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[QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"] But the point is that the reason why waiters need a bonus as opposed to other professions that dont is not within even that loose definition of "employer". If we go on using the term "employer" then the case is like this: We are the employers because we are what keeps the place working but we are asked to do what the typical employer also fails to do. We are asked to pay two times as an employer.

That could not be more wrong (at least in the US). Clothing store: We, as the employer, pay a flat rate...lets say 7.25 an hour (the rate in the US) Food Service: We, as the employer, pay 2 rates 1. the flat rate...2.50 here 2. the bonus...we decide So we do not pay them two times....they are just paid on different scales It happens in many industries (examples include bonuses and commissions)

Is that flat rate official and automatically added to the prices? Then its different than the case of the waiters. So the food service has something added to what other services have. Why? Primarily because waiters are underpaid. And whose responsibility is that?

I do not understand at all what you are saying. --we pay the wage one way or another
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] What :? You do know that that is the number 1 failure in the US b/c the margins are so small...there is really no extra money

So how do restaurants in the UK afford to pay decent enough wages? I can only assume they're charging more for the food.. such that your restaurants are charging less than what they might.

I do not know 2 ***** about the UK...that is not the issue here A US thread on the US board by a US TC I would not begin to discuss issues around the globe that I have no idea about

Damn. And football season starts tomorrow! America!
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#153 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="hydratedleaf"]No, the customer is not the employer. What an absurd, casuistic thing to say.hydratedleaf
That's weird that people on both sides have agreed with on both sides of the issue...maybe it is just you :o Who pays the wages...we do...we are the employer

I don't care what other people think. The employer is the restaurant. It is their obligation to pay the staff. I have no interest in taking part in this specious word game of yours whereby we pretend that customers are employers.

Nobody asked you to play. I was not enjoying posting with you. I just responded to what you asked. I have seen your posts and seek to avoid them
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"] What :? You do know that that is the number 1 failure in the US b/c the margins are so small...there is really no extra moneySolidSnake35
So how do restaurants in the UK afford to pay decent enough wages? I can only assume they're charging more for the food.. such that your restaurants are charging less than what they might.

It is called RGB. Revenue Generating Beverages. restaurants don't make much money from food. It costs about 5-10 cents to make a glass of tea and they charge $2.19 for a glass of tea.

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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] What :? You do know that that is the number 1 failure in the US b/c the margins are so small...there is really no extra money

So how do restaurants in the UK afford to pay decent enough wages? I can only assume they're charging more for the food.. such that your restaurants are charging less than what they might.

I do not know 2 ***** about the UK...that is not the issue here A US thread on the US board by a US TC I would not begin to discuss issues around the globe that I have no idea about

Irrelevant. It still demonstrates that restaurants can pay a proper wage and stay in business. Margins are no excuse.
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"] I do not know 2 ***** about the UK...that is not the issue here A US thread on the US board by a US TC I would not begin to discuss issues around the globe that I have no idea about

This isn't the US Board. I'm on GameSpot UK. I don't think restaurants here function differently. They get money from food sales... this money is then spent on wages. UK restaurants can afford to pay good wages so tipping isn't necessary. US restaurants are only paying their staff a fraction and expect the customer to take up the slack. Unless food is really really cheap in the US, there's no excuse for such poor wages. They're getting the same income.
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] I do not know 2 ***** about the UK...that is not the issue here A US thread on the US board by a US TC I would not begin to discuss issues around the globe that I have no idea about

This isn't the US Board. I'm on GameSpot UK. I don't think restaurants here function differently. They get money from food sales... this money is then spent on wages. UK restaurants can afford to pay good wages so tipping isn't necessary. US restaurants are only paying their staff a fraction and expect the customer to take up the slack. Unless food is really really cheap in the US, there's no excuse for such poor wages. They're getting the same income.

And the strange part is that... NO... the food is not cheap.
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[QUOTE="WSP87"]

I need a new job...

ariz3260

If possible, yes. Or switch over to being a bartender. Working in the restaurant setting was a very depressing experience for me...

And it has been with me. I make decent enough tips it is just too much BS to deal with.

