I cant get a girls. Get me a girl :cry:...pls
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get off the computer and go get 'em
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[QUOTE="Luka-Kovach"]My main problem is that I don't know what to do with my life. I've finished highschool, and tried a couple of carreers, but they stopped interesting me. I've been like this for a couple of years, with no real sense of what to do now.cowboymonkey21collage
I hope that you aren't planning to go to college, especially if you spell it like an 8th grade art project. C'mon now bud.
4) Im not a pedo! The girl I like is my age (16), she has a son thats 3 years old!
8 ) Her parents dont care about her... at all. Her dad physically abused her, and her mom verbally abuses her every single daysarmini
4) That was a joke, and still don't touch her, well, unless you know she's not a bicycle.
8 ) Do you live with your parents? If your parents care and are concerned about her ask them if she can come live with you until she can arange something that will be good for her.
This girl I like is so popular... and I'm so average :(
And everyone who see me thinks I'm Mexican since all my friends are... and I'm Asian.
[QUOTE="sarmini"]4) Im not a pedo! The girl I like is my age (16), she has a son thats 3 years old!
8 ) Her parents dont care about her... at all. Her dad physically abused her, and her mom verbally abuses her every single daysexy-hippo
4) That was a joke, and still don't touch her, well, unless you know she's not a bicycle.
8 ) Do you live with your parents? If your parents care and are concerned about her ask them if she can come live with you until she can arange something that will be good for her.
Do not... Insult... My best friend... Like that... Again...She was raped. She didnt choose to become pregnant so never say that again because you dont even know her. So much for your supposed "Help". Goodbye.
My father's alcohol problems have been getting worse, and my mom won't step up and do something about it. My sister is causing a lot of trouble for my father by essentially acting as a financial drain because she won't spend her money on anything other than new clothes, and my dad still has to put up with paying for everything that my older brother does even though he's 23, and he still lives with us, though mostly because college is very close to us. So this essentially means my father is going to push me to leave him the **** alone once I get out of school and support myself, and he's still pushing me to make eagle scout, so it's starting to annoy the **** out of me. But then again, I guess I should at least be thankful that I'm fortunate enough to be able to whine about it over the internet. So I feel a little guilty about posting this kind of stuff, but then again, this is what you were asking for.Blood-Scribe
Don't worry, things will work out they way they need to, but maybe not the way you want to. If you want to fix these problems, you will probably get in a few arguements. Talk to your parents. Just try to find away to get the hell away after high school. It might help if you go to college. If you need to go into the Marines (after Bush is out of office) and you can get college credits while your there. Sorry, I was talking to a Marine the other night and it sounds promising.
[QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="sarmini"]4) Im not a pedo! The girl I like is my age (16), she has a son thats 3 years old!
8 ) Her parents dont care about her... at all. Her dad physically abused her, and her mom verbally abuses her every single daysarmini
4) That was a joke, and still don't touch her, well, unless you know she's not a bicycle.
8 ) Do you live with your parents? If your parents care and are concerned about her ask them if she can come live with you until she can arange something that will be good for her.
Do not... Insult... My best friend... Like that... Again...She was raped. She didnt choose to become pregnant so never say that again because you dont even know her. So much for your supposed "Help". Goodbye.
If you had said it was a rape baby I wouldn't have jumped to the conclusion she was a bicycle. The person I know who has a kid and is my age (15) is a bicycle. I'm sorry. I really am.
[QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"]My father's alcohol problems have been getting worse, and my mom won't step up and do something about it. My sister is causing a lot of trouble for my father by essentially acting as a financial drain because she won't spend her money on anything other than new clothes, and my dad still has to put up with paying for everything that my older brother does even though he's 23, and he still lives with us, though mostly because college is very close to us. So this essentially means my father is going to push me to leave him the **** alone once I get out of school and support myself, and he's still pushing me to make eagle scout, so it's starting to annoy the **** out of me. But then again, I guess I should at least be thankful that I'm fortunate enough to be able to whine about it over the internet. So I feel a little guilty about posting this kind of stuff, but then again, this is what you were asking for.sexy-hippo
Don't worry, things will work out they way they need to, but maybe not the way you want to. If you want to fix these problems, you will probably get in a few arguements. Talk to your parents. Just try to find away to get the hell away after high school. It might help if you go to college. If you need to go into the Marines (after Bush is out of office) and you can get college credits while your there. Sorry, I was talking to a Marine the other night and it sounds promising.
Yeah, I definitely want to get the hell out of here once I'm done, but I feel as though I'm going to be unprepared for it. It just feels like my dad is a timebomb now, he keeps on getting all of this stress from his job (he's a patent attorney, very boring and tedious job). I keep on getting told that I'm the easiest to deal with, that I'm the most well-behaved of the three, even though I'm also seen as the weirdest. My dad keeps on putting this pressure on me do to well on my own and not have to fall back on anything, and that's what drives him to expect more and more out of me, so it starts to build up. It's like we're both feeding off of each other's pressure. I see it every day, one small mistake, and he'll go nuts. I remember when I was cleaning the kitchen after dinner today, he ranted for a few minutes about how I set a regular knife for his place when I was supposed to give him a steak knife instead. Little things like that drive him mad.
I really don't know if he's going to realize that his heavy drinking is just going to get worse for him, but either way, I'm afraid he's just going to break. My only hope is that when that happens, I will be out of here.
[QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"]My father's alcohol problems have been getting worse, and my mom won't step up and do something about it. My sister is causing a lot of trouble for my father by essentially acting as a financial drain because she won't spend her money on anything other than new clothes, and my dad still has to put up with paying for everything that my older brother does even though he's 23, and he still lives with us, though mostly because college is very close to us. So this essentially means my father is going to push me to leave him the **** alone once I get out of school and support myself, and he's still pushing me to make eagle scout, so it's starting to annoy the **** out of me. But then again, I guess I should at least be thankful that I'm fortunate enough to be able to whine about it over the internet. So I feel a little guilty about posting this kind of stuff, but then again, this is what you were asking for.Blood-Scribe
Don't worry, things will work out they way they need to, but maybe not the way you want to. If you want to fix these problems, you will probably get in a few arguements. Talk to your parents. Just try to find away to get the hell away after high school. It might help if you go to college. If you need to go into the Marines (after Bush is out of office) and you can get college credits while your there. Sorry, I was talking to a Marine the other night and it sounds promising.
Yeah, I definitely want to get the hell out of here once I'm done, but I feel as though I'm going to be unprepared for it. It just feels like my dad is a timebomb now, he keeps on getting all of this stress from his job (he's a patent attorney, very boring and tedious job). I keep on getting told that I'm the easiest to deal with, that I'm the most well-behaved of the three, even though I'm also seen as the weirdest. My dad keeps on putting this pressure on me do to well on my own and not have to fall back on anything, and that's what drives him to expect more and more out of me, so it starts to build up. It's like we're both feeding off of each other's pressure. I see it every day, one small mistake, and he'll go nuts. I remember when I was cleaning the kitchen after dinner today, he ranted for a few minutes about how I set a regular knife for his place when I was supposed to give him a steak knife instead. Little things like that drive him mad.
