Ever Cheated on your Bf/Gf and why?

[QUOTE="emmaclare"]

what ifff, you were in a relationship, and then you actually met someone who completely blew your mind and you knew you only had one chance, it really was your 'soul mate', are you really going to pass up that opportunity just for the sake of morals? I'd take a chance.

LJS9502_basic

You gotta wonder what kind of relationship requires that to happen immediately.... It isn't a soul mate that is for sure.

Never have and absolutely never will. I don't understand how anyone can claim to be happy and in love and commited to someone, then go and cheat on them. I don't feel any temptation to cheat, ever. It's just not possible.

Yes :oops: Once, about two weeks ago actually. I havn't told him :(

I was at a friends house party and I had quite a bit to drink.....way to much actually.....and I ended up in the bathroom snogging one of my best friends. Shes ok with it though :) I can't really remember how it happened :?

I don't feel as bad as I should :| Maybe because I havn't done anything with my bf, I see him more as a friend tbh :?

Oh I don't know why Im with him. I know im probably just leading him on which I feel more ashamed of:( But his dads ill and I don't want to upset him.

Nope. I just don't have it in me (fnarr fnarr).AirGuitarist87

Nope. But I've been the other woman. It sucks (probably not as much) finding that out.Sajedene

Yes :oops: Once, about two weeks ago actually. I havn't told him :(

I was at a friends house party and I had quite a bit to drink.....way to much actually.....and I ended up in the bathroom snogging one of my best friends. Shes ok with it though :) I can't really remember how it happened :?

I don't feel as bad as I should :| Maybe because I havn't done anything with my bf, I see him more as a friend tbh :?

Oh I don't know why Im with him. I know im probably just leading him on which I feel more ashamed of:( But his dads ill and I don't want to upset him.

AudioPrison

Different people have different definitions for cheating. Have I ever had sex with someone else while in a relationship? Absolutely not. Have I flirted with other girls, lusted, or otherwise had second thoughts about a relationship I was in? Absolutely. I mean after all, I have testosterone flowing through me. However, the difference between a man and a good man is the good man won't act on his baser instincts. But denying that you have those instincts is just stupid.

No, and I never would.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]Nope. But I've been the other woman. It sucks (probably not as much) finding that out.CoolSkAGuy

No, and I never would.

howlrunner13

no I never have and I never will

No, and I have been in many situations where I could have cheated but did not, people who do cheat are just weak willed and quite pathetic, I lose a lot of respect for people who cheat on a partner, it shows emotional immaturity and lack of morals. If you come clean and I mean like immediately after I can feel quite sympathetic to your plight, but those who deny deny and deny anything ever happened are just scum, lying scum that don't deserve to be loved.Im_single

i cant reveal that info on an unsecure lineweezyfb

u r a douchbag if you have ever cheated on someoneKeredsBlaze

So... is it cheating if someone gave me a kiss on the cheek? Jango Fett gave me a kiss and now my bf thinks that I'm not a true Trekkie :cry:Sajedene

So... is it cheating if someone gave me a kiss on the cheek? Jango Fett gave me a kiss and now my bf thinks that I'm not a true Trekkie :cry:Sajedene

Nah, I'm not a cheater. When I make a commitment to somebody.. I'd sooner die than break it. Unless, of course if breaking the commitment would be good or helpful for the person I made the commitment too.. but then again I won't make an unresonable commitment either.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]So... is it cheating if someone gave me a kiss on the cheek? Jango Fett gave me a kiss and now my bf thinks that I'm not a true Trekkie :cry:Sky-

Have you ever heard of the saying "Love knows no bounds" now if they are doing it cuz they have fallen for them or just cuz they are cold hearted, the two are entirely separate form of the other.CoolSkAGuy

Doesn't make you any less of a douchebag. If you fall for someone else, at least have the balls to break upwith your current lover

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]Nope. But I've been the other woman. It sucks (probably not as much) finding that out.CoolSkAGuy

Yes :oops: Once, about two weeks ago actually. I havn't told him :(

I was at a friends house party and I had quite a bit to drink.....way to much actually.....and I ended up in the bathroom snogging one of my best friends. Shes ok with it though :) I can't really remember how it happened :?

I don't feel as bad as I should :| Maybe because I havn't done anything with my bf, I see him more as a friend tbh :?

Oh I don't know why Im with him. I know im probably just leading him on which I feel more ashamed of:( But his dads ill and I don't want to upset him.

AudioPrison

Anytime :)

I wish I had someone to cheat on me!! :(biggest_loser

No, and if I ever did I would have a much harder time forgiving myself than she did forgiving me for it.
I think cheating is such an unforgivable thing

no cuz its the low of the lows D:

I think cheating is such an unforgivable thingMuddVader

Well, there can be exceptions.

[QUOTE="MuddVader"]I think cheating is such an unforgivable thingMushroomWig

Well, there can be exceptions.

and what are they :x :P

[QUOTE="MushroomWig"]

[QUOTE="MuddVader"]I think cheating is such an unforgivable thingBlindBluMonstah

Well, there can be exceptions.

and what are they :x :P

[QUOTE="BlindBluMonstah"]

[QUOTE="MushroomWig"]

Well, there can be exceptions.

MushroomWig

and what are they :x :P

[QUOTE="MushroomWig"][QUOTE="BlindBluMonstah"]

and what are they :x :P

BlindBluMonstah

Why would you lower yourself to his/her level..? Then you're no better then they are..

Emotionally, sure. Some kissing and fondling too, i guess. Why? It felt good, and i didn´t care for what distress my behaviour might cause.

[QUOTE="BlindBluMonstah"][QUOTE="MushroomWig"] Erm..erm. XD Well for one, if the other person cheats first.Xx_Hopeless_xX

Why would you lower yourself to his/her level..? Then you're no better then they are..

[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

[QUOTE="BlindBluMonstah"] yeah id probably just do it out of spite xDMushroomWig

Why would you lower yourself to his/her level..? Then you're no better then they are..

Uh...but...why would you hurt them like they hurt you...is lowering yourself to their level really worth it...or would you rather show them that you're better then they are..

[QUOTE="MushroomWig"][QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

Why would you lower yourself to his/her level..? Then you're no better then they are..

Xx_Hopeless_xX

Uh...but...why would you hurt them like they hurt you...is lowering yourself to their level really worth it...or would you rather show them that you're better then they are..

Suuuuuuuuuuuuuurrrrre I have... -_-

Btw the poll is funny.

It asks "Whats your reason" and the options are "yes" and "no".

[QUOTE="MushroomWig"][QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

Why would you lower yourself to his/her level..? Then you're no better then they are..

Xx_Hopeless_xX

Uh...but...why would you hurt them like they hurt you...is lowering yourself to their level really worth it...or would you rather show them that you're better then they are..

[QUOTE="MushroomWig"][QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

Why would you lower yourself to his/her level..? Then you're no better then they are..

Xx_Hopeless_xX

Uh...but...why would you hurt them like they hurt you...is lowering yourself to their level really worth it...or would you rather show them that you're better then they are..