How do I become an Apathetic Asexual?

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#101 Deihjan
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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"][QUOTE="Deihjan"]You can choose to become apathetic.markop2003
How do I do that?

Just accept that everything will be what it's going to be and anything you do won't have any impact. Essentially treat life like a movie that is completely impossible to alter. If you can't make any impact on the world you'll stop being emotionally connected to it as no matter what you feel the world will continue as it was going to anyway. Can't really say being apathetic is beneficial. It may help in the short term but if you become truely apathetic it will become impossible to stop yourself as you won't care enough to change yourself.

I wanna be Apathy-sensei, not Despair-sensei :3
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#102 vidplayer8
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You can take medication to become chemically castrated. That seems like an option.

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#103 th3warr1or
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[QUOTE="markop2003"][QUOTE="th3warr1or"] How do I do that? Deihjan
Just accept that everything will be what it's going to be and anything you do won't have any impact. Essentially treat life like a movie that is completely impossible to alter. If you can't make any impact on the world you'll stop being emotionally connected to it as no matter what you feel the world will continue as it was going to anyway. Can't really say being apathetic is beneficial. It may help in the short term but if you become truely apathetic it will become impossible to stop yourself as you won't care enough to change yourself.

I wanna be Apathy-sensei, not Despair-sensei :3

I'm telling you, we need to become BFFs. :oops:

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#104 TaCoDuDe
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Just because you have no idea how to talk to girls, and thought of it terrifies you, doesn't mean you should give up and become asexual. Stop moping, but out your shell, and go talk to somebody!

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#105 bruinfan617
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If you have to try to be then you most likely will never truly be.

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#106 awesomeray
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its funny because ive been trying to unapethetic myself in time for school because life has been terrible because of it.
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#107 sigh-_-
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The only thing that Makes someone a Homosexual - Is to have Sex with teh Same Sex..Obvious Right?Xsan3
Wrong u_u homosexuality is defined in terms of attraction, not action.
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#108 Verge_6
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I like being apathetic, but asexual...yeah, screw all that noise. No offense to those that are, but ah likes mah women. ;)

The former is something you can obtain by working retail for a few years. The latter is something you have to be born with.

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#109 Ghost_702
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Homosexuality isn't just about actually having intercourse with the same sex, it's also about the DESIRE to do that. Therefore, you don't actually have to perform intercourse to be one.
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#110 th3warr1or
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Just because you have no idea how to talk to girls, and thought of it terrifies you, doesn't mean you should give up and become asexual. Stop moping, but out your shell, and go talk to somebody!

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I don't have a fear of talking to girls. The thing is I'm short, and probably normal looking. No amount of confidence will fix that. Girls don't like to date shorter guys, and even if I'm slightly taller, if they wear heels it's all over.
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#111 Deihjan
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[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="markop2003"] Just accept that everything will be what it's going to be and anything you do won't have any impact. Essentially treat life like a movie that is completely impossible to alter. If you can't make any impact on the world you'll stop being emotionally connected to it as no matter what you feel the world will continue as it was going to anyway. Can't really say being apathetic is beneficial. It may help in the short term but if you become truely apathetic it will become impossible to stop yourself as you won't care enough to change yourself.th3warr1or

I wanna be Apathy-sensei, not Despair-sensei :3

I'm telling you, we need to become BFFs. :oops:

But then we have something to care about, and that sort of ruins the whole Apathy thing, huh? :P
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#112 th3warr1or
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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"]

[QUOTE="Deihjan"] I wanna be Apathy-sensei, not Despair-sensei :3Deihjan

I'm telling you, we need to become BFFs. :oops:

But then we have something to care about, and that sort of ruins the whole Apathy thing, huh? :P

We can be apathetic BFFs that don't care about each other. ;)
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#113 Deihjan
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[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="th3warr1or"] I'm telling you, we need to become BFFs. :oops:

th3warr1or

But then we have something to care about, and that sort of ruins the whole Apathy thing, huh? :P

We can be apathetic BFFs that don't care about each other. ;)

That sounds like a silly deal to me.. *scratches head*

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#114 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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Well... You can choose to be celibate (which is not the same thing, of course), but you just kind of are what you are. I don't think that sexuality is a choice, so no, I don't think you can just 'become' asexual. You can try to ignore any feelings of sexual attraction or you can choose to not partake in sexual activities, but it's not quite the same, and I imagine that it probably would just cause you more stress than it's worth.
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#115 bobaban
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You actually want to be apathetic and asexual? Its a terrible life and terrible existence, and won't hide you from the pain you're trying to escape and only escalate it.
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#116 th3warr1or
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You actually want to be apathetic and asexual? Its a terrible life and terrible existence, and won't hide you from the pain you're trying to escape and only escalate it. bobaban
Well I feel like **** now.
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#117 Deihjan
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[QUOTE="bobaban"]You actually want to be apathetic and asexual? Its a terrible life and terrible existence, and won't hide you from the pain you're trying to escape and only escalate it. th3warr1or
Well I feel like **** now.

Ha-ha, you're not apathetic! *points and laughs* Really, man, there's no solution to a better life than to grab it by the horns and making them best of what you have. Yes, you will experience heartbreak, yes, you will experience jealousy - but it's what makes being human so WONDERFUL. When you don't give a damn about anything, you forget what life is about. When you feel the sting of wrath and anger, you will realise you have never felt more alive, after a period of feeling nothing. It's a high you won't ever forget. The fury, the love, the sympathy for another human being is fantastic.
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#118 entropyecho
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Oh, I forgot to mention - listen to The Smiths.

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#119 PsychoRedFox666
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I'm asexual and times apathetic. One doesn't stem from the other though. The apathy just comes from my views on society. And Asexuality isn't a choice.

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#120 Silverbond
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You can't "become" an asexual person. You'd have to be born that way.

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#121 BreakTheseLinks
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To become an apathetic asexual you must first become a sympathetic bisexual.

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#122 th3warr1or
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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"][QUOTE="bobaban"]You actually want to be apathetic and asexual? Its a terrible life and terrible existence, and won't hide you from the pain you're trying to escape and only escalate it. Deihjan
Well I feel like **** now.

Ha-ha, you're not apathetic! *points and laughs* Really, man, there's no solution to a better life than to grab it by the horns and making them best of what you have. Yes, you will experience heartbreak, yes, you will experience jealousy - but it's what makes being human so WONDERFUL. When you don't give a damn about anything, you forget what life is about. When you feel the sting of wrath and anger, you will realise you have never felt more alive, after a period of feeling nothing. It's a high you won't ever forget. The fury, the love, the sympathy for another human being is fantastic.

Alright! GameSpot BFFs. :D
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#123 SgtKevali
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There's a certain irony in trying to be asexual if you're also trying to be apathetic.

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#124 Deihjan
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[QUOTE="th3warr1or"] Alright! GameSpot BFFs. :D

You truly do amuse me... *strokes imaginary beard*
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#125 Leejjohno
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What exactly is so wrong with your life that you would choose that kind of treatment?

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#126 MurasakiYugata
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I would recommend talking to your doctor about getting some medication that would reduce your passion and sex drive. I seem to recall hearing that people with low testosterone are much more lackadaisical than those with high levels. Maybe you could talk with them about finding something to reduce your testosterone level? Just an idea. Anyways, best of luck! Hope you find what you're looking for....

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#127 th3warr1or
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What exactly is so wrong with your life that you would choose that kind of treatment?

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#128 Cheesehead9099
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roflcopter.