, and how ridiculous it is that our culture builds it up so much into something it's not. 2) Sex is a big part of a relationship. You can really like somebody's personality but if you're not compatible in THAT way very few people will manage to make the relationship work. If you find out that your partner is completely different from yourself in that regard, and you've just gotten married, that's not a great situation to be in.Ninja-Hippo

no, its an old tradition thats dying out with the new generation.pvtdonut54

I think people should wait until they're in love to have sex. Nothing's wrong with sex before marriage. But I can understand if you want to wait. It's pretty noble and romantic.dreDREb13

[QUOTE="dreDREb13"]I think people should wait until they're in love to have sex. Nothing's wrong with sex before marriage. But I can understand if you want to wait. It's pretty noble and romantic.MoonMarvel

I agree with you man.

moonmarvel said "WRONG! Sex is too big a part of relationships, the fact people have made is so big a part of a relationship is why so many fail. Relationships should be based on Friendships, Communication and Trust but NEVER sex"

i totaly agree that's why marrigae is important, because it is not only based on love and communication and trust but also it intesifys them and sex with your wife is another factor to streghen the bond between you two, can any one of the people who suppoer sex outside marriage tell me What is the basis of that action? i have an answer instinct, if you have another answer tell me