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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] I do not know 2 ***** about the UK...that is not the issue here A US thread on the US board by a US TC I would not begin to discuss issues around the globe that I have no idea about

This isn't the US Board. I'm on GameSpot UK. I don't think restaurants here function differently. They get money from food sales... this money is then spent on wages. UK restaurants can afford to pay good wages so tipping isn't necessary. US restaurants are only paying their staff a fraction and expect the customer to take up the slack. Unless food is really really cheap in the US, there's no excuse for such poor wages. They're getting the same income.

It is the same...but not. I can't compare b/c I cannot compare prices. There is not a way to say dish A costs x at this place in the US and compare it to over there. So it is all theory/guesses My point is that we, as customers, would pay the same No tip = they just raise the price of food to pay the increased wages...but we, as the customer, no longer have any control over the final bill With tips = prices stay lower, but we have to pay the server...we have some control over the final price + gives server motivation -but the final price (all things being equal, good service, etc) should be the same
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#160 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="fighter91"] And the strange part is that... NO... the food is not cheap.

Then the customer has no moral obligation to tip. They have already paid enough money for the restaurant to give its employees a fair wage.
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="fighter91"] And the strange part is that... NO... the food is not cheap.

Then the customer has no moral obligation to tip. They have already paid enough money for the restaurant to give its employees a fair wage.

That doesn't work b/c 'cheap' is subjective not objective
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#162 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] I do not know 2 ***** about the UK...that is not the issue here A US thread on the US board by a US TC I would not begin to discuss issues around the globe that I have no idea about

This isn't the US Board. I'm on GameSpot UK. I don't think restaurants here function differently. They get money from food sales... this money is then spent on wages. UK restaurants can afford to pay good wages so tipping isn't necessary. US restaurants are only paying their staff a fraction and expect the customer to take up the slack. Unless food is really really cheap in the US, there's no excuse for such poor wages. They're getting the same income.

It is the same...but not. I can't compare b/c I cannot compare prices. There is not a way to say dish A costs x at this place in the US and compare it to over there. So it is all theory/guesses My point is that we, as customers, would pay the same No tip = they just raise the price of food to pay the increased wages...but we, as the customer, no longer have any control over the final bill With tips = prices stay lower, but we have to pay the server...we have some control over the final price + gives server motivation -but the final price (all things being equal, good service, etc) should be the same

Prices stay low through competition. Tips just seem to complicate things.
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[QUOTE="WSP87"]

Because i have to deal with people's BS all day. I hate customers. I hate watching the 'pictures from wal-mart' style pepole WADDLE into the store and stuff their face while i have to put on a fake grin and run in circles for them. Fair enough? I am actually a very good waiter and make a decent amount of money, but the fact reamins that if isaid half of what crossed my mind to these people i would be fast out of a job. Maybe i am just misanthropic, maybe people are just trash. You decide.

fighter91

So based on your logic, customers might as well tip the employees in clothing stores, electronics stores, and any other service based stores? The fact still remains the same, you picked a job that requires high cooperation with customers. The customer has no responsibility of how much you get paid. You should have known about the negative parts of the job before you applied...

You picked a job?

You make it sound like people have a plethora of jobs to pick from... Sometimes people just have to take what they can get...

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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="fighter91"] And the strange part is that... NO... the food is not cheap.

Then the customer has no moral obligation to tip. They have already paid enough money for the restaurant to give its employees a fair wage.

That doesn't work b/c 'cheap' is subjective not objective

Oh come on, arent citizens able to make statements about pricing since they are aware of the cost of living in their country? The only case where such statements of two people disagreeing would be subjective is when there is a big gap between their incomes (one is not rich and the other isnt).
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[QUOTE="fighter91"][QUOTE="WSP87"]

Because i have to deal with people's BS all day. I hate customers. I hate watching the 'pictures from wal-mart' style pepole WADDLE into the store and stuff their face while i have to put on a fake grin and run in circles for them. Fair enough? I am actually a very good waiter and make a decent amount of money, but the fact reamins that if isaid half of what crossed my mind to these people i would be fast out of a job. Maybe i am just misanthropic, maybe people are just trash. You decide.