I really don't know if he's going to realize that his heavy drinking is just going to get worse for him, but either way, I'm afraid he's just going to break. My only hope is that when that happens, I will be out of here.
I thought I had it bad. Atleast your his favorite. Yeah, just do something with your life and talk to your sister and brother.
[QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"]My father's alcohol problems have been getting worse, and my mom won't step up and do something about it. My sister is causing a lot of trouble for my father by essentially acting as a financial drain because she won't spend her money on anything other than new clothes, and my dad still has to put up with paying for everything that my older brother does even though he's 23, and he still lives with us, though mostly because college is very close to us. So this essentially means my father is going to push me to leave him the **** alone once I get out of school and support myself, and he's still pushing me to make eagle scout, so it's starting to annoy the **** out of me. But then again, I guess I should at least be thankful that I'm fortunate enough to be able to whine about it over the internet. So I feel a little guilty about posting this kind of stuff, but then again, this is what you were asking for.sexy-hippo
Don't worry, things will work out they way they need to, but maybe not the way you want to. If you want to fix these problems, you will probably get in a few arguements. Talk to your parents. Just try to find away to get the hell away after high school. It might help if you go to college. If you need to go into the Marines (after Bush is out of office) and you can get college credits while your there. Sorry, I was talking to a Marine the other night and it sounds promising.
Yeah, I definitely want to get the hell out of here once I'm done, but I feel as though I'm going to be unprepared for it. It just feels like my dad is a timebomb now, he keeps on getting all of this stress from his job (he's a patent attorney, very boring and tedious job). I keep on getting told that I'm the easiest to deal with, that I'm the most well-behaved of the three, even though I'm also seen as the weirdest. My dad keeps on putting this pressure on me do to well on my own and not have to fall back on anything, and that's what drives him to expect more and more out of me, so it starts to build up. It's like we're both feeding off of each other's pressure. I see it every day, one small mistake, and he'll go nuts. I remember when I was cleaning the kitchen after dinner today, he ranted for a few minutes about how I set a regular knife for his place when I was supposed to give him a steak knife instead. Little things like that drive him mad.
I really don't know if he's going to realize that his heavy drinking is just going to get worse for him, but either way, I'm afraid he's just going to break. My only hope is that when that happens, I will be out of here.
I thought I had it bad. Atleast your his favorite. Yeah, just do something with your life and talk to your sister and brother.
Believe me, my sister isn't the most convivial member of the family, I'd rather not discuss this stuff with her. And my brother, well, he's a little preachy. Long story short, he used to do some drugs here and there and as my parents put it, "hung out with the wrong crowd." So now he's a little different, and because he's been taking a bunch of philosophical books to heart, it's like he knows nothing else. I'll admit, he's a pretty smart guy, but sometimes he's a little too presumptuous and pretentious. To be honest, it's actually hard to find someone to talk to about this stuff, so it tends to get bottled up. Then again, I don't see why I would want to bother my friends with my troubles.
my mom always gets mad at me and my brother for hanging out with my dad. my parents are divorced and she gets jealous or sthg, i really dont understand. im hanging out with my dad on christmas eve day and haning out with my mom christmas day just to keep things fair. she got mad cause she wanted to have both days to urself (meaning she wants my brother and i to spend both christmas eve day and christmas day with her). well this is my problem. is this fair or wut?
Um Guys.....My penis is stuck. quick. my Girlfriend is yelling at meu RIght Now to stop tyoping. Her parents are copming home in probably 2 houyrs. QUICK. Is their any way to get it out?>?kungfukidCut it off. Or... no, I won't say it. Hurts too much to even think about it.
[QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"]My father's alcohol problems have been getting worse, and my mom won't step up and do something about it. My sister is causing a lot of trouble for my father by essentially acting as a financial drain because she won't spend her money on anything other than new clothes, and my dad still has to put up with paying for everything that my older brother does even though he's 23, and he still lives with us, though mostly because college is very close to us. So this essentially means my father is going to push me to leave him the **** alone once I get out of school and support myself, and he's still pushing me to make eagle scout, so it's starting to annoy the **** out of me. But then again, I guess I should at least be thankful that I'm fortunate enough to be able to whine about it over the internet. So I feel a little guilty about posting this kind of stuff, but then again, this is what you were asking for.Blood-Scribe
Don't worry, things will work out they way they need to, but maybe not the way you want to. If you want to fix these problems, you will probably get in a few arguements. Talk to your parents. Just try to find away to get the hell away after high school. It might help if you go to college. If you need to go into the Marines (after Bush is out of office) and you can get college credits while your there. Sorry, I was talking to a Marine the other night and it sounds promising.
Yeah, I definitely want to get the hell out of here once I'm done, but I feel as though I'm going to be unprepared for it. It just feels like my dad is a timebomb now, he keeps on getting all of this stress from his job (he's a patent attorney, very boring and tedious job). I keep on getting told that I'm the easiest to deal with, that I'm the most well-behaved of the three, even though I'm also seen as the weirdest. My dad keeps on putting this pressure on me do to well on my own and not have to fall back on anything, and that's what drives him to expect more and more out of me, so it starts to build up. It's like we're both feeding off of each other's pressure. I see it every day, one small mistake, and he'll go nuts. I remember when I was cleaning the kitchen after dinner today, he ranted for a few minutes about how I set a regular knife for his place when I was supposed to give him a steak knife instead. Little things like that drive him mad.
I really don't know if he's going to realize that his heavy drinking is just going to get worse for him, but either way, I'm afraid he's just going to break. My only hope is that when that happens, I will be out of here.
I thought I had it bad. Atleast your his favorite. Yeah, just do something with your life and talk to your sister and brother.
Believe me, my sister isn't the most convivial member of the family, I'd rather not discuss this stuff with her. And my brother, well, he's a little preachy. Long story short, he used to do some drugs here and there and as my parents put it, "hung out with the wrong crowd." So now he's a little different, and because he's been taking a bunch of philosophical books to heart, it's like he knows nothing else. I'll admit, he's a pretty smart guy, but sometimes he's a little too presumptuous and pretentious. To be honest, it's actually hard to find someone to talk to about this stuff, so it tends to get bottled up. Then again, I don't see why I would want to bother my friends with my troubles.
Dude, I know how you feel. I can't talk to my friends about things that get me pissed off about my parents, my brother, school, and other stuff like that. You wouldn't happen to be the middle child would you? You should find a hobby and do something that takes your mind off of your problems. See if you can get into something with school.Like I said earlier, it won't hurt to talk to your parents. I know it can be hard if your dad's a bit intemidating, but maybe he'll listen to what you have to say instead of yelling and making you not want to talk to him in a civil manner.
[QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"]My father's alcohol problems have been getting worse, and my mom won't step up and do something about it. My sister is causing a lot of trouble for my father by essentially acting as a financial drain because she won't spend her money on anything other than new clothes, and my dad still has to put up with paying for everything that my older brother does even though he's 23, and he still lives with us, though mostly because college is very close to us. So this essentially means my father is going to push me to leave him the **** alone once I get out of school and support myself, and he's still pushing me to make eagle scout, so it's starting to annoy the **** out of me. But then again, I guess I should at least be thankful that I'm fortunate enough to be able to whine about it over the internet. So I feel a little guilty about posting this kind of stuff, but then again, this is what you were asking for.sexy-hippo
Don't worry, things will work out they way they need to, but maybe not the way you want to. If you want to fix these problems, you will probably get in a few arguements. Talk to your parents. Just try to find away to get the hell away after high school. It might help if you go to college. If you need to go into the Marines (after Bush is out of office) and you can get college credits while your there. Sorry, I was talking to a Marine the other night and it sounds promising.
Yeah, I definitely want to get the hell out of here once I'm done, but I feel as though I'm going to be unprepared for it. It just feels like my dad is a timebomb now, he keeps on getting all of this stress from his job (he's a patent attorney, very boring and tedious job). I keep on getting told that I'm the easiest to deal with, that I'm the most well-behaved of the three, even though I'm also seen as the weirdest. My dad keeps on putting this pressure on me do to well on my own and not have to fall back on anything, and that's what drives him to expect more and more out of me, so it starts to build up. It's like we're both feeding off of each other's pressure. I see it every day, one small mistake, and he'll go nuts. I remember when I was cleaning the kitchen after dinner today, he ranted for a few minutes about how I set a regular knife for his place when I was supposed to give him a steak knife instead. Little things like that drive him mad.
I really don't know if he's going to realize that his heavy drinking is just going to get worse for him, but either way, I'm afraid he's just going to break. My only hope is that when that happens, I will be out of here.
I thought I had it bad. Atleast your his favorite. Yeah, just do something with your life and talk to your sister and brother.
Believe me, my sister isn't the most convivial member of the family, I'd rather not discuss this stuff with her. And my brother, well, he's a little preachy. Long story short, he used to do some drugs here and there and as my parents put it, "hung out with the wrong crowd." So now he's a little different, and because he's been taking a bunch of philosophical books to heart, it's like he knows nothing else. I'll admit, he's a pretty smart guy, but sometimes he's a little too presumptuous and pretentious. To be honest, it's actually hard to find someone to talk to about this stuff, so it tends to get bottled up. Then again, I don't see why I would want to bother my friends with my troubles.
Dude, I know how you feel. I can't talk to my friends about things that get me pissed off about my parents, my brother, school, and other stuff like that. You wouldn't happen to be the middle child would you? You should find a hobby and do something that takes your mind off of your problems. See if you can get into something with school.Like I said earlier, it won't hurt to talk to your parents. I know it can be hard if your dad's a bit intemidating, but maybe he'll listen to what you have to say instead of yelling and making you not want to talk to him in a civil manner.
Actually, I'm the youngest, hence I am essentially what my father sees as the last hope for a more successful child. He just wants me to do well, I know that, but I can't stand all the pressure from it. Anyway, I've been sticking to the same hobbies as usual, gaming, listening to Metal, watching anime, stuff like that. But because of stuff that has happened in the past, both with my brother and sister, as well as with myself, it's harder for me to hang out with friends, so that's a problem. Again, long story short, my parents think my friends are a little sketchy, but mostly because of the area that most of them are from. It's really annoying how they tell me to go and do something outside, even though I only have a couple friends that they actually trust, because other than that, they don't really want me hanging out with my other friends, so I have to sneak out or lie to them in one way or another. And I've tried reasoning to my dad before. In fact, I had to do get him to calm down at a motel that we were staying at when we were hunting. He drank half a dozen cups of wine and started to ramble on about random stuff, and he acted upset at one point, and mad at another. So I spent 45 minutes telling him over and over to get some sleep and leave me alone.
She's just jelous and feels that she has to compete with your dad for you. It's not fair. You deserve to spend time with your dad, you deserve the right to choose, but keep in mind that the more time you spend with your dad, the less you spend with your mother, the one who gave birth to you (unless your adopted) and took care of you. Your more a part of her than you are yourfather.my mom always gets mad at me and my brother for hanging out with my dad. my parents are divorced and she gets jealous or sthg, i really dont understand. im hanging out with my dad on christmas eve day and haning out with my mom christmas day just to keep things fair. she got mad cause she wanted to have both days to urself (meaning she wants my brother and i to spend both christmas eve day and christmas day with her). well this is my problem. is this fair or wut?
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Well ok I'll dump my baggage here.
I can't find work. No one seems to want to hire a college student, not even on winter break. And when I do get the interview for a job I blow it. I'll be working for a week at a place I worked at in high school which sucks because it feels like I am taking a few steps backwards. And I am really not looking forward to crawling crawl spaces under houses or attics above.
I am loosing interest in my major at college. i thought GIS would be pretty cool but the more I am learning about it the more boring its becoming. No wonder why there is only 2 people in the AAS GIS program.
I have yet to buy my mom anything for Christmas. Any time I ask her what she would like she tells me not to worry about. Well I got something for everyone else in my family I would feel like an ass if I did'nt get her something.
The number of friends I have has dropped significantly since high school. I am only in regular contact with 2 of them and 1 less then the other. The other guy in my class is married and has a child and we have nothing in common besides the fact we are both in the same classes. So being an class mate is about as far as that will go.
I have this odd problem when talking to girls, I'll tense up. I don't understand it. I've only talked to one girl that did'nt seem to notice or did'nt care (or found in sexy in a strange way.. no thats just wishful thinking)
Acne. I can't get rid of the damn things. Every treatment I try seems to work all for about 2 weeks then it seems like the pimples adapt and the treatment is ineffective forcing me to try something else.
Well ok here it is I let it all out I don't expect anyone to read all of this but at least I was able to get it all off my chest.
[QUOTE="Thechaninator"][QUOTE="moptopskate"]I feel like there is something wrong with my brain. I have been acting weird psychologically. for example: memory loss, paranoia,loss of common sense.sexy-hippo
I'll steal this problem.
Go get a psychological evaluation, seriously. That sounds like it could be the beginning of schizophrenia. Are you around the age of 18 by any chance?
As for a problem of my own, I am in love with a girl who I have known since elementary school (I am in my 2nd year of college right now) and have had a crush on her as long as I have known her. I feel I have a chance with her now but I am deathly afraid of screwing it up. On top of that, both me and a friend of mine who has loads of mental issues including eating disorders both think she has an eating disorder and I got to find a way for her to get open about it so I can try to help. Thing is I feel that if I come out and just mention it to her it could ruin the relationship.....
