[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"][QUOTE="pimpog"]
Yeah great relationship without sex is called a friend in my book. If she is not getting it from you is she that ugly or are you that pathetic or is she getting it from somebody else or maybe she got no sex drive. In any case you should get out of a romantic relationship with no sex and get a real romantic relationship.
pimpog
So you appear to define "romance" as purely sexual.. A romantic relationship is passionate with strong sexual attraction in any normal males book. If your not having sex then what is the point to practice the iron palm like a shaolin monk ??If a woman wanted a romantic exclusive relationship with me but refused to put out I would give her the boot or cheat. That would be like putting food in front of a starving man but he was unable to eat any of it. Sex is a part of any normal romantic relationship and if you get married and refused to put out it is grounds for divorce. So it is not just me it is almost everybody.
Passionate yes..sexual attraction yes... Do you have to have sex with her to consider the relationship "romantic" no..We're not talking about sex within the constraints of marriage.by the way..That's sad that you would give a girl the "boot" or even resort to cheating just because she doesn't want to fulfill your desire for sex when in the dating stage.. Guess "love" doesn't enter the equation here..
You seem to act primarily off of your base insticts and not wish to connect with another on a higher level...purely physical..that's all that appears to be the focus here..
Also, if you genuinely love someone..you don't care whether or not they want to have sex with you..so, in essence..you only love a girl that wants to have sex with you..and if she doesn't you dump her...not only are you acting selfishly, as well as self-centered, but you're also acting in a fairly animalistic fashion..animals don't feel love..they don't have sex as i stated earlier..for any reason other then to #1 Procreate and #2 because it feels good..love does not enter the equation..
In regards to your divorce example..the couple would seriously need to analyze their marriage if the lack of sex results in a divorce..regarding your earlier statement about wives and such having sex with you..they're most likely going to you because they're relationship is failing..that would not occur in a healthy relationship..
Let's use this as an example..extreme and absurd a parallel as yours was..
Let's say a man is with some friends or even a sole friend..they/he had been this guys friend for months now..they say they care for him..they say they'll always stick by him and what not..but when they ask one thing of him, he doesn't do it...they ask why..and he says he doesn't think it's the right thing to do..they demand that he does this act even though he doesn't think it's right, just because this act would give them some form of pleasure..let's say the act would have been funny to just the friends..and he still says no, but..instead of asking him to explain why he thinks it is not the right thing to do..or even attempting to discuss it with him..perhaps even looking over his refusal because they've been friends for so long and what not..they end the friendship..and never speak to him again because he wouldn't do the one act that he wouldn't have enjoyed..and that he didn't think would be right..just because they thought it would be funny and it would suit their desires..
That's primarily how you act when you dump/cheat on someone just because they won't fulfill your desire..selfish and unreasonable..
Also, this discussion is not about whether or not one should have sex within the constraints of marriage or not..you appear to be steering it in that direction..
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