Friend Zone The **** Up Place To Be

1. Have you bee/are in the friend zone?

2. Why do females think that single men are interested in being friends (I'm mean friends not acquaintances)?

3. How does one fall into a friend zone?

4. How does one get out of the friend zone?

I'd just like to say I am in the friend zone, with a girl I could spent countless hours with. Now I want more. If anyone could answer the above questions or share your story, please do.

Here's what I've gathered about the friend zone so far.

I've been in the friend zone for about 3 years now, with a girl that has been single for all those years. She had 2 guys she slept with on rare occasions during that time. She is not attracted to other females; she doesn't seem to ever be interested in other guys, except some geek at work. Ok this is what I've already tried in order to get out of the friend zone:

Being nice and courties

Making her laugh all the time

Taking her to dinners and the beach in romantic spots

Having a girlfriend to make her jealous

Giving the silent treatment for 2 months

Sleeping around to make her jealous

Helping her out all the **** time

Being there for her all the **** time

Finally telling her how I feel

I just did the last one, and that made our friend ship weird, I haven't talked to her since, for a week. wtf should I do, because I'm already determined to leave it alone and just never speak to her or see her again. Why do these stupid **** think we want to be friends with them?

Once you are in the friend zone, you can't get out. Try talking to her about and see what happens but I don't think it will end well. Sorry man.

Hahahaha no she just doesn't like you at all. You aren't her friend at all so you aren't in the friend zone. Be a B****. Be a Man. Everything you did also probably turn her away from you; ruined your chance. North Korea Number 1!

1. Never
2. They are less dog like
3. Balls
4. See 3

So you've wanted to be with her for three years? Why would you ever wait that long?Parandrus

My crush (who is two years older than me) said you're like a little brother to me. Its like 10 times worse than getting friend zoned. lonewolf604

I got out of the friend-zone once, got into friends with benefits instead.

/success kid

[QUOTE="lonewolf604"]My crush (who is two years older than me) said you're like a little brother to me. Its like 10 times worse than getting friend zoned. Skittles_McGee

[QUOTE="lonewolf604"]My crush (who is two years older than me) said you're like a little brother to me. Its like 10 times worse than getting friend zoned. Skittles_McGee

i've been in that zone many a time. reason #1 i haven't had a single Gf:?

You still have a chance to fix this issue with your friend.Just say that you really have feelings for her and talk about being friends or more with her. She'll understand you unless she is a you know what.

I just told her I like her, and I we haven't tried to get in contact for about 5 days now. Form a friend she said she needs a breather from me right now, and she hopes we can be friends. My friend is not a legit source of information though.

The excuse she doesn't want to risk the friendship is a bunch of bull **** in my opinion.

Anyway when I told her I liked her I pretty much got an hour of its not you it's me speech.

Once you are in the friend zone, you can't get out. Try talking to her about and see what happens but I don't think it will end well. Sorry man.

sherman-tank1

1. Have you bee/are in the friend zone?

Yes, sir.

2. Why do females think that single men are interested in being friends (I'm mean friends not acquaintances)?

Because most of the times, single men do want to be their friend.

3. How does one fall into a friend zone?

From my experience, by either not being able to show interest in that person, or by being way too nice.

4. How does one get out of the friend zone?

I have gotten out of the friend zone, and it is all about timing. I believe that during the course of a friendship there are some occasions where you can tilt things on your favor if you do the right thing. However, those occasions tend to disappear with time, sadly.

Just move on. You'll most likely never be with her. Since you said you're not interested in being her friend just continue not contacting her and find someone else (who you don't wait years for).Parandrus

The friend zone has a greater gravitational pull than the Sun.

1. Yes.

2. Because apparently single men want to be just friends?

3. Meet someone at the wrong time and say really stupid things in front of them

4. Beats me. I think once someone thinks of you as just a friend, you're kind of stuck there until one/both of you change martin101n

Probably should have told her how you feel beforeyou slept around, and then if she rejected you, you could have been like "cool whatever, I'm gonna go bang this chick now".

