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#1 acedawg13
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i like this girl... shes in 7th grade... and im in 9th grade

does anybody think that is wierd, or wrong, or a bad idea?

itd be great if a girl could answer this, but anyone...help?

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#2 D3nnyCrane
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Apply the half plus eight rule...

Half your age... Add 8... If she is younger than the number it's wrong...

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#3 DFan17902
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Apply the half plus eight rule...

Half your age... Add 8... If she is younger than the number it's wrong...

D3nnyCrane

I thought it was 7.

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#4 D3nnyCrane
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Depends on local laws...
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#5 acedawg13
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dude that doesnt work.. thats older than i am!
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#6 DFan17902
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dude that doesnt work.. thats older than i am!acedawg13

There's nothing wrong with that. Don't go over the number either.

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#7 Scarebaby
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dude that doesnt work.. thats older than i am!acedawg13

Then there's your answer. No girls until you grow up!

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#8 deactivated-5cf0a2e13dbde
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Wait until she's in highschool....
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#9 Rattlesnake_8
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dude that doesnt work.. thats older than i am!acedawg13

:lol: Well if you like each other.. 2 years is a big thing when your young.. when your older 2 years means nothing.

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#10 Serial-No_3404
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im with someone 2 years younger...no big deal
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#11 Zaeryn
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i like this girl... shes in 7th grade... and im in 9th grade

does anybody think that is wierd, or wrong, or a bad idea?

itd be great if a girl could answer this, but anyone...help?

acedawg13
Yeah, that's weird. I'm the same age as you and a 14/15 year old dating a 12/13 year old is really weird, not a big enough difference to be gross, but big enough to be strange. A 12 year old is WAY too young for dating anybody.
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#12 linkthewindow
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No, it won't work. If the ages where different (31, 33) it would be different, as they are both mature adults who know what they are doing. However, this girl probably hasn't entered pubity yet, and your finishing it, so no.
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#13 II_Seraphim_II
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No, it won't work. If the ages where different (31, 33) it would be different, as they are both mature adults who know what they are doing. However, this girl probably hasn't entered pubity yet, and your finishing it, so no.linkthewindow

what he said.

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#14 SolidSnake35
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Well, girls tend to go for older boys, or so it seems.
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#15 II_Seraphim_II
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Well, girls tend to go for older boys, or so it seems.SolidSnake35

yeah but 7th grade is cutting it a little tight. Anyways, imo, if you have to ask, then dont do it. I try to stay as far away from Jhonny Law as possible.

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#16 alglach
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na there's nothing wrong or weird about liking a girl a couple of years younger than you
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#17 deactivated-5901ac91d8e33
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Woah, that's crazy. You silly pedobear...

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#18 GettingTired
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No, it won't work. If the ages where different (31, 33) it would be different, as they are both mature adults who know what they are doing. However, this girl probably hasn't entered pubity yet, and your finishing it, so no.linkthewindow

Well, considering females mature faster and start puberty at an earlier age, they could possibly be on the same level. He might aslo be a little bit of a late bloomer. Ulimtately it's impossible to tell considering we know neither of them.

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#19 kruesader
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Its OK i think, any bigger difference and I would say No.
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#20 wrlyy
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The police are on their way.
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#21 WSGRandomPerson
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Not really wrong or bad. It's only two years, which really isn't a big difference.
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#22 spidermonkey11
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Wait until she is a freshman they are always free game....ALWAYS
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#23 wrlyy
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Wait until she is a freshman they are always free game....ALWAYSspidermonkey11

My uncle shall be pleased with this news.
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#24 xooco
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Through human history old men could marry 12-13 year old girls and have babies with them. I don't see anything wrong with a 14 year old going out with a 12 year old. Exept if she was my daughter, then things will be different.
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#25 moptopskate
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Thats not that bad. It might be weird tho if shes in middle school and your in high school. Your friends will probably make fun of you even though they would do the exact same thing if they had the chance.
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#26 Premier1101
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unless your in the same school, dont go for it. the only time it's acceptable is senior(grade 12) and freshman(grade 9). That is the only time a big difference is accpetable. At least in my school that's how it was percieved.
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#27 deactivated-5d3f70a961d94
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The police are on their way.wrlyy

lol !
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#28 Hinata237
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Do you even know her? HAVE YOU EVER EVEN TALKED TO HER?
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#29 hormagaunt
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Apply the half plus eight rule...

Half your age... Add 8... If she is younger than the number it's wrong...