I might be hanging out with her on New Years Eve and if we do hang out I know it will be crucial and possibly life changing for me as I plan to tell her how I feel about her then. I have to get this stuff figured out by New Years Eve....
Don't worry about the disorder for now. Are you good friends? If you are, chances are it won't mess things up. If she knows you like her, and she's still friends with you then there is a chance, maybe not a really big chance that she'll feel the same. Why do you think she has an eating disorder anyway?
Well the problem is I haven't seen her in years because I moved. We only got back in touch through myspace and haven't talked outside of myspace as of late. I have anxiety issues so I am always incredibly uncertain as to where I stand with people, especially girls I like.
As for the disorder, I can't stand by and watch it wreak havoc on her. Eating disorders are the most deadly disorders and they can destroy a persons body quite quickly.
I think she has a disorder based on certain things she has said to me compared with pictures of her. She is skinny yet claims that she is fat and she is working hard to lose weight. She mentioned stress eating and says she put on 40 pounds because of it yet I can't see the extra pounds. I have quite a bit of experience with eating disorders thanks to the friend I mentioned so certain things are red alarms to me that other people might not notice. Honestly if we do hang out I am going to be paying CLOSE attention to her eating. If she plays with her food and doesn't eat I am going to have to point it out as that is a sign of annorexia. If she eats kinda weird and then goes to the bathroom right after I might suspect bulimia.
I know there is a chance it can work which makes me even more worried because I don't want to ruin that chance. I have to make sure she doesn't destroy herself with an eating disorder more than anything though....
[QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"]My father's alcohol problems have been getting worse, and my mom won't step up and do something about it. My sister is causing a lot of trouble for my father by essentially acting as a financial drain because she won't spend her money on anything other than new clothes, and my dad still has to put up with paying for everything that my older brother does even though he's 23, and he still lives with us, though mostly because college is very close to us. So this essentially means my father is going to push me to leave him the **** alone once I get out of school and support myself, and he's still pushing me to make eagle scout, so it's starting to annoy the **** out of me. But then again, I guess I should at least be thankful that I'm fortunate enough to be able to whine about it over the internet. So I feel a little guilty about posting this kind of stuff, but then again, this is what you were asking for.Blood-Scribe
Don't worry, things will work out they way they need to, but maybe not the way you want to. If you want to fix these problems, you will probably get in a few arguements. Talk to your parents. Just try to find away to get the hell away after high school. It might help if you go to college. If you need to go into the Marines (after Bush is out of office) and you can get college credits while your there. Sorry, I was talking to a Marine the other night and it sounds promising.
Yeah, I definitely want to get the hell out of here once I'm done, but I feel as though I'm going to be unprepared for it. It just feels like my dad is a timebomb now, he keeps on getting all of this stress from his job (he's a patent attorney, very boring and tedious job). I keep on getting told that I'm the easiest to deal with, that I'm the most well-behaved of the three, even though I'm also seen as the weirdest. My dad keeps on putting this pressure on me do to well on my own and not have to fall back on anything, and that's what drives him to expect more and more out of me, so it starts to build up. It's like we're both feeding off of each other's pressure. I see it every day, one small mistake, and he'll go nuts. I remember when I was cleaning the kitchen after dinner today, he ranted for a few minutes about how I set a regular knife for his place when I was supposed to give him a steak knife instead. Little things like that drive him mad.
I really don't know if he's going to realize that his heavy drinking is just going to get worse for him, but either way, I'm afraid he's just going to break. My only hope is that when that happens, I will be out of here.
I thought I had it bad. Atleast your his favorite. Yeah, just do something with your life and talk to your sister and brother.
Believe me, my sister isn't the most convivial member of the family, I'd rather not discuss this stuff with her. And my brother, well, he's a little preachy. Long story short, he used to do some drugs here and there and as my parents put it, "hung out with the wrong crowd." So now he's a little different, and because he's been taking a bunch of philosophical books to heart, it's like he knows nothing else. I'll admit, he's a pretty smart guy, but sometimes he's a little too presumptuous and pretentious. To be honest, it's actually hard to find someone to talk to about this stuff, so it tends to get bottled up. Then again, I don't see why I would want to bother my friends with my troubles.
Dude, I know how you feel. I can't talk to my friends about things that get me pissed off about my parents, my brother, school, and other stuff like that. You wouldn't happen to be the middle child would you? You should find a hobby and do something that takes your mind off of your problems. See if you can get into something with school.Like I said earlier, it won't hurt to talk to your parents. I know it can be hard if your dad's a bit intemidating, but maybe he'll listen to what you have to say instead of yelling and making you not want to talk to him in a civil manner.
Actually, I'm the youngest, hence I am essentially what my father sees as the last hope for a more successful child. He just wants me to do well, I know that, but I can't stand all the pressure from it. Anyway, I've been sticking to the same hobbies as usual, gaming, listening to Metal, watching anime, stuff like that. But because of stuff that has happened in the past, both with my brother and sister, as well as with myself, it's harder for me to hang out with friends, so that's a problem. Again, long story short, my parents think my friends are a little sketchy, but mostly because of the area that most of them are from. It's really annoying how they tell me to go and do something outside, even though I only have a couple friends that they actually trust, because other than that, they don't really want me hanging out with my other friends, so I have to sneak out or lie to them in one way or another. And I've tried reasoning to my dad before. In fact, I had to do get him to calm down at a motel that we were staying at when we were hunting. He drank half a dozen cups of wine and started to ramble on about random stuff, and he acted upset at one point, and mad at another. So I spent 45 minutes telling him over and over to get some sleep and leave me alone.
One thing. Next ime you go hunting, don't bring booze. You have a sister so I thought she was the middle and was his "Angel." Your dad needs help. Talk with your mother and some of your aunts and uncles and see if they will help to get your dad some help. And atleast you didn't piss a huy off by calling his best friend a bicycle because she's sixteen and has a kid. He didn't tell me she was raped! I feel bad and like an incensitive jerk. You don't even have to ecknowledge the last comment.If you don't find something for your mother now, get something shortly after and tell her that you couldn't find it when you were looking for it and thought about buying something else but desided that that was the best thing for her. Get her something she really likes but doesn't have. Acne sucks, I don't have problems with it on my my face but I do have a small problem with it on my shoulders. I can't help with anything else. Sorry.Well ok I'll dump my baggage here.
I can't find work. No one seems to want to hire a college student, not even on winter break. And when I do get the interview for a job I blow it. I'll be working for a week at a place I worked at in high school which sucks because it feels like I am taking a few steps backwards. And I am really not looking forward to crawling crawl spaces under houses or attics above.
