Life seems to be a lot less painful when you're apathetic to everything, and or asexual.
Is it possible to CHOOSE to be one?
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Life seems to be a lot less painful when you're apathetic to everything, and or asexual.
Is it possible to CHOOSE to be one?
I'm apathetic and asexual. Meh.[spoiler] Also, no. Being an apathetic asexual also messes up your grades and social life, so it's not exactly preferable. [/spoiler]
Well you could abstain and never masturbate of course that would take a REALLY low sex drive,
but I think it must be like being gay its not a choice.
How do you choose to stop being attracted to people?
I wish there was a switch to turn on/off at will instead of making boner-headed decisions, but sadly that's not the case.
Watch Uwe Boll's Alone In the Dark three times and you'll see that nothing has meaning and you'll no longer care for anything.
Yeah. :( Love is both the worst and best emotion. It's crazy with, crazier without.How do you choose to stop being attracted to people?
I wish there was a switch to turn on/off at will instead of making boner-headed decisions, but sadly that's not the case.
metroidfood
Life seems to be a lot less painful when you're apathetic to everything, and or asexual.
Is it possible to CHOOSE to be one?
th3warr1or
Me think you are depressive, go ask your doctor for some vallium. Btw, you can't decide to become asexual, unless you want a castration...
How do you choose to stop being attracted to people?
I wish there was a switch to turn on/off at will instead of making boner-headed decisions, but sadly that's not the case.
metroidfood
Castrate yourself?
Lots and Lots of Masturbation . . ? Actually , I worked in a Psychiatric Hospital for a few years - and have been around Many Sex offenders and Gropers, that sorts..
What the MDs did to rememdy that were - Depoprovera Shots.. Yep, the Female, Birth control Injections..lasts for around 3 months - and basically curbs most all sexual appetite for men.
Or castration.
This. Save yourself and stay as you are now.I'm apathetic and asexual. Meh.
Also, no. Being an apathetic asexual also messes up your grades and social life, so it's not exactly preferable.
jaydough
Most people say that - But you actually DO Choose to a Homosexual.i'd imagine not, just like you can't choose to be homosexual.
needled24-7
The only thing that Makes someone a Homosexual - Is to have Sex with teh Same Sex..Obvious Right?
Now - You may not have control of Who you are attracted to , but as far as your Choice whether or not to have sex with someone is Always your Choice...Unless you're raped of course..
Most people say that - But you actually DO Choose to a Homosexual.[QUOTE="needled24-7"]
i'd imagine not, just like you can't choose to be homosexual.
Xsan3
The only thing that Makes someone a Homosexual - Is to have Sex with teh Same Sex..Obvious Right?
Now - You may not have control of Who you are attracted to , but as far as your Choice whether or not to have sex with someone is Always your Choice...Unless you're raped of course..
Most people say that - But you actually DO Choose to a Homosexual.[QUOTE="needled24-7"]
i'd imagine not, just like you can't choose to be homosexual.
Xsan3
The only thing that Makes someone a Homosexual - Is to have Sex with teh Same Sex..Obvious Right?
There is a little more to it then that, i think...
Most people say that - But you actually DO Choose to a Homosexual.[QUOTE="Xsan3"]
[QUOTE="needled24-7"]
i'd imagine not, just like you can't choose to be homosexual.
Baconbits2004
The only thing that Makes someone a Homosexual - Is to have Sex with teh Same Sex..Obvious Right?
Now - You may not have control of Who you are attracted to , but as far as your Choice whether or not to have sex with someone is Always your Choice...Unless you're raped of course..
Most people say that - But you actually DO Choose to a Homosexual.[QUOTE="Xsan3"]
[QUOTE="needled24-7"]
i'd imagine not, just like you can't choose to be homosexual.
Joshywaa
The only thing that Makes someone a Homosexual - Is to have Sex with teh Same Sex..Obvious Right?
There is a little more to it then that, i think...
More than What - You think? If you are talking about Life- then thats just a Sterotype. Straight men can have the same life-and still Not Have to have sex with men...Homosexuality is Simply about that - - having sex with the same sex.Did they grow boobs?Lots and Lots of Masturbation . . ? Actually , I worked in a Psychiatric Hospital for a few years - and have been around Many Sex offenders and Gropers, that sorts..