BuryMe

So based on your logic, customers might as well tip the employees in clothing stores, electronics stores, and any other service based stores? The fact still remains the same, you picked a job that requires high cooperation with customers. The customer has no responsibility of how much you get paid. You should have known about the negative parts of the job before you applied...

You picked a job?

You make it sound like people have a plethora of jobs to pick from... Sometimes people just have to take what they can get...

I have another post where I said everybody is suffering from this bad economy. I understand there are a limited amount of jobs but you can't go to every job expecting to have your customers to hold the same views as you.
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"] This isn't the US Board. I'm on GameSpot UK. I don't think restaurants here function differently. They get money from food sales... this money is then spent on wages. UK restaurants can afford to pay good wages so tipping isn't necessary. US restaurants are only paying their staff a fraction and expect the customer to take up the slack. Unless food is really really cheap in the US, there's no excuse for such poor wages. They're getting the same income.

It is the same...but not. I can't compare b/c I cannot compare prices. There is not a way to say dish A costs x at this place in the US and compare it to over there. So it is all theory/guesses My point is that we, as customers, would pay the same No tip = they just raise the price of food to pay the increased wages...but we, as the customer, no longer have any control over the final bill With tips = prices stay lower, but we have to pay the server...we have some control over the final price + gives server motivation -but the final price (all things being equal, good service, etc) should be the same

Prices stay low through competition. Tips just seem to complicate things.

Not at all...same wage no matter what that the actual employer pays (either low or high)
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"] Then the customer has no moral obligation to tip. They have already paid enough money for the restaurant to give its employees a fair wage.

That doesn't work b/c 'cheap' is subjective not objective

Oh come on, arent citizens able to make statements about pricing since they are aware of the cost of living in their country? The only case where such statements of two people disagreeing would be subjective is when there is a big gap between their incomes (one is not rich and the other isnt).

He is saying there is no moral obligation if it is not cheap...seems subjective to me Personally, the price of the meal should have nothing to do with it
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] That doesn't work b/c 'cheap' is subjective not objective

Oh come on, arent citizens able to make statements about pricing since they are aware of the cost of living in their country? The only case where such statements of two people disagreeing would be subjective is when there is a big gap between their incomes (one is not rich and the other isnt).

He is saying there is no moral obligation if it is not cheap...seems subjective to me Personally, the price of the meal should have nothing to do with it

Wait by saying it is subjective didnt you mean about him saying not being cheap? It has something to do with it. Because it shows if its normal for employers to pay their waiters so little.
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] That doesn't work b/c 'cheap' is subjective not objectiverawsavon
Oh come on, arent citizens able to make statements about pricing since they are aware of the cost of living in their country? The only case where such statements of two people disagreeing would be subjective is when there is a big gap between their incomes (one is not rich and the other isnt).

He is saying there is no moral obligation if it is not cheap...seems subjective to me Personally, the price of the meal should have nothing to do with it

The price of the meal has a lot to do with it actually. If you have a restaurant that charges no more than 10 bucks a meal, I bet you you'll have more customers that will tip.

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[QUOTE="fighter91"][QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]Oh come on, arent citizens able to make statements about pricing since they are aware of the cost of living in their country? The only case where such statements of two people disagreeing would be subjective is when there is a big gap between their incomes (one is not rich and the other isnt).

He is saying there is no moral obligation if it is not cheap...seems subjective to me Personally, the price of the meal should have nothing to do with it

The price of the meal has a lot to do with it actually. If you have a restaurant that charges no more than 10-11 bucks a meal, I bet you you'll have more customers that will tip.

But they (if they are a nice place) will be out of business...so it really doesn't matter
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]Oh come on, arent citizens able to make statements about pricing since they are aware of the cost of living in their country? The only case where such statements of two people disagreeing would be subjective is when there is a big gap between their incomes (one is not rich and the other isnt).fighter91
Definitely. That's exactly what my parents do... if it's too expensive, they figure tip was taken into account, why else would a similar meal cost so much less at another place? He is saying there is no moral obligation if it is not cheap...seems subjective to me Personally, the price of the meal should have nothing to do with it

The price of the meal has a lot to do with it actually. If you have a restaurant that charges no more than 10-11 bucks a meal, I bet you you'll have more customers that will tip.

