Ever Cheated on your Bf/Gf and why?

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[QUOTE="MushroomWig"] Sweet revenge. :]MistressMinako

Uh...but...why would you hurt them like they hurt you...is lowering yourself to their level really worth it...or would you rather show them that you're better then they are..

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Uh...but...why would you hurt them like they hurt you...is lowering yourself to their level really worth it...or would you rather show them that you're better then they are..

LJS9502_basic

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="MistressMinako"] Well, the girl didn't care about his feelings when she cheated... why should he care about her feelings? MistressMinako

Yeah, I have. While I was dating her she was a foreign student attending college and had to go home to Europe every summer from early June to the end of August. One summer night I was horny, drunk, and lonely and ended up doing things I shouldn't have. The next day I felt terrible and called her so I could be upfront and honest with her rather then hide it. We worked through it and today we're married and have a kid.

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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Most people care when they are cheated on....LJS9502_basic

No, I've never cheated on my Xbox 360 with another console :D

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="MistressMinako"] Of course.... not saying that cheating is the answer... because two wrongs don't make a right. But, it was brought up that the girl cheated first.... guy finds out and cheats back... she might be upset sure... but can she really say much about him after she has done it first?

MistressMinako

Emotionally, sure.

BiancaDK

This... Without defining exactly what that is/is not, I have definitely crossed that line on multiple occasions...rawsavon

Heh, you just know when you´ve crossed the line. You just know, despite not having done anything which could be perceived by a 3rd party as even remotely morally questionable.

Intentions truly is half the crime!

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]This... Without defining exactly what that is/is not, I have definitely crossed that line on multiple occasions...BiancaDK

Heh, you just know when you´ve crossed the line. You just know, despite not having done anything which could be perceived by a 3rd party as even remotely morally questionable.

Intentions truly is half the crime!

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="MistressMinako"] Well, the girl didn't care about his feelings when she cheated... why should he care about her feelings? MistressMinako

My point was...why stoop to their level..wouldn't you feel better knowing you're better then they are because you DIDN'T hurt them by cheating?..

I've never been in such a position, but I highly doubt I could go through with it - seems like such a slimy thing to do.

My coworker has cheated on his girlfriend numerous times and talks about these occasions with me. He has three kids with this woman (two boys and a girl, all less than 5 years of age) and will still cheat. He has an insatiable sex-drive.

Nope. I never have and never plan to. I have more integrity than to "give in to temptation" and more respect for my girlfriend than to go behind her back if I find someone else. That and I love her to bits.

I don't do committed relationships so cheating has never been an issue for me.

Of course not. I'm not full of myself, or an extreme idealist, but I just know that I would never cheat, even if I were tempted and had money/resources.. I just couldn't do it.

No I haven't.

I feel that when you enter a relationship your putting your emotions out there. Those emotions should be respected. That's why I would never cheat on someone. If your able to ask the person out or say yes to the person asking you. You should have the respect to break up with a person if you would rather be with someone else.

I don't date now days, but back when i used to in high school I never cheated. It seems stupid. If you want a new girlfriend that bad then dump the old and and switch.