Have you/will you have premarital sex?

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#51 battlefront23
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dosnt the bible say something like "its better for ones seed to fall into the belly of a whore than on the ground" or something like that?

im for sex before getting married. what if you go out with one girl all of your life, get married and come to find out she's really a dude? then what? have sex? lets say you did. then you had gay sex and married someone of the same sex. thats a double danger. now your goin to hell billy.

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I think you would be able to tell that who you are marrying is a dude before you get married to them.

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it's not up to me if i do or don'thaggard_korn

Do not let religion get in the way of your life.

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#53 battlefront23
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Not being married won't stop me...SolidSnake35

I'm so tempted to make a sly remark to this... but I won't. :P

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#55 battlefront23
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[QUOTE="haggard_korn"] it's not up to me if i do or don'tterdoo

Do not let religion get in the way of your life.

:lol: Sacrificing sex for God is nothing compared to what Jesus sacrificed for me when I did NOTHING to deserve it.

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#56 Invisible_Kid2
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[QUOTE="Invisible_Kid2"]

dosnt the bible say something like "its better for ones seed to fall into the belly of a whore than on the ground" or something like that?

im for sex before getting married. what if you go out with one girl all of your life, get married and come to find out she's really a dude? then what? have sex? lets say you did. then you had gay sex and married someone of the same sex. thats a double danger. now your goin to hell billy.

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I think you would be able to tell that who you are marrying is a dude before you get married to them.

lets say that you have had NO sexual conduct with him/her. they had all the surgery to become a woman except the genitals.

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#57 deactivated-5967f36c08c33
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If I develop a close enough and trusting relationship with the woman,perhaps.
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#58 worthyofnote
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Not like it's anyone's business, but I guess I'm going to hell.
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#59 battlefront23
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[QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="Invisible_Kid2"]

dosnt the bible say something like "its better for ones seed to fall into the belly of a whore than on the ground" or something like that?

im for sex before getting married. what if you go out with one girl all of your life, get married and come to find out she's really a dude? then what? have sex? lets say you did. then you had gay sex and married someone of the same sex. thats a double danger. now your goin to hell billy.

Invisible_Kid2

I think you would be able to tell that who you are marrying is a dude before you get married to them.

lets say that you have had NO sexual conduct with him/her. they had all the surgery to become a woman except the genitals.

Then you did nothing wrong because you did nothing wrong. THEY are to blame, not you. But still it should be pretty blatantly obvious.

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#60 VacantPsalm
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Marriage is meant to be something between two people that have a commitment to spend the rest of their lives together. That's what sex should be, not just pleasure for you and your partner.

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Ok, I don't really like going against a person I agree mostly with, but I have to say something. Yes sex is a promise, but it is SO also for pleasure between you and your partner. "Sex is a gift to a married couple." "Satisfy yourself with the breasts of the wife of your youth." Don't remember the verses, but both of those are in the Bible. God totally intended for you to have some strait up hot fun with your wife.:) Edit: The second one is in Proverbs and I think the first one is in John or something. That's all I can remember.
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#61 battlefront23
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[QUOTE="battlefront23"]

Marriage is meant to be something between two people that have a commitment to spend the rest of their lives together. That's what sex should be, not just pleasure for you and your partner.

VacantPsalm

Ok, I don't really like going against a person I agree mostly with, but I have to say something. Yes sex is a promise, but it is SO also for pleasure between you and your partner. "Sex is a gift to a married couple." "Satisfy yourself with the breasts of the wife of your youth." Don't remember the verses, but both of those are in the bible. God totally intended for you to have some strait up hot fun with your wife.:)

Notice how I said just. ;)

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[QUOTE="VacantPsalm"]Ok, I don't really like going against a person I agree mostly with, but I have to say something. Yes sex is a promise, but it is SO also for pleasure between you and your partner. "Sex is a gift to a married couple." "Satisfy yourself with the breasts of the wife of your youth." Don't remember the verses, but both of those are in the bible. God totally intended for you to have some strait up hot fun with your wife.:)battlefront23

Notice how I said just. ;)

Well aren't you a sneaky little SOB.:P
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#63 battlefront23
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[QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="VacantPsalm"]Ok, I don't really like going against a person I agree mostly with, but I have to say something. Yes sex is a promise, but it is SO also for pleasure between you and your partner. "Sex is a gift to a married couple." "Satisfy yourself with the breasts of the wife of your youth." Don't remember the verses, but both of those are in the bible. God totally intended for you to have some strait up hot fun with your wife.:)VacantPsalm

Notice how I said just. ;)

Well aren't you a sneaky little SOB.:P

I try. 8)

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#64 X360PS3AMD05
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If i love the woman yes.
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I can only hope so...
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#66 battlefront23
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If i love the woman yes.X360PS3AMD05

Love is something that is formed over a long time period. And because I will love my wife, I will wait until our wedding night. ;)

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#67 X360PS3AMD05
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[QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"]If i love the woman yes.battlefront23

Love is something that is formed over a long time period. And because I will love my wife, I will wait until our wedding night. ;)

If the girl wanted to wait i would, but i'm an Athiest so it doesn't matter to me :P
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#68 UltimateXShadow
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No, I have never had sex before, and I am not married. I would never pressure my partner into sex, but that doesn't mean that I would never have premarital sex. So, I guess that the third vote fits my situation the best.

Irony: I'm listening to "It's a Sin" by The Pet Shop Boys as I am typing this. :lol:

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#69 TonicNightWolf
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Yes and I'm not married.