What the MDs did to rememdy that were - Depoprovera Shots.. Yep, the Female, Birth control Injections..lasts for around 3 months - and basically curbs most all sexual appetite for men.Or castration.
Xsan3
You cannot control thoughts, feelings or urges. Not every virgin is asexual.Thoughts, Feelilngs and Urges have nothing to do with The Act of Having Sex . All virgins are considered Asexual then? that does not make sense to me.[QUOTE="Baconbits2004"]
[QUOTE="Xsan3"]Most people say that - But you actually DO Choose to a Homosexual.
The only thing that Makes someone a Homosexual - Is to have Sex with teh Same Sex..Obvious Right?
Now - You may not have control of Who you are attracted to , but as far as your Choice whether or not to have sex with someone is Always your Choice...Unless you're raped of course..Xsan3
[QUOTE="Joshywaa"]
[QUOTE="Xsan3"]Most people say that - But you actually DO Choose to a Homosexual.
The only thing that Makes someone a Homosexual - Is to have Sex with teh Same Sex..Obvious Right?
Xsan3
There is a little more to it then that, i think...
More than What - You think? If you are talking about Life- then thats just a Sterotype. Straight men can have the same life-and still Not Have to have sex with men...Homosexuality is Simply about that - - having sex with the same sex. That would insinuate all virgins are asexual. Orientation is dependent on the desire, not the actual doing.Did they grow boobs?I imagine so - we only Treated, we didnt see them years later to find those things out...[QUOTE="Xsan3"]
Lots and Lots of Masturbation . . ? Actually , I worked in a Psychiatric Hospital for a few years - and have been around Many Sex offenders and Gropers, that sorts..
What the MDs did to rememdy that were - Depoprovera Shots.. Yep, the Female, Birth control Injections..lasts for around 3 months - and basically curbs most all sexual appetite for men.Or castration.
HerrJosefK
More than What - You think? If you are talking about Life- then thats just a Sterotype. Straight men can have the same life-and still Not Have to have sex with men...Homosexuality is Simply about that - - having sex with the same sex. That would insinuate all virgins are asexual. Orientation is dependent on the desire, not the actual doing. So if I think about robbing a Bank that makes me a Criminal ?[QUOTE="Xsan3"]
[QUOTE="Joshywaa"]
There is a little more to it then that, i think...
windsquid9000
So like, did you get rejected recently or something?Dystopian-XKinda, but not really.
This. Save yourself and stay as you are now.[QUOTE="jaydough"]
I'm apathetic and asexual. Meh.
Also, no. Being an apathetic asexual also messes up your grades and social life, so it's not exactly preferable.
windsquid9000
But it sucks.
That would insinuate all virgins are asexual. Orientation is dependent on the desire, not the actual doing. So if I think about robbing a Bank that makes me a Criminal ? Draw up some plans, and I'm sure you'd have trouble with the police on some level.[QUOTE="windsquid9000"]
[QUOTE="Xsan3"]More than What - You think? If you are talking about Life- then thats just a Sterotype. Straight men can have the same life-and still Not Have to have sex with men...Homosexuality is Simply about that - - having sex with the same sex.
Xsan3
[QUOTE="Joshywaa"]
[QUOTE="Xsan3"]Most people say that - But you actually DO Choose to a Homosexual.
The only thing that Makes someone a Homosexual - Is to have Sex with teh Same Sex..Obvious Right?
Xsan3
There is a little more to it then that, i think...
More than What - You think? If you are talking about Life- then thats just a Sterotype. Straight men can have the same life-and still Not Have to have sex with men...Homosexuality is Simply about that - - having sex with the same sex.No.
I am saying that you are making a gross oversimplification.
Homosexuality is not "simply" about having sex with the same sex. That's why i said that there is more to it than that.
Get it, now?
You cannot control thoughts, feelings or urges. Not every virgin is asexual.Thoughts, Feelilngs and Urges have nothing to do with The Act of Having Sex . Yes, yes they do. Urges are the basic need and instinct for having sex and re-procreate. Raping an innocent person is because stress and sexual urges have been bottled up, and at times slight insanity happens in the mind of the raper. Also the reason why rape-victims naturally get lubricated (if female) during the rape - it's against their will, yes, but the body's sexual urges and needs are so basic and deep in our lizard-brain that the body reacts that way.[QUOTE="Baconbits2004"]
[QUOTE="Xsan3"]Most people say that - But you actually DO Choose to a Homosexual.
