Ever Cheated on your Bf/Gf and why?

Well I'm just curious as to why you did it? was it cuz you had the chance or cuz they were attractive? why?

No and I never would, ever.

No but almost every girl I have ever been with cheated on me, and I have foolishly forgiven it, but that's a whole nother topic lol.

girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me with one of my friends. Ended that relationship on the spot. Come to think of it, this febuary marks 1 year of this happening. lol Oh well, I've moved on and found someone better. :)

I've never cheated on someone.

You know the old saying, it's easy not to cheat when no one wants to do it with you. Takes the temptation out of it.

I haven't done it or had it done.

I never would. That's disgusting. No fight, anger, revenge-seeking, ANYTHING could make me do that. XilePrincess

I'm not a monogamous person so I don't think it would constitute as cheating for me, but then again I don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend so I don't know really...

define cheating

Okay, I'll admit it...

Why? I guess I'll have to be even more honest.

- Because I didn't really care for them.

- Because I lacked emotional maturity.

- Because sometimes it's reeeeeeeeeaaaally hard to say 'No'... Seriously!

- Because sometimes it's more of a rush when you know you shouldn't.

- Once because I hated the guy she was seeing, and knew how much it would devastate him.

That said, these days there are things that matter more to me than sex.

Nope. Never had, never will. For two reasons:

1. I love her too much to do that to her. I'd have the decency to break up with her if I wanted to fool around with someone else.

2. I'm too lazy to cheat. You gotta memorize names, dates, times, locations, events....all that just to get a piece of strange lovin' on the side, which might not even be any good, after it's all said and done. That's just too much effort for something that is essentially a crapshoot at best.

Screw all that noise. Me and my lady are in it for the long haul.

Lethargy has prevented me from getting myself into more cumbersome events than I already am.

Okay, I'll admit it...

Why? I guess I'll have to be even more honest.

- Because I didn't really care for them.

- Because I lacked emotional maturity.

- Because sometimes it's reeeeeeeeeaaaally hard to say 'No'... Seriously!

- Because sometimes it's more of a rush when you know you shouldn't.

- Once because I hated the guy she was seeing, and knew how much it would devastate him.

That said, these days there are things that matter more to me than sex.

RaZoR_RaiN

I'm glad I don't know you.

Nope.

No, and I never would.

If the relationship was going nowhere and I was tempted elsewhere, I would make sure to end things properly with the old before moving on to a new.

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Okay, I'll admit it...

Why? I guess I'll have to be even more honest.

- Because I didn't really care for them.

- Because I lacked emotional maturity.

- Because sometimes it's reeeeeeeeeaaaally hard to say 'No'... Seriously!

- Because sometimes it's more of a rush when you know you shouldn't.

- Once because I hated the guy she was seeing, and knew how much it would devastate him.

That said, these days there are things that matter more to me than sex.

Scoob64

I'm glad I don't know you.

Why is that? Because he's honest about it? Because he's human?

Technically yeah. My girlfriend at the time gave me extremely strong hints that she was breaking up with me. My mate (who was her best mate) told me that she didn't want to go out with me anymore. I was glad, because the relationship was a shambles anyway. It was my birthday when this all happened. I met lots of people in town, got tipsy and in the evening I pulled another girl.

The next day she found out and then got in a strop. I felt bad of course but I was angry as well. Both at myself and at her.

nope, never cheated on anyone and to my knowledge i've never been cheated on. i think i may have had one or two opportunities to do so, but i didn't take them and i don't plan on taking any in the future.

Technically yeah. My girlfriend at the time gave me extremely strong hints that she was breaking up with me. My mate (who was her best mate) told me that she didn't want to go out with me anymore. I was glad, because the relationship was a shambles anyway. It was my birthday when this all happened. I met lots of people in town, got tipsy and in the evening I pulled another girl.

The next day she found out and then got in a strop. I felt bad of course but I was angry as well. Both at myself and at her.

Murj

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Technically yeah. My girlfriend at the time gave me extremely strong hints that she was breaking up with me. My mate (who was her best mate) told me that she didn't want to go out with me anymore. I was glad, because the relationship was a shambles anyway. It was my birthday when this all happened. I met lots of people in town, got tipsy and in the evening I pulled another girl.

The next day she found out and then got in a strop. I felt bad of course but I was angry as well. Both at myself and at her.

needled24-7

I had cheated on my ex gf with 5 different girls after a year or so of us dating. Some things happened in the relationship that I didn't really agree with and in the heat of the moment I made some poor choices. Do I regret it? Sure, but at this point it doesn't matter to me. What happened has already been done. She never found out about any of the instances and it will just be something that she is better off not knowing. I think it would have scarred her pretty badly if she did find out since she actually trusted me

No I have not :) Never had a reason to cheat.

No, i never have...i wouldn't be able to live with myself if i did...there's no reason that can justify cheating on someone...even if you're "getting them back"...by doing the same thing you're no better then they are...

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[QUOTE="RaZoR_RaiN"]

Okay, I'll admit it...

Why? I guess I'll have to be even more honest.

- Because I didn't really care for them.

- Because I lacked emotional maturity.

- Because sometimes it's reeeeeeeeeaaaally hard to say 'No'... Seriously!

- Because sometimes it's more of a rush when you know you shouldn't.

- Once because I hated the guy she was seeing, and knew how much it would devastate him.

That said, these days there are things that matter more to me than sex.

Scarebaby

I'm glad I don't know you.

Why is that? Because he's honest about it? Because he's human?

I'm all broken up inside about Scoob64's unwillingness to pursue a deep and meaningful friendship with me. :lol:

People make mistakes, it's part of life. I find that many people who take the moral high ground are yet to be tested.

Yes I have, in fact my real name is Tiger Woods.

Nope. Never been in a situation where I would.

yepp. i have, i did tell my boyfriend about it eventually, holiday romances, drunk in a club, some times its just more exciting when you know you shouldn't. There's lots of reasons people cheat and it happens wayy more than people think. I'm just selfish, and young and live in the moment.

what ifff, you were in a relationship, and then you actually met someone who completely blew your mind and you knew you only had one chance, it really was your 'soul mate', are you really going to pass up that opportunity just for the sake of morals? I'd take a chance.

what ifff, you were in a relationship, and then you actually met someone who completely blew your mind and you knew you only had one chance, it really was your 'soul mate', are you really going to pass up that opportunity just for the sake of morals? I'd take a chance.

emmaclare

what ifff, you were in a relationship, and then you actually met someone who completely blew your mind and you knew you only had one chance, it really was your 'soul mate', are you really going to pass up that opportunity just for the sake of morals? I'd take a chance.

emmaclare

if its at all a serious relationship, then i think cheating is despicable.

[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]I never would. That's disgusting. No fight, anger, revenge-seeking, ANYTHING could make me do that. Salacon

Yes. She sassed me.

Lesson learned.

No, I almost did with my ex who I've had a on and off thing for ages, but I stopped it before it happened and went home, I'm happy I did because im still with the girl I chose and love her more then ever

Never putting myself in that situation again :P

Yes. She sassed me.

Lesson learned.

what ifff, you were in a relationship, and then you actually met someone who completely blew your mind and you knew you only had one chance, it really was your 'soul mate', are you really going to pass up that opportunity just for the sake of morals? I'd take a chance.

emmaclare