Definitely. That's exactly what my parents do. If it's too expensive, they assume the tip was included, because what other reason could there be for having a similar meal cost much less at another place.

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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="fighter91"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] He is saying there is no moral obligation if it is not cheap...seems subjective to me Personally, the price of the meal should have nothing to do with it

The price of the meal has a lot to do with it actually. If you have a restaurant that charges no more than 10-11 bucks a meal, I bet you you'll have more customers that will tip.

But they (if they are a nice place) will be out of business...so it really doesn't matter

I do not understand this. How does managing to pay your employees so little yet not being able to maintain business go hand in hand?
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]Oh come on, arent citizens able to make statements about pricing since they are aware of the cost of living in their country? The only case where such statements of two people disagreeing would be subjective is when there is a big gap between their incomes (one is not rich and the other isnt).

He is saying there is no moral obligation if it is not cheap...seems subjective to me Personally, the price of the meal should have nothing to do with it

Wait by saying it is subjective didnt you mean about him saying not being cheap? It has something to do with it. Because it shows if its normal for employers to pay their waiters so little.

He said if the meal costs too much then you don't have to tip What is cheap/expensive is subjective A steak can cost $50 and be cheap to one person and expensive to another The same person can be fine spending $50 to eat lobster, but would not pay that much to eat fast food ...it is all subjective when it comes to price
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[QUOTE="fighter91"][QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="fighter91"] The price of the meal has a lot to do with it actually. If you have a restaurant that charges no more than 10-11 bucks a meal, I bet you you'll have more customers that will tip.

But they (if they are a nice place) will be out of business...so it really doesn't matter

I do not understand this. How does managing to pay your employees so little yet not being able to maintain business go hand in hand?

This last comment was based on the low price of the meal
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[QUOTE="fighter91"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] Definitely. That's exactly what my parents do... if it's too expensive, they figure tip was taken into account, why else would a similar meal cost so much less at another place? He is saying there is no moral obligation if it is not cheap...seems subjective to me Personally, the price of the meal should have nothing to do with itF1_2004

The price of the meal has a lot to do with it actually. If you have a restaurant that charges no more than 10-11 bucks a meal, I bet you you'll have more customers that will tip.

Definitely. That's exactly what my parents do. If it's too expensive, they assume the tip was included, because what other reason could there be for having a similar meal cost much less at another place.

You pay for a lot more than food at a place to eat :? -ambiance, service, cleanliness, status...too many things to name
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] He is saying there is no moral obligation if it is not cheap...seems subjective to me Personally, the price of the meal should have nothing to do with it

Wait by saying it is subjective didnt you mean about him saying not being cheap? It has something to do with it. Because it shows if its normal for employers to pay their waiters so little.

He said if the meal costs too much then you don't have to tip What is cheap/expensive is subjective A steak can cost $50 and be cheap to one person and expensive to another The same person can be fine spending $50 to eat lobster, but would not pay that much to eat fast food ...it is all subjective when it comes to price

Thats why I said that its only subjective when there is a big gap between the income of the two people disagreeing over if it is cheap or not. Its still not impossible to compare pricing. If that was so, then we wouldnt be hearing that country x has a higher cost of living than country y or what have you. There are ways of determining that.
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] He is saying there is no moral obligation if it is not cheap...seems subjective to me Personally, the price of the meal should have nothing to do with it

Wait by saying it is subjective didnt you mean about him saying not being cheap? It has something to do with it. Because it shows if its normal for employers to pay their waiters so little.

He said if the meal costs too much then you don't have to tip What is cheap/expensive is subjective A steak can cost $50 and be cheap to one person and expensive to another The same person can be fine spending $50 to eat lobster, but would not pay that much to eat fast food ...it is all subjective when it comes to price

' But it is subjective without regard to the financial standing of the customer. I guarantee you if you ask any middle class customer of a restaurant whether 50 dollars is too much for a steak, most, if not all, will say yes.
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[QUOTE="F1_2004"]

[QUOTE="fighter91"] The price of the meal has a lot to do with it actually. If you have a restaurant that charges no more than 10-11 bucks a meal, I bet you you'll have more customers that will tip.rawsavon

Definitely. That's exactly what my parents do. If it's too expensive, they assume the tip was included, because what other reason could there be for having a similar meal cost much less at another place.

