Going To The Movies Alone - Why So Weird????

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#1 tlcain
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Ok, I'm 28 years old, and for the first time in my life I am considering going to a movie alone. I was out of town this weekend and didn't get a chance to see Batman, and everybody I know has either seen it already or has no intention of seeing it, and so I'm in a position I've never found myself in.

My first thought was I guess I'll wait till next weekend and make someone see it again, but dangit, I don't want to wait that long!! So my second thought was why don't I just go during the week sometime by myself? However, immediately I thought about all the weird looks I'm going to get in the theater, and especially from my friends and family when I tell them I went to a movie by myself. It really does kind of freak me out lol.

What the hell? Thoughts? Anybody ever gone to a movie by themselves? I didn't realize how weird it seemed till I considered actually doing it.

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Ok, I'm 28 years old, and for the first time in my life I am considering going to a movie alone. I was out of town this weekend and didn't get a chance to see Batman, and everybody I know has either seen it already or has no intention of seeing it, and so I'm in a position I've never found myself in.

My first thought was I guess I'll wait till next weekend and make someone see it again, but dangit, I don't want to wait that long!! So my second thought was why don't I just go during the week sometime by myself? However, immediately I thought about all the weird looks I'm going to get in the theater, and especially from my friends and family when I tell them I went to a movie by myself. It really does kind of freak me out lol.

What the hell? Thoughts? Anybody ever gone to a movie by themselves? I didn't realize how weird it seemed till I considered doing it myself.

tlcain

I have had the same prob b4 so i just got a friend to see it again

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#3 Angakua
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i actually want to be alone-i want to be in complete focus and really watch the movie..
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#4 WINDWAKER1
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No one cares. It's really not that big of a deal. It's just a movie...
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#5 aaronmullan
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I've never went to the Cinema by myself.
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#6 mechwarrior_bob
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I've never went to the Cinema by myself.aaronmullan

same...

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#7 badaboom187
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i have seen people at the theather by themself before, i dont really care though. I don't see anything wrong with it.
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#8 xSIZEMATTER
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Going to the movies by yourself, is like having sex with a woman...without the woman...:|
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#9 forgetwatyahear
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Going to the movies by yourself, is like having sex with a woman...without the woman...:|xSIZEMATTER

not really,it saves money.

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#10 NecroKvltMuffin
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Why so weird, I see what you did there.
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#11 Hewkii
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anyone else think of The Dark Knight when reading the last part of the title?
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#12 SolidSnake35
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I would feel weird too. That said, I don't even pay attention to others anyway, so I wouldn't notice who was alone or whatever. Besides, it'll be busy in there, I imagine... you won't be isolated. :P
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#13 -Montauk-
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Going to the movies by yourself, is like having sex with a woman...without the woman...:|xSIZEMATTER
And everyone does THAT already, so pretty much it's normal, there's nothing to worry about.
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#14 halfirishhomer
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Dude, I might just do the same thing. For some reason no one wants to go see movies until the weekend, but it looks so good I don't see why they can't go during the week.
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#15 tlcain
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Going to the movies by yourself, is like having sex with a woman...without the woman...:|xSIZEMATTER

Haha, well, isn't the movie really the woman in that analogy? But if that's true, what are your friends? I'm confused.

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#16 br0kenrabbit
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I prefer going with someone to the movies just for the company, but I've gone alone before, too. Right after I got divorced I was really happy to be able to go alone. It's not really a big deal, people pay as little attention to you as you do to them.
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#17 Nickbuc
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[QUOTE="xSIZEMATTER"]Going to the movies by yourself, is like having sex with a woman...without the woman...:|tlcain

Haha, well, isn't the movie really the woman in that analogy? But if that's true, what are your friends? I'm confused.

if some one will go see a movie with you that they have already seen they are a good friend

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#18 MotherSuperior
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I went to the movies alone. No big deal. But then again, I hate people.
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#19 Mystery-
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I went to the movies by myself one time, and it wasn't awkward or weird at all...
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#20 tlcain
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I would feel weird too. That said, I don't even pay attention to others anyway, so I wouldn't notice who was alone or whatever. Besides, it'll be busy in there, I imagine... you won't be isolated. :PSolidSnake35

Yeah, to be honest, I'm about 10% worried about weird looks at the movies and 90% weirded out about having to tell people I know that I went to a movie by myself. I just know they're all going to be like "What?? Ok...." lol.