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#70 battlefront23
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[QUOTE="battlefront23"]

[QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"]If i love the woman yes.X360PS3AMD05

Love is something that is formed over a long time period. And because I will love my wife, I will wait until our wedding night. ;)

If the girl wanted to wait i would, but i'm an Athiest so it doesn't matter to me :P

For an average Atheist, such as yourself, how do you define morality?

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#71 joao_22990
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Not planning to get married. Not planning to stay virgin forever either. Simple, eh.
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#72 jakecufc8888
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BS that nearly half of OT has lost their virginity. And no I haven't done it yet, but I hope to.
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#73 X360PS3AMD05
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IDK......
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#74 battlefront23
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IDK......X360PS3AMD05

Hmm... interesting.

Well whats wrong to you? i.e. murder, rape. etc.

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#75 UltimateXShadow
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BS that nearly half of OT has lost their virginity. And no I haven't done it yet, but I hope to.jakecufc8888

You don't know everyone's personal lives. So, who are you to say that?

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#76 X360PS3AMD05
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[QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"]IDK......battlefront23

Hmm... interesting.

Well whats wrong to you? i.e. murder, rape. etc.

Yes, hurting others is wrong.......i guess.....this reminds me of that thread a while back about moral subjectivism i think it was......
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the nature side of it is: it feels good, and helps with stress. the religion side is its a sin to have premarital sex. so all in all its kind of a controll/moderation thing. the religion side of it is trying to moderate, wich is good. but with todays contraceptives (sp?) you dont have to worry about it. but the religion side puts the "fear of god/higher power" in you. its a form of basic control. Fear. on the nature side of it, its our instinct. we get horny and have sex/masturbate. its our instinct to reproduce. its almost like someone, a long time ago said "hey, we as humans are smart. too smart for our own good. what do people fear? the unknown! and created the idea of something that, if you mess up, will cost you BIG TIME! not in this life, but in the after life. forever. imo religion is a way to keep people in check and in order.
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#78 awesomeface
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I don't plan to.
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#79 Lonelynight
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I don't plan to have sex until I'm married because of my faith.
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Have done so....yes.
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#81 jachichorro
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I plan to never have sex ha! Take that, girls :D
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#82 ayanami_rei
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That's none of your business. :)
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#83 CreamBeav
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I have premarital sex all the time- albeit with women I am not currently married to.
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#84 WSGRandomPerson
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I'm fine with it, and I haven't had it.
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#85 Tjeremiah1988
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i find it funny when my friend saids everyone is doing it :| . So because everyone is doing it does it make it right? Its like nobody cares anymore. Sex is just a kiss to them. Just have sex because it feels good then they end up moving on to someone else later that week.
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#86 battlefront23
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That's none of your business. :)ayanami_rei

:lol: Who am I gonna tell?

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#87 MgamerBD
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I haven't but will making love cannot wait till marriage.
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I haven't but will making love cannot wait till marriage.MgamerBD

Yes it can! :D

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I haven't had actual sex, only oral sex, but I don't feel the need to wait until marriage. I don't even know if I want to get married to begin with.Blood-Scribe
that is actual sex...lol just cause it aint vaginal dont mean its real sex
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#90 blazinpuertoroc
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That's none of your business. :)ayanami_rei
oh snap ayanami is a bad girl!!:P lol j.k... OR AM I?!
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#91 kylekatarn10
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It'll go how it goes. I have no problem with it, but I want my first time to be with someone I know well and care for...not just a random girl.
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#92 Silenthps
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Nope. If the chick im with is not willing to spend the rest of her life with me, she's not worthy of me sharing my body and vice versa.
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#93 ViolentPressure
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Sex before marriage? Are you insane?


I would almost never have sex with my wife, only to try to have kids and only if we are both crying hysterically while doing it.

I guess artificial insemination might be another choice for us, that way we can cut out on the evil intercourse.

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I would very much like to test drive the car before I commit to purchasing it. I need to know if it is fully compatible with who I am.

I think the reason why so many marriages end up in divorce is people who get married for sex because they wanted to "save it for marriage" end up finding out they are sexually incompatible with their partner.

I still have no idea of whether or not I actually will. It all depends on who I meet and how they feel about it all. I am definitely not going to have sex with someone until I am sure that our relationship will be successful and hopefully end up becoming something that will last for the rest of our lives. I don't need to be "married" to know that. Being sexually active doesn't mean you have to engage in intercourse though, there are many ways of pleasuring your partner and being physically intimate without it.

That and I am not a fan of contraception. I am fine with IUD's, spermicides and some of the new stuff for men they are developing... but things like female hormonal contraception and all the side effects they cause make me question who exactly is running the contraceptive industry. Birth control needs to be a two way street... and aside from condoms (which I am not a fan of either), there really isn't any reversible options for men that take the strain off the women while forcing them to be the "responsible" ones.
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#95 Vancelvany
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It feels good.......
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I had some awesome premarital sex tonight! :D
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what is pleasure without pain....
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I've had a girlfriend for 5 years, then some one nights, then a girlfriend for 2 and a half years, then one nights... I'm 24, never married, and might never get married. "pre-"marrital sex FTW!
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Yes, If I ever get the opportunity.
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#100 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]I haven't but will making love cannot wait till marriage.battlefront23

Yes it can! :D

no it can't. Can u resist? because if u don't want it she might.