I am loosing interest in my major at college. i thought GIS would be pretty cool but the more I am learning about it the more boring its becoming. No wonder why there is only 2 people in the AAS GIS program.
I have yet to buy my mom anything for Christmas. Any time I ask her what she would like she tells me not to worry about. Well I got something for everyone else in my family I would feel like an ass if I did'nt get her something.
The number of friends I have has dropped significantly since high school. I am only in regular contact with 2 of them and 1 less then the other. The other guy in my class is married and has a child and we have nothing in common besides the fact we are both in the same classes. So being an class mate is about as far as that will go.
I have this odd problem when talking to girls, I'll tense up. I don't understand it. I've only talked to one girl that did'nt seem to notice or did'nt care (or found in sexy in a strange way.. no thats just wishful thinking)
Acne. I can't get rid of the damn things. Every treatment I try seems to work all for about 2 weeks then it seems like the pimples adapt and the treatment is ineffective forcing me to try something else.
Well ok here it is I let it all out I don't expect anyone to read all of this but at least I was able to get it all off my chest.
SunofVich
[QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"]My father's alcohol problems have been getting worse, and my mom won't step up and do something about it. My sister is causing a lot of trouble for my father by essentially acting as a financial drain because she won't spend her money on anything other than new clothes, and my dad still has to put up with paying for everything that my older brother does even though he's 23, and he still lives with us, though mostly because college is very close to us. So this essentially means my father is going to push me to leave him the **** alone once I get out of school and support myself, and he's still pushing me to make eagle scout, so it's starting to annoy the **** out of me. But then again, I guess I should at least be thankful that I'm fortunate enough to be able to whine about it over the internet. So I feel a little guilty about posting this kind of stuff, but then again, this is what you were asking for.sexy-hippo
Don't worry, things will work out they way they need to, but maybe not the way you want to. If you want to fix these problems, you will probably get in a few arguements. Talk to your parents. Just try to find away to get the hell away after high school. It might help if you go to college. If you need to go into the Marines (after Bush is out of office) and you can get college credits while your there. Sorry, I was talking to a Marine the other night and it sounds promising.
Yeah, I definitely want to get the hell out of here once I'm done, but I feel as though I'm going to be unprepared for it. It just feels like my dad is a timebomb now, he keeps on getting all of this stress from his job (he's a patent attorney, very boring and tedious job). I keep on getting told that I'm the easiest to deal with, that I'm the most well-behaved of the three, even though I'm also seen as the weirdest. My dad keeps on putting this pressure on me do to well on my own and not have to fall back on anything, and that's what drives him to expect more and more out of me, so it starts to build up. It's like we're both feeding off of each other's pressure. I see it every day, one small mistake, and he'll go nuts. I remember when I was cleaning the kitchen after dinner today, he ranted for a few minutes about how I set a regular knife for his place when I was supposed to give him a steak knife instead. Little things like that drive him mad.
I really don't know if he's going to realize that his heavy drinking is just going to get worse for him, but either way, I'm afraid he's just going to break. My only hope is that when that happens, I will be out of here.
I thought I had it bad. Atleast your his favorite. Yeah, just do something with your life and talk to your sister and brother.
Believe me, my sister isn't the most convivial member of the family, I'd rather not discuss this stuff with her. And my brother, well, he's a little preachy. Long story short, he used to do some drugs here and there and as my parents put it, "hung out with the wrong crowd." So now he's a little different, and because he's been taking a bunch of philosophical books to heart, it's like he knows nothing else. I'll admit, he's a pretty smart guy, but sometimes he's a little too presumptuous and pretentious. To be honest, it's actually hard to find someone to talk to about this stuff, so it tends to get bottled up. Then again, I don't see why I would want to bother my friends with my troubles.
Dude, I know how you feel. I can't talk to my friends about things that get me pissed off about my parents, my brother, school, and other stuff like that. You wouldn't happen to be the middle child would you? You should find a hobby and do something that takes your mind off of your problems. See if you can get into something with school.Like I said earlier, it won't hurt to talk to your parents. I know it can be hard if your dad's a bit intemidating, but maybe he'll listen to what you have to say instead of yelling and making you not want to talk to him in a civil manner.
Actually, I'm the youngest, hence I am essentially what my father sees as the last hope for a more successful child. He just wants me to do well, I know that, but I can't stand all the pressure from it. Anyway, I've been sticking to the same hobbies as usual, gaming, listening to Metal, watching anime, stuff like that. But because of stuff that has happened in the past, both with my brother and sister, as well as with myself, it's harder for me to hang out with friends, so that's a problem. Again, long story short, my parents think my friends are a little sketchy, but mostly because of the area that most of them are from. It's really annoying how they tell me to go and do something outside, even though I only have a couple friends that they actually trust, because other than that, they don't really want me hanging out with my other friends, so I have to sneak out or lie to them in one way or another. And I've tried reasoning to my dad before. In fact, I had to do get him to calm down at a motel that we were staying at when we were hunting. He drank half a dozen cups of wine and started to ramble on about random stuff, and he acted upset at one point, and mad at another. So I spent 45 minutes telling him over and over to get some sleep and leave me alone.
One thing. Next ime you go hunting, don't bring booze. You have a sister so I thought she was the middle and was his "Angel." Your dad needs help. Talk with your mother and some of your aunts and uncles and see if they will help to get your dad some help. And atleast you didn't piss a huy off by calling his best friend a bicycle because she's sixteen and has a kid. He didn't tell me she was raped! I feel bad and like an incensitive jerk. You don't even have to ecknowledge the last comment.There's no way my dad would go hunting without a couple six packs first, that's just how it's done in his eyes. He'd just get pissed off if I said anything about that. For the most part, his drinking problems tend to go through the same stages as the cycle of abuse, it just keeps going and going until at some point he stops for awhile and things seem great, and then a couple months later it starts all over again. So I can't really ask for help until the time is right. At this point, his problems are lower than usual, but I know that as soon as school starts again, they'll be back. But I know that if no one else does it, I'm probably going to have to be the one that brings this up to him, my mom doesn't have the will to stop him, and my brother just thinks it'll solve itself. I'm getting tired of this bull****, so when I get the chance, I'll make sure he gets help.
Well, long story, but no hurt in explaining a little bit...
I have a girlfriend, and I love her...a lot. I just don't think she really feels the same. I have no idea what to do...
[QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Thechaninator"][QUOTE="moptopskate"]I feel like there is something wrong with my brain. I have been acting weird psychologically. for example: memory loss, paranoia,loss of common sense.Thechaninator
I'll steal this problem.
Go get a psychological evaluation, seriously. That sounds like it could be the beginning of schizophrenia. Are you around the age of 18 by any chance?
