Girl (In Love Edition) Trouble, Girls I Need Your Help

I like a girl. This is the first time i have, and if she accepts me, she'll be my first girlfriend. I am 22 by the way. Simple: How do i get her to notice me? I sent her a friend request on Facebook but she just ignored it. We have a class together (sort of a seminar, save Earth :p ) Two days before the class finishes. I have 2 days. Any ideas, girls? How do you like a boy and what do you think should i do? She has friends there and mine too, so it won't be a wise idea to do anything stupid that's for sure. Jot down your ideas, please.

Astrozombie will help. :)

Her ignoring you is a sure sign that she doesn't want anything to do with you. Every girl I have been with didn't turn me down when I approached them through what ever way the ones that did... weren't interested. Simple. Move on and just enjoy life if something happens naturally with a girl it happens if it doesn't don't beat your self up about it.Too_tight_shoes

Her ignoring you is a sure sign that she doesn't want anything to do with you. Every girl I have been with didn't turn me down when I approached them through what ever way the ones that did... weren't interested. Simple. Move on and just enjoy life if something happens naturally with a girl it happens if it doesn't don't beat your self up about it.Too_tight_shoes

[QUOTE="Too_tight_shoes"]Her ignoring you is a sure sign that she doesn't want anything to do with you. Every girl I have been with didn't turn me down when I approached them through what ever way the ones that did... weren't interested. Simple. Move on and just enjoy life if something happens naturally with a girl it happens if it doesn't don't beat your self up about it.Deihjan

[QUOTE="Too_tight_shoes"]Her ignoring you is a sure sign that she doesn't want anything to do with you. Every girl I have been with didn't turn me down when I approached them through what ever way the ones that did... weren't interested. Simple. Move on and just enjoy life if something happens naturally with a girl it happens if it doesn't don't beat your self up about it.Deihjan

im so confused lol. looks like i'll go to her home with an uzi and coerce her into loving me :D seriously, girls, what type of guys turn you on? what do u expect from a boy/

[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="Too_tight_shoes"]Her ignoring you is a sure sign that she doesn't want anything to do with you. Every girl I have been with didn't turn me down when I approached them through what ever way the ones that did... weren't interested. Simple. Move on and just enjoy life if something happens naturally with a girl it happens if it doesn't don't beat your self up about it.SLUSHiNaToR

im so confused lol. looks like i'll go to her home with an uzi and coerce her into loving me :D

phoenix-serpent

I sent her a friend request on Facebook but she just ignored it. phoenix-serpent

I like a girl. This is the first time i have, and if she accepts me, she'll be my first girlfriend. I am 22 by the way. Simple: How do i get her to notice me? I sent her a friend request on Facebook but she just ignored it. We have a class together (sort of a seminar, save Earth :p ) Two days before the class finishes. I have 2 days. Any ideas, girls? How do you like a boy and what do you think should i do? She has friends there and mine too, so it won't be a wise idea to do anything stupid that's for sure. Jot down your ideas, please.

phoenix-serpent

TC, if she doesnt want to speak with you, I.E. brushs you off all the time then dont push it and just leave it. If you pursue her then you might come off as a creepy guy. And stuff like that never leaves you.

[QUOTE="phoenix-serpent"] I sent her a friend request on Facebook but she just ignored it. Tessellation

Did you talk to her and does she know you before you sent a friends request? I don't have facebook but if some random person sent me a request I would ignore. Also I don't know how you will approach her now if you sent a random request. If you go up and talk to her now it would seem kind of stalker-ish..

no i just think i should give her sometime. she has seen me see, so she knows it's me. I just know, she's shy that's why she's denied my friend request. a friend of hers (a girl) is a great friend of mine, i can and will use manipulation!!

no i just think i should give her sometime. she has seen me see, so she knows it's me. I just know, she's shy that's why she's denied my friend request. a friend of hers (a girl) is a great friend of mine, i can and will use manipulation!!

phoenix-serpent

no i just think i should give her sometime. she has seen me see, so she knows it's me. I just know, she's shy that's why she's denied my friend request. a friend of hers (a girl) is a great friend of mine, i can and will use manipulation!!

phoenix-serpent

Then why not just ask the friend straight up about the girl and let her know you are interested...why use manipulation????

Dude, how much movies have you seen? Girls watch romantic movies all the time and want exactly what happens there,,, AKA go and freakin talk, try to be funny and it costs a lot of time and effort.

Best advice is, just keep talking untill she says something like thats she has to leave or that she wants you to go away. I mean, think of it... would you date/talk to some girl who you never really talked to before? (guess you would, but try to think of it in a girl way... they have to protects their eggs :))

Man just go talk or whatever, the worse thing that could happen is you get a no lol. The first girl I ever liked hit me with a no and I actually didn't care too much, then again I'm pretty different when it comes to these things.

[QUOTE="Tessellation"][QUOTE="phoenix-serpent"] I sent her a friend request on Facebook but she just ignored it. phoenix-serpent

I'm not saying women are not amazing because they are butwhy are you putting this one so high up on a pedistal?

I mean, you don't even really know her so why are you so intimidated from talking to her.

Just because you are crushing over her dosne't nessiciarly mean she is the right one for you.

You need to start the relationship the same way you would start one with a friend.

If she rejects you it obviously means it was not meant to be and you are probably not compatible with each other anyway. If it leads to somethingelse then great.

[QUOTE="phoenix-serpent"]

no i just think i should give her sometime. she has seen me see, so she knows it's me. I just know, she's shy that's why she's denied my friend request. a friend of hers (a girl) is a great friend of mine, i can and will use manipulation!!

clyde46

[QUOTE="clyde46"][QUOTE="phoenix-serpent"]

no i just think i should give her sometime. she has seen me see, so she knows it's me. I just know, she's shy that's why she's denied my friend request. a friend of hers (a girl) is a great friend of mine, i can and will use manipulation!!

phoenix-serpent

If she doesn't even want to be Facebook friends with you, what makes you think she wants to be your girlfriend?

Your thinking sell be your GF and you havent even talked to her yet.

Talk to her. Ask her out. Do something instead of posting about it online.Deihjan

Yep, this

Wear a clown costume, chicks dig it.

[QUOTE="Tessellation"][QUOTE="phoenix-serpent"] I sent her a friend request on Facebook but she just ignored it. phoenix-serpent

[QUOTE="phoenix-serpent"][QUOTE="Tessellation"] that line alone tells me something,she is not interested,forget it dude,don't waste your time..you been long single,you won't die now.-Tish-

Wear a clown costume, chicks dig it.

Diametraphine

how do you know she declined you on fb it doesnt tell you if they do

I don't understand why you feel full I never felt like that ever. Actually I never really felt anything except knowing the fact that I liked the girl. You have to change your perspective if you want to get a girl. If she is extremely attractive do not complment her looks, talk to her as if it doesn't matter whether you get her or not, remember that no matter what you think she is only a girl a simple human being and nothing more, find a balance between being a jerk and a nice guy (going too far either way will not work). If her looks ever do get into the conversation use words like ok, nice ,etc. Starting to date at 22 is going be harder because some girls will assume you have had dating experience before. In summary the key is to talk to the girl normally without tension or at least hide your tension. These are the methods that I find are the most successful at the very least she should become your friend.

Why would you add her to your facebook if you don't even know her?

Contrary to what people are saying she ignoring a friend request doesnt mean shes not interested? based from what i have read from the original post it seems like the girl doesnt even know you? Alot of girls are like that they wotn add anyone they dont know.