You pay for a lot more than food at a place to eat :? -ambiance, service, cleanliness, status...too many things to name

Hmm I find that strange. My local Chilli's and Applebee's is not anymore cleaner than my local McDonald's which charges no more than 6 dollars for their biggest meals.
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I tip 3 to 5 bucks depending on how much I have at the moment.

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[QUOTE="fighter91"][QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]Wait by saying it is subjective didnt you mean about him saying not being cheap? It has something to do with it. Because it shows if its normal for employers to pay their waiters so little.

He said if the meal costs too much then you don't have to tip What is cheap/expensive is subjective A steak can cost $50 and be cheap to one person and expensive to another The same person can be fine spending $50 to eat lobster, but would not pay that much to eat fast food ...it is all subjective when it comes to price

' But it is subjective without regard to the financial standing of the customer. I guarantee you if you ask any middle class customer of a restaurant whether 50 dollars is too much for a steak, most, if not all, will say yes.

Not here in Texas...which defines why it is subjective
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="F1_2004"]

Definitely. That's exactly what my parents do. If it's too expensive, they assume the tip was included, because what other reason could there be for having a similar meal cost much less at another place.

fighter91

You pay for a lot more than food at a place to eat :? -ambiance, service, cleanliness, status...too many things to name

Hmm I find that strange. My local Chilli's and Applebee's is not anymore cleaner than my local McDonald's which charges no more than 6 dollars for their biggest meals.

Then why do people go to Applebee's....b/c they are paying for something more than the food

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#182 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]Wait by saying it is subjective didnt you mean about him saying not being cheap? It has something to do with it. Because it shows if its normal for employers to pay their waiters so little.

He said if the meal costs too much then you don't have to tip What is cheap/expensive is subjective A steak can cost $50 and be cheap to one person and expensive to another The same person can be fine spending $50 to eat lobster, but would not pay that much to eat fast food ...it is all subjective when it comes to price

Thats why I said that its only subjective when there is a big gap between the income of the two people disagreeing over if it is cheap or not. Its still not impossible to compare pricing. If that was so, then we wouldnt be hearing that country x has a higher cost of living than country y or what have you. There are ways of determining that.

I am not talking about b/w countries...I am talking on an INDIVIDUAL level. What is expensive in one case to me for a meal is not in another...I will pay $50 for one meal, but only $5 for another...it is all food...that is why it is subjective
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#183 fighter91
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[QUOTE="fighter91"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] You pay for a lot more than food at a place to eat :? -ambiance, service, cleanliness, status...too many things to namerawsavon

Hmm I find that strange. My local Chilli's and Applebee's is not anymore cleaner than my local McDonald's which charges no more than 6 dollars for their biggest meals.

Then why do people go to Applebee's....b/c they are paying for something more than the food

Maybe they like the food at Applebee's more than McD's ? And what do you mean "offering more than the food"? Is there live music at these restaurants? Some kind of a special show? No, all you do is order your food and (this is where a restaurant differs from fast food) a waiter comes up and supports you for your experience at the restaurant. Now what I mean by support? serving you your drink, serving you the food right away, and asking every so often whether they (the customers) are enjoying the food and whether they would like more soda or not. Do I find it justifiable to pay this person for doing her job? NO. that's not my responsibility. Let her paycheck reflect upon that.
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#184 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] He said if the meal costs too much then you don't have to tip What is cheap/expensive is subjective A steak can cost $50 and be cheap to one person and expensive to another The same person can be fine spending $50 to eat lobster, but would not pay that much to eat fast food ...it is all subjective when it comes to price

Thats why I said that its only subjective when there is a big gap between the income of the two people disagreeing over if it is cheap or not. Its still not impossible to compare pricing. If that was so, then we wouldnt be hearing that country x has a higher cost of living than country y or what have you. There are ways of determining that.