The only thing that Makes someone a Homosexual - Is to have Sex with teh Same Sex..Obvious Right?
Now - You may not have control of Who you are attracted to , but as far as your Choice whether or not to have sex with someone is Always your Choice...Unless you're raped of course..Xsan3
[QUOTE="Deihjan"]You can choose to become apathetic.th3warr1orHow do I do that? Just, you know. Eh.
[QUOTE="Deihjan"]You can choose to become apathetic.th3warr1orHow do I do that? I don't know what will work for you, but when I feel like hell and just want to forget, I think of all the stuff that makes me sad, take a deep breath and say to myself "It's okay, you're here on borrowed time anyways..it doesn't matter what you feel. It's alright" and count to ten, continuing my mantra and slow breathing. It soothes me, and I usually go back to feeling nothing. I'm not happy, I'm not sad, I simply don't care.
it's against their will, yes, but the body's sexual urges and needs are so basic and deep in our lizard-brain that the body reacts that way. DeihjanDo you suppose it's possible for a male to be raped by a female for similar reasons?
So if I think about robbing a Bank that makes me a Criminal ?No.Xsan3
Having neither friends, nor the motivation to do anything is probably worse. :PBut it sucks.
th3warr1or
[QUOTE="th3warr1or"][QUOTE="Deihjan"]You can choose to become apathetic.DeihjanHow do I do that? I don't know what will work for you, but when I feel like hell and just want to forget, I think of all the stuff that makes me sad, take a deep breath and say to myself "It's okay, you're here on borrowed time anyways..it doesn't matter what you feel. It's alright" and count to ten, continuing my mantra and slow breathing. It soothes me, and I usually go back to feeling nothing. I'm not happy, I'm not sad, I simply don't care.
Nihilist?
I don't know what will work for you, but when I feel like hell and just want to forget, I think of all the stuff that makes me sad, take a deep breath and say to myself "It's okay, you're here on borrowed time anyways..it doesn't matter what you feel. It's alright" and count to ten, continuing my mantra and slow breathing. It soothes me, and I usually go back to feeling nothing. I'm not happy, I'm not sad, I simply don't care.[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="th3warr1or"] How do I do that? NoobisMaxcimus
Nihilist?
Depressed through four years with little hope of regaining sanity. Why care when nothing has changed for so long? :P[QUOTE="NoobisMaxcimus"][QUOTE="Deihjan"] I don't know what will work for you, but when I feel like hell and just want to forget, I think of all the stuff that makes me sad, take a deep breath and say to myself "It's okay, you're here on borrowed time anyways..it doesn't matter what you feel. It's alright" and count to ten, continuing my mantra and slow breathing. It soothes me, and I usually go back to feeling nothing. I'm not happy, I'm not sad, I simply don't care.Deihjan
Nihilist?
Depressed through four years with little hope of regaining sanity. Why care when nothing has changed for so long? :PNo I agree. Nihilism is awesome. Just discovered it myself.
Depressed through four years with little hope of regaining sanity. Why care when nothing has changed for so long? :P[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="NoobisMaxcimus"]
Nihilist?
NoobisMaxcimus
No I agree. Nihilism is awesome. Just discovered it myself.
I see no reason for politics or such, but I dunno if I'd go as far as to call myself a Nihilist. There are still few things that still matter to me..for better or for worse. And your sig makes me stare for ages... humphumphump[QUOTE="Deihjan"] Well, a man would naturally get so aroused that he'd erupt, because of the friction, and even tho I am unsure as to how the male genital works, I'd asume he'd be unable to hold it back for too long. So, yes, he'd lubricate, albeit not the same way a female would. We have limited control over our genitalia, so orgasms can't be controlled as such, even if you are receiving one against your will.Baconbits2004Hmm, was meaning 'in general' not the actual ending. :P But, I think that answers my question. :lol: I made a thread about it (different site) and I was somewhat surprised at the amount of people who thought it was not possible. Since apparently all stimulation = pleasure. Well, if you get stroked, you get pleasure, no matter what kind of friction it is, no? Even if a woman is a bit more difficult to stimulate if it's against her will, there will still be some pleasure derived from the thrust, even if it's a rape. I never heard of anyone who didn't get stimulated, even if they didn't mean to get any pleasure from it.
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