As for a problem of my own, I am in love with a girl who I have known since elementary school (I am in my 2nd year of college right now) and have had a crush on her as long as I have known her. I feel I have a chance with her now but I am deathly afraid of screwing it up. On top of that, both me and a friend of mine who has loads of mental issues including eating disorders both think she has an eating disorder and I got to find a way for her to get open about it so I can try to help. Thing is I feel that if I come out and just mention it to her it could ruin the relationship.....
I might be hanging out with her on New Years Eve and if we do hang out I know it will be crucial and possibly life changing for me as I plan to tell her how I feel about her then. I have to get this stuff figured out by New Years Eve....
Don't worry about the disorder for now. Are you good friends? If you are, chances are it won't mess things up. If she knows you like her, and she's still friends with you then there is a chance, maybe not a really big chance that she'll feel the same. Why do you think she has an eating disorder anyway?
Well the problem is I haven't seen her in years because I moved. We only got back in touch through myspace and haven't talked outside of myspace as of late. I have anxiety issues so I am always incredibly uncertain as to where I stand with people, especially girls I like.
As for the disorder, I can't stand by and watch it wreak havoc on her. Eating disorders are the most deadly disorders and they can destroy a persons body quite quickly.
I think she has a disorder based on certain things she has said to me compared with pictures of her. She is skinny yet claims that she is fat and she is working hard to lose weight. She mentioned stress eating and says she put on 40 pounds because of it yet I can't see the extra pounds. I have quite a bit of experience with eating disorders thanks to the friend I mentioned so certain things are red alarms to me that other people might not notice. Honestly if we do hang out I am going to be paying CLOSE attention to her eating. If she plays with her food and doesn't eat I am going to have to point it out as that is a sign of annorexia. If she eats kinda weird and then goes to the bathroom right after I might suspect bulimia.
I know there is a chance it can work which makes me even more worried because I don't want to ruin that chance. I have to make sure she doesn't destroy herself with an eating disorder more than anything though....
Yeah, sounds like an eating disorder. I know how hard it can be to deal with some one who thinks they are fat. Long story short I yelled at her and dropped an f-bomb, but I think she was just doing it for attention. It pissed me off though. Back to you. Yeah watch what and how she eats. Tell her you are concerned andthat she's too skinny.Well, long story, but no hurt in explaining a little bit...
I have a girlfriend, and I love her...a lot. I just don't think she really feels the same. I have no idea what to do...
kylekatarn10
Don't worry about that. I think I just heared my parent having sex.
[QUOTE="SunofVich"]If you don't find something for your mother now, get something shortly after and tell her that you couldn't find it when you were looking for it and thought about buying something else but desided that that was the best thing for her. Get her something she really likes but doesn't have. Acne sucks, I don't have problems with it on my my face but I do have a small problem with it on my shoulders. I can't help with anything else. Sorry. If I can offer some advice I would say to speak with an advisor at your school and talk to them about what other interests you might have in mind. They can help you pick out some classes that could help you decide whether you want to study something else or try taking on a minor there in a subject you like.Well ok I'll dump my baggage here.
I can't find work. No one seems to want to hire a college student, not even on winter break. And when I do get the interview for a job I blow it. I'll be working for a week at a place I worked at in high school which sucks because it feels like I am taking a few steps backwards. And I am really not looking forward to crawling crawl spaces under houses or attics above.
I am loosing interest in my major at college. i thought GIS would be pretty cool but the more I am learning about it the more boring its becoming. No wonder why there is only 2 people in the AAS GIS program.
I have yet to buy my mom anything for Christmas. Any time I ask her what she would like she tells me not to worry about. Well I got something for everyone else in my family I would feel like an ass if I did'nt get her something.
The number of friends I have has dropped significantly since high school. I am only in regular contact with 2 of them and 1 less then the other. The other guy in my class is married and has a child and we have nothing in common besides the fact we are both in the same classes. So being an class mate is about as far as that will go.
I have this odd problem when talking to girls, I'll tense up. I don't understand it. I've only talked to one girl that did'nt seem to notice or did'nt care (or found in sexy in a strange way.. no thats just wishful thinking)
Acne. I can't get rid of the damn things. Every treatment I try seems to work all for about 2 weeks then it seems like the pimples adapt and the treatment is ineffective forcing me to try something else.
Well ok here it is I let it all out I don't expect anyone to read all of this but at least I was able to get it all off my chest.
sexy-hippo
Also if you want to meet and make new friends you should consider joining a club or other activity there. There's always something for everyone. It's easier to talk to women once you're in a place of common interest.If there isn't one that you think you would like, join it anyway! You never know.
i can't talk to the girli like....every little chance i get i choke. i have low self esteem, low confidence. i just don't know what to do or say...at this rate i see myself being alone for the rest of my lifelonewolf604Gain some confidence, hang out with friends more, become more social, and then try with the girls. It's not that hard, trust me.
[QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"]My father's alcohol problems have been getting worse, and my mom won't step up and do something about it. My sister is causing a lot of trouble for my father by essentially acting as a financial drain because she won't spend her money on anything other than new clothes, and my dad still has to put up with paying for everything that my older brother does even though he's 23, and he still lives with us, though mostly because college is very close to us. So this essentially means my father is going to push me to leave him the **** alone once I get out of school and support myself, and he's still pushing me to make eagle scout, so it's starting to annoy the **** out of me. But then again, I guess I should at least be thankful that I'm fortunate enough to be able to whine about it over the internet. So I feel a little guilty about posting this kind of stuff, but then again, this is what you were asking for.Blood-Scribe
Don't worry, things will work out they way they need to, but maybe not the way you want to. If you want to fix these problems, you will probably get in a few arguements. Talk to your parents. Just try to find away to get the hell away after high school. It might help if you go to college. If you need to go into the Marines (after Bush is out of office) and you can get college credits while your there. Sorry, I was talking to a Marine the other night and it sounds promising.
Yeah, I definitely want to get the hell out of here once I'm done, but I feel as though I'm going to be unprepared for it. It just feels like my dad is a timebomb now, he keeps on getting all of this stress from his job (he's a patent attorney, very boring and tedious job). I keep on getting told that I'm the easiest to deal with, that I'm the most well-behaved of the three, even though I'm also seen as the weirdest. My dad keeps on putting this pressure on me do to well on my own and not have to fall back on anything, and that's what drives him to expect more and more out of me, so it starts to build up. It's like we're both feeding off of each other's pressure. I see it every day, one small mistake, and he'll go nuts. I remember when I was cleaning the kitchen after dinner today, he ranted for a few minutes about how I set a regular knife for his place when I was supposed to give him a steak knife instead. Little things like that drive him mad.
I really don't know if he's going to realize that his heavy drinking is just going to get worse for him, but either way, I'm afraid he's just going to break. My only hope is that when that happens, I will be out of here.
I thought I had it bad. Atleast your his favorite. Yeah, just do something with your life and talk to your sister and brother.