D3nnyCrane

18/2=9

9+8=17

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

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#30 wkutopper6
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agreeing with everyone who says wait until she is in HS. Get you a senior chic you can find one i am sure if you get off here that is. I mean if you are a Junior when she is a Freshman that will be nothing. I have a friend that is dating this girl thats a senior in HS, if you look back at age she was in 5th grade when he was a Senior. We laugh at him but since she is 18 now it is ok but back then no way.
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#31 Lonelynight
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The girl I like is 4 years older than me
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#32 Napster06
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7th grader? Is this a joke thread?
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#33 acedawg13
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hmmmm....
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#34 Impex
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no.. that is way to weird. in fact kind of disgusting.
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#35 Vis-a-Vis
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Two of my really good friends are with girls two years younger, and I know more guys that are with younger girls also.

The only problem with that is they are always shy around your older friends, it can create some awkward moments.

Nothing wrong with it at all, I mean grade 9 and 7 to me is a but young, but in Highschool/college/older years it's all game.

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#36 EVOLV3
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I think its kinda weird, just 2 years ago she was in elementary school.
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#37 Calypto
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Middle schoolers shouldn't even date. D:
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#38 tzar3
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Go on with her anyways. Your love for her shall be pure and joyfull! *Starts dancing*
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#39 uconnhuskies050
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No, it won't work. If the ages where different (31, 33) it would be different, as they are both mature adults who know what they are doing. However, this girl probably hasn't entered pubity yet, and your finishing it, so no.linkthewindow

Totally agree, but lol@ "pubity"

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#40 SilentFireX
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No, it won't work. If the ages where different (31, 33) it would be different, as they are both mature adults who know what they are doing. However, this girl probably hasn't entered pubity yet, and your finishing it, so no.linkthewindow

Lol trust me, back in 7th grade, the girls I dated were pretty far through puberty...

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#41 cametall
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I dunno dude. I knew a middle schooler dating a college student.

I think they got married when she graduated high school.

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#42 acedawg13
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i dont plan on having sex anytime soon... does this make a difference?

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#43 linkthewindow
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i dont plan on having sex anytime soon... does this make a difference?

acedawg13
No, it doesn't. My advice for you is to wait.
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#44 MrGeezer
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Apply the half plus eight rule...

Half your age... Add 8... If she is younger than the number it's wrong...

D3nnyCrane

9th grade puts him at about 15 years old.

Which means that half of that is 7.5

7.5+8=15.5

That's older than he is. By your rule, he's not even allowed to date people the same frigging age as him.

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#46 linkthewindow
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[QUOTE="D3nnyCrane"]

Apply the half plus eight rule...

Half your age... Add 8... If she is younger than the number it's wrong...

MrGeezer

9th grade puts him at about 15 years old.

Which means that half of that is 7.5

7.5+8=15.5

That's older than he is. By your rule, he's not even allowed to date people the same frigging age as him.

Its add 7... That makes it 14.5, he got the rule wrong.
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#47 pianist
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Answer this question - would it be weird for a 25 year old to date a 23 year old? Yes, age is more important when a person is younger because of maturity issues and so forth, but I see no problem with a grade 9 student dating a grade 7 student. It'll just fall apart like nearly all other teenager relationships anyways.
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#48 pianist
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9th grade puts him at about 15 years old.

Which means that half of that is 7.5

7.5+8=15.5

That's older than he is. By your rule, he's not even allowed to date people the same frigging age as him.

MrGeezer

:lol:

That must be the prude edition of the rule. Designed specifically for use by children with over-protective parents.

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#49 MrGeezer
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Answer this question - would it be weird for a 25 year old to date a 23 year old? Yes, age is more important when a person is younger because of maturity issues and so forth, but I see no problem with a grade 9 student dating a grade 7 student. It'll just fall apart like nearly all other teenager relationships anyways.pianist

The problem is if the relationship lasts long enough for him to reach the age of sexual consent.

Once that happens, his girlfriend will NOT be at the age of sexual consent.

Which means that he will then be risking being labelled as a sexual predator for thew rest of his life.

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#50 pianist
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The problem is if the relationship lasts long enough for him to reach the age of sexual consent.

Once that happens, his girlfriend will NOT be at the age of sexual consent.

Which means that he will then be risking being labelled as a sexual predator for thew rest of his life.

MrGeezer

True. But if you care so much about a relationship, presumably you'd be willing to do what's necessary to ensure the relationship survives (in this case abstaining from sex until both partners are of legal age). Being in jail makes it difficult to continue the relationship.

It's probably not a concern anyways. The chances of this relationship lasting until he's 18 are marginal at best.