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#21 Franko_3
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When I was 14, I saw my first movie alone. It was my first and only time I did it. It was the x-files movie. Nobody wanted to come with me because well the x-files are nothing for some people. I meet my first girlfriend that day and my friend I am sooooo going to see the x-files 2 alone friday and I hope to meet a girl alone again ;)
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#22 tlcain
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[QUOTE="tlcain"]

[QUOTE="xSIZEMATTER"]Going to the movies by yourself, is like having sex with a woman...without the woman...:|Nickbuc

Haha, well, isn't the movie really the woman in that analogy? But if that's true, what are your friends? I'm confused.

if some one will go see a movie with you that they have already seen they are a good friend

Yeah, I could get somebody to go this weekend, no doubt about it, but I'm REALLY pumped for Batman and don't want to wait!

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#23 EVOLV3
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anyone else think of The Dark Knight when reading the last part of the title?Hewkii


I did
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#24 Nickbuc
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[QUOTE="Nickbuc"][QUOTE="tlcain"]

[QUOTE="xSIZEMATTER"]Going to the movies by yourself, is like having sex with a woman...without the woman...:|tlcain

Haha, well, isn't the movie really the woman in that analogy? But if that's true, what are your friends? I'm confused.

if some one will go see a movie with you that they have already seen they are a good friend

Yeah, I could get somebody to go this weekend, no doubt about it, but I'm REALLY pumped for Batman and don't want to wait!

Hey wait b/c the longer you wait the more suspenstion you have for it and the better the movie seems to be

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#25 lild1425
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I'm in the same dilemma. I want to see Batman again, but don't know if I want to go see it by myself.
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#26 Angakua
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[QUOTE="Hewkii"]anyone else think of The Dark Knight when reading the last part of the title?EVOLV3


I did

aye..

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#27 megagene
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It's not weird...People do it all the time...
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#28 vidplayer8
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I've never done it, only because I can't even drive lol.

But I probably wouldn't, just because I would feel pretty weird if I bumped into someone from school.

I will probably do it sooner or later though, some movies are too awesome to wait a week to see *hint hint*

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#29 JC346
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Dude, who cares what people think or say. Just go if you want to see it that bad.
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#30 Vaasman
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I like to go see movies the first time by myself, because depending on who I go with it can be annoying, like if they talk or go to the bathroom or something. If the movie was good, then I'll bug my friends to go see it with me a second time.
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#31 Tauruslink
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Just go. Why is everyone so dependent on other people? "Like, OMG, I cant go if you dont go with me!!!!!" Just go by yourself. Ive seen people do it before and its not that weird.
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#32 UnknownSniper65
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eh I usually don't even go to the movies lol....I tend to wait until it comes out in Bluray (or DVD) or I rent it off netflix...I'm not really a movie theater type person...mainly because I like to watch movies alone so no one pisses me off while I watch the movie (getting up,walking in front of me,talking,etc)

I'll probably be going alone to go see it next weekend...or I might go with some of my friends...Even though I would much rather watch it alone...I just can't wait a couple of months to see the new batman =(

Its really not weird at all....specially when people are in such a rush to see this movie....most of my friends have already seen it.

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#33 martialbullet
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Just go. Why is everyone so dependent on other people? "Like, OMG, I cant go if you dont go with me!!!!!" Just go by yourself. Ive seen people do it before and its not that weird.Tauruslink

Yes, you're right. But it's still weird!! You just said it!