Believe me, my sister isn't the most convivial member of the family, I'd rather not discuss this stuff with her. And my brother, well, he's a little preachy. Long story short, he used to do some drugs here and there and as my parents put it, "hung out with the wrong crowd." So now he's a little different, and because he's been taking a bunch of philosophical books to heart, it's like he knows nothing else. I'll admit, he's a pretty smart guy, but sometimes he's a little too presumptuous and pretentious. To be honest, it's actually hard to find someone to talk to about this stuff, so it tends to get bottled up. Then again, I don't see why I would want to bother my friends with my troubles.
Dude, I know how you feel. I can't talk to my friends about things that get me pissed off about my parents, my brother, school, and other stuff like that. You wouldn't happen to be the middle child would you? You should find a hobby and do something that takes your mind off of your problems. See if you can get into something with school.Like I said earlier, it won't hurt to talk to your parents. I know it can be hard if your dad's a bit intemidating, but maybe he'll listen to what you have to say instead of yelling and making you not want to talk to him in a civil manner.
Actually, I'm the youngest, hence I am essentially what my father sees as the last hope for a more successful child. He just wants me to do well, I know that, but I can't stand all the pressure from it. Anyway, I've been sticking to the same hobbies as usual, gaming, listening to Metal, watching anime, stuff like that. But because of stuff that has happened in the past, both with my brother and sister, as well as with myself, it's harder for me to hang out with friends, so that's a problem. Again, long story short, my parents think my friends are a little sketchy, but mostly because of the area that most of them are from. It's really annoying how they tell me to go and do something outside, even though I only have a couple friends that they actually trust, because other than that, they don't really want me hanging out with my other friends, so I have to sneak out or lie to them in one way or another. And I've tried reasoning to my dad before. In fact, I had to do get him to calm down at a motel that we were staying at when we were hunting. He drank half a dozen cups of wine and started to ramble on about random stuff, and he acted upset at one point, and mad at another. So I spent 45 minutes telling him over and over to get some sleep and leave me alone.
One thing. Next ime you go hunting, don't bring booze. You have a sister so I thought she was the middle and was his "Angel." Your dad needs help. Talk with your mother and some of your aunts and uncles and see if they will help to get your dad some help. And atleast you didn't piss a huy off by calling his best friend a bicycle because she's sixteen and has a kid. He didn't tell me she was raped! I feel bad and like an incensitive jerk. You don't even have to ecknowledge the last comment.There's no way my dad would go hunting without a couple six packs first, that's just how it's done in his eyes. He'd just get pissed off if I said anything about that. For the most part, his drinking problems tend to go through the same stages as the cycle of abuse, it just keeps going and going until at some point he stops for awhile and things seem great, and then a couple months later it starts all over again. So I can't really ask for help until the time is right. At this point, his problems are lower than usual, but I know that as soon as school starts again, they'll be back. But I know that if no one else does it, I'm probably going to have to be the one that brings this up to him, my mom doesn't have the will to stop him, and my brother just thinks it'll solve itself. I'm getting tired of this bull****, so when I get the chance, I'll make sure he gets help.
I don't know how I can help know. Sounds like your going to have to play this by ear and do what seems like the right thing to do when the time comes to do it.[QUOTE="lonewolf604"]i can't talk to the girli like....every little chance i get i choke. i have low self esteem, low confidence. i just don't know what to do or say...at this rate i see myself being alone for the rest of my lifeZaerynGain some confidence, hang out with friends more, become more social, and then try with the girls. It's not that hard, trust me.i do everything you said, its just the girl i like i can't talk to
[QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"][QUOTE="sexy-hippo"][QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"]My father's alcohol problems have been getting worse, and my mom won't step up and do something about it. My sister is causing a lot of trouble for my father by essentially acting as a financial drain because she won't spend her money on anything other than new clothes, and my dad still has to put up with paying for everything that my older brother does even though he's 23, and he still lives with us, though mostly because college is very close to us. So this essentially means my father is going to push me to leave him the **** alone once I get out of school and support myself, and he's still pushing me to make eagle scout, so it's starting to annoy the **** out of me. But then again, I guess I should at least be thankful that I'm fortunate enough to be able to whine about it over the internet. So I feel a little guilty about posting this kind of stuff, but then again, this is what you were asking for.sexy-hippo
Don't worry, things will work out they way they need to, but maybe not the way you want to. If you want to fix these problems, you will probably get in a few arguements. Talk to your parents. Just try to find away to get the hell away after high school. It might help if you go to college. If you need to go into the Marines (after Bush is out of office) and you can get college credits while your there. Sorry, I was talking to a Marine the other night and it sounds promising.
Yeah, I definitely want to get the hell out of here once I'm done, but I feel as though I'm going to be unprepared for it. It just feels like my dad is a timebomb now, he keeps on getting all of this stress from his job (he's a patent attorney, very boring and tedious job). I keep on getting told that I'm the easiest to deal with, that I'm the most well-behaved of the three, even though I'm also seen as the weirdest. My dad keeps on putting this pressure on me do to well on my own and not have to fall back on anything, and that's what drives him to expect more and more out of me, so it starts to build up. It's like we're both feeding off of each other's pressure. I see it every day, one small mistake, and he'll go nuts. I remember when I was cleaning the kitchen after dinner today, he ranted for a few minutes about how I set a regular knife for his place when I was supposed to give him a steak knife instead. Little things like that drive him mad.
I really don't know if he's going to realize that his heavy drinking is just going to get worse for him, but either way, I'm afraid he's just going to break. My only hope is that when that happens, I will be out of here.
I thought I had it bad. Atleast your his favorite. Yeah, just do something with your life and talk to your sister and brother.
Believe me, my sister isn't the most convivial member of the family, I'd rather not discuss this stuff with her. And my brother, well, he's a little preachy. Long story short, he used to do some drugs here and there and as my parents put it, "hung out with the wrong crowd." So now he's a little different, and because he's been taking a bunch of philosophical books to heart, it's like he knows nothing else. I'll admit, he's a pretty smart guy, but sometimes he's a little too presumptuous and pretentious. To be honest, it's actually hard to find someone to talk to about this stuff, so it tends to get bottled up. Then again, I don't see why I would want to bother my friends with my troubles.
Dude, I know how you feel. I can't talk to my friends about things that get me pissed off about my parents, my brother, school, and other stuff like that. You wouldn't happen to be the middle child would you? You should find a hobby and do something that takes your mind off of your problems. See if you can get into something with school.Like I said earlier, it won't hurt to talk to your parents. I know it can be hard if your dad's a bit intemidating, but maybe he'll listen to what you have to say instead of yelling and making you not want to talk to him in a civil manner.
