Girls have it too easy

[QUOTE="Vyse_Legends"][QUOTE="Andrew_Xavier"][QUOTE="Vyse_Legends"]

Try it some time :D
It's like...football...if you take away the pads, make all passes backwards, and make it so the play doesn't stop when someone goes down while carrying the ball...well...it's nothing like football...but, that's an example people understand....yeah...so....imagine football with with no padding, no play stoppages, and tons of laterals.

Andrew_Xavier

To satisfy competitive violent urges while saying in shape?

Girls have boobs.MoonSpoon

And that is why things come easy in life for some of us.

[QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

[QUOTE="MoonSpoon"]Girls have boobs.Andrew_Xavier

That is an amazing observation.
Honestly, did anyone else know that girls had BOOBS?

some guys have boobs too :o

TC is an average frustrated chump(AFC).

He can't work up the courage to ask a girl out, or let alone talk to her. But when he does, he stutters and stammers; looks like a total idiot. But what he doesn't realize is that every guy is nervous when talking to a girl, the popular jocks, the generally popular guys. But they can control their anxiety.

He thinks that women are these intimidating creatures who's only goal is to shoot him down. But that's where he's wrong. Maybe its because he lacks self confidence, or maybe he was taught to put the ***** on a pedestal (which most guys make the mistake of) and that causes his anxiety. That is one thing that I dislike about this society. Women are treated almost as goddesses by the AFC.

So this AFC looks at a girl like some unattainable object of desire. So when he gets shot down, he doesn't blame it on himself, god forbid, he blames women for being "*****es." But what he fails to realize is that she's just another person. And he should think about her like that, and talk to her like that. Don't treat her like **** but don't idolize her like you've been doing all these past years.

There are plenty of other places to get dating advice other than gamespot, google is your friend.

So to all you AFCs out there; man up, grow some balls and knock that ***** off its pedistal.

blooddemon666

Agreed, I lack the self confidence to ask ANYONE out, however, I know it's my own doing, not others. Just like I don't blame employers for being unemployed(Like most people), I blame myself for only applying at Best Buy in the last 3 years or so.
wemhim

I lack self confidence (I'm one ugly mofo) but I take full responsibility for everything, whether its work, not doing chores, not getting my life straight or what have you. I don't try to shift the blame "bawwww they don't want to hire me." or "bawwww mcdonalds makes me fat."

I'm the only one that controls my life, and I'm the only one in control of changing it.

They don't have to do anything to find guys. All they have to do is exist and the guys who approach first get the girls. That's why most attractive girils are taken. Girls don't hold out for the guy who best fist their needs, they just go with the first guy who makes them laugh. I'm mostly referring to younger, teen to early 20s girls. I do not believe that it is the men who are the pigs, in this day and age I think it is the women who are the pigs. Women get to choose, and they choose whoever comes along first. Guys don't have the luxury of choosing which girl comes along first because girls make a habbit of ignoring guys unless they are approached by guys.

n_kors

Agreed.

[QUOTE="wemhim"]Agreed, I lack the self confidence to ask ANYONE out, however, I know it's my own doing, not others. Just like I don't blame employers for being unemployed(Like most people), I blame myself for only applying at Best Buy in the last 3 years or so.
blooddemon666

I lack self confidence (I'm one ugly mofo) but I take full responsibility for everything, whether its work, not doing chores, not getting my life straight or what have you. I don't try to shift the blame "bawwww they don't want to hire me." or "bawwww mcdonalds makes me fat."

I'm the only one that controls my life, and I'm the only one in control of changing it.

What people don't realize about mental illness is that alot of times people can be well aware that the problem is stupid, but the whole point of the illness is that logic doesn't matter. I am normally a confident person except when it comes to talking to people and especially approaching people.

I am not as bad once I get to know the person a little, but I just get so insanely tense and anxious in public that I can't even relax when I am eating.

In fact, eating in public is the worst for me. It seemse like everyone is staring at me watching me eat so if I eat a bit fast then I start thinking "man they must think I'm a pig" and stuff like that.

I hate it when people laugh by me while I'm eating because my brain automatically assumes they're laughing at me...

In one sense its my fault for not getting over the problem but I will be damned if anyone tries and calls me weak for not getting over it. People have no idea how hard controlling your mind is untill it gets out of control....