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#34 CruxisXIII
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I saw the remake of charlie and the chocolate factory alone. I enjoyed the movie and it was fine.
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#35 navigata
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[QUOTE="aaronmullan"]I've never went to the Cinema by myself.mechwarrior_bob

same...

me2. Strange when I think bout it really.

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#36 TheGTAvaccine
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Yeah, I was considering watching Batman alone today until my family offered to go with me.
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#37 Krigen89
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I does feel weird, but trust me, it FEELS weird... nobody will give a damn about you being alone.

When I went (rarely, because when I'm alone I prefer to rent and see the movie on my 50" plasma and home theater anyways) I'd bring some beers in a backsack and enjoy the movie... just make sure you get there pretty much on time, not before, because the trailers and waiting time can be really long alone... or bring an Ipod.

EDIT: Or go to a drive-in place, that's cool.. you get to bring your beer/beverages/food from home and enjoy 2 movies for the price of one basically...

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#38 smokingsbad
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my friend likes to go by himself, he says that its better then going with friends, because they would usually talk over the movie, but sometimes he goes with his buds
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#39 deactivated-5a4c1fedbd347
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I don't see anything wrong with it, but I've never done it myself. I guess I'd feel out of place or lonely
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#40 Matt-4542
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Ive gone to see most movies by myself :lol:
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#41 drewtwo99
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I managed to scrounge up some friends last night to go see it with me, and it was soooo worth it. Don't be ashamed of going alone if you have to! I really didn't want to do it either, but I would have, and I would have been glad. I'm going to go see it again tonight with someone else, so... go see it twice by yourself if you have to! Just SEE IT!!!
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#42 greenprince
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Wow, read some of these posts and some people are taking this way to seriously or insecure. Seriously, who the hell cares if a person goes to the movies alone? Its like going to the bar or sports game alone, no one really cares. I did it occasionally and its not that weird, granted the company is lacking and your thoughts can't be expressed. But, if you're just watching a film, that's main purpose is to stun like the Dark Knight, then its worth it. I watched the Dark Knight alone on Yesterday( I got a day off but not peers) So I went to see it and it was a good experience. My friends couldn't spoil any moments, there was less noise, my dates wouldn't annoy to get them a refill and there wasn't alot of kids. I probably would go to the movies with friends if given the chance but if there are not available I'll go alone, I'm not going to wait when I could do it now.
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#43 Clampdown79
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I plan on seeing the Dark Knight this week and I'll prolly go alone. (or with my brother.) All my friends can't shut up during movies. :x
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#44 buxboy
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I've never gone to a movie alone. Of course, I have never really wanted to go to the movies to see a movie, until the dark knight. Of course there have been other movies, but I don't mind waiting until it's up on netflix.
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#45 tlcain
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Cool, thanks for all the replys. Yeah, I never even thought about it, but the stars aligned this time and I have nobody to go with me until Saturday, and I don't want to wait that long. However, my first reaction to going alone was suprising. It just seems like a weird thing to do. First chance I get this week, I'M GOING!
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[QUOTE="aaronmullan"]I've never went to the Cinema by myself.mechwarrior_bob

same...

Me too...Kind of weird now that I think about it... :|
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#47 club-sandwich
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I went to TDK premiere alone since none of my friends would be available on friday, so I said, **** it, I'll go alone, I wanted to go to the premiere so badly so I went alone.
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#48 Juggernaut140
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Going with your family is even worse IMO
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#49 dominer
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I dont see why it matters...
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#50 C_BozkurT_C
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[QUOTE="tlcain"]

[QUOTE="xSIZEMATTER"]Going to the movies by yourself, is like having sex with a woman...without the woman...:|Nickbuc

Haha, well, isn't the movie really the woman in that analogy? But if that's true, what are your friends? I'm confused.

if some one will go see a movie with you that they have already seen they are a good friend

even if they want you to pay?