Actually, I'm the youngest, hence I am essentially what my father sees as the last hope for a more successful child. He just wants me to do well, I know that, but I can't stand all the pressure from it. Anyway, I've been sticking to the same hobbies as usual, gaming, listening to Metal, watching anime, stuff like that. But because of stuff that has happened in the past, both with my brother and sister, as well as with myself, it's harder for me to hang out with friends, so that's a problem. Again, long story short, my parents think my friends are a little sketchy, but mostly because of the area that most of them are from. It's really annoying how they tell me to go and do something outside, even though I only have a couple friends that they actually trust, because other than that, they don't really want me hanging out with my other friends, so I have to sneak out or lie to them in one way or another. And I've tried reasoning to my dad before. In fact, I had to do get him to calm down at a motel that we were staying at when we were hunting. He drank half a dozen cups of wine and started to ramble on about random stuff, and he acted upset at one point, and mad at another. So I spent 45 minutes telling him over and over to get some sleep and leave me alone.
One thing. Next ime you go hunting, don't bring booze. You have a sister so I thought she was the middle and was his "Angel." Your dad needs help. Talk with your mother and some of your aunts and uncles and see if they will help to get your dad some help. And atleast you didn't piss a huy off by calling his best friend a bicycle because she's sixteen and has a kid. He didn't tell me she was raped! I feel bad and like an incensitive jerk. You don't even have to ecknowledge the last comment.There's no way my dad would go hunting without a couple six packs first, that's just how it's done in his eyes. He'd just get pissed off if I said anything about that. For the most part, his drinking problems tend to go through the same stages as the cycle of abuse, it just keeps going and going until at some point he stops for awhile and things seem great, and then a couple months later it starts all over again. So I can't really ask for help until the time is right. At this point, his problems are lower than usual, but I know that as soon as school starts again, they'll be back. But I know that if no one else does it, I'm probably going to have to be the one that brings this up to him, my mom doesn't have the will to stop him, and my brother just thinks it'll solve itself. I'm getting tired of this bull****, so when I get the chance, I'll make sure he gets help.
I don't know how I can help know. Sounds like your going to have to play this by ear and do what seems like the right thing to do when the time comes to do it.Well I'm used to improvising, so hopefully it shouldn't be too much of a problem.
Ok here's a big one and don't tell me to see a psychiatrist I already know about those and I choose not to.
1) I feel as if I've never had a single true friend in my entire life. Except for a group that I hung out with from grades 1-7, but they weren't really helpful.
2) I'm too damn helpful and respect people way too much. When someone ask me to do something there is a 95% chance I'll do it even if it will get in the way of what I was going to do, or I give them money even though I know their using me.
3) My Mom's nice and all, but she has a negetive aura around her which makes me mad anytime shes around me. She worries way too much and I don't worry about anything, and her aura always brings me down (I can't afford to be sad) and I wish that my brothe/sister survived and I took their fate, because I lack love.
4) I feel that everyone has something against me or wants to be better then me. I also feel like there is noone out there for me and I feel like I just don't belong in this existance.
5) Everyday is a struggle against my good and bad side and it is mostly based off of how I see other people behaving which leads me to think that the human race is a giant mistake.
6) I feel like there is no reason for me to help anyone because majority of the people don't show kindness to strangers. And people give me evil glances or if a girl is smiling and sees me they tend to change to a (attutide type) face.
7) I prefer to be alone, but I still yearn to be apart of something.
8) By now you might have notice that I have a split personality issue where I want the both of the exact opposites of things.
9) I think that I only have a few years left before I may finally lose my grip on reality.
10) I have bad luck for long periods of time followed by a day of alot of good things then it goes back to a long period of bad.
11) Probably the worst of them all which can probably be the sum of all my problems is that I don't give a damn about myself as long as everyone else is happy I'll be happy. I'll kill myself in the most brutal manner if it meant peace for everyone else, yet at the same time I'm jealous of how they are all accepted, and I still feel alone.
[QUOTE="Zaeryn"][QUOTE="lonewolf604"]i can't talk to the girli like....every little chance i get i choke. i have low self esteem, low confidence. i just don't know what to do or say...at this rate i see myself being alone for the rest of my lifelonewolf604Gain some confidence, hang out with friends more, become more social, and then try with the girls. It's not that hard, trust me.i do everything you said, its just the girl i like i can't talk to
Wait just a question have you ever played flyff before?
Gain some confidence, hang out with friends more, become more social, and then try with the girls. It's not that hard, trust me.i do everything you said, its just the girl i like i can't talk to[QUOTE="lonewolf604"][QUOTE="Zaeryn"][QUOTE="lonewolf604"]i can't talk to the girli like....every little chance i get i choke. i have low self esteem, low confidence. i just don't know what to do or say...at this rate i see myself being alone for the rest of my lifeblackldragon
Wait just a question have you ever played flyff before?
no i haven't[QUOTE="sarmini"][QUOTE="needled24-7"][QUOTE="UTXII"][QUOTE="needled24-7"]My job pays ****.UTXII
DUDE!! Officially the best sig I've seen on here! And I've seen some good ones. Just a fun fact, I went backstage and met Alexi when they came to my home town.
Oh, and my problems, I've been really bored since I've been home for the holidays.
Haha thank you, I didn't make it though. Firestorm91 did, he's banned now though. He made some awesome sigs though.Children of Bodom right? My friend is in love with them, Ive only heard a few songs but I love what I hear so far.Find a way to get their discography, you won't be disappointed. Then see them live. What a treat man!
Godly band imo..can't get any cds over here though.Here's just a tip of the list.
Im kind of a preppy kid at school and hate my lunchtable. The kids I sit it with, I used to like but now I just get embarassed when I sit with them and ppl give me the look of "what the ef u doing with them". I mean theyre cool, one of thems a good friend of mine but now he skips school so much so I cant even hang with him and my other friend is annoying me. How do I change tables without coming off as a penis Ive been sitting at a diff table like 2 times a week but I want to make it permanent but I dont want to come off as an ahole doing it.
Also, Im really really competitive. I always want to be better than others at everything.
And oh yeah, Ive never had a gf even though I know a lot of girls have liked me. I think im too big of a pansy to ask a chick out. And another thing that hinders me, is that my standards are really really really high...
Yeah these can be applied to me too, oddly enough. I don't really prefer to be alone but it's like I'm neutral with being alone or walking home alone and if there's a friend around it's like I'll feel exactly the same, so yeah. I feel like whenever I look at anyone in the eyes who I don't know, I'll always recieve a "Ewww, who are you?... or something along those lines. It's either a disgusted look or a puzzled and unappretiated look, or they'll just glance at me right as we pass to see if I was looking at them. It's always on my mind and I can't help but think everyone is looking at me in a disgusted look in places full of people I don't know.6) I feel like there is no reason for me to help anyone because majority of the people don't show kindness to strangers. And people give me evil glances or if a girl is smiling and sees me they tend to change to a (attutide type) face.
7) I prefer to be alone, but I still yearn to be apart of something.
9) I think that I only have a few years left before I may finally lose my grip on reality.
blackldragon
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