[QUOTE="blooddemon666"]

[QUOTE="wemhim"]Agreed, I lack the self confidence to ask ANYONE out, however, I know it's my own doing, not others. Just like I don't blame employers for being unemployed(Like most people), I blame myself for only applying at Best Buy in the last 3 years or so.
Thechaninator

I lack self confidence (I'm one ugly mofo) but I take full responsibility for everything, whether its work, not doing chores, not getting my life straight or what have you. I don't try to shift the blame "bawwww they don't want to hire me." or "bawwww mcdonalds makes me fat."

I'm the only one that controls my life, and I'm the only one in control of changing it.

What people don't realize about mental illness is that alot of times people can be well aware that the problem is stupid, but the whole point of the illness is that logic doesn't matter. I am normally a confident person except when it comes to talking to people and especially approaching people.

I am not as bad once I get to know the person a little, but I just get so insanely tense and anxious in public that I can't even relax when I am eating.

In fact, eating in public is the worst for me. It seemse like everyone is staring at me watching me eat so if I eat a bit fast then I start thinking "man they must think I'm a pig" and stuff like that.

I hate it when people laugh by me while I'm eating because my brain automatically assumes they're laughing at me...

In one sense its my fault for not getting over the problem but I will be damned if anyone tries and calls me weak for not getting over it. People have no idea how hard controlling your mind is untill it gets out of control....

My situation is a little more complicated.

What people don't realize about mental illness is that alot of times people can be well aware that the problem is stupid, but the whole point of the illness is that logic doesn't matter. I am normally a confident person except when it comes to talking to people and especially approaching people.

I am not as bad once I get to know the person a little, but I just get so insanely tense and anxious in public that I can't even relax when I am eating.

In fact, eating in public is the worst for me. It seemse like everyone is staring at me watching me eat so if I eat a bit fast then I start thinking "man they must think I'm a pig" and stuff like that.

I hate it when people laugh by me while I'm eating because my brain automatically assumes they're laughing at me...

In one sense its my fault for not getting over the problem but I will be damned if anyone tries and calls me weak for not getting over it. People have no idea how hard controlling your mind is untill it gets out of control....

Thechaninator

A whole bunch of illogical stuff flows through my head, but I make a conscious effort to drown it out. They're obviously laughing at something their friend said, but my mind instantly goes to the fact that they're lauging at me.

I'm sure there's some website or something that you can go to that has ways to make you overcome those things. you just have to have the overwhelming will to change something about yourself

your wrong women choose

men try to get whatever they can get

[QUOTE="MoonSpoon"]Girls have boobs.Kikouken

And that is why things come easy in life for some of us.

The things guys have to do to get attention, I tell ya

[QUOTE="Kikouken"]

[QUOTE="MoonSpoon"]Girls have boobs.esb1118

And that is why things come easy in life for some of us.

The things guys have to do to get attention, I tell ya

It's a good fake till you get the real things.;)

[QUOTE="Thechaninator"]

My situation is a little more complicated.

What people don't realize about mental illness is that alot of times people can be well aware that the problem is stupid, but the whole point of the illness is that logic doesn't matter. I am normally a confident person except when it comes to talking to people and especially approaching people.

I am not as bad once I get to know the person a little, but I just get so insanely tense and anxious in public that I can't even relax when I am eating.

In fact, eating in public is the worst for me. It seemse like everyone is staring at me watching me eat so if I eat a bit fast then I start thinking "man they must think I'm a pig" and stuff like that.

I hate it when people laugh by me while I'm eating because my brain automatically assumes they're laughing at me...

In one sense its my fault for not getting over the problem but I will be damned if anyone tries and calls me weak for not getting over it. People have no idea how hard controlling your mind is untill it gets out of control....

blooddemon666

A whole bunch of illogical stuff flows through my head, but I make a conscious effort to drown it out. They're obviously laughing at something their friend said, but my mind instantly goes to the fact that they're lauging at me.

I'm sure there's some website or something that you can go to that has ways to make you overcome those things. you just have to have the overwhelming will to change something about yourself

I would try cognitive behavioral therapy but I don't have the time to see a psychologist and I also don't want to get put on meds.....

For now I am just gonna try and get over it. I talk alot at work and stuff and once I get talking I can talk alot, its just approaching people and trying to ask for numbers and stuff that I simply can't do....

If I have a hard time even thinking that guys I have been friends with since elementary school like me at times, then how in the hell am I supposed to think someone I just met likes me?

I would try cognitive behavioral therapy but I don't have the time to see a psychologist and I also don't want to get put on meds.....

For now I am just gonna try and get over it. I talk alot at work and stuff and once I get talking I can talk alot, its just approaching people and trying to ask for numbers and stuff that I simply can't do....