I am not talking about b/w countries...I am talking on an INDIVIDUAL level. What is expensive in one case to me for a meal is not in another...I will pay $50 for one meal, but only $5 for another...it is all food...that is why it is subjective

But when the comparison is done between countries they do compare individual levels first. First they will compare pricing in basic products (bread, milk etc) then cost of entertainment (restairants, clubs or other form of entertainment a country has etc). etc And the comparison will take into account factors at play when comparing. For instance the quality grade thingy the restaurant has received from the local authorities (or an organisation if there is one) and who knows what else there is and it would be taken into consideration if its important. Obviously we arent gonna compare the prices of McDonals to the prices of a decent restaurant, or the gyros place near my house with a fancy restaurant downtown. You are exaggerating on this "subjective" argument.
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#185 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]Thats why I said that its only subjective when there is a big gap between the income of the two people disagreeing over if it is cheap or not. Its still not impossible to compare pricing. If that was so, then we wouldnt be hearing that country x has a higher cost of living than country y or what have you. There are ways of determining that.

I am not talking about b/w countries...I am talking on an INDIVIDUAL level. What is expensive in one case to me for a meal is not in another...I will pay $50 for one meal, but only $5 for another...it is all food...that is why it is subjective

But when the comparison is done between countries they do compare individual levels first. First they will compare pricing in basic products (bread, milk etc) then cost of entertainment (restairants, clubs or other form of entertainment a country has etc). etc And the comparison will take into account factors at play when comparing. For instance the quality grade thingy the restaurant has received from the local authorities (or an organisation if there is one) and who knows what else there is and it would be taken into consideration if its important. Obviously we arent gonna compare the prices of McDonals to the prices of a decent restaurant, or the gyros place near my house with a fancy restaurant downtown. You are exaggerating on this "subjective" argument.

What you are talking about is price points and cost of living...that is objective I am talking about cheap/expensive...which is a personal matter...which is subjective
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#186 rawsavon
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. Do I find it justifiable to pay this person for doing her job? NO. that's not my responsibility. Let her paycheck reflect upon that.fighter91
But you pay everyone's paycheck :? ...who else do you think does? They do not make min. wage b/c we don't pay them that. No tips = they get paid more = we pay them more = increased prices It is all the same. Only with tips we have more control
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#187 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"] What you are talking about is price points and cost of living...that is objective I am talking about cheap/expensive...which is a personal matter...which is subjective

The cost of living IS determined by the prices. If the prices are deemed generally high (compared to average income) - ie: expensive - then the cost of living is high, if they are low - ie: cheap - then it is low. The point remains that prices ARE being compared, not arbitrarily. This is not as subjective as you make it out to be.
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#188 fighter91
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[QUOTE="fighter91"]. Do I find it justifiable to pay this person for doing her job? NO. that's not my responsibility. Let her paycheck reflect upon that.rawsavon
But you pay everyone's paycheck :? ...who else do you think does? They do not make min. wage b/c we don't pay them that. No tips = they get paid more = we pay them more = increased prices It is all the same. Only with tips we have more control

This argument would be more justifiable if the cost of a meal at an average restaurant was cheaper.
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#189 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] What you are talking about is price points and cost of living...that is objective I am talking about cheap/expensive...which is a personal matter...which is subjective

The cost of living IS determined by the prices. If the prices are deemed generally high (compared to average income) - ie: expensive - then the cost of living is high, if they are low - ie: cheap - then it is low. The point remains that prices ARE being compared, not arbitrarily. This is not as subjective as you make it out to be.

You are comparing b/w people and places...that is objective I am not...all I am talking about is a personal matter...that is subjective -a person in my shoes, that makes the same as me might think 50k for a car is cheap, while another might consider 30k expensive...that is subjective on the individual level
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#190 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="fighter91"]. Do I find it justifiable to pay this person for doing her job? NO. that's not my responsibility. Let her paycheck reflect upon that.fighter91
But you pay everyone's paycheck :? ...who else do you think does? They do not make min. wage b/c we don't pay them that. No tips = they get paid more = we pay them more = increased prices It is all the same. Only with tips we have more control

This argument would be more justifiable if the cost of a meal at an average restaurant was cheaper.