Be happy that you're in the friend zone. I'm stuck in the acquaintance zone. NiKva

1. Have you bee/are in the friend zone?

Yes, sir.

2. Why do females think that single men are interested in being friends (I'm mean friends not acquaintances)?

Because most of the times, single men do want to be their friend.

3. How does one fall into a friend zone?

From my experience, by either not being able to show interest in that person, or by being way too nice.

4. How does one get out of the friend zone?

I have gotten out of the friend zone, and it is all about timing. I believe that during the course of a friendship there are some occasions where you can tilt things on your favor if you do the right thing. However, those occasions tend to disappear with time, sadly.

Pierst179

[QUOTE="martin101n"]

1. Yes.

2. Because apparently single men want to be just friends?

3. Meet someone at the wrong time and say really stupid things in front of them

4. Beats me. I think once someone thinks of you as just a friend, you're kind of stuck there until one/both of you change zeldaluff

Probably should have told her how you feel beforeyou slept around, and then if she rejected you, you could have been like "cool whatever, I'm gonna go bang this chick now".

yeah you tried dude, seems like your gonna be in the friend for a while

My crush (who is two years older than me) said you're like a little brother to me. Its like 10 times worse than getting friend zoned. lonewolf604

Had that happen to me once. WORST moment of my life. Yeah I don't get why once a girl gets to know a guy pretty well as a friend, she will never consider him as a romantic avenue, while for guys they're pretty felxible either way. Something having to do with the hormonal wiring i guess.

yeah you tried dude, seems like your gonna be in the friend for a while

mlbslugger86

[QUOTE="mlbslugger86"]

yeah you tried dude, seems like your gonna be in the friend for a while

martin101n

i don't know why, but i just pictured someone loading a gun about to go rescue the love of his life from some bad guys:P

[QUOTE="martin101n"][QUOTE="mlbslugger86"]

yeah you tried dude, seems like your gonna be in the friend for a while

mlbslugger86

i don't know why, but i just pictured someone loading a gun about to go rescue the love of his life from some bad guys:P

[QUOTE="zeldaluff"]

Probably should have told her how you feel beforeyou slept around, and then if she rejected you, you could have been like "cool whatever, I'm gonna go bang this chick now".

martin101n

Well then. I know that feel bro.

[QUOTE="mlbslugger86"]

[QUOTE="martin101n"] I refuse being in the friend zone, I'm leaving with, or without her.martin101n

i don't know why, but i just pictured someone loading a gun about to go rescue the love of his life from some bad guys:P

like i said, it just popped into my head, for no reason :D

[QUOTE="lonewolf604"]My crush (who is two years older than me) said you're like a little brother to me. Its like 10 times worse than getting friend zoned. Tokugawa77

Had that happen to me once. WORST moment of my life. Yeah I don't get why once a girl gets to know a guy pretty well as a friend, she will never consider him as a romantic avenue, while for guys they're pretty felxible either way. Something having to do with the hormonal wiring i guess.

You like her more than she likes you. Sometimes that is just how it works out. You are interested in her in a more-than-friends way, she isn't interested back. It might feel bad, but you just move on until you find someone that does like you that way. You aren't going to get anywhere pursuing someone that doesn't or doesn't want to, and if it has been 3 years, I think it is safe to say that she falls into this category. And if you weren't interested in being her friend, why did you let her believe you were for THREE YEARS?CammiTac

Apparently he did let her know.

Still, 3 years? That's a waste of time tbh.

You like her more than she likes you. Sometimes that is just how it works out. You are interested in her in a more-than-friends way, she isn't interested back. It might feel bad, but you just move on until you find someone that does like you that way. You aren't going to get anywhere pursuing someone that doesn't or doesn't want to, and if it has been 3 years, I think it is safe to say that she falls into this category. CammiTac

The friend zone causes you to see the futility of romance.

The friend zone causes you to see the futility of romance.Bloodaxe726