If I have a hard time even thinking that guys I have been friends with since elementary school like me at times, then how in the hell am I supposed to think someone I just met likes me?

Thechaninator

I'm sure you could find a website/book on cognitive behavioral therapy which would be much cheaper than a psychologist. One prolific writer which deals with the stuff is Anthony Robbins. He talks a lot about what he calls "Neuro-Associative Conditioning"

[QUOTE="Thechaninator"]

I would try cognitive behavioral therapy but I don't have the time to see a psychologist and I also don't want to get put on meds.....

For now I am just gonna try and get over it. I talk alot at work and stuff and once I get talking I can talk alot, its just approaching people and trying to ask for numbers and stuff that I simply can't do....

If I have a hard time even thinking that guys I have been friends with since elementary school like me at times, then how in the hell am I supposed to think someone I just met likes me?

blooddemon666

I'm sure you could find a website/book on cognitive behavioral therapy which would be much cheaper than a psychologist. One prolific writer which deals with the stuff is Anthony Robbins. He talks a lot about what he calls "Neuro-Associative Conditioning"

It will be alot easier once I get out of the house. I think the main thing that triggered it is the way my dad and now my stepdad have treated me. Nothing quite like being told you suck and such on a daily basis....

It will be alot easier once I get out of the house. I think the main thing that triggered it is the way my dad and now my stepdad have treated me. Nothing quite like being told you suck and such on a daily basis....

Thechaninator

[QUOTE="Thechaninator"]

It will be alot easier once I get out of the house. I think the main thing that triggered it is the way my dad and now my stepdad have treated me. Nothing quite like being told you suck and such on a daily basis....

blooddemon666

Yeah, if I ever wished death upon anyone it is those two sacks of crap.....

It bothers me that as much as I despise them I can tell that what they say ends up effecting me despite how little I care for their opinions....

Haven't you ever heard of stuffing a bra?

It's a good fake till you get the real things.;)

Vyse_Legends

i don't think so. when there in their teens they start growing breast, they have periods then they usualy have mood swings. if they have sex they will end up having a baby its embarrsing telling ur parents ur pregnant at a young age. presure of having sex. thats what i think about girls.

guys on the other hand, they just grow get hair in places they never have before, might grow ance on their face. they don't have to worry about getting pregant or taking care of their body.

thats what i think ji'm a guy

[QUOTE="blooddemon666"]

TC is an average frustrated chump(AFC).

He can't work up the courage to ask a girl out, or let alone talk to her. But when he does, he stutters and stammers; looks like a total idiot. But what he doesn't realize is that every guy is nervous when talking to a girl, the popular jocks, the generally popular guys. But they can control their anxiety.

He thinks that women are these intimidating creatures who's only goal is to shoot him down. But that's where he's wrong. Maybe its because he lacks self confidence, or maybe he was taught to put the ***** on a pedestal (which most guys make the mistake of) and that causes his anxiety. That is one thing that I dislike about this society. Women are treated almost as goddesses by the AFC.

So this AFC looks at a girl like some unattainable object of desire. So when he gets shot down, he doesn't blame it on himself, god forbid, he blames women for being "*****es." But what he fails to realize is that she's just another person. And he should think about her like that, and talk to her like that. Don't treat her like **** but don't idolize her like you've been doing all these past years.

There are plenty of other places to get dating advice other than gamespot, google is your friend.

So to all you AFCs out there; man up, grow some balls and knock that ***** off its pedistal.

wemhim

How very intuitive of you. I can read too...The book called "The Game, " which is where you got this "smooth" information from. I've read that book too my friend. Getting girls is not about being smooth. I have sisters, and guess what they say when guys try to act "smooth" around them. They laugh their butts off. Its pathetic. You have to be yourself. I know. I'm not frustrated. Whoever said I don't get girls? The point of this topic was an assertion, I never said it was true, and I'm actually starting to think that it is not true because of the much valued opinions of all these people you claim are "average frustrated chumps" on gamespot. You're on gamespot all the time too. We all are. I like because we all seem like like-minded individuals. I don't believe in the AFC theory. you can subscribe to that school of thought all you want, but I don't think "The Game" has the best strategies for getting girls. Maybe for gettings sluts, but not girls. I've read all the books. I could tell you things that would shock you about human mating strategies. I'm a smart guy. I acknowledge the things I need and don't need to work on.

