Have you/will you have premarital sex?

I've had a girlfriend for 5 years, then some one nights, then a girlfriend for 2 and a half years, then one nights... I'm 24, never married, and might never get married. "pre-"marrital sex FTW!Krigen89

Statistically speaking, you probably have (symptomless) HPV

*whistles and walks away*

When I first clicked on this thread I thought it started with "How will you..." which would have been just plain weird.

Anyway, yes, I have. I'm going to hell, I guess.

DJ_Lae

I have a question to people who want to wait:

Would you have sex if you were engaged? It would be like practice. And would you have oral sex before marriage?

[QUOTE="Krigen89"]I've had a girlfriend for 5 years, then some one nights, then a girlfriend for 2 and a half years, then one nights... I'm 24, never married, and might never get married. "pre-"marrital sex FTW!ViolentPressure

Statistically speaking, you probably have (symptomless) HPV

*whistles and walks away*

Don't know, don't care. I'm not the one that's gonna get uterus cancer from it...

And, for the record, condoms when well used make transmission almost impossible.

I have a question to people who want to wait:

Would you have sex if you were engaged? It would be like practice. And would you have oral sex before marriage?

helium_flash

no. Reasons already listed.

I plan to never have sex ha! Take that, girls :Djachichorro

[QUOTE="ViolentPressure"]

[QUOTE="Krigen89"]I've had a girlfriend for 5 years, then some one nights, then a girlfriend for 2 and a half years, then one nights... I'm 24, never married, and might never get married. "pre-"marrital sex FTW!Krigen89

Statistically speaking, you probably have (symptomless) HPV

*whistles and walks away*

Don't know, don't care. I'm not the one that's gonna get uterus cancer from it...

And, for the record, condoms when well used make transmission almost impossible.

That's the bad part about HPV, it's going to affect the unprotected part, depending on how big your... stuff is, you could have quite alot of area not protected by the condom.

IMO HPV is the bane of humanity, simply because of how common it is and because it's symptomless (and condoms might not help)

[QUOTE="Krigen89"]I've had a girlfriend for 5 years, then some one nights, then a girlfriend for 2 and a half years, then one nights... I'm 24, never married, and might never get married. "pre-"marrital sex FTW!ViolentPressure

Statistically speaking, you probably have (symptomless) HPV

*whistles and walks away*

ouch, pwnd :?

I've received oral sex, but I'm a virgin (only 15). I plan to have sex, as I see nothing wrong with it and I belive it's perfectly natural. To be honest I feel not having sex before marriage is a bad idea as being sexually compatible is extremely important in a marriage.

On a totally unrelated note- I live in a pretty conservative area, and so Sex-ed is taught as a strictly "you must stay abstinent" kind of spiel, and because of this tons of kids I know engage in extremely unhealthy sexual habits because they don't know better. Therefore ACTUALLY TEACH SEX ED, kids are going to have sex and so you need to teach them how to be safe. If you don't then you run a real risk of having the kids becoming pregnant (as a friend of mine has), and getting STD's.

Yes, I have. Premarital sex is the only kind I think I will ever have.

[QUOTE="haggard_korn"][QUOTE="battlefront23"]

[QUOTE="haggard_korn"] it's not up to me if i do or don'tbattlefront23

Who is up to then?

the ladies

Oh :roll:

See this is exactly why I am not gonna have premarital sex.

Because...? Why?

[QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="haggard_korn"][QUOTE="battlefront23"]

[QUOTE="haggard_korn"] it's not up to me if i do or don'tciredude

Who is up to then?

the ladies

Oh :roll:

See this is exactly why I am not gonna have premarital sex.

Because...? Why?

I think he's trying to suggest that giving-in to pre-marital sex because of the fact that a girl made the decision for you would make you a tool (no pun intended).

only had sex once. she was my gf. and i now hate her with a firey passion. so do i regret it? yeah. while now i will more wait till i know i care about the person a lot. i will still have pre-marrital. its stupid to wait. if you love the person. and both of you want it. or even if you dont love the person. and both of you want it. its all good. so long as both parties are willing. otherwise i think thats rape?blackacidevil96

I think he's trying to suggest that giving-in to pre-marital sex because of the fact that a girl made the decision for you would make you a tool (no pun intended).

Blood-Scribe

Not really, consensual sex is the best kind :D

If you both want it but aren't in love with each other then its not all good. You'd basically be using that persons body for your own selfish pleasures and the other person would be using your body for their own selfish pleasure. 2 wrongs don't make a right. All it'll do is demoralize you and make you have less respect for women and yourself. Silenthps

[QUOTE="Silenthps"]If you both want it but aren't in love with each other then its not all good. You'd basically be using that persons body for your own selfish pleasures and the other person would be using your body for their own selfish pleasure. 2 wrongs don't make a right. All it'll do is demoralize you and make you have less respect for women and yourself. foxhound_fox

[QUOTE="Blood-Scribe"]

I think he's trying to suggest that giving-in to pre-marital sex because of the fact that a girl made the decision for you would make you a tool (no pun intended).

Andrew_Xavier

Not really, consensual sex is the best kind :D

Read Haggard-Korn's post. That's what I was referring to in relation to what battlefront said.

Edit: Okay, I just now noticed that you used that emoticon there, so I'm guessing you're just joking. I didn't notice it until I took another look at my message since I image-blocked all the emoticons on this site, so disregard this if I'm just making myself look like an idiot.

[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"][QUOTE="Silenthps"]If you both want it but aren't in love with each other then its not all good. You'd basically be using that persons body for your own selfish pleasures and the other person would be using your body for their own selfish pleasure. 2 wrongs don't make a right. All it'll do is demoralize you and make you have less respect for women and yourself. Silenthps

Yes, I pretty much just described what consent is. Its when you selfishly use someone elses body for your pleasure while they use yours selfishly for their pleasure. Which is why it makes you respect that person less while also making you respect yourself less. Silenthps

Lost my v-card at the tender age of 14.

Some kids on here have some catching up to do I see.

Yeah I have, but with my girlfriend who I love very much. Not just any old person.

I don't see the problem with it.

I would very much like to test drive the car before I commit to purchasing it. I need to know if it is fully compatible with who I am.

I think the reason why so many marriages end up in divorce is people who get married for sex because they wanted to "save it for marriage" end up finding out they are sexually incompatible with their partner.

.foxhound_fox

Actually the number one reason marriages break up is financial.

And test driving a girl...how disrespectful.:|

[QUOTE="Silenthps"]Yes, I pretty much just described what consent is. Its when you selfishly use someone elses body for your pleasure while they use yours selfishly for their pleasure. Which is why it makes you respect that person less while also making you respect yourself less. foxhound_fox

Being selfish is wrong period. If both people are being selfish, then its just 2 wrongs. Sure you get a couple minutes of pleasure out of it. But how can you respect yourself knowing that person doesn't give a darn about you and only used you for your body part? How can you respect that person knowing that they allowed you to use them strickly for their body part? If you both consent your basically saying the pleasure outweighs the wrong in the situation, but it doesn't mean the wrong is not there. And ultimately, it just shows your a slave to your sexual desires.

Have I? No. Will I? Not sure. Either way, doesn't matter that much.

I would very much like to test drive the car before I commit to purchasing it. I need to know if it is fully compatible with who I am.

foxhound_fox

win.Anyone I am going to wait for marriage I think.

Actually the number one reason marriages break up is financial.

And test driving a girl...how disrespectful.:|

LJS9502_basic

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Actually the number one reason marriages break up is financial.

And test driving a girl...how disrespectful.:|

foxhound_fox