That's subjective. I think MOST (not all) places food is pretty ****ing cheap for what you get
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#191 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] What you are talking about is price points and cost of living...that is objective I am talking about cheap/expensive...which is a personal matter...which is subjective

The cost of living IS determined by the prices. If the prices are deemed generally high (compared to average income) - ie: expensive - then the cost of living is high, if they are low - ie: cheap - then it is low. The point remains that prices ARE being compared, not arbitrarily. This is not as subjective as you make it out to be.

You are comparing b/w people and places...that is objective I am not...all I am talking about is a personal matter...that is subjective -a person in my shoes, that makes the same as me might think 50k for a car is cheap, while another might consider 30k expensive...that is subjective on the individual level

I dont know where you find that subjectivity. In my life I havent seen people disagree a lot on when prices are high or low, except for when the people discussing did not have the same income by large. Regardless, the people conducting the surveys who in the end determine the cost of living are individuals too. They are just being more objective and the point remains that you CAN compare prices between two countries for the same category of product.
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#192 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]The cost of living IS determined by the prices. If the prices are deemed generally high (compared to average income) - ie: expensive - then the cost of living is high, if they are low - ie: cheap - then it is low. The point remains that prices ARE being compared, not arbitrarily. This is not as subjective as you make it out to be.

You are comparing b/w people and places...that is objective I am not...all I am talking about is a personal matter...that is subjective -a person in my shoes, that makes the same as me might think 50k for a car is cheap, while another might consider 30k expensive...that is subjective on the individual level

I dont know where you find that subjectivity. In my life I havent seen people disagree a lot on when prices are high or low, except for when the people discussing did not have the same income by large. Regardless, the people conducting the surveys who in the end determine the cost of living are individuals too. They are just being more objective and the point remains that you CAN compare prices between two countries for the same category of product.

But once again you are talking about a consensus...one person to another...I am only talking about on the individual level It is...hmmm...you know what... Let's just be honest, we are just butting heads here. Something I don't mind with people I hate, but I like you. There is really no chance (after 2 pages) of us reaching a consensus So we can just agree to disagree in a peaceful, gentlemanly manner :)
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#193 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] You are comparing b/w people and places...that is objective I am not...all I am talking about is a personal matter...that is subjective -a person in my shoes, that makes the same as me might think 50k for a car is cheap, while another might consider 30k expensive...that is subjective on the individual level

I dont know where you find that subjectivity. In my life I havent seen people disagree a lot on when prices are high or low, except for when the people discussing did not have the same income by large. Regardless, the people conducting the surveys who in the end determine the cost of living are individuals too. They are just being more objective and the point remains that you CAN compare prices between two countries for the same category of product.

But once again you are talking about a consensus...one person to another...I am only talking about on the individual level It is...hmmm...you know what... Let's just be honest, we are just butting heads here. Something I don't mind with people I hate, but I like you. There is really no chance (after 2 pages) of us reaching a consensus So we can just agree to disagree in a peaceful, gentlemanly manner :)

What sucks is that I have disabled the editor and cant easily post this "D: *goes emo*" in a huge font expressing the interruption of my efforts to change your mind. I can be very persistent, I know; I dont like arguing with people I like either.
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#194 rawsavon
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I dont like arguing with people I like either.Teenaged
It makes it very difficult...especially over text (instead of spoken words)
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#195 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]I dont like arguing with people I like either.rawsavon
It makes it very difficult...especially over text (instead of spoken words)

Yeah if it was not over text there are other ways to make you agree...
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#196 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]I dont like arguing with people I like either.Teenaged
It makes it very difficult...especially over text (instead of spoken words)

Yeah if it was not over text there are other ways to make you agree...

That's better :oops:
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If the service was good I tip 20% standard and will go down from there. Bars are usually different and it depends on how much I've ordered the price of what I ordered and their service.

I rarely never tip but sometimes you get bad service and thats just how it goes, but I will still go there give em another shot.