I will admit that girls don't have it easy. This is the way I see it. Highly attractive women have it easier than highly attractive men, but highly unatractive males have it much easier than highly unattractive women because women are not as visual as men, meaning they don't care as much about looks.

i see what you're saying. most girls could go up to any single guy and ask him out and he would say yes, but most guys can't go up to any girl and expect her to say yes right away.shoeman12

Exactly my point. I just didn't quite put it as well as you. This is true too! It is absolutely true. They've done studies. Girls are much less likely to accept dates or sex than men because they think more about the long term. I guess they worry that the guy is only interested in sex. But not all guys are like this.

Men have to try like 10x as hard as women to get dates.

Girls get periods.

Discussion over man.

I'm a nerdy girl and i have no problem getting a guy. But, I don't just date the first guy i meet who makes me laugh. I have been actually waiting for an intelligent guy to come around for the past year and i finally found one who I actually liked recently, AND GUESS WHAT: I'm the one pressuing him! So not all girls are shallow, selfish pigs. There are some, but don't pile us all into a group.BeccaBoo91

hey nerdy girl....n_n......

Girls get periods.

Discussion over man.

SouthernBBaller

[QUOTE="SouthernBBaller"]

Girls get periods.

Discussion over man.

blackngold29

Id rather get kicked there every day than get a period each month.

[QUOTE="blackngold29"][QUOTE="SouthernBBaller"]

Girls get periods.

Discussion over man.

SouthernBBaller

Id rather get kicked there every day than get a period each month.

[QUOTE="SouthernBBaller"][QUOTE="blackngold29"][QUOTE="SouthernBBaller"]

Girls get periods.

Discussion over man.

C_BozkurT_C

Id rather get kicked there every day than get a period each month.

[QUOTE="SouthernBBaller"][QUOTE="blackngold29"][QUOTE="SouthernBBaller"]

Girls get periods.

Discussion over man.

C_BozkurT_C

Id rather get kicked there every day than get a period each month.

They are just uncomfortable and inconvenient

They don't have to do anything to find guys. All they have to do is exist and the guys who approach first get the girls. That's why most attractive girils are taken. Girls don't hold out for the guy who best fist their needs, they just go with the first guy who makes them laugh. I'm mostly referring to younger, teen to early 20s girls. I do not believe that it is the men who are the pigs, in this day and age I think it is the women who are the pigs. Women get to choose, and they choose whoever comes along first. Guys don't have the luxury of choosing which girl comes along first because girls make a habbit of ignoring guys unless they are approached by guys.

n_kors

you have a point there, but it happends both ways. But still, i think girls have it a little bit easier

[QUOTE="C_BozkurT_C"][QUOTE="SouthernBBaller"][QUOTE="blackngold29"][QUOTE="SouthernBBaller"]

Girls get periods.

Discussion over man.

BeccaBoo91

Id rather get kicked there every day than get a period each month.

They are just uncomfortable and inconvenient

[QUOTE="C_BozkurT_C"][QUOTE="SouthernBBaller"][QUOTE="blackngold29"][QUOTE="SouthernBBaller"]

Girls get periods.

Discussion over man.

BeccaBoo91

Id rather get kicked there every day than get a period each month.

They are just uncomfortable and inconvenient

You don't have to wonder......its just irritating for girls..that's why some of 'em gets moody during those times...

[QUOTE="BeccaBoo91"][QUOTE="C_BozkurT_C"][QUOTE="SouthernBBaller"][QUOTE="blackngold29"][QUOTE="SouthernBBaller"]

Girls get periods.

Discussion over man.

C_BozkurT_C

Id rather get kicked there every day than get a period each month.

They are just uncomfortable and inconvenient

i know......this thread is leading into something else...girls don't have it easy after all....

They don't have to do anything to find guys. All they have to do is exist and the guys who approach first get the girls. That's why most attractive girils are taken. Girls don't hold out for the guy who best fist their needs, they just go with the first guy who makes them laugh. I'm mostly referring to younger, teen to early 20s girls. I do not believe that it is the men who are the pigs, in this day and age I think it is the women who are the pigs. Women get to choose, and they choose whoever comes along first. Guys don't have the luxury of choosing which girl comes along first because girls make a habbit of ignoring guys unless they are approached by guys.

n_kors

Nothing is easy when it comes to relationships. You may say attractive girls have it easy, but is just as possible for an attractive girl to get hurt, manipulated, ignored and lied too by other people. Of course image plays an important role in the game of dating and relations, but your thoughts on it are just